Question Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 11:18 pm
do you think wearing a mini skirt with a thong is slutty...do you think makeing out with a guy thats not your boy friend is slutty but the thing is me n him made out a few times
leproticnimrod answered Wednesday September 28 2005, 6:21 am: No and no.
You shouldn't worry about being "slutty". The word isn't anything but a label bandied about by people uncomfortable with other people's sexuality. What matters is whether you feel comfortable, and that you don't hurt yourself doing what you're doing. If you feel pressured to wear a miniskirt with a thong, maybe you shouldn't be doing it. Similarly, if making out with a guy who's not your boyfriend is killing you with guilt, I guess that's too slutty for you. If that's just your natural level of sexuality, though, go for it, and don't worry about whether someone else thinks it's slutty. [ leproticnimrod's advice column | Ask leproticnimrod A Question ]
LadyGoodman answered Wednesday September 28 2005, 2:32 am: I think wearing a thong with a mini skirt is only slutty if your thong is hanging out for the whole world to see. It's just trashy. Making out with a guy isn't so bad, especially if it's just one guy. [ LadyGoodman's advice column | Ask LadyGoodman A Question ]
nickyrocks answered Wednesday September 28 2005, 2:08 am: You yourself must at least mildly think it is sltty or you would not have had to ask. What makes a slut is not what she is wearing, but her actions. I would not consider the first slutty. It is important to be faithful in a relationship. If you feel the desire to be hooking up with someone else, you should not be in that relationship in the first place. The thing is, it really depends how you define what a slut is. [ nickyrocks's advice column | Ask nickyrocks A Question ]
Igotamonopoly answered Wednesday September 28 2005, 12:28 am: Yeah, I think both are slutty. i know that I know guys who will randomly flip up girls' skirts, and if you're wearing a thong, I think that might suck. And yeah, making out with a non bf is slutty. [ Igotamonopoly's advice column | Ask Igotamonopoly A Question ]
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