about

Hey. Its Ashleigh. Hm, I finally decided to change this thing.


I have an amazing fiance, and I love him with all my heart.


We have a 7 year age gap, but that doesn't bother us. He is 22 if you are wondering.


We have been together for 3 years! Which amazes us both. We got engaged on February 2, 2007. & we found out we were pregnant in around May. I'm due in January 2008.


This is my second column on here, my first one being "mayonnaise".


I have a wonderful twin sister, Alexandra. She has a column, but hardly ever uses it.


I love piercings, and I currently have a little over 20. I also have two tattoos. Before you ask my brothers own a tattoo shop which is how I got my tattoos.



I'm Bipolar, and ADHD. I also am OCD. I have Tourettes. I've also had problems with Anorexia and Bulimia. I've been in rehab twice for my eating disorders. And I also had a PEG feeding tube in my stomach for a while.


I live in Lizard Lick, North Carolina.


If you are wondering where that is, its about 15 minutes away from Raleigh.


My fiance and I are attempting to buy a house in Raleigh. Getting out of this town is a huge priority.


I do have my permit, so I can drive. :]


My fiance recently bought me a car that isn't a piece like my 280z was.


I now have a 2007 Honda Civic! :]


I'm home schooled, and I'm in the 11th grade.


And that's about all you need to know about me.


I don't give amazing advice, and I admit it sucks sometimes. I try to give advice based on my opinion, because I don't give a fuck what you think about my answer. Feedback is a must. :]

advice

does it usually maek a guy horny. if i move my hips around on him over and over. i did that and i was just wondering. thankss

also what makes guys horny> this is just wondering.like clothe wise, acting wise

Hey.

Well, of course grinding makes a guy horny. :D

Anyways, as for what to do "acting" wise. Just remember there is a thin line between sexy and sluty.

Try for cute and sexy. Instead of sexy and sexy. Just look him in the eyes and smile. All guys love that.

Good Luck.

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im a level one mod.
i know how level twos are chosen.
are there level threes and such also/

Hi.

According to the FAQ, there are 3 levels.

There really isn't that much difference in level 2 and 3. The only thing is level 3 can ban people forever. There is only 4 level 3 mods. and from what I've learned, that's all there ever is gonna be.

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Well I am 23 and got engaged when I was 17. My mom has been very supportive of this and happy for the two of us. Then my Dad isnt very happy he hasn't talked to me since I told him I was engaged. I know I have never been close to him but it has been really bugging me since I am to be getting married in May. I know that he is not going to be the one to walk me down the isle I told him that along time ago that it would be my brother that is going to. But what I am trying to see is should I get married without my dads approval?

Hi.

Congradulations.

I, am also engaged, and fortunatly have very supportive parents. Although the first thoughts of it really bothered my dad. He has finially came around.

I think, that if you sat down with your dad and had a true heart to heart talk with him, he would understand. He is a dad, its his job. Of course, he isn't gonna want to give away his daughter. All dads are going to be hesitant for a while.

As for getting married without your dads approval, you are an adult. Do what your heart wants you to do.

Good Luck.

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Heyy...

I'm a 13 year old girl and I just got my period for the first time...today I was out in the cold running around with no bra on...just a shirt and now my breasts are all tingley and feel funny not bad,just funny.Is this normal ?

Hey.

Welcome to the "fun" world of seeing "Aunt Flo" for a week every month. :D Oh, the fun.

Anyways, about your question...You are perfectly normal. As was said, its natural and due to your hormones. So, don't worry. Its perfectly normal.

Good Luck, & Have a Good Week. :D

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Congrats on the engagment! Im adding you as a fav.!



-woahtherebabe


CONGRATS.

aww, thanks a bunch! :]

i'll add you too...if i havn't already.

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is there a timing to giving a hand job? i mean sure guys will take whatever you give them, whenever.. but preferably.. when? are you supposed to wait until he has a boner or what's the deal?

Hi.

My fiance loves for me to start when he is between soft and hard.

In fact most guys I know like it that way.

I know that it hurts guys when they are soft. So, I would say hard, or in between.

Good Luck. :]

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What is a hair diffusor for??

It enhances your hairs curls/waves.

Pretty much what everyone else has said.

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ok so last week i wrote on here that this guy asked me to kiss him but i said no becuz i was afraid some1 would see us...he's a little older thatn me and i didnt want people to talk. well neway sunday night he asked me agian and i said yes. he was really nice about it becuz he knew i was kinda scared and stuff but overall it was GREAT! by the way it was my first kiss* but now i feel guilty becasue i realized he is too old for me. how do i break up with him?

As has been said..Age is just a number.

I know, my fiance is 7 years older than me. Yes, people will talk, but won't they talk if you date someone your own age?

So don't feel guilty, you followed your heart and your heart is never wrong.

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can you tell me your first kiss story? Just what happened?

Mine was less than wonderful haha.

Just to see as a little comparison of things. thanks!

Hey.

My first kiss was with my fiance' which I think is just amazing. :D

Me and him were outside behind his packhouse. (which is used as a game room. a lot of ppl around here have them. our little hick town) Anyways, he just picked me up and kissed me. It doesn't sound that sweet, but you'd have to be there to understand it.

Afterwards, he said one of the sweetest things I've ever head in my life, but I've been asked not to tell what he said.

So next month we will be celebrating our 3 year anniversery. I'm proud of us. But that is that.

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So I'm going on the pill.
For the sole-reason taht it's supposed to help with acne. (I don't have acne,but I get the odd pimple)

So I was wondering, should i tell my boyfriend when I start it?
I mean we haven't had sex,but he'd be interested in knowing though,right?
Or is it ny of his buisness?

Hi.

I would tell him, but include why you are on it.


But it really depends on how open you are with him. If you aren't that open with him then, you probably shouldn't tell him.


If you havn't been with him that long or you aren't that serious yet, just don't tell him. And when you get to the point where you two are talking about sex, let him know then you are on it.


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Today I was searching on my boyfriend's video playlist, and I discovered about 4, maybe 5 pornographic videos...I confronted him about it, and he broke down, saying he had forgotten about them, and that they had been there before we started dating...I think believe him...but I'm still not sure what to think...any thoughts?

Thank you...

Hi.


You shouldn't worry about it. Its a pretty normal thing. Like what was said by the other person, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love/like you.


My fiance told me one time not to worry about it, he is never gonna meet/see the people in it, so why worry about it.


Since he broke down about it, I doubt he actually watches them.

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17/f

I need some links to sites that offer a lot of cool DIY punk clothing ideas and accesories- like patches and stuff. Anything that has how-to guides and the like would be much appreciated.

Also, I have neck-length, thick, wavy hair and I want to punk it out without dyeing it. I usually dye it every few months and I need to take a break from it and let my hair heal. Tips? Thanks muchly.

Cheers, fellow punks.

Hey.

Try craftster.org and do a search for punk clothing tute.

You should find about a thousand choices.

I usually do that.


As for your hair, I'm not really sure. I usually go for the insanly straight hair with choppy layers. Try that.


Good Luck.

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would this dress make a person's hips look larger?


http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2888866/0~2376776~2374327~2374331~6001765~6001766?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6001766&P=1


Do you like that dress or this one better?

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2922331/0~2376776~2374327~2374331~6001765~6001766?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6001766&P=1


thanks !

Hi.

Well, the first dress is pretty, but I wouldn't wear it.
It really depends on how perportioned your body is on whether or not it will make your hips look larger.


Personally, I think the second one is ugly as sin.

I don't really like either of them. If I had to choose I would probably choose the first one. Although I would probably never wear it.

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ok when i told my friend i was getting my hair permantly straighten she said NO it will damage your hair and everything. But dont they put vitamins in ure hair so it isent damaged?
if theres a website on this please give it to me :]
thanks

Hi.

My fiance is a cosmotologist. She says it is one wrost possible things to do to your hair.

Yes, it does damage your hair. There is no way to prevent this. Yes, the do put vitamins in your hair, but that DOES NOT prevent damage.

If you do choose to have your hair chemically straightened, remember to condition it after each wash, and avoid heat styling for further damage. Also, hot oil treatments will help you hair get healthyer.


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QUICK!
My ipod just totaly froze.
If i try and reset it nothing happends.
HELP!?

Hi.

Hold down the Middle and Menu buttons at the same time for 10-25 seconds.

That should do it.

Good Luck.

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Welcome back, girl!

clarayow

thanks :D

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pleace tell me difference between smokin, suit, and tuxedo (for men) pleaaaaase its waaay better if you put pictures

Hi.

I don't really get your question. I think you are asking the difference in a tuxedo and a suit?

I'm getting married soon, so I'm picking the tux for my future husband and his groomsmen.

We are getting them from After Hours.

I'm just gonna show you some pictures of different tuxedos and suits.



A tuxedo is very formal and is usually worn in weddings or to proms. They are a few different tuxedo styles. The most known one is the "penguin" style.

A suit, is more of just a church thing. Or like, to wear out. Nothing really special.

http://www.afterhours.com/index.asp
That site will give you a lot of ideas. I highly recomend it.

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when my boyfriend fingers me for the first time. will i bleed? and if i do. will he be disguisted?

:(

Hi.

Well, it really depends on if he is gentle, or rough. I didn't bleed till 3-4 months after my boyfriend (now fiance) started fingering me, and thats only cause he was really rough and halfway popped my cherry.

Speaking of which, it also depends on if you cherry has been popped or not.

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well i'm a little slow, so what is phone sex and how do you do it?

Hi.

Its where like a guy and girl masturbait to them talking dirty. Its pretty fun in my opinion.

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my friend got bored today during class and peirced her belly button w. a safety pin.... she went to the mall and got a bely button ring.. but she doesn't know how long to wait till she transfers the ring in! she is staying the night at my house and doesn't have 1 of these things sooo please lemme know asap!

Hi.


Your friend needs to take it out immediatly.



A safety pin is not the right material to be used as a belly ring or any bodypiercing. Your bodys minerals and such are to strong, and will eventually start to break away at the pin.


Your friend is at risk for a serious infection. Not to mention that a safety pin is not the right gauge for a belly ring. She is at risk for the cheese grater effect also.


Get your friend to remove is ASAP and clean it with peroxide.

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