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Me and my boyfriend have been dating like almost 15 months and we are getting to the more intense sexual side our relationship, but i have something i had never told him. I was raped at a young age and I dont know if he will be able to tell. I always told him i was a virgin. Do you think I that would be concidered lying even though it wasnt consensual? And do you think I should tell him I really need some help.

He won't be able to tell if you're a virgin or not. If you have sex with him, it's going to be so much different because you actually want it and I'm guessing you really really care about him! Only tell him if you're comfortable with telling him. No one is making you. But don't tell him unless you're absoloutly comfortable!!!


♥ Always,
Maria

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Ok for my birthdya this year(14) im going to have it at a theme park. I was only invite 5 friends intill my whole class some how found out.Should I tell them im not having one then invite only the ones i was gonan invite or ininvite all the girls, it really expensive and for sure we are going

HELP

Tell all the people that you didn't exactly invite that they're going to have to pay for themselves because you can't afford it. Be honest. If you tell them that you're not going to have it but then you do, they're going to be really pissed that you lied to them!


♥ Always,
Maria

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i flirt alot with a lot of different guys and i have a boyfriend is that bad?

It's only bad if it bugs your boyfriend.


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Maria

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well i love my girlfriend with all my heart, she's the sweetest girl ever i would do anything for her, but lately it seems like shes losing interest in me what should i do.. i dont want to lose her because i would be lost.. i just dont know what to do.

Do something with her that's unpredictable! Do something out of the ordinary! Show her that you really do care about her. Normally a girl only shows lack of interest becuase she's bored. Show her that you're worth being with. Do something you said you would never do but she would love to do it!


♥ Always,
Maria

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im 23 and have had pretty bad teeth for a while . pretty large gap aand they stick out, apart from that I am really happy with my looks, but it is getting worse and worse as the days go by , not smling etc , should I confront my fear at 23??? what other options do I have?

Braces. Go to your dentist and have him refer you to an orthodontist. It's not exactly fun, but it'll make your smile look beautiful in the end! It's worth it!


♥ Always,
Maria

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i just became friends with a girl again and she used to be mean and when we gave her a second chance she started to be mean again.im worried she will be like that again what should i believe?

I think people only deserve second chances. I think you could try to be friends with her but don't put your hopes up and don't put so much trust in her!


♥ Always,
Maria

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I am a thirteen year old girl and I have a close male friend. We usually get on quite well and we are always talking and hugging. We used to be attracted to each other and he on/off still is to me but I don't feel that way about him. Everyone says we act like we're a couple and that we should get together but I honestly don't want to. We are very close but are we too close? I admit I hug him more than my other friends but I don't have any feelings for him. So is it wrong to be this close to him if we're not in a relationship?

Nope, I don't see anything wrong with it. I do the same thing. But be careful that you just wanting to be friends with him doesn't hurt his feelings and he doesn't feel like your being a tease.


♥ Always,
Maria

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I have a problem with boys, none of them like me. If one of my friend's tells a boy I like them they pretend to gag and stuff. Well I was at a dance and there was this really hot boy and my friend asked him to dance with me and he said no so my other friend asked him and he said I have a girlfriend as an excuse to not make me feel upset. What can I do to get boys to like me?

There's pretty much nothing you can do to make a gut like you. You just have to be yourself and a guy will come around. But until then, just enjoy being single! Being in a relationship isn't always fun and games! You're tied down to one person and you constently have think about if they would approve of you doing something. But just be yourself and you'll find a guy that will love you for who you are! And the guys that gag at you are dumbasses and immature! They probably don't deserve you anyways!


♥ Always,
Maria

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I have found myself snapping at people calling them complete morons and other such insults. I do it when I am frustrated or even slightly annoyed. I have no patience for anyone it seems. Later on I regret saying such things. I've said these things to friends and family, and even my boyfriend ,whom I adore. But when the moment hits me it seems I can't prevent the waspish comments from bursting out. How do I explain to these people why I say such things? I've hurt their feeling and it really upsets me. I don't mean to be mean. It seems i just can't help it.

Well tell them that you don't mean it and sometimes you have these mooods! But if your doctor lets you, you can take medications that help you calm down. My dad uses Silexa (sp) because he has his moments when he just snaps at everyone!

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one group of my friends drink a lot and i dont really care that much about it. im not against it or anything. my only concern is that i know sometime i will be involved in a situation where i will be asked if i want a drink... the thing is, i have never drank before, i don't want to say no, but i don't want to get the reputation that i always do that stuff. whats your advice?

oooOOhhH PeeER PreSSuuure... lol

Well just drink with some of your close friends!


♥ ALways,
Maria

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hey, thanks for your help about my outfit! i'm not sure if you like tweed, but i actually got them at payless [figures,the place i never seem to like but i ADORED their tweed shoes that day!] if you wanna seem them [i have a pic] just lemme know and ill give you my aim sn ♥

Yea I wanna see it! My sn is x0PINKISSEXY !I have no clue what tweed heels are but you said pink so I was like 'Yea totally wear that!' Lol.


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Maria

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Hi, I'm going to a carnival dance and I'm not sure on what to wear. The weather is in the high forties to low fifties, but the place of the dance is EXTREMELY HOT.

Is this a good outfit:

White tank, black miniskirt, and pink tweed heels

OR .. ANY SUGGESTIONS? AND HAIR SUGGESTIONS? I'll rate high for appropriate answers.

That outfit sounds really cute! I think you should wear that! And for your hair, I would just leave it down. Or if it's long enough, do pretty curls. I'm really bad when it comes to doing hair. Sorry!


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Maria

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Im on my period right now and i am so angry for some reason and i get pissed off so easily right now and i dont know why? and today this girl told me something and i ended up cussing her out and every one thought i was gonna hit her in the face so please tell me how i can be nicer why im pmsing

I get like that a lot. My mom hates it. So she started giving me multi-vitamins and I haven't been bitchy at all when I'm PMSing.


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Maria

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When is a good time to tell your boyfriend of a year that the relationship is getting too serious and you're not realy for it?

When it's just the two of you. You shouldn't tell him in front of anybody! Tell him the next time you're alone with him. Or if you want to do it sooner, then I don't see anything wrong with telling him over the phone!


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Maria

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What is the website for changing your colum colors? Thanks!

Did you want the codes for all the different colors?


http://hotwired.lycos.com/webmonkey/reference/color_codes/


Hope that's what you wanted!




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Maria

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14/f
I had a weird dream that I was making out with one of my old friends (who is a girl) from my reading class last semster. I totally flipped out in the dream ... but when I woke up ... I was like "That wasn't all THAT bad ..." I saw her at school today ... and I really cant bear to look at her without remembering the little "session"... that was gross but in a way I liked it ... (PLEASE do not tell me that Im going bi...)
AAAANNNNDDD Do you know where I can get polyphonic ringtones? Ive tried a bunch of others (Like Jamster, T-mobile.com, and Singing Fish) but they all say that I cant get them bc I have a pre-paid phone. (And Jamster says they'll send me a ringtone ... but I NEVER get it ...) My phone is a Nokia 3595 ... and I would really like to change my ringtone ...
♥ me ...

It was just a dream. Don't make such a big deal out of it. I bet you anything that you're not the only girl that's ever had a dream like that. It's probably just one of those once in a while dreams. So don't stress.



And Jamster sucks monkey balls! It's retarted. But here's a site for Nokia...

http://www.nokiainfo.net/tones/us/index.php

I hope this works for you! And if not, then you could always go to the store you bought the phone from and ask them where to get a new ringtone.


♥ Always,
Maria

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well i just became a vegatarian 2 weeks ago and all my friend does is joke about it she even made up a song up about eating meat and this pisses me off and gives me stomache aches and makes me want to burst out and she knoes but i still feel like its rude of her and i hate that feeling .. what can i do ?? .. thnx ... Love, MauraAnN

Cook her some food that you really enjoy and maybe it'll make her have a change of heart and understand that it's not stupid! And it's awsome that you're a vegeterian! I tried once but it didn't last long!


♥ Always,
Maria

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shawty wanna ride wit me????

we can get low!
ahahahaha!


♥ Always,
Maria

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what's your xanga address and are there some pics on it

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=mariia___x3


& yea there's a few pictures on it. I'm going to be adding way more pictures soon from the party and other stuff like that from this spring break!

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UGH !! i hate my eyes ! i have single eyelids and my eyes are pretty small . i already use eyeliner on my top lid as well as some mascara to "open" up my eyes a bit .. do you know any other ways to make my eyes seem larger ?
oh and does waxing ur legs hurt ? i'm planning on buying the use-at-home waxing kits instead of shaving

Use some eyeliner on the bottom of your eye also. It makes your eyes stick out more and appear larger. Also, you can try using some false eyelashes and the putting on some mascara. But if you don't want the false eyelashes, then use mascara for extra length and separates the eyelashes.
And for the first or second time it'll hurt. You'll get used to it. But I don't think it hurts that bad the first few times. I think getting your eyebrows waxed is much worse.


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Maria

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