Gender:
FemaleLocation:
BCAge:
18Member Since:
October 10, 2005Answers:
174Last Update:
November 26, 2006Visitors:
11652Main Categories:
Love Life
General Sex Questions
Spirituality
View All
about
advice
im 13 years old 4'11'' weigh exactly 60 pounds.
im freaked out !! please help me! am i extreamly underweight?
and i also am a pig i can eat 2 big macs in 1 hour!
ok yes that is smaller than average, but its not unusual. I was around 50 pounds when i was 13. its just a fsat metabolisim. theres nothin wrong with you. you still hvae ALOT more growin to do! if you think that there is something wrong tho, it would be best to see your doctor. even if its just for reassurance!
i dont know how to get over it.... my boyfriends in college far away n im so jealous but i cant break up with him..it sucks but im so scared of losing him.. is anyone else goin thru this? how can i deal with the fact that hes gonna be out all the time...im stuck
ok i know exactly how ya feel. My bf left for another province for a few months. i wouldnt sy that I am jealous but i understand your fear of losing him. the best thing to do is to make sure that you both keep in touch and that you try to find way to meet up still. a long distance realtionship is very hrd to do but its not impossible! :) good luck!
i have a bf, and i dont really like him i went out with him mainly because hes really nice and i thogunt y not give him a chance. but i also like this other guy and he likes me. he told me friends he thoguth i was cute and he wanted to make out with me. but he has a gf of 2 yeats. but i really like him, and i want to make out with him, but people have been callin me slutty because htye said that if i make out with the guy i like, thats being rude to my bf, witch i only lik as a friend, but i dont want to brake up with him yet, bucz i want to see if maybe my feeling change.
i think if you dont really like your bf you should end it now. Its not fair to him for you to be leading thim on like that. Adn as for the guy that you like, it is best that you dont go just makin out with him if he has a gf. if he has felings for you adn not her anymore then he should leave her before doin something wih you.
My boyfriend is 20 years old and we been going out for a year (this months) and he always tells me that he is going to go to the dome(another word for a strip club) and i always tell him that if he goes i would be extremely mad. He hasn't gone to one yet, but he says he is going to. Do you think that it if stupid for me to get mad at him if he goes? I believe it stupid because he already has a girlfriend(me) that he can look at, am i not good enough for him to look at?
thanks
ok i understand how you could get kinda jealous or angry, i probaply would be too. but guys will awlays look at girls, whether it be you or some one else. and you really cant stop that. but you can try to make him not want to go to the strip club;) just distract him from the other girls.
hey im a freshman in highskool and ive just been asked out by a freshman and he like almost in all my classes! when he asked me out, i though i shouldnt b a heartless bi*ch so i just said yes. i mean hes cute but like a lil brother cute. i feel like an ass**le. i will not say no now n tomm. i go bak 2 skool wat will i say wats next i dunt like him! oH MY GODDD ive made a big mistake n i need help PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me! thnxx
tell him you dont think that you feel that way about him adn it might be best if you just stay friends
Well my boyfriend of 6 months recently went off to college and things are fine we are working that part out and are for the most part, ok with the distance. But he is always telling me about these "hott chicks" he saw or talked to. He also was telling me of how his roomates ex lets him take naked pictures of her and I replied with a "Well thank you for telling me that, I needed to know (sarcasm)" and he also told me that she was going to come over and strip for them. Then told me that he was joking. I just dont know what to do, or how to approach him about it. I really want this to work but it might put a strain on our relationship if he continues it and GAH its pissing me off!!
Thank you! I will rate high for good answers:D
i know people usually want their relationships to work out, but this guy is the king of all dicks. No one deserves to be treated like that. guys will always look at other girls theres not much that can be done about it. But no on should have to hear about the girls that strip for her bf. If hes tryin to make you jealous then he really should have tried something else. honestly you hould dictch him. hes just being inconsiderate and a complete ass hole
This is the problem! My parents don't let me have a boyfriend(but I have one anyways.) Now my boyfriend lives quite far away, and i never get to see him. Should I break up with him or stay together with him. What should I do?
ok if its a serious relationship and you want to try to keep it goin then go ahead. but its very very hard. i know from experience, it does take alot of work to keep it going. chances are if he moved away you might want ot consider ending it. because long distance relationships are really really difficult. but in some cases they can be totaly worht it.
There's always articles in magazines saying how you can REALLY get the guys to like you.
Smile, be nice, be funny, yada yada yada.
But, in your opinon how do you REALLY get guys to like you?
I mean different magazines say different things so, what do you think?
just be yourself, confidence and charisma is what stands out.
My girl and I just broke up. She wants to call me everyonce in a while to check how Im doing. I would be crushed If I found out she was with someone else. Should I keep talking to her in hopes that she might come back to me? Would it show that I am trying to make things better?
it is always good to keep in touch, cuz thn you can maybe achieve a friendship. You can see if mybe she would coe back to you but that really depends on the circumstances of the break up. it might happen you never know. If you do care about her alot i dont see why you shouldnt stay in touch, its still a way to keep her in your life. And if she does hook up with some one new, it is something that you will have to acept, people do move on.
14/F i am really confused rite now i have this boyfriend who is id say about 3 years older than me [ 17 ] hes a senior im a freshman & hes not a virgin and whatnot and i am . . we`ve been goin out for almost 5 months and hes starting to hint around that he mite want to mess around or somethin and the whole idea really makes me nervous considering hes my first real relationship & considering hes had more experiance than me and i am absolutly clueless . . hes never asked anythin be4 and im afraid that if maybe i dont do anything he mite break up with me . ? or something but i think its more of the fact that im nervous . what do you think i should do?
- confused & clueless
ok if you think that your comfortable with the idea then go for it. but by the sounds of things your definetly not. if you think he might dump ya for not havin sex ith him , then chances are hes not the one that you would want for your first time. Although people can make a really big deal outta sex, when your that young and it is your first time , then maybe you should consider waiting. If he truly cares for you then he will be fine iwth waiting too. if he is an ass about it then chacnes are things arent gunna last very long. and if he knows that your a vrigin he really shouldnt care. if he does like you then he would be fine with that and be respectfull of that and not push you into things that your not ready for.
I have a ten-year old sister and she has a bf. One day i caught them making out. I didn't make much of it. When I came back she was sucking his penis. I don't want my sister to be a sex addict but how do i confront her about this?
omg 10yr old givin head?!?! thats way to young for anythin sexual! you might want tell her she is too young to be thinkin of things like that, i mean 1-0yrs old most girls havent hit puberty! when you tel her i wouldnt lecture her or anything tho.
Ok im 13 and I have had sex twice....I know that I want to tell my mom....but i know that if I tell my mom she will tell my dad and I KNOW that he will flip out....But I had ses with a guy that i have been goin out with for 2 years already and we are still going out...so I dont think it is that big of deal...but how do I tell my parents without them like killing me??? Also do you think I am considered a slut or something because a couple people at my school do...
thanks
ok your not a slut, havin sex doesnt make some one a slut. havin sex with many differnt people often does. But if you fell that you need to tell your parents then you should just st them down and say that you felt that you were ready and tell them as it is. but just because you had sex deosnt mean you have to tell them. because honsetly how is it any of thier buisness? just be as mature as you can about the issue and be calm. good luck!
hi my name is jake, i'm 16 sophmore in high school. over the years i watch my friends go through relationships and stuff, n i never had one. n its not bc i'm antisocial or anything; i think i'm pretty popular, lots of friends and stuff. just thinks never seem to happen or get to the point of relationships; is this weird? should i try to put more an effort to startin a relationship? or should i just kinda be passive about it like i've been. i do want to find someone, to have fun with.
nah thats not weird! i didnt get int my frist relationship till i was 16, somethigs just happen. i wouldnt change the way you act or anything. maybe if ya really like the girl then do lil things to show her but i wouldnt worry about it too much. what happens; happens
alright guys. well. tonight i think i'm going to the movies with my boyfriend. and he wants to see into the blue. you know the one with jessica alba and the REALLY hott guy with the nice 6pack abs? alright. well the problem is that if we go i know the whole time he'll be like in his head thinking goddamn she's so fine blahblah about jessica alba. but i'm not like that when i'm with him. and i bet that later on he'd tell me how hot she looked in different sceens and stuff. so i'm like... well i'll see if i can go to that one even though i really don't want to.
i really don't think thats a "couples" movie.
thats like. horny guy alone. do you agree?
and if like you were me (if you're a girl) would it bother you that like he'll talk about that stuff after the movie, when he know's that you wont talk about how hot the guys is?
please help as soon as you can.
well if anything that woudl be c ouple movie, theres something for the girls 9 hot guy) and for the guys. maybe if he does say something about how hot the chick was then just casually mention something about the guy, that might shut him up. lol.
I'm 13/f and i have strech markd on my thieghs and weigh 113 lbs so am i fat and if so what are some tips to get trim.
no you are not fat, and dont worry about random marks, chances are there not stech marks, but you woud want to get a professionls opinion on that. Just dont worry about your weight 113 is a normal size, and you still have more growin to do , so things now coudl change for the better as you develop. :)
my period is late by a week but i am on birth control am i pregnant?
even though your on the pill you might wnat to take a pregnancy test if you think that theres a chance that your pregnant
i have 2 questions...
1. what is the law about dating a person over 18 if your a minor? some people say its not illegal till u have sex some say its if you touch in any sexual way even kissing
2. i am 15 and the guy i like is 18 is that soo bad....
help if you can
ok somethig is only illegal when some one reports it!! if ya dont get caught thena law deosnt really matter! thats a ok age differnce and if your comfortable with it then do what ever you wish.
do you think wearing a mini skirt with a thong is slutty...do you think makeing out with a guy thats not your boy friend is slutty but the thing is me n him made out a few times
ok, well i wear skits all the time, and im sure as hell not a slut! as for the making out, well yea thats sluty.
My boobs hurt really bad when I wake up in the morning. But if I wear a bra to bed, they dont hurt as bad. I'm not big, only 38A/30B. Does anyone know why it hurts so much? Also, I dont really sleep on them. Thanks!
its bad for you to sleep with your bra on, and your probably just growing, i wouldnt worry about it!
well here is the deal. im am so confused about my sexuality. like i think guys are cute and i may like them when i start going out with them. but when i break up with them i feel as if i never cared about them and that they were someone just passing through my life. But when it comes to females it's a diffrent story. i actually feel something for them. and when i break up with them i really do feel sad. does this mean that a full lezbian instead of a bisexual?
hard to say, it could just be that you connect more with females, wich is common cause people of the same sex can relate to eachother, but im not bi so i really dont knwo if my explination can halp any