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dirty minded me
I am 13/f. Ever since I have been dating my boyfriend, I have been thinking things I really shouldn't be thinking. I keep getting all these...desires to do things to him. I shouldn't be thinking things like that, I'm only 13!!! How do I stop?
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well it depends yur 13 so yew maybe should just to a little more.. yur only 13 so no sex lil naughty minded gurl... but not just hugg...
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Your thoughts are natural, dont stop them!!!!
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Heh. Don't worry about what you "shouldn't" be thinking. Age is a state of mind, not being. Keep that in mind.
I admit I've had a bad case of my mind being stuck in the gutter lately, but hey - if all else fails, I say blame your boyfriend for it. Lol.
But seriously, it's hormones. You're a teenager: You have hormone issues, you're growing up, you have every right to want to do things to your boyfriend. Don't worry so much about it. If it bothers you, ignore the desires, but don't push away the thoughts. Those thoughts and desires recognized help us prepare for more intimacy in relationships. In other words, you're normal. Most people have those kinds of thoughts.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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by the way the question is, ur in puberty gurl! dont worry, its ur bf and so ur getting these hormonal feelings, but as long as you can control your hormones, your fine and peachy! lol rate me!
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I understand your problem. I am 12. I've made out and have gotten fingered before, and people thinks that discusting? It's completly normal to think things like that! Just do what you feel is right, who cares what people think..I sure don't! Just try not to do something you think you'll regret... I hope I helped!
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You cannot control your thoughts. With age, sexual tension begins to come up. You then have the choice of acting on them or not.
If you want some sexual release, try masturbation. That way you are not risking your safety.
You can't control your thoughts. You can only control your actions.
Never think that feeling these things are wrong. It is perfectly normal. Most teenagers around your age are beginning to experience the same kind of thoughts as you.
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You can't really control those kind of thoughts and feelings that you're having for your boyfriend right now. It has to deal with your body changing - so right now your hormones are in control of a lot of your thoughts.
This phase will be over soon, hun! But, whenever you have one of those unwanted sexual thoughts, just try to distract yourself and think of school or your other friends.
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Well, you really can't. When you're 13 your hormones start racing and you have like all these fantasies about someone. Everyone feels that way no matter what. For some people that are extreamly religeous it's a sin to think that way but it's your body that is changing and that's just how you act and how you think when you start to grow and develop. Hope this helped.
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Hey its kewl we all have gone thro it relax.
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hey! i dont think you need to worry. you're a teenager and its normal to have those feelings. you cant really stop them because that would trying to make yourself stop thinking and you cant do that. so dont worry about it too much cause you're not the only one thinking about stuff like that. hope i helped, peace and love!
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It is normal, there's nothing wrong with you. In fact, if you DIDN'T have these feelings, I'd be more worried. Here's the thing - it is one thing to think those things and have desires - it is another to know what is right and wrong for you and be able to control those sexual urges. Just do your best to be wise and don't do anything that you'll likely end up regretting or find yourself in trouble because of. Willpower and patience aren't easy to come by, but it is all about learning to balance wants and desires with actual needs.
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It is perfectly normal and healthy at this age for you to feel the urges and have the thoughts that you do. It is important that you educate yourself on how to respond to these thoughts and feelings responsibly. You need to decide how far you are willing to go and make boundaries for yourself. Practice self discipline and let your boyfriend know where your boundaries lie. If you do decide to become sexually active, please educate yourself on forms of birth control and STD protections and how to use them properly. I highly recommend using condoms, as they provide protection from both pregnancy and disease, spermicidal is best. Make sure you READ THE DIRECTIONS, don't count on homeboy to do it. Men can be remarkably stupid about things when aroused. It is important that the condom be used correctly to prevent breaking. Good luck, be safe!
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hun, its hormones lol your growing up so its kind of normal to have those thoughts...maybe your just more mature then others. Since you wanna try to stop try to think of different things other then those thoughts like do something fun liek you like going.
hope i could help you out!
tell me how it goes!
oxdaniellexo
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