about

Hi, I'm Kristin..

I'm sixteen
I love to read the directions on everything.. Shampoo, cake, you name it..
I'm a pretty laid back person, in general.
I don't like annoying people, or things, but then again-- who does?
It really bothers me when people walk slow.
I'm really into photography and my camera is my pride and joy.
It's about the only thing I'm known to take care of in my life.
I'm on drumline.
Austin and Tarra are my Best friends
I'm in band, which goes along with the drumline.
i love just standing in the rain.
I'm easy to get to know.
Easy to lose my trust
Hard to get it back.
Obbessive people really aggrivate me

advice

ok...this question is not for people who will say dont give this guy a note for asking him out...ok...would making a question sheet like "would you go out with blahblah? _____" or something be...a bad idea? cuz i want to try that but will *he* get mad or something?? He doesn't get mad easily...:-p well, thats about it.

i rate high

Well, if you don't want the guy to know you like him, or you don't want to hint to ask you out, put more than one person on the sheet of paper. Ex.

Would you go out with Shelly? [ ] Yes [ ] No
Would you go out with Brittany? [ ] Yes [ ] No

like that. Yeah- it sounds like a pretty good idea to me!

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i know this is not a question, but you are so gorgeous!! Just wanted to inform you.

aw!! You don't know how that made my day. Thank you!

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lol wjats a tejas

Signed,
K', esq. from Abilene

Texas! (in spanish)

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My mom and I started going to church recently. I totally believe in God and I am 100% Christian. However, my dad was baptised (sp?) as a Morman, and neither of my brothers go to church. My brother A, isnt in to the whole believin in stuff type, hes more i'll believe it wen i see it. And Brother B just doesnt go to church. So my question is will my family all go to Heaven, or will my brothers go to Hell? I'd love answers asap please.

If the brothers and Dad don't accept God into their lives and realize that he died on the cross for their sins, they are going to Hell. Does Brother B believe? If Brother A doesn't believe when judgement day comes around, he will be going to Hell. There is still time left to help him become close to God.

-therocket♥

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ok to day i went to a bible study at school, I used to go to church and youth group but the youth minister left the church and i havent been back since....but anyway today when i was there things where really emotional...people were crying and they asked us to bow our heads and asked who wanted to be saved...the asked us to raise our hands and then the leaders came over and prayed over them...But I felt scared to raise my hand....Im regreting it now....I want God in my life but I'm afraid Ive missed my chance.

You haven't missed you're chance. God wants you to become a believer just as bad as you want to be one. It's alright to be scared, For the fear of the Lord is a healthy fear. Fear nothing else, but the Lord. You don't have to wait for bible study school to accept Christ, you can do it on you're own. I'm not going to tell you what to pray, but I will tell you the basic idea.
1. Tell him you want him in your life.
2. Why you want him in your life.
It's usually I scarey thing when leaders ask you to raise your hand if you're not saved, and at times can be embarassing. Don't be scared, but be delighted that God is calling those leaders into your life to allow you to spend eternal life with him. Be thankful not scared.

God Bless
-therocket♥

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i get confused on xanga and other stuff like this who is the rocket is it u kristin

-thespaceshuttle

haha. This is Kristin.. but my advice column screen name is the rocket summer... hence the name therocket.. so yeah.. whose this?

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HOw do you guyz straighten the back. I've tried pinning half up, but its hard. Plus, my dad is the only one home, so getting help is not an option. Can you give me some tips??

Thanks in advance!

What I do is I pin half of it up and then take the hair in back and part it in two like you are going to have pig-tails. Then just take a little at a time and straighten it from the sides.

-therocket♥

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This is the link to my myspace page
http://www.myspace.com/l1lxdr3am3r
Which two colors do you think will look good together?I just changed the colors but I'm not sure I like it.Be specific about colors.Example.Instead of blue..midnightblue..like that.Different colors.Any ideas?

Sky Blue and Lime Green
(Regular) Orange and Hot Pink
Any of the bright colors together would work
(IE. Hot Pink, Orange, Neon Green, Electric Blue)

-therocket♥

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i've been getting headaches alot and really i mean ALOT!...ive had 3 today and ive been having them like everyday. does anyone know what could be the reason?

Do you have glasses? This could be causing the problem. I know when my sister had them they made her get horrible headaches so she had to switch to contacts which made everything better. If you don't have glasses, this also maybe the problem. You could be getting headaches because your eyes are having trouble. Try going to an Eye Doctor. Also, it may just be from seasonal allergies. Try going to your doctor to get perscribed something or you can take over the counter allergie medicines.

-therocket♥

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m/15
There's this girl that goes to my school that i'm in love with. She recently (2 weeks ago) got dumped by her boyfriend. She seems to have feelings about him still. I don't know what to do.

With girls you need to let him get over their ex before even making a move. If she still seems to like him, don't try it yet because you're most likely going to get turned down. I know that's probably not what you want to hear. You proabably are dying to ask her out, but you need to wait a little while. Try and comfort her and tell her it'll be okay. Be there whenever she needs you and whenever she seems over him that's when you make your move.

-therocket♥

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i have obsessive-compulsive disorder about death. in my mind i am always seeing people die like i see my dad die in a car accident and it's really scary. does anybody have any suggestions to help me think of something else. don't say "just stop thinking about it" because i can't just say "ok brain you know the drill start thinking about candy land and hot dudes hugging you. because that's not the way it works

Okay. This is basically a addiction, so let's treat it as if it is one. The key to stopping is forgetting. Let's say everytime you find yourself thinking about death why don't you snap a rubberband on your hand. It's kinda like a cutter when they want to cut or a smoker when they want to smoke. Snap the rubberband everytime you think about it. Yeah, it's gonna hurt. I know you said you can't just forget, but the pain of the rubberband should help you stop thinking about it. You have to be willing to stop thinking about that stuff before your brain will even listen.

-therocket♥

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hi i've been with my boyfriend for quite a few years now, but unfortunately, everyday i start to think to myself that i should leave him. why is because every single time we get into fights, he never is willing to stay and work it out. he either hangs up the phone and ignores my phone calls/messages or says "just drop it" with an attitude. he also calls me names like bitch when he loses his temper, and personally, i've had enough.

but as you can imagine, i have grown emotionally attached to this guy. i fell in love with who he once was, a sweet, considerate, man. but now it's like i don't know who he is anymore and lately it's just the only thing i can think about is how the quality of our relationship is slowly crumbling beneath us.

i personally do want to call it quits, or at least take a break from each other for a little while, but he refuses. he says things like he can't live without me, and if i leave him he'll kill himself. in a sense i feel that i'm forced to stay in this relationship because i don't want to live knowing i made someone commit suicide over me.

it's a really sticky situation, and i don't know what to do anymore. i do love this guy, but i feel as though i'm falling out of love with him for the person he has become.

please help...

If you're in a relationship that you don't want to be in, you need to get out. Do you truely want to leave him? Sit him down in person and try and talk it through. If he wont listen get up and leave. You've gotta make him listen to you because you've got a point of view too. I can't be too sure, but him commiting suicide if you leave him is just a reason for you to stay with him longer. Sit him down and tell him what you told us. That you want to be treated better. Name specfic times when you felt trapped and wanting out and how he made you feel. If he doesn't care you need out of that relationship because that's no way to live life.

-therocket♥

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15/f
ok so theres this guy on my bros baseball team. he of course is 13 turning 14 sometime. I seem to like him, hes really nice and seems kinda shy and seems like a great guy. The thing is durning the games he always glances over at me and even when hes talking to him team mates. When i look back at him he says like that for about a second and then looks away. Do you think he likes me?
my friend said that he does, but i just wanna make sure. (she went to one of the games this week)
plz help :)

How many other guys make eye-contact then shyly look away? You said yourself he seemed a little shy. He looks at you when he's talking to his team mates? That's when all of his attention is supposed to be in the game, yet it's on you. So yes, I think he likes you.

-therocket♥

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Hi, well my names Jen and im 15 and a freshman. In gym class i noticed this boy Matt and he went to my middle school but we never actually talked. But today in gym he said "Hey Jen!" and i dont know i was kind of happy about it. I saw him alot that day and i tried to say hi and smile alot but i know he is extremely shy and everything but he kind of smiled but looked down saying hi. Hes sort of geeky, but i dont think i really care about that but im not sure what to do? Thank you so muchhhh

Well obviously he has some sort of thing for you. Can you count how many guys say hey to you randomly and actually are excited to see you? I can count one, my boyfriend. You were happy about it, eh? In the back of your mind can you see yourself with him? You don't seem shy, but you said he was. Shy guys are hard to get to. Maybe try approaching him in the hallways and make eye contact and say hey. Eye contact is a key because you can't really NOT look at someone giving you direct eye contact. When you talk with him always look at his eyes, and he will look at yours. Why would you want to talk to someone who is looking at the ground, your ear, the locker, anything besides your EYES? Or maybe you can just brush by him in the hallways and then when he looks up turn around and smile and keep walking. Try talking to him more and more and if you actually do like him give him those hints.

-therocket♥

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ok so we have an 8th grade formal comming up and i wanna know some cute wasys to do my hair could anyone give me any web sites to look at the "formal" hair styles or cute oes that dont look to old for a 14 year old??

I will rate!

This is one way I did my hair once and it looked cute.

Put it half up and half down. Then all the hair that is left, try with a small curling iron to make large curls with in it. So the bottom layer of your hair has curls and the pony tail part is straight, or you can curl that also.

-therocket♥

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I am so Pro-Life and the "N" word hurts me so much when people say it!! and I am like so oppinionated as it is, but i cannot just sit by and let people say abortion is alright, and/or let them say the "N" word around me! it hurts so much! any tips on what to say? or anyone feel the same??
thanks-
Kelsa

Abortion is wrong. Many people feel that the baby isn't alive yet, so it's not killing anybody. By far it's killing an innocent person. How is NOT killing someone when you can see and feel the baby inside you. How is it not a living being when it kicks? It is living and people who don't see it that way are sick minded people.

-therocket♥

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the other day in history we were working on a section for Indians. and i think that we , as americans or whites, owe them so much! like land and money! because of everything that we have done! and they have a high suicide and alcaholism rate too! and they are on little crappy reservations! its horrible!!

if anyone on here is am Indian, i am so sorry! and I feel so bad! anyone agree or know what I could do?

thanks so much!
Kelsa*

Yes, true we owe a lot because we came and kicked them off their land, but we've also done a lot to help them. In lots of places in the U.S gave them the right to sell tabacco without tax. I see where you are comming from the cons outweigh the pros.

-therocket♥

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hi i'm a 13/f and im in the 7th grade. and we got our 4 and a half week progress reports today and i got a 67 in science. the teacher only took a few grades and mine jumped from a B to an F. i usually get all A's and B's and very few C's. i don't know how to tell my parents because they have really high expectations of me! Help!?

It's only a progress report. At our school I know that progress reports are not report cards. They jsut show you where you are at and how you can improve. If that's the way your school is too tell them you PROMISE to raise it by report card time.

If your school isn't like that, still, promise them that you will get them up next time around. You can't just promise and not fulfull it so when you promise to them, you must get your grades up. Yes, they're going to be mad because they know that you aren't doing as well as you can. Just try hard to raise your grades and keep them up!

-therocket♥

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i really like this guy but i dont know if he likes me....what should i do?

That's pretty blunt don't you think? Well, maybe try talking to him find out his interests. Even if they are boring, be interested! Get one of your friends or his friends to ask if maybe he has a thing for you. If you don't have his screen name maybe go up to him personally and ask him for it. Guys like confidence.

-therocket♥

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I found a dress for the "big dance" at the end of the year. I want to kind of "spice it up" a little. I was thinking a hat. Well.. this is the dress: http://www.torrid.com/store/product.asp?LS=1&ITEM=592810 ... and I wanted this hat: http://www.torrid.com/store/product.asp?LS=0&RN=240&ITEM=582321 ... Does anyone think that'll look good? Also: After seeing my dress and possible hat, does anyone have any good ideas for how I should get my hair done, make up, and jewelry? I have shoulder length hair, brown w/ blonde highlights. thanx in advance

Can you IM me- I'm unable to see the pictures. SN- I like to disco2

or email the pictures- kristin@bmanson.net

Sorry :X My computer is a retarded peice of crud

-therocket♥

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