about

hello. so you want to know a little about me?? well im 14 years old. i ♥ to make people laugh, cheer them up and give them advice. it is just a part of me and i can't help it!! lol. i love sports, my fave is basketball and dancing. wierd combo?? i know. lol. as you can tell i love to laugh as well. i write songs and am pretty good at singing. writing the songs is basically writing poetry which i think is pretty cool. this is my opinion but i think that people rating other people is low themselves because some people put prank questions and rate you low for 'trying' to answer. so sometimes im tired of answering stupid questions. but if you truely need advice im happy to answer. so feel free to add me as a friend or ask me a question or just ask me questions to try to get to know me!! have a nice day!! :]

advice

i was walking down the street, and my glass eye fell out. im not sure what to think of this.

Okay this is most likely a prank question, cause that kinda made me laugh but if its not then just buy another one that fits.

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ok i'm 13/f and i'm not sexually active or anything but i am just wondering how effective condoms are. i know that sometimes they have a hole in them or something, but about what percent of the time are they safe? thanks!

Im guessing about 90%. Most likely its not going to break unless the people are getting really rough. lol. so I wouldn't worry.

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What are some things to talk about with friends and stuff. I always have trouble starting conversation over AIM, and I really need help. Thanks

Here are some ideas...
Hey whats up?
So what have you been up to lately?
What are you doing?
Omg did you hear about 'whatever'?
What type of music do you like?
What do you think about 'so and so'?
Just ask normal questions that you would usually talk about in person. Good luck!

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Can i ask seriously. When people come on this. Do they answer questions genuinely to help people and hopefully help them through a tough patch or whatever; or do they do it for ratings? It makes me mad when you see a confused person askin a serious question; only for it to be answered by someone. Who at the end makes it obvious(or seemingly) that they don't care byu saying "please rate"Ok i know they jus want acknowledgement and appreciation. But if the person is willing to or want to im sure they will. Why do you ask or say things like this? I really don't know so any answers are appreciated.
Anthony

Okay I'm not one of the people that says 'please rate me' at the end of my answers, but maybe people want a 5 rating because they want to be a person that has a perfect 5 rating so people will go to them for advice instead of someone with like a 3 rating. well i hope i helped answer your question!

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Ok..I have reeeally curly hair. I want it to be straight but when I try to straighten it there are 2 problems:
1. It takes me 1 and a half to 2 hours to get it completely straight.
2. My hair only stays straight for a day or overnight..even if I just straightened it.

Are there any easier ways to make my hair straight and make it stay straight for a while?

Thanks ahead of time. I will rate high for helpful answers.

Sincerely-
Curly wanting to go straight

You could get that thing done that permanently straightens your hair. But you still have to a few things but it stays mostly straight until the curly hair grows back out.

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okay this may sounds dumb, but is it okay to have sex if your in the water.. like a hot tub? i wasnt sure if it was alright because of the water going into your vagina ... sorry if this sounds stupid but i really want to know! thank you. will rate!

Its most likely okay, but I wouldn't take the chance, if you want to have sex in water, go in the shower. be safe though!

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a few days ago, my friend slept over at my house. she's worried about me because she thinks im starving myself!! i dont eat breakfast ; ususally have a pop tart or a bagel for lunch ; and mostly crackers for dinner. i dont think im starving myself.. but she does and my other friends are seeing it too. what do u think? im scared.. i dont want to be starved. please help .. ill rate high for good answers!!

To the average person that isn't enough to eat. You are supposed to eat 3 meals a day, especially breakfest to start off the day. BUT..is that enough for you? If you don't feel hungrey all the time I wouldn't worry about it. Just try to eat like yogurt or something like that for breakfest then have a lil more then a pop tart or bagel for lunch, and eat MORE then crackers for dinner! Have like soup, fruit, cereal, or something else like that.

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what age/grade will your friends start to act more mature, and start being more than just someone to laugh with. you know, when will it be easier to find that one true friend, cause i'm pretty young, and i dont think anyone is that mature enough that they are the kind of friend that will give you a shoulder to lean on when your sad, or you can call anytime just 2 talk, you know that kind of stuff. does anyone know what age>

Well I found that one friend I can call at like midnight to tell about my guy problems and she is always there for me and stuff. We became best friends in 6th grade in middle school. I knew her since second but we never hung out untill 6th. So it just depends, everyone meets their bestfriends in all different places and different times.

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how do you do the heart thingy on like myspace??
thanks dawg

&h.earts; that without the . after the h

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my bf always says hes gonna call me back but never does nd we were on the phone like 5 hrs ago nd he said he was gonna call me back but didnt so should i just call him or will i seem desperit? i havent talked to him in a while cause he was on vaca nd when we got to talk before, it was only for like 10 mins cause he had to go cleanhis room or wutever. i dont wanna seem desperit. but ive been missing him. . . please answer fast ill rate! the faster, the higher

I say go ahead and call. I mean your missing him and most likely he is missing you too and might just me to shy to call you back or something might've come up where he couldn't call you back. Believe guys don't see girls as desperate unless you throw yourself at them.

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You know how everyone will tell you " do it when the time is right " well how do you know when the time is right?

You just have this feeling. You will know, believe me. Its when you know nothing bad will happen and you trust him and all that. hope i helped!

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theres this boy that i've liked for a long time but since i havent kissed a boy before he calls me prude and says he wont go out with me cuz of that. then he says well show me that you're not prude but i dont want to kiss/make out with him just to prove that to him but i really like him alot and i hate everyone calling me prude. what do i do?

Okay this happened to my friend, everyone was calling her prude because she hasn't madeout before. I don't think you can change anyone's mind about you, on being prude, without actually doing something with a guy. If he won't date you because your so called 'prude' then he is not good enough. Obviously all he is interested in is fooling around. So try to get over him and just tell everyone to screw off because they are all sluts and your not. good luck!

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wut if i wanna hav sex but i am to young and that is all i can think and dream about

Okay well if you know your to young, then I would highly consider not. Most likely your hormones are going crazy and your just curious. But once you think your ready (when you older) and you know the guy isn't using you go ahead. If you decide to anyway and not follow my advice, then just make sure you use protection.

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Im competely crazy about my boyfriend. No doubt about that. He's absolutly perfect except for one thing... his front four teeth drive me crazy. He could really use a professional whitening. How can I suggest he go to the dentist without hurting my love's feelings?

I agree with everyone else. Just go to the store and walk around and be like oh ive always wanted to do whiting strips on my teeth but im nervous, can you try it with me? and give him an innocent face and no good boyfriends will say no to that.

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im chinese and i was wondering what kind of mascara would be good for me to make my eyelashes look longer and will seperate my eyelashes

what i use is GREAT LASH by maybelline and i use dark brown and it works really well. so i suggest that.

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my cell phone was droped in the water and now i press a button and somethin else pops u like if i press menu it starts to dial a number if i press 3 it shows up the menu is amy where i can take it to fix it or should i jsut get a new 1 its a virgen moblie slider

Just get a new one. and transfer over all the contacts and info like that. that way it will be newer and better.

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Ok, so my hair is really REALLY dark brown and i was wondering -- do yall think if i got like, auburn highlights -- would it look good?

i need suggestions -- because i dont like how dark my hair is now -- its almost black! and i want to change it up a lil bit


if you need pix go to my myspace:
www.myspace.com/baybgrl


thanks -- & i rate high 4 GOOD answers..

I looked at your myspace and I think the auburn highlights would look cute. or you could die all of your hair a lighter color but either one would look good.

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This is going to be my first date in my life, so I'm not so good at this right now. We're just going to watch a movie at my house and I don't know of any good movies that we'd probably both like. I want something funny, but a little romantic too. I'd like any suggestions.

1.50 First Dates
2.The Notebook
3.Grease
4.Hot Chick
5.White Chicks
6.Scary Movie 1,2, and 3
7.Shrek 1 and 2
8.13 going on 30
9.How to Lose a Guy in 10 days
10.Win a Date w/ Tad Hamilton
I don't think he will care what movie your watching, but here are some cute movies that are romantic comedys. Good luck!

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I think I like my guy best friend. We used to have a relationship, but we broke it off (this was 2 years ago)... I know for a fact he doesn't like me (I asked who he liked, and he told me he liked my one friend who doesn't like him)... my friends think he likes me, and it does seem like it.. but I guess not.

One thing I'm thinking about is moving on, but I don't particularly want to do that. Any other ideas?

You could try to make him like you. like flirt and show off when your around him. And try to talk to him and let him know how you feel. Cause whenever someone tells me they like me, i start to sorta like them back even if i had no interest in them before so just let him know and see how it goes. If it doesn't workout then there are plenty of other fish in the sea.

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What are good hairstyles for people with bigger heads/foreheads?

First of all if you have a big forehead then you should get some kind of bangs. bang to one side is coming back in style so that would be sute. you could layer your hair and part in on the side. that would be really cute.

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