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okay, i asked this guy to my homecoming, as friends, like 3 weeks beforehand and he said hed go "if he can," so i was talking to one of my most trustworthy friends and hes like i was hanging out with the guy you like and we talked about whats going on with you and him and he said he probably wouldnt go to HC with me. he said that he hates that he has lead me on and that he doesnt like me like i like him. he never told me he couldnt go to HC with me (it was last sunday)so now i dont know what to do.
i havent talked to him in almost 2 weeks. and i was gonna talk to him at a party tomorrow but its cancelled so the next party is my birthday party and if i found out from him then it would eat me alive all night. when he first said he saw me as a friend i held back but then when we were together we would make out.

should i ask him outright whats going on? how should i like word it?

sounds like you worded it just fine yourself! just be like...."whats goin on between us?" lol hope i helped!! xoxo

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im not sure if they really have this online.. but is there anyway that i can play DDR ( Dance Dance Revoloution ) online? and if so.. does anyone know a website i can go to to play it? thanks

no you cant play it online cuz you gotta be able to have a dance pad and stuff!!! but playing it in real life is alot more fun anyways!! hehe

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one of my best guy friends, lets just say named steve, just told me today that he tried cutting his wrist tha other night..i saw the cut, it was TINY but still it was a cut..i dunno if he is trying to get attention or if he is serious..because the cut looked like it was from a longggg time ago and he said he just recently had done it..i dunno what to say to him because no matter what, real or not, i have to support him, etc...he is like the happiest pesron i know,but i guess i dont know anymore...help

honey as good of friend as he may be....you do not support self inflicted pain in any way shape or form!!!! you get help and try to make them stop...not supporting them by saying "oh well if you think that cutting yourself is the only way to make you feel better about the situation then im right behind you".....thats not a true friend!!! go to an adult or just tell him that there are other ways of getting help and finding a better healthier escape when needed!!!

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Well, i know for all of my life, my sister has been calling me fat..and recently my friend just called me fat...but later he went on to say he was joking..
Well, i am a 13 year old female..i am around 5'4 and i weigh about..150...
And if i am fat..does anyone have any ways to lose weight?
Thanks..
DazedxANDXConfused

run and drink lots of water!!!! also do 100 sit up's every night and 50 leg lifts!!! that will tighten up those abs of yours!! hehe

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okay well i have a step brother he is 18 and he is so nice and cool.I have a real brother that he is 17 and my real brother i've know him ever sence birth.Well my real brother is mean sometimes disrespectful and he abuses me physicly and emotionaly.But when he does he hits me real hard and we have a 3 yr difference he is physicly bigger then me and if i hit him back he will hurt me even more.Well yea im so use to having him beat me.my step brother that is so nice and stuff i feel wrong being around him i feel uncomfortable and he hasn't dont anything to me and i feel bad.but i dont really know him i just knew he was my brother but i never really knew him.and now he is here and i feel so wrong around him.I'm not use to someone being nice to me and wutever and i guess i feel uncomfortable i mean i can talk to one of my guy friends better then him.and i feel guilty.Plz help i dunno what to think rite now.

you have no reason to feel bad or any sort of guilt!!! be thankful that you have a family member(even if its not by blood) that is there for you and cares for you!! and sometimes the people who we think are the closest to us treat us worse then we would ever expect!!! get to know your step brother better!! then maybe you won't feel so weird around him and you two can probally become really close!!!

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well, i know its strange, but sometimes i wonder if my parents were virgins before they got married. because they both married late in there lives )38 39ish) so i kind of wonder. is this strange to think? i mean im not going to go up to my mom one day and say hey mom how are ya doing? so btw were you a virgin before dad?

they might have saved their selves for each other!! ya never know!!! but sadly most people aren;t vrigin's by the time they get married :-/

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Help. When I order chicken wings in a fancy restaurant should I pick them up and eat them or use the cutlery provided?

chicken wings are a finger food!!

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I am so sexually confused! One second I'm bi and another I'm
gay! I am 14yr.s old a freshmen, confused on what my sexuality is. People says I'm gay, but I still think girls are cute, but I would
rather go with a boy. So what am I!?! Need answers...

if you think both boys and girls are cute then you are bi....even thought you would rather be with a bot you still have a small attraction for girls!!

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Okay I asked the question about being 13/f and my breasts hurting size 38c. Well today i was noticing that my right breast kinda feels like it has lumps in it. I think I might have breast cancer. But I am confused. If I do I don't know how to ask my mom to take me to the doctor to find out or even tell her that I think I do.

you should tell her!!!!!!!! girl dont mess around with that stuff!!! just tell your om you think there is something wrong that you need to have checked out before anything gets too serious!!!

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okay i like this guy and i flirt wit him and he be flirtin wit me back, i really really like him and he knows this cuz my friends told him, so today and like 2 weeks ago..he was like oh do u like matt and i was like idk and he was like do u wanna go wit him and i was like naw and he was like do u wanna go wit me..and i didnt kno if he was jokin around or bein seirous so i didnt wanna feel stupid so i sed no..like not like mean or ne thing just like laughing bout it..so my question is wut should i do bout this i mean i would like to go wit him but i dont kno if he was like seirous..plz help..thanks

ask him if her was serious!! but ask him when you two are like alone and not around a bunch of people so you won't feel embarrassed!!!!

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okay..my friend is a little too embarrassed to ask this wuestion cuz she thinks somehow it is going to be traced back to her.. buh she says..she is a 34-C so shes a good size but her nipples are still the whitish color. is that normal or should they be a darker color by now because a lot of her friends have darker nipples than her and she doesnt know if its normal or not. thanks

all skin color is different

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How many hours of sleep should a 14 year old girl get each night?
Thanks--

6-7!!!

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i have been anarexic for 3 months.. My boyfriend is really worried about me, and really wants me to stop.. i have tried to do that for him.. but i just cant make myself.. i am 13, 5'8 and i weigh 65 pounds.. what should i do?

get help fromy our parents or your doctor...they can treat that sort of thing

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my boyfriend and i will be watchin a movie, and he will start making out with me.. i love him to death!! but.. they only problem is that he wants me to have sex with him.. i dont want to.. im a virgin, and proud of it.. however, he has talked to me about getting married and having children someday. and mayb even b4 we get married.. i dont want to have sex or get pregnant! IM 13! how do i make him stop?

lol tell him that.....YOUR 13!!!! and this may sound mean but im sure your not in love with him and chance are thats not the person your going to end up with and he probally wont be the father of your children....

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If you've never gotten your period and you have sex, then you can't get pregnant, am I correct?

Oh, and I'm not that young, so don't be like if you haven't gotten your period, then your not old enough, lets just say I'm in High school

its possible yes...you should have gotten it by noe if your in high school thought....but lets hope the sex you have had has been protected!!! :-0

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I have 2 change schools in 2 weeks and i wont no any1 @ my new school and + ive never been 2 a public school before. What should i do?
from,
Alicia

have fun!! lol nobody will know you either so this could be an awesome fresh start to a new school year! make some friends and live it up!! hehe

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ok i do alot of modeling. ever since i was little ppl told me i should b a model. im like 5'5 and 98 pounds. im not anorexic even tho ppl think i am but i dont care lol. well i spend alot of time modeling and im really tired n dont have alot of time but i dont want to cut back. should i cut back and model a little less or should i just deal with it? thanx much

well it really depends on how dedicated you are...if you think that you need to take a little break then yea take a month or two off....but if you want to keep going then just use every free minute you have to relax and just kick back!

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I might fail one of my classes because my teacher doesn't explain the work or go over it. The class i'm in is so behind on work what can i do.

ask your counsler to get switched to another class with another teacher!!!

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Theres this girl. We were dating for a year( i know thats preety sad) Now i want to break up with her. How do i brake up with someone without hurting their feelings?

it depends on why you want to break up with her....tell her the reason and still try to be friends

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ok well i got my first period almost 2 years ago and i had it some what regular for the first 6 monthes or so, but ive only had it twice in the past year and a half. what should i do?

go to your doctor honey!!! that isnt normal :-/

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