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Question Posted Wednesday October 5 2005, 8:43 am

well here is the deal. im am so confused about my sexuality. like i think guys are cute and i may like them when i start going out with them. but when i break up with them i feel as if i never cared about them and that they were someone just passing through my life. But when it comes to females it's a diffrent story. i actually feel something for them. and when i break up with them i really do feel sad. does this mean that a full lezbian instead of a bisexual?

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redninja answered Monday October 10 2005, 2:22 am:
hard to say, it could just be that you connect more with females, wich is common cause people of the same sex can relate to eachother, but im not bi so i really dont knwo if my explination can halp any

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Razhie answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 5:52 pm:
Sexuality isn't always to clear cut and definable as we would like.

It's understandable that your relationships with women would be different then your relationships with men, in my opinion it comes down not just to being sexually attracted to someone, but being emotionally attracted as well.

If you could see yourself falling in love with a girl just as easily as a boy, you are probably bi. Maybe you are technically bi but prefere girls... Either way, I don't think the defination is all that important. Keeping looking for someone who makes you happy, gender is only as important as you make it.

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thund3rstruck answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 2:48 pm:
i thikn your bi but your more for the girls instead of the guys yah im bi and i am more for girls and myfriend is the same way as you so i think you rjustt more for da girls

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mylinhthan answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 12:32 pm:
anonymous -

Answer me this, which gender are you more attracted to physically?

I honestly do not think you are a full lesbian only because you mention emotional attachment, which is completely normal. Perhaps maybe this problem is based on your common relation with your female friends, whereas with males you cannot relate with so much so in return, you hold a grudge against the male species while turning your head toward the more familiar gender for comfort and support.

Hope this helps.

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xo_myriam_ox answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 11:43 am:
most likely because your actually care for girls than boys

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