Hello. My name is Sarah Makredij Boghsaian. I'm 16 years old. I'm from Australia but I live in Egypt. Like: Chocolates, Hot guys, Socks, William Shakespeare, Charles Darwin, Moulin Rouge, Random people, Horror movies, Boxing, Shoes, Rock n Roll, Piercings, Tattoos, Dying my hair, Losing weight, Screaming, Violence, Fighting, Weed, Alcohol, PS, Cars, Different, Craziness, Dancing, Painting, Drawing, Writing, Imagination, Drums, Drum-Sticks, Making the world a fair place, Ideas, Friends, Talking to myself, Marilyn Manson, Music, Fashion, Jumping on my bed, Partying, Vampires, Monsters, Jeff Dunham, Soccur, Anne Rice, Shisha, SMOKING, Reading, Science-Fiction, Clubbing, New York, Gossip Girl, Brother, T.V, Sleeping, Saw, Mohawks, Politics, Wachen Festival, Germany, Mercedes,God, Winter, Black, Monkeys, Hot-topic, Big Mac, Wine, Pepsi, Boxers, Sweet. Dislike: Paris Hilton, Miley Cyrus, Serouise Situations, Quietness, Blondes, Jonas brothers, Girly Girls, Smelly guys, Small Places, Apologizing, Prison, Police, George Bush, BMW, Jerks, Nerds, Weak, Angels, Salt, Morning, Time
Website: helpmehelpyou
E-mail: sousou_moi7@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Australia, i live in Egypt
Occupation: student
Age: 16
MSN: sousou_moi7@hotmail.com
Member Since: January 11, 2009
Answers: 251
Last Update: April 13, 2011
Visitors: 15431
Main Categories:
Work/School Relationships
Love Life
Random Weirdos
View All
Favorite Columnists
Andreaaaa
|
| |
okay so whoever manages to solve this one deserves a gold medal. ill try to make this as short as possible.
ive been dating my bf for 3 and 1/2 months and im VERY affectionate, hopeless romantic, etc. I realized he isnt. and last night i found out why.
see what he would do is tell me he loves me and wants to be with me, but then he wouldnt really show it too much. i could tell he was holding back. A LOT. he didnt really show me his true feelings. i always was patient with him because i knew hes been through a lot. but last night i found out just the extent of his experiences in love. he dated this girl that really MESSED him up. he loved her so much and was happiest when he was with her, but then she did the worst thing imaginable. worse than cheating. however even after the incident he still wanted to be with her. eventually she cut him off completely and i dint think he ever had closure with her. he hates her now but i think deep down he still loves her. and the thing is he doesn't want to have anything to do with her, and he always tells me he cant believe im real, that no one has ever treating him like i do, but at the same time i still feel like he cant be completely true with me or love me to the fullest because he doesn't wanna suffer like he did again. i don't know how to help him, and the thing is there is a quite big age gap between us me being 18 and him being 26. i haven't gone through half the stuff he has and because of that he still sees me as young, and kinda naive, and therefore unable to understand what hes been through, and hes right i cant FEEL it, but i understand it, i could cry for him thats how much it affects me. but he tells me not to worry and just be happy. i just wish i could help him get over this horrible girl/incident that happened to him, but hes not really letting me. we cant really have an amazing relationship if hes not letting himself open up again. hes just so affected by it....what can i do???? (link)
|
Well it can be either what that person wrote under me "he's just not that into you"
OR ...
Well you see ... I understand what that guy is been through, we have something in common.
I have issues letting anyone into my life, I'm always scared if they are going to hurt me or do something that will annoy me..
Last relationship I blew it but he was going to give me another chance, and I think you should give him another chance.
Well yes what i did was horrible and something you'd wish your boyfriend won't ever do and in fact it was ...
I believe in a saying "Eat her/his lunch before he/she eats your dinner" and that's exactly what i did, i broke his heart because i thought he was going to break mine. But he wasn't going to eat my dinner, and the problem is i discovered that after eating his lunch.
See, you have to be cool about it, confront him would be a good thing, tell him exactly how you feel, tell him what your telling this website.
Hold on to him because somehow he needs you, he might not realize it now but will later.
And yes he does still have a thing to the previous girl, why?
Because I mean in a relationship when the partner doesn't want you anymore, you would want him desperately and when you beg for him and he still doesn't want you, you'd hate him but you'll always somehow want him.
But when you guys become serious as in marriage, he'll get over her don't worry about it.
Good Luck =]=]
|
Back in May (last month I guess you can say), I applied and had an interview with this job. I really would love working there, but I was not chosen as a candidate for the position, since of course they found better candidates.
Well I just saw they posted an ad on the internet about looking for more employees for the same position and company. I have much interest in working there (since having experience in the field), and I love their work environment.. so is it possible I could contact them again and see if they can give me a second chance?
Thanks for the time into reading this, and your response(s)! (link)
|
HELL YEAH! Why not?
I mean maybe they'll realize your great for the job and give you a chance to work there.
And that you won't give up on things you want and that means you won't give up on getting work done.
Good Luck =]=]
|
|
hi im a 15 year old girl, 5'9 big boned. i dont have much upper body strength though. where i live theres so much violence that i need to learn to fight. so how do i go about this? what do i need to do to build upper body strength and what else would i need to do to be able to fight? please dont tell me violence doesnt solve anything, because im in the hood, im not going out looking for it, but somehow i seem to be at the wrong place at the wrong time. (link)
|
I think violent is great physically and Mentally too...
Boxing, or Kick-boxing.
I've been playing Boxing (and took some Kick-boxing classes) for 6 years now, and trust me, I got build great and no girl from the streets ever got across me.
Because Boxing isn't just for strength, it's smart too, For example =
If a girl that weights 20 kilos more than you strength wise, and she punished you (Not in a smart way because she doesn't know boxing) and you punished her back, you can knock her out, and nothing happens to you.
And you can also prevent her punish to getting to you, like you can punish someone and when they try to punish you back, you won't let them with couple tricks you'd learn.
Good Luck
|
My boyfriend and i broke up.
we broke up on sunday and it was really weird how he explained it. We broke up because his mom thought we were geting to close. He said that we could still be friends, hang out., adn go on dates. He said that we could still do everything we were doing whenever we were dating but we aren't going to be dating. He still tells me he loves me and calls me babe. BUT! he hasn't called me in 2 days nothing at all. idk what to do. he broke my heart but i still want to be his friend but not with benifits im not a slut.. (link)
|
Well... Friends? Relationship starts with friends and then it becomes a relationship but can't ever go back to friends, and how did i learn that?
After me and my ex-boyfriend tried to be friends for a whole year, it's horrible and you won't ever get over him.
But...
Are you sure this guy isn't lying to you? well okay maybe not lying but doesn't love you enough to stand against his mother?
Come on, i've seen worse cases and he is a man, and if he really wanted to keep this going i think he would have.
No your not a slut but eventually/accidentally you guys will make out. To you accidentally to him (if his an asshole) all planned.
Just think about it ..... would you rather stay with a guy as his friend nothing more and hurt your heart more everyday OR get over him and move on, go out there and find a boyfriend who will stand up for you against his mother no matter what?
Good Luck =]=]
|
Ok so i already posted this once but i didnt get as much feedback as i wanted. Please read this and tell me what you think. I had to write it for english it is loves/loses. Thanks in advance!
I love you now,
I lost you yet,
I will always be here.
Don’t you fret
I know it hurts
But life goes on
I will try not to listen
To those sappy love songs,
Cause when I do,
I think of you
And what we used to be,
I just wish you would see
I gave you everything,
Yet you pushed me away,
I promise I will miss you,
Every single day
Me and you,
We can find a way,
And maybe…just maybe
We can be together someday.
(link)
|
Okay.
I hate poems, and it's never deep or touching for me. But i think you did a good job because some parts actually made me think and i felt something.
No, i cannot explain the feeling but i think it was nice. So i admire your poem.
Good Luck =]=]
|
|
Well im not sure why but i like this kid that is 13, im am 15 will be 16 in june. He doesnt act like he is this young and is really sweet. Is it bad that i like him??? what should i do?? Plus if anyone finds out do you think that i would have a bad rep at my high school?? (link)
|
Bad, No it's not even close to bad.
Love?Like? All same shit, and age will never matter.
If you think this relationship is worth it and will go on then what you should do is go for it.
And since when people start caring about other's opinion.
If dating this kid would make you happy then you should give a finger to whoever stands in your way, not worry about what's he/she going to say or think.
Good Luck =]=]
|
|
How you tell if your boyfriend want to kiss you after you been dating for 9 months? (link)
|
I'm sorry but this is FUNNY , I mean all men wants to kiss and screw.
Ofcoures you're boyfriend wants to kiss you, I mean 9 months, I think he does want to kiss you, who doesn't want to kiss their girlfriends after 9 months of dating.
Anyways here are ways you could know:
-Move their head more towards you indicating that their friendly and they want to kiss you.
-If he stares at your lips when he's around you.
-When he comes very close to he gets hesitant and shaky and nervous unless he's a cocky jock who loves himself and thinks the world obeys him.
Guys who are nice and are really into a girl get nervous and shaky.
-Once a boy looks straight into ur eyes, make the first move if he doesn't do it for 10 seconds. Make sure ur eyes "lock" and just lean in! You could also just ask the guy if he wants to kiss you, just to be silly, but if he does he'll say yes.
Well that's all for now !
Good Luck =]=]
|
Okay well heres the story .. ill try and keep it short.. im a teenager and ive been with my guy for over 3 months now.. and recently all of the group went out. Now theres alot of us.. maybe 30 all together?!
and the thing is.. my guy really likes me .. well .. he says he loves me .. like Really loves me .. but i dont know why i just dont feel the same way anymore?! .. is that what usually happens?
i mean i danced with him that night .. but towards the the end of the night i was thinking do i really want to be with him .. and i ddnt spk to him for a good solid hour, i didnt even dance with him!.. everytime he came up to me .. i said can i be left alone! Ive thought about this before.. 'do i really want to be with him'
For some odd reason i just cant understand myself, i spoke to my friends about it, and they said i should think about it before i do anything!
Im sooo confused.. he even said to me the next day online.. are you okay with me.. i feel like im loosing you! I just didnt know what to say!...
Can anyone help? =] (link)
|
Well... Yeah it's actually normal
It happens to me a lot, it's just that I don't fall in love easily and I think that's also your problem, but not the only problem.
Look I always date guys that i'm instersted with but then after 1/2/3 months I loose interst but I would think there is something wrong with me.
It's nothing really, else you lost interst or your just not ready for the love part.
You'll figure it out later but as for now I think you need space/break. So ask for it, and don't even feel bad for your partner because it would lead you to doing something bad so he can dump you.
Good Luck =]=]
|
|
I live in new york, and i would like to go to a university that has a great pre med program in new jersey, to be closer to family- long story. Tuition is no object, and any college that can get me into umnj or something medical school up there would be great. I want something within my reach, so no ivy leauge. my gpa spans from 3.29-3.71 unweighted. Any help is appreciated. Thank you so much, this will really help me span my investigations. (link)
|
Well there is couple of colleges:
http://www.google.com.eg/search?hl=en&q=university%27s+in+new+jersey&btnG=Google+Search&meta=&aq=f&oq=
Good Luck =]=]
|
so in a few weeks I'm going to a party that has pretty much a club theme but the problem is I can't dance or "grind" to save my life.
it's not exactly my scene so to speak
more on the slutty side while I'm kind of reserved I guess
the party is for a friend of my boyfriend and I won't really know anyone there
and Id rather not look like an idiot dancing/with what I'm wearing
if anyone can give me tips/websites/clothes ideas that would be great :)
(link)
|
Whether you are going out to the local club for a night out with the girls or going out to make a few new friends your appearance should be a number one priority. Clubs are a place where you go to be seen and in a situation where everyone is dressed to impress your first impression will be a lasting one. You always want to be sure that you make your entrance in a style that suite you best.
Many clubs are loud and dimly light. While this works in your favor if you are one that does not like to strike up casual conversation it doesn’t help if you are used to impressing people with you conversational skills. When you don’t have the option of reeling admires in with your sparkling wit you have to rely on your natural good looks.
The first thing you want to think about is your make up. This may not seem hard to some but to those of us who don’t wear make up daily this can present a problem. It is hard to know what colors suit your complexion or how to properly apply the stuff. If you don’t know how to apply make up or how to pick the right tones don’t panic. Try to give yourself time to go to your local department store.
Wear something like : http://www.amiclubwear.com/clothing-outfit-b-7398black.html
http://www.chelseasofnewyork.com/club_dresses_sexy_clothes_clothing_clubbing_s/77.htm
Well as for dancing:
http://www.wonderhowto.com/how-to/video/how-to-freak-dance-grind-246841/
Good Luck =]=]
|
So i was just thinking to myself after having a conversation with m best girl friend, she says she feels really sorry for me not havinga girlfriend but im really fine with it. i dont get lonley much because im allways busy skating or playing guitar or doing somthing. whilst thinking about it some more i started saying in my mind, "Well if its meant to be then its meant to be. if not then its not." i realised that i was debating whether its fate that brings couples together or whether its determination or somthing. for some poeple relationships fall into place easily but for other its a one sided love were one feels strongly for another but the other... not so much.
Whats your view and why? Is it fate that brings us together? or is it just reality's random course of events?
i look forward to hearing your beliefs and views :) with the crowd that normally gathers on this site im sure we'll get a nice array of answers. (link)
|
I don't believe in Fate so much.
Well one side love happens,
An angry guy likes shy girls, but the shy girl likes shy guys. And so on.
In love/relationships there is no Fate, concidence happen all the time, Fate is concidence, SAME SHIT!
I'm not sure exactly why you're asking or why do you even care
But I'm just going to give you an extra tip I learned from life and experience.
Well there was this guy in my town, he was jewish, he always believed that life can't be that worthless and religion is true but he wanted to know which one since there is alot. So he studied the three main religions; Jewish, Christian, and Muslim.
So he decided at the end Muslim was the wisest and was Muslim. But that guy went TOO DEEP into religion, he did every single thing that's written and memorized every single word that was written, but from thinking a lot and making too much rules in his life, and thinking wether it was wrong or right, he went INSANE and ended up killing himself.
I'm not saying you're going to kill youself, but live your life without rules.
For example, I get drunk and do something stupid next day i forget it. I don't think too much, because there is no need to.
Just let it go, and don't think too much but also don't think that Fate will bring you the girl of your dreams.
Just if you're walking to the store, and you liked a girl passing by, ask her out, you won't loose anything.
Good Luck =]=]
|
15/f
Alright well my boyfriend of two months has lied to me twice before. I got over it and we started over and he told me he would never lie to me again. Well i always have people come up to me and tell me things about him and if they have heard anything nad about him or something bad he did. Today, someone came up to me and told me he went to a party not to long ago and got drunk. The thing is, he never told me he went to a party. When i confronted him about it, he said he only stayed for 15 min. and somebody put whiskey into his mountain dew and he didnt know about it. He got drunk by "accident." So i was really hurt that he didnt even tell me this and he said he didnt tell me because he didnt want to lose my trust. Well according to that stroy, he already has. I still like him a whole lot and i dont want to break up with him but he cant be keepong stuff like that from me. He needs to tell me these things and it hurts when he dosent. He knows this and i have told him. Now, i have no idea what to do. Please help asap. thanks! (link)
|
Ok. This is simple.
Your boyfriend is a liar, maybe he lies because he is scared of your reaction or because he likes lying, I don't care and it doesn't matter as long as he did it.
If he did it once and twice, he can do it for more than 1000x times.
There is no TRUST, it mean no RELATIONSHIP.
Relationships are made for making a person happy mentally, emotionally and yes even physically.
And this relationship your in is not making you happy , i'm assuming.
So I know it's not simple as it sounds but break up with him, move on and go out there find yourself a HOT faithful boyfriend.
Good Luck =]=]
|
This is more a question for the ladies, but men are perfectly welcome to answer it too.
I'm a guy (obviously) and I've had long hair since I was about 17 or so (I'm 23 now). From a personal standpoint I like having long hair but I'm beginning to wonder if people see something different than what I really am when they look at me. This is especially true of the women I've dated. I seem to attract the type of women who are the complete opposite of me. Myself I'm fairly deep into the conservative side of things, I'm religious, etc... But my exes, who were attracted to guys with long hair, were almost my complete opposites on many views which eventually resulted in break-ups. I've been called a "hippie" and a few other things when I'm actually a very conservative soul.
So I guess my questions are... Do some women (possibly the ones that I would like to be with) take guys with long hair seriously? What is your first impression about the personality of a long haired guy? Do we all seem like flippant elf-boys on first glance?
I'm looking for honest opinions, not what you "THINK you'd think" but rather what you really do think if that makes any sense. And if you find this topic funny, feel free to laugh, as I am laughing right now when writing it. Also, sorry if this is in the wrong category, but I couldn't think of a better one, even the relationship category. (link)
|
Okay! Well ...
You see I always liked girls with short hair and guys with long hair (I'm a female)
Some people would just take it as my opinion and others would say "It's because of your sexuallity" (I'm Bisexual)
So I'm not sure exactly why!
I'm not sure what kind of girls you like, but yeah why not? I mean as long as your good looking it doesn't matter how long your hair is, what matters what looks good on you but if long hair is what comfortable for you and the reason is because you look better with long hair then I think women will like it.
From my opinion I would think HOT and intersting (honestly) but when guys do this scary pony tail or when they put extra gel I would think creepy, i mean who wouldnt?
No, not at all.
Good Luck =]=]
|
15/F
Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months ago yesterday. And for those 9 months I feel like im the ONLY ONE trying to make any effort keeping us together. For example im usually the one to call him I call him when I wake up and before I go to sleep. I see him over the weekends and sometimes at my house during the week. I think the reason he doesnt call me so much is because my parents told me I cant see him so I have to keep our relationship a complete secret from my family for 9 months. He says he loves me but I mean I talk to him maybe 3 times a day MAX and maybe 5 mins each if even that. And he says stuuff like this when I call "Hey , yeah Im doing chores right now ill call you when im done." Thats his excuse right now he said that at 11 this morning and its now 5:30 and still no call from him. I highly doubt it takes him that long too do a couple chores. And then that makes me have mixed feelings, like I try to hard to keep us together. I told him yesterday about how it makes me mad that he doesnt call me after he says "ill call you in like 10 mins" and it takes him hours or I just end up calling him. He makes me feeel like im the only one trying to keep us together and he doesnt care about us. I do want to stay with him so dont say break up with him. Do you think just not calling him for a while and see if he makes the effort to call me would be the best thing to do? Thannnks(:
Sorry it was so longggg. (link)
|
Well... I'll tell you something about guys your age.
They like it when girls play it hard, how?
When you call your boyfriend everyday 5 times and he doesn't call back. It's like your freaking him out, lay back, give him space. Even if it takes a week for him to call you, trust he will at the end if he does care about you.
But if he didn't well that tells you he is a lying son of bitch.
There is a saying at my town "When a girl runs after the guy, he backs away. When she backs away, the guy is gonna run after her"
Good Luck =]=]
|
I am a 24 year Male from India. I am a Gay and I always wanted to live a bachelor life in peace. I graduated 1 year back and I had a problem with my family regarding my post graduation and future career. And I fractured my right elbow 6 months back in a motorbike accident because my brother forced me to learn to drive motorbike. I told him I was scared to drive. I had to undergo surgery to fix my elbow with pins and screws. It still hurts. Nobody else know that I am gay. I dont honestly want a gay marriage either.
Doctor told me I cannot lift heavy weights again. It feels terrible to think that I have to live alone with a compromised right arm all my life and I spent 3 hours finding out ways to commit suicide in google. The thought of the moment of accident is just painful. I need someone to encourage me and advice me. Please help!!!!!
(link)
|
Well...
Being gay is alright. I found it diffcult at first when i found out i'm bisexual, but i don't care anymore as long as I'm happy and enjoying every minute of it.
You should enjoy being gay, i mean being unique is fun and different,but different in a good way and a chance to experience new stuff.
About your elbow, i totally understand what your going through, but we have different situations.
Well you see .... I love speeding, and I love cars. But i also love drinking.
One night, i made my sister's boyfriend to borrow my mother's new car and we were all drunk on a bridge. We had a horrible car accident, it was so bad the car flipped and no one had the seat belt on.
We crashed into a cab driver who past away, and we made him leave his wife and children. We crashed my mother's car. My friend is paralyzed, and I couldn't walk for 7 months. I had to quit soccer and until now i walk funny.
And also every time i ride a car, my heart speeds so fast, i would start to panic. The image would come back of the accident and i blame myself for everything, i know i shouldn't but it happens against my will. But you know what happens afterwards, i smile and move on, to new things. I'm happy i learned my lesson. And when they tell you, your life flashs in front of your eyes, it's true but only your sins you see.
So i will only advice you to smile, and move on. And please don't blame your brother for it, no one can make anyone do something.
And if it would make you feel better you can see a doctor.
Good Luck =]=]
|
heya guyz :-)
sorta quick question ...
me & my boyfriend have been together a couple of weeks now & we have been friendz 4 a long time be4 that. i`m 17. he is 18. i have never given a bj & i know he has received one from someone else be4. i don`t want to be bad at it so doees anyone have any tips plz. like what do i even do ha ha thanx :-) (link)
|
Well. It's easy!!
Just suck it, like you suck a lollipop
Same exactly!
Get a lollipop:
1. Suck it
2. Lick it
3. Practice on it
Very easy!
One extra tip
-Look him in the eye while doing it and you'll know if he is enjoying it and it's also sexy
Good Luck =]=]
|
I am an 18 year old girl who has been having problems with my mom for a few years now. I just don't know what to do about it because it is just so confusing. For instance, my mom always has to be right. If our family gets into a small disagreement, like what color Christmas lights to use, she turns it into a huge dilemma, making my sister and I take sides and it is just stupid. Mostly it is directed at my dad and me. She asks me which I like best, and if I say hers she makes me keep repeating it over and over again, saying it louder so my sister can hear, etc. And were still talking about it six hours later (why does the tree look so good? And who chose those lights?). If I agree with my dad, she thinks I'm saying that because I like him more than her, but I'm not that bad! So I only get into things if I agree with her. If I refuse to get involved she gets mad at me for not taking her side. And she will be miserable about it for days, no exaggeration.
But one of the main things that bothers me is the guilt trips. A few weeks ago it was my 18th birthday. I wanted to go out to lunch with a friend. At that time of day, I had no other plans and my dad said it was okay. But when I asked my mom she said, 'You mean you'd rather spend time with her than with us?' Now, I get good grades and I have nice friends. All I wanted was maybe two hours.
I feel like it is my fault too, because sometimes I just want to tell her what I really think, and sometimes I will get so frustrated because nothing I try ever works. I say something out of anger and she's miserable for even longer, taking everything out on my dad and me. I am mad at myself but at the same time I know there is only so much a person can take. I don't know.
She makes up her own rules for how to behave and interprets everything the wrong way. My dad can't say anything at all without her getting mad and talking about how we would be happy if she were dead, but she goes around yelling at him talking about how incompetent he is and how she would be better off doing everything herself. And if we say something to her, she takes it as meaning something that is the complete opposite or totally unrelated to what we said.
My dad wanted to take her to a doctor, because he thought something was wrong with her psychologically. He was really considering it. The only reason why he didn't was that he doesn't really believe that psychology can really help someone. He doesn't believe in it.
I feel awful because of what I say and because of what I think. Last year my mother went out of state for a few days to visit her sister. It was just my dad, sister, and me in the house. I hate admitting it, but my life was surprisingly stress-free when that happened. It's not like I'm wishing her dead or anything, but I don't think I should feel that way. I also recently started talking to a woman who is about my mother's age. She has become like a friend to me and I feel really comfortable when I am around her. Sometimes when things are bad I wish she was my mom. But I shouldn't feel that way because my home situation really isn't all that bad. It could be a lot worse. I just hate the way I feel.
I know these sound like really small things, but they happen on a daily basis in varying degrees. If you could just give me your opinion on the situation or what I should do, I would appreciate it. Thank you. =] (link)
|
Well ... !!!
No it's not that small, i have the same problem but it's WAY bigger than yours, My mother is a bipolar, yeah she has bipolar disorder, and also alcoholic/drug abusive but i never give her the chance to ruin or control my life, and that's why i'm not miserbly about it, i just feel sorry for her and now i'm kind of used to fighting with her, it's becoming a habit as crazy as it sound it's true. If we don't fight our day isn't normal but i don't have a father's support. She is crazy and i'm just crazier. :D
Anyway, i think i have a great idea for you...
You gather your sister/father and talk to them about it. Because i believe your mother has issues and your her family, your supposed to help and that would also has benefits for your own comfort.
Gather up, talk about it. And then you can suggest to get your mother and tell her what's bothering you at home. Suggest professional help or just you can help her.
You shouldn't feel awful, because a mother is made to raise and make sure her child is happy. And it's okay to have hate towards your mother, but it's not really hate, it's just disagreement. But if you don't deal with it, it will affect BIG problems later on.
And what kind of mother doesn't let her 18 years old daughted (who is an adult) to go out with her friends on her 18th birthday. I'm sorry but that's really harsh.
You have to talk to your mother and tell her how childish she is, and make her understand even if it's forcefull, even if you have to YELL to her face and make her cry, she just needs to understand. But don't forget your father's support.
Good Luck=]=]
|
|
Okay so my boyfriend of a year and 1/2 has cheated on me twice and it took me a long time but im starting to trust him again. Well a while ago his best friend kissed me but it wasnt my fault it was like a 2 second peck and i had no idea he was going to do it plus i told my boyfriend right after it happened. Well my boyfriend told me that i had to stop talking to him and i understood and i did. then my boyfriend didnt like my best guy friend ( we've been friends since 5th grade (im now in 10th)) and he made me stop hanging out with him. Well the other night we got into a fight and he told me that he didnt trust me and he goes through my myspace all the time and he has people watch me and then he got on here and was at my home page and asked me why i put on here that i liked someone else and i was like what the heck are you talking about??? and he called me a liar to my face then i got on and found out he was reading a question that someone had wrote to me and ugghhhh! im so frustrated ive never ever gone through his stuff ever and hes cheated on me!!!! HELP!!! what do i do???? sorry this is so long i just need help! Thanks in advance. (link)
|
Well ...
I learned one thing from self experience/ life whatever you want to call it !!
If there is NO TRUST there is NO RELATIONSHIP what-so-ever
Well trusting your boyfriend again after cheating on you TWICE, it's none of my business because i have no idea what you feel and i don't know the reasons so i have no right to judge but from my point of view, It's a big DEAL!!
Because ...
If he did it once, he can/maybe will do it twice and more. People have habits.
And about the kiss, this is not called cheating because you didn't kiss him, your boyfriend has no right to be calling it cheating, Hunny you didn't cheat on your boyfriend. It's that your boyfriend's buddy betrayed your boyfriend.
And if your best GUY friend didn't do anything to you sexually/physically/emotionally your boyfriend doesn't have a right to tell you to stop talking to him in any kind of way. Its not your problem that your boyfriend dislikes your friend for some gay/childish reason. You don't deserve to be tourtured just to satisfie your boyfriend because you need to satisfie your own needs first and then think about your partner.
And i'm sorry to tell you, your boyfriend is a selfish person for calling you a liar and accusing you after what he's done.
One more thing ...
Relationships or love generally are made to make a person happy emotionally/mentally, and you seem like your not happy, and that is a sign for a break up.
I think you should go out there and find a Hot boyfriend who isnt an asshole and that can make you happy!!
Good Luck =]=]
|
|
So there's this girl I like. Problem is I move an hour away in a couple months :(. Anyway, I don't have a lot of relationship experience. I see this girl in person a couple times a week (our group of friends hang out) and recently we've been texting more often and it's always a little flirty. Anyway, I would totally love it if she called me, so I'm thinking she might like it just as much if I called her. First question, if there was a guy you liked or were just getting to know, would you like it if they called you? Second, what should I talk about? Third, should I keep it short or what? Finally, would it be goofy to get a call from a guy and not have them ask you out or anything (I want to, just not sure its the best time yet)? (link)
|
Well let's see ...
Well some girls like goes who are confident, and others thinks it's cute when he's nervous. And i think it's sexy when he is very confident and knows what to say and etc...
I disagree with the girl calling the guy because girls don't like that, she'll call you if you call her.
1. Yes, of coures i would love it
2. Well, start with "hey" of coures, and then ask her "how was your day?" and "where did you go?", get the subjects going on, tease her abit in a flirty way but don't over do it, some girls get offended.
3.Well it depends, first keep it short, like if the call was getting uncomfortable just tell her you'll call her later, like "well i gtg, i'll call you later and maybe we'd hang out"
But if she was interested and kept asking you questions and if she sounded excited then keep it going until it ends
4.Well you don't have to ask her out right away, just mention that you'd guys will hang out but if she gave you any signs ask her out or just text it to her after the phone call
Good Luck =]=]
|
i have a huge problem...
and it's pretty long but i hope someone can help because i don't think i've ever hurt this bad in my life.
ok so here's the deal. two weeks ago, my best friend and two other girls went tanning. i was under the impression that i was supposed to go, but apparently they "didn't have room" but no one told me anything, i just assumed i was still going until it got too late to go. we kind of all got into some tension about that, and i felt like they just didnt want me to go. so i felt shut out.
then they accused me of stealing my best friends purse, which i would NEVER do. can you understand where i felt like they didnt want me around?
well when my boyfriend heard about the situation he made the suggestion of not eating with those girls at prom with the exception of one (one of them is dating his best friend, and they live two hours away so they have to ride together) so i texted that girl and said "hey maybe you and i and our boyfriends should just eat together at prom..." and she kinda got upset about it and i said "oh ok well it was just a suggestion from my boyfriend because i felt like you guys didnt want me there anyway. no big deal, we can still all eat together if you want me and my bf to" and it was fine and everything was settled by thursday. everything was perfectly fine.
well, the girl i was talking about (my boyfriends best friends girlfriend...lol) was supposed to borrow a prom dress from me. i guess my mom thought she said that she was going to buy it, because the girl texted my mom and asked how low we'd go on the cost. so we were under the assumption that she was going to buy it. mom needed to know if she was still interested because if not she was going to go sell it so that we'd finally have a little bit of money. so i texted her friday and said "hey my mom said if you're going to get the dress you gotta buy it because if not we gotta sell somewhere else it or i can't get a dress" and she got sooo pissed off because she thought i was demanding payment right then, when really i was just telling her the situation. we just needed to know if she was still interested. i apologized for the misunderstanding and thought everything was fine. until i tried texting the girls and no one answered. and when i drove by where my best friend and her boyfriend live, the girls were there. so once again i felt shut out.. i didnt know they all hated me.
so i texted my best guy friend (best friends boyfriend) and asked to talk to my bff. he said no. and i said why, and he said because i said no. i thought he was joking around, cuz he always says stupid stuff like that. so i just said please, and he said it depends on what its about. i didnt have anything to hide, so i said well i just need to know why everyone is ignoring me. and he said "because you're a stupid bitch and you think you're better than everyone and no one likes you" and i still thought he was kidding......
so i said whoa what did i do?! cuz i wasnt sure what to think. and he said "that was a stupid question" and i said no, its not because i have no idea what you're talking about.
and he said:
"i'm talking about the shit about you saying that only you and *alex* and *tory* and *Joe* could only eat together at prom and you demanding that *tory* pay you for that dress right then. you think youre better than everyone and we're all sick of you"
so i said "no, that was a suggestion from *alex* because he thought the girls didnt wanna be around me after the whole tanning thing and the purse incident. it was all settled by thursday though so what changed"
and he said "nothing was settled about you eating with us, but now it is and you and *alex* arent invited"
thats fine, i dont care, but now they all say they hate me except my best friend, but her boyfriend will not let her talk to me or my mom, so i lost her too.
and she let her boyfriend tell my mom that her daughter was a stupid bitch and that if she would pull her head out of her ass and look around she might see how worthless her kid is" my mother saved her from abuse and neglect! we let her live with us for six months, and paid for everything for her. even bought her a brand new cell phone!
so they left, and now everyone hates me...but i really didnt do anything wrong! i live in such a small town, and they were really my only friends...
and they have forgiven the girl who called us all sluts and hoes, and stole our boyfriends. (the same girl who is dating my boyfriends best friend and who told them the doctored and edited dress story) they gave her a thousand chances to prove herself, but yet no one bothered to ask me about any of this before they made up their mind to hate me.
these are friends i've had since i was three.... what do i do? (link)
|
DUDE .... !! What the hell?
How can you let a freaking asshole fag to call you names??
People here on this website will never advice you to get your revenage but i will
"Having a good life is the best revenage"
That's true!! Ignore those CRAZY/childish/immature/little brats/ lifeless/worthless people. No they are not your friends and they don't deserve your time, so i demande you not to waste your time thinking about what they did or say because they don't deserve it in any kind of way.
Maybe you're hurt but i believe in every story there is a bright side and i advice you to look at yours and your bright side is "now you actually know what people are capable of and that those people aren't your friends"
Life is a bitch, but we all have to suck it up, and we also can make it better by doing the RIGHT thing.
Go to the prom, do not sit at home and be depressed eating ice cream.
Find the BEST dress and go wild, have the best night of your life with your boyfriend and completely walk by them as if they are invisible.
Good Luck =]=]
|
|