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Hello, all- I'm Becky. I'm 16 years old but wise far beyond my years, so hopefully you can expect some good advice from me. I'm not here to spit out cutesy answers to every single question- I won't be a bitch, but I'll be sure to tell it like it is. Just accept it, and consider less-than-sweet answers as tough love. :]

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Hi, I just got a sidekick 3 for Christmas, and I was wondering if there's ANY possible way to change my t-mail address? I really don't like the one I have and want to change it, BAD! So if you have any idea, please let me know AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!

THANK YOU!

You can't change it. Sorry =]

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I just got a Steelers jersey for Christmas. Unfortunately their last game is on this Sunday coming. I can still wear the jersey right? Like to school and stuff even though their season is over? I know a lot of you will say, "who cares what you wear?" But, I just want to make sure that other people are doing it too. Because, Steelers aren't that big where I live.

Thanks! =]

You can definitely wear it. Show your team spirit all year long! I wear jerseys for my favorite teams all the time- it's fun =]

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this kid called me pretty & called me twice today & said how he missed me, we dated a couple months ago

does he like me again?

He might like you again. If you like him, and he keeps on paying lots of attention, you could ask him out. Just remember that there is a reason that he is your ex =]

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Does anybody know where they sell sweater boots? I'm lookign for brown specifically, but black will do too ?:)

Thanks♥

I assume "sweater boot" means that cool crochet/knit pattern-sorry if that's not what you meant =] Ugg has some nice ones, I have a pair that I like. They are $100, and they do come in brown, so that's good since that's the color you wanted =] Here's a link to the website:

http://www.uggaustralia.com/ProductDetails.aspx?gID=w&categoryID=283&productID=5833&model=Classic+Crochet

Hope I helped =]

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"Ok please no funny answers and I want to know if Keisha is overreacting. Today at work Keisha was down on her hands and knees rearranging the cabinets in the work area and Keishas butt (rear end/booty) was sticking up in the air. Ginny (a coworker) passed by and said; Gee your butt looks big; This upset Keisha so she went over and asked; Ginny do you really think my butt is big; and Ginny replied (smiling the whole time); Well it must been the angle because you look fine standing up. I was joking.; Keisha said; But do you think my butt is big; Ginny replied; No; But this still bothered Keisha, however, Keisha didnt say anything and about a half hour later Ginny asked Keisha if she was ok and Keisha said; well it still bothers me; Keisha said; If your butt was big I wouldnt joke around like that. One never says something like that to someone who has a big butt; Keisha agreed and walked away. Throughout the day Ginny kept telling Keisha she was joking; However, about two hours later Ginny said to Keisha; I was joking; you have to gain; I was joking; MY QUESTION: DO YOU THINK KEISHA IS OVERREACTING; AND (2) WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THE ENTIRE CONVERSATION (0THER THAN SAYING IT IS SILLY) (KEEP IN MIND LAST WEEK ANOTHER COWORKER SAID TO KEISHA YOU ARE SO SKINNY DONT YOU EAT)"

I think Keisha was just a bit overreacting, but no one likes to be told they don't look right, so I can understand that she acted that way. As for the entire conversation, it seems like Ginny just was making a joke to Keisha, and Keisha took it a little too personally, so Ginny felt bad and apologized all day. I think that both of them will forget about it by next week, but also that probably Ginny shouldn't make any more jokes like that since Keisha is so sensitive about her appearance.

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Is there any way to make your boobs look bigger? I know, awkward lol, but i'd love to know....

Like the person below said, a pushup bra helps. Also, I have read that standing up straight will help =]

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i am trying to make a username on itunes because i got an ipod nano for christmas. I am planning on using only giftcards for itunes, so i will not use a credit card. But to make a username, along with the name and address and stuff, it has credit card. I dont know what to put there because we dont have credit cards. I tried leaving it blank and it came back up saying it must be answered. Is there anyway that i could get an itunes username without the credit card?
Please answer!! I will rate.

I'm sorry, but I think it's impossible to use iTunes without a credit card. You should contact the iTunes people though-they might be able to help you =]

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I am 15 years old and my grandmother (50) is expecting me to haev kids at 16 but I feel that is too young.i want to have kids at 30 years old but my parents thinks it is old. so can anyone tell me if it is?I really want to enjoy my 20's adn have fun.so thanks for your answers!

It's not fair for your grandmother to want to have children when you aren't ready. When you are happily married, and feel as though you are emotionally, mentally, physically, and financially (yup, it's a good idea to be able to pay to take care of your kids) capable, that is the time to start having children. And 30 is absolutely NOT too old to have children. However, 40 is a bit too old, simply because it gives your babies a higher risk of having disorders or deformities. Hope I helped =]

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I have a friend that says why dwell on the past (such as negative comments that were made, anything that upsets you) when the present and the future will bring so much joy. Do you agree with what my friend says and what is your reason for agreeing or disagreeing?

I agree. It basically means don't be sad when you can be happy. That seems like a fabulous ideal to live by, in my opinion =]

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in the basic iPod nano package it includes the headphones and the dock adapter which is the charger right? cause ive tried googling it and it doesnt say if the dock adapter is the charger. thanksss.

You can plug dock adapter into the USB port on your computer. When you plug that into your iPod, it will charge. You can also buy a separate wall charger, where you can just plug it into any wall outlet and it'll charge. hope I helped =]

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I just got banned for kidding around, mayonnays and i had a dispute and ketchup, her twin had this to say before banning me, by the way read the moderator board, im really pissed now i cant be a moderator... :(
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Okay. First, this is Ketchup. No, you havn't heard of me but you have heard of my twin sister. Mayonnaise.

Anyways, I heard u called her a "gothic freak"
You're a fuckin douche. You need to fuckin get to know somebody before you go and fuckin judge. You don't know her. I'm her fuckin twin whatever you call her, you call me. You need to get some damn manners and grow up. Stop being a fuckin 5 year old pussy. Thats what you are. We're not gothic. And we sure as hell ain't freaks. You need to learn how to give good fuckin advice cause yours sucks ass.

Think before you start fuckin calling people names. Especially if you don't know them. That just goes to show you're a pussy.

Grow the fuck up..



Oh, and you can get me banned. I really don't give a shit. So yeah..what you got to say now?

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Is there any way to become a mod again???

http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=67

It says that six weeks after being banned, (as long as you meet all the other requirements) you can become a moderator again.

Aside from the question you actually asked, you should defintitely apologize because it isn't nice to call people names. Just a thought =]

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How can you tell a real louie vuitton purse?

One way is to look at the tag. If it says Made in US, its definitely fake , it should say Made in Paris. Also, check out this site:

http://www.knowknockoffs.com/detecting_fakes1.html

It hopefully helped =]

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Hey columnists...
I got a DVD from Netflix today, and have been trying to watch it. Unfortunately, it keeps alternately freezing and skipping. I've tried taking it out and cleaning it of with tissues, but so far it hasn't stopped. Is there anything I can do to clean it off, without having to just send it back?

Thanks in advance.

What I do is take a small soft cloth (I usually use a glasses cleaning cloth, but you wouldn't have to) and just rub the DVD until you can't see any smudges. Hope I helped =]

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Okay, I told you guys how I had this thing for one of my friends. Well, one of my other friends, Laura, who lives down the street from me, tells me today while I'm talking to her on Instant Messenger that she likes me. So I'm over at my house freaking out because I was trying to plan out what I was gonna say to Ashley, the girl I like.
So I tell Laura that I sorta like her a little.
And I could tell she was struggling with her words. This is what we both said:

Laura:Okay... would you ever consider going out?
me: with who?
me: you?
Laura: yes
me: i guess so.. Why?
me: well, that was awkward..
laura: Uh... Meredith
me: uh, meredith what?
Laura: Meredith's helping me with what to say, but, would you go out with me?
Laura: (Sorry, clicked enter too soon..)
me: omg.. I.. I guess.

So, did I do the right thing?
I mean, Laura's been my best friend for a long long LONG time, and our moms are friends, too. I didn't want to make her mad at me, so I said yes. I really do like her, but I'm just not sure if I like her enough to go out with her.
So I have been going out with her for about an hour now. It's 8:50 here in Georgia, so you do the math.

I just want to know if I did the right thing or if I should break up with her and go for Ashley?

When Laura realizes that you don't really care for her like you do for Ashley, her feelings are going to be hurt. It's not fair for either of you to be in a relationship where the love isn't mutual. Explain kindly to Laura that you really like her as a friend, but not in a way that makes you want to go out with her. Then, give it some time (for Laura's sake) and go after Ashley =]

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ok, me and my friend have verizon. my friend's visiting family. i know there is roaming charges for him, but what do i get charged for?? i have verizon and so does he, so when we call/text it's free, but would that change since he is out of the country or what?? i'm just wondering if it is still free or if i use my plan minutes even though we both have verizon.

thanks!!

I'm almost POSITIVE that when a Verizon phone calls another Verizon phone, it's free. =]

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15/F

Hi, I'm looking for a celebrity who has this look:

Light Blonde (and black?) hair
Usually does smokey black eyes
Cool / fair skin colour

I would like to see how to change up my look

Thanks so much!

This link is pretty much EXACTLY what you are looking for

http://www.mtv.com/news/photos/u/underwood_carrie_060302/03.jpg

Hope it helped =]

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I am intrested in lucid dreams and i was wondering what some steps to having lucid dreams are

Heres' some sites I found:

http://www.lucidity.com/LucidDreamingFAQ2.html

http://www.dreamviews.com/

http://brain.web-us.com/lucid/luciddreamingFAQ.htm

Hope those helped!

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does anyone know how many pictures they are now allowing you to have on myspace? i know they changed it awhile ago from 12 to 14, but i saw this one girl that had more than 14. so does anyone know the exact amount you can have? thanks

I'm pretty sure you can have up to 32 photos now =]

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ok so me and my boyfriend have tried having sex once before but it hurt really bad and a few other things happened and it just didn't work out completely. my question is, are there any way i can make it hurt less?
he fingers me right before and says im wet/relaxed enough but then as soon as he tried to put his penis in he couldnt, even though i felt i was relaxed too. also, the few times he did get in it hurt really really bad, i get that it's supposed to but are there any ways to make it hurt less?
thanks

You should use lubricant, like KY jelly (I don't have any personal experience with sex, but I have heard KY jelly is the best). Also, it probably hurt more this time because if it was your first time, then you broke your hymen, or "popped your cherry." It'll probably hurt less next time, as long as you use lubricant. Hope I helped =]

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I'm moving in a week and we're getting new cell phones/plans. What is the best phone I can gete for under $250? Any deals you've seen with certain providers? I mostly call & text but pics & videos wouldn't hurt. Durability is always a plus. I want a really good phone so any opinions are appreciated. I'm sixteen & a female.

I love the Motorola Razr phone. Lots of carriers have the Razr, but some companies have phones similar to the Razr. They are good because they do lots of stuff (call, text, pictures, AIM, etc), they don't take up much space, and they come in many different colors. I have a pink Cingular Razr, and it was about $200. I think that this phone is about the same price for most carriers, except for possibly the Dolce and Gabbana Gold Razr (it's probably much more expensive.) Hope I helped!

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