Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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Hi ... I am working in MNC and their is 4 member in our team I am the Team Lead their my three members is not capable that enough as company wants. now my manager want to promote from two member out of four in our team so I am confused I am sure that I am one of them and my manager ask me to recommend one name, so which name I should give I don't want to give any name because they are not capable for the work. so should I give a name to my manager or should I not? (link)
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I don't think you should. You are the leader of your group. There is a reason why your the leader, and not them. Your boss sees more potential in you. If you were to give your manager a name and they do not exceed up to the expectations than your boss will look down on you because you help nominate someone who isn't there yet with that certain job.
I'd be honest and tell your manager that you cannot give him a name because you don't see them reaching the goal for a promotion. Tell him/her why you believe they are capable.
Honesty is the best policy. He/she will respect you so much more.
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ok so i am 11 i want to lose my woo hoo (kno what i mean) by 12 any tips or advice???? (link)
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You are 11 years old. You are way to young to be having sex. How about you ask your daddy or your mommy if they are okay with you having sex? You don't want to be 12 years old and pregnant. Sex isn't something you do with just anyone. It's something you do with the person your going to spend for the rest of your life. You should be playing with barbies, or doing sports. Not boys.
God, what has the world came to. 11 years old having sex??? Chill out with that shit. You will grow up and have people think of you like a slut, and trust me. You don't want that type of reputation.
If you wanna have sex and be looked down upon, than get on birth control. Talk to your parents and let them know you are wanting to be sexually active so you can get on birth control because sometimes condoms don't work.
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I'm 17 and oldest of 2 other sisters and having problems with my dad. We haven't been close since I was a little kid, mainly because my dad has problems.... He explodes when he gets mad, he's annoying, judgemental, and always criticizing me any chance he gets, and lots more. He says I'm lazy because when I'm not at school or working at my job I usually try to catch up on sleep or relax... He says my 14 year old sister does everything and that I do nothing. I try to explain my sleep deprived situation but he doesn't listen to a word and yells over everything I say. I don't talk to him unless it's necessary. He's always lecturing me about how I need to improve myself. He's just always on my case stating how messed up I am and why I can't be more like him, or more like my sister, more like other people. I can't take it. He's always upsetting me and I end up crying and hyperventilating. It's so hard dealing with someone like this when they're supposed to be there to support you. How do I deal with a dad like this? (link)
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I've been dealing with this my entire 19 years of living. It sucks. All you want to do is make your father proud of you, and it feels like everything you do isn't enough. He never seems to listen, and when you think he does, its never positive feedback, just more negative and cristism.
It sucks. I know. I have a younger brother. My dad all the time says, "Your a mistake. Thank God we had Crimson (my brother) to sort of make up for us having you"-- I'm in college for Labor and Delivery, work full time, and still clean the house before he gets home from work; and even that isn't enough. I made straight A's on my first semester. Super excited. I told my dad and he said, "Ok? You could have done better!" what the hell? How do you do better than that?
I know you don't care to hear those things about my life, but its to show you, you aren't alone. I know living in a household with that many people, you feel like your alone in a room full of people, and that your a burden in your own house. Talking to you dad isn't a good idea, because I know listening isn't one of his skilled points. It's hard to talk to someone who doesn't listen and who thinks they are right about everything.
But I have something that will help you.
I've talked to my dad once I almost killed myself, (dont try it, its not worth it) that made him open his eyes though, he said he loves me more than anything, he's just tough on me because he doesn't want to fail me as a father. He said that his dad talked to him that way, so thats all he ever know.
You need to figure out what his childhood was like. What was the relationship like with his mother and his father. I'd sit down and ask him. Try figuring that out.
More importantly, you need to stick up for yourself. You cannot allow him to talk to you that way. Man up. If he says things to you that hurts you, let him know right then. Randomly out of the day, have him sit down, and than tell him how you feel. Sometimes they don't see what they are doing, when they do it. It's just a lifestyle for them.
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Okay, so its me again.
First of all, I forgot to tell you but my ex is moving back to our hometown. (we would be much closer) A downside to that is he is back around all the drugs and people who encourage him to do them.
I went and hung out with him and he’s been pretty normal..except for the other night. His eyes were really glazed over and for some reason I was so sick of getting mad and since I wasn’t dating him. I just knew he was high on pills but didn’t bring it up to him until he started talking about needing life changes. Then I suggested if he started doing the right thing and keeping his nose clean then he would have no reason to feel sad all the time.
Then last night he kept asking questions about what I’ve done since we broke up. I tried avoiding THE question but then he came right out and asked me if I had sex with anyone else. I told him yeah and explained reasons why I did it. But he just got extremely mad and was like, yeah well I fucked someone too. I didn’t freak out because there was no reason I should. I did the same thing. Then he was like “you should have told me” and I explained that I didn’t tell him because it would have been selfish reasons. Like I would have told him to make myself feel better about the whole thing (coming clean) but when it comes down to it…we were broken up for 2 months and theres no reason that was any of his business and telling him would have just caused him pain. But I couldn’t lie so I came clean. He then told me that he had lied about the whole fucking someone else and was just angry. He has no idea with who…which makes me nervous that he will try to find out. But after he calmed down a bit, he kept hugging me and telling me he loved me anyways and everyone makes mistakes. Blah blah blah. Also, when he was mad he was like yeah well I’m back on drugs. Unfortunatly I know this one is true. He came clean about using pills again and even said he started smoking crack again. I felt in the moment like I couldn’t get mad or leave. Its like I felt like I was then trapped to forgive him for his mistake. The only difference is, hes continuing to make his mistake. He isn’t any closer to stopping drugs as he was when I first met him. I know he’s not good for me but I crave the clean him and just keep thinking how much I want to be around him when he is clean.
I feel like I’m on a rollarcoaster honestly. He’s either acting like he really wants me or completely ignoring me. Most of it has to do with drugs I’m sure. But I really am kind of unsure what I want to do. I’m always having second thoughts and wondering if I should pursue anything. Like tonight, he mentioned how upset he was gonna be on new years and that he was just gonna be all alone. So in my mind, I was thinking of asking him if he wanted to do something just with me. Maybe get a hotel room on the beach like we did the previous year. But then I think of how much more this whole thing will hurt when I go back to school if I end up sleeping with him. He isn’t clean and theres nothing I can do. :/ I asked him if he should ask for help from his parents. And then I said but you have to want it. He said he doesn’t want it yet. But then later in the convo talks about rehab. He’s so off and on I never know what he means and what he doesn’t.
I wish sometimes that I didn’t have this strong feelings for him. But I really do. When I’m with him I feel amazing, but I am always craving that steady relationship that he can’t give me. I didn’t mention this before, but both of my brothers are recovering pillheads. They are finally done with that time in their lives and have been clean for longer than 4 years. But looking at them now, they are so set in their lives and really amazing guys. I look at them and think maybe this is why I can’t give up on my ex, because I mean if my brothers became this successful, he can too. But then again, crack is a completely different drug.
I know this is just kind of rambling but its how my thoughts are right now. Thank you so much!!!
Just wondering if you think theres anyway I could save this relationship or if I should just pick myself up and leave(even if it will be extremely hard) (link)
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That is good that he is moving back, closer to where you live at. But your going to be in college, so you probably won't see him as often, unless you don't live on campous. I know the drugs are a big problem in being with him; but you have to understand. There is no point in pressuring him into being clean because it will only happen when he's ready. He can claim up and down he's ready with you insisting him to be, but after its said and done, he'll just go back to his old ways. I know that us being females, we see a stray dog on the side of the road, our automatic reaction is to help it, get it better again. This is what your doing. You want to help him be a better, clean person. Drug-Free. I've had a fair share of guys that I thought I could 'fix' and make better. Like I dated a thug, a gang memeber, someone who was addicted to Herion. I was attracted to these guys that most people thought had 'baggage' just because I felt like I could help them. You can't help/change everyone. Its sad I know, but he's the type you cannot change. He will have to want it. Crack, to me, is one of the worst drugs out there. I've seen what it does to some of my family memebers, and its not pretty.
Well, as far as the whole you guys having sex with different people; I guess you guys are even. But I guarentee more than likely, he has had sex w ith more than just one girl. Which would explain the ignored text messages. You need to figure out when was the last time he had sex, how many girls, ect. He probably even has him a 'girlfriend' or a 'friend with benefits'.
Honestly, I think the only way you could save this relationship, is getting him off of drugs, making him put in effort, and actually treating you like he should; regardless if he's around you, or away from you. A man should always treat a woman he 'loves' with respect and cherish every second he has to talk to her.
I say give it a couple of weeks. See how he does with talking to you when he gets back to school. If he ignores you than leave. Walk away. If he starts making a better effort, than take it slow. It'll come with time.
You need to let him know what your looking for from him, and make sure he sees the same thing. Is he wanting to be with you, or does he still need some time apart? If he needs time apart, ask him why, and how long. If it's longer than 2-4 weeks, and he has a GOOD excuse, than wait. If longer than a month, and/or has a lame excuse, don't wait. Take the hint, and move on.
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Hey everybody well I have the best yorkie for three years the longest dog me and my family has had, and well I got a new 9 week old puppy for Christmas yesterday and my dog just won't except him, if my new puppy comes near my dog he'll growl and bark. He woun't even except treats when he pees which is bad because he's obsessed with his treats. It's really upsetting us all and it's making me sad because I want things to be good. So I was wondering will they get along like does my older dog just need time and that's all please help because it's disturbing and sad. We are woried that are older dog will even get sick over him! Any help will be appreciated thanks:D (link)
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You have to give your yorkie time. I have two dogs at home, one is a yorkie and one is a cocker spaniel, and I just got a new yorkie for Thanksgiving, and my dogs at home wanted NOTHING to do with her. THey would bark and growl at her, acted like they hated me for bringing in a new addition to the family. You just have to give it time. It's been almost a month since I've had her, and now they love her. They play with her, snuggle with her, and act like they are brother and sisters.
Just make sure your giving your yorkie love and attention just as much as you are the new puppy. Because dogs get jealous and feel left out just like humans do.
It'll get better in a couple of days/weeks. I promise
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am i too young to give this boy i've met once or twice a handjob im 13 by the way(:? advice is needed.. i have'nt agreed to anything but he has wanked infront of me and 'stuff' before.. i really like him, i've gave a couple handjobs and blowjobs before but they were with bf's.. (link)
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You are WAY to young. Girls your age starting out doing things like this become known as slut, whores, hoes. Ect.
You should never do anything sexual with anyone unless you guys are serious and are in love. And at 13, NOTHING gets serious around that age, and you guys don't even know what love is.
Chill out with that crap.
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okay so, me and this guy jake, have got really close, but my friend likes him a bit? he's wanked infront of me a few times then 2 weeks ago we were sitting in his house alone and he said you wanna pull me? i said yeah? and one thing led to another and i was blowing him, then he asked me if i would shag him and i didnt say no? so we ended up having sex then his mum came back and we heard her coming up the stairs so i ran into the bathroom while he quickly pu his clothes on when his mum walked in she realised something had been going on and dragged him down stair by the hair? since then we have done it ALOT of times.. the thing is o feel awful about it because of my bestfriend, she has relised i wasnt telling her something and like got all upset. she knows im really close with him and that he has wanked infront of me and stuff but i wouldnt tell her anything else.. me and jake were planning to meet up and spent new years together and do it again and get wrecked together but we will be in the house with his parents and big brother and sister. i know its wrong but were in love.. oh im 14 hes 15.. and my bestfriend is 15? advice strongly wanted. (link)
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You need to talk to your bestfriend. If she is a real friend than she will be there for you and understand. It isn't your fault this boy is showing you more attention; but than again. Your 14, and he's 15. He's probably showing you more attention because your having sex with him. Guys that age don't fall in love with girls. They have sex, and than leave. Because to them, its 'cool'. I wouldn't be surprised if this guy finds another girl, and than cuts off all contact from you. Your friend deserves to know that you had sex with him, just so she doesn't go have sex with him either.
God forbid if you get pregnant at 14.
Just be honest. Thats all you can do.
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And again, thanks for your help :)
Well, two weeks ago after the last time we met, I thought the same as you said, about her seeing me as an employee and someone to talk to at work. But then, this Sunday she messaged "Hello there! my name is *her name*...do you remember? If you do contact me thanks", which as you can tell absolutely changed my mind...So I called her the next day, we've talked like we did before, so now I'm feeling more free to just call her for no reason because now I know she does care for us to stay in touch...I DO have other options right now in terms of relationships, and I don't know what is REALLY up with her, but I will keep in touch with her for sure...
What do you think? :) (link)
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I think thats the best idea you have had since I've first talked to you.
That is very very smart of you. Keeping contact with her, but also leaving your options open. That'll way if she does want a relationship with you, you can always be with her; you can just play the field, progress your relationship with her, and do what makes you happy.
Make sure your not the only one keeping contact either, ya know? Make sure its an equal amount of calls made between the two of you.
Don't be the ONLY person trying to make this friendship work. It takes two.
I'd definetly try calling her very soon; maybe on Christmas? Wish her happy Holidays; and maybe ask her if she'd like to go to lunch, so ya'll can really catch up!
Just take it step by step.
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Hey. I am a 19 year old girl. I like this guy (he is 21) but he has a girlfriend. We communicate mostly through text. He is a really good friend of mine. I met him last year. And since I started liking him, I started texting even more, in order to get his attention. To be really honest, I was hopeful. And we chatted through texts. He is open, easy going and honest. I told him that I like him through text. He said he can take me on a date. Now we kept texting. But he has a life of his own, and a busy one. I kept texting and it happened so that when he got drunk, we talked dirty. Then after some time I felt disgusted because it seemed like I am a concubine of some sort. So I started insisting on walking away and that also I told him and went mad on him, seriously overreacting. My mistake. Sigh. The hope still has’t gone away. I text and wait for his reply, sometimes. I really like him, and there are many reasons. But the truth is he doesn’t know me much, and we never got to spend too much time together since we live in different cities. And so he doesn’t like me that way. I am not able to gte over this crush, I have tried hard. I need some help. I don’t want to appear needy before him, which I never do when it’s somebody other than him. I want to attract him but not force him into it. He is in a long distance relationship and it seems to me that he loves her, genuinely. I want to get rid of my texting him and waiting for replies. What should I do? Should I still keep hope? Should I walk away? (whichI don't want to :( )
Looking forward for an advice that helps.
Thank you in advance.
- Spirit
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You need to walk away. I know it sucks, and you don't want to, but from past experience, you need too. Any guy who will flirt, talk to a girl the way he talks to you, and talks dirty to another chick who isn't his girlfriend, isn't worthy of love.
If he did those things to his girlfriend, than he will do those things with you. You need to put yourself in his girlfriends position. If you were dating him, and someo other girl was trying to break you guys up, how would you feel?
You can't help who you like, but sometimes its best to try to control it. You need to just forget about there ever being a chance betwen you two. I don't mean give up all hope. But just leave him alone. If you like him as much as you say you do, than you need to tell him,
"Look, I really really care about you. But you have a girlfriend. I don't want to come between you guys, so whenever you and her breakup, I'll be here waiting for you."
Now there could be a chance that after him and his girlfriend break up, he could come to you. But you don't want to 'that' girl. The rebound, the last resort, the 'other' girl.
You deserve a lot better. You deserve someone who can give you everything he has, and not just 15%. Leave him alone for the sake of yourself. From what you say about yourself, you can find someone else in NO time.
You got to think. He loves his girlfriend. He likes you. Love is so much stronger that liking someone.
On another note: Just because he doesn't have respect for his girlfriend because he is betraying her by talking to you; doesn't mean you shouldn't have respect for yourself, or her. She doesn't know whats going on. And if you have respect for yourself, you'd know that whats going on isn't right. You should've stopped it before it even started.
Good Luck
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Hi everyone!!!I wish you a Merry Christmas and a happy New Year!!!!!thank you for your words of advice and I'm very happy to belong to this website!!!!kisses!!!:) (link)
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Merry Christmas to you as well, and have a very blessed New Years! May all be well with you! (:
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Okay, so a lot has happened and im so unsure what to do so I turned to you!! Im really sorry I always bug you but I appreiate your advice so much!! Thank you thank you!
okay so we ended up going to the beach. And I had to ask him. But he like completely kept making out with me and like saying how much he loved me and that he hasnt stopped thinking of me blah blah blah. And then I saw him that night.. And he was the exact same.
But then tonight after I went to a movie with someone I went and hung at a mutual friends house and he came over with these 3 other guys..he was so stoned and I wasnt really fewling anything. It was actually really freaking awkward...
We are going to the beach tomorrow..but I dont want him to just mess with my head and then leave..cause im not really sure how to take any of this... (link)
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Don't feel a burden for always coming to me. I love helping you. I consider you one of my regulars, and I always look forward to having something from you.
Well you shouldn't have asked him first. You should have let him make the effort of trying to see you first.
But what is already done, is done.
You don't need to allow yourself to give in to the temptations of kissing, touching him ect. I know its really hard not too because since he's been away, its what you have been craving, because it feels so right. But the more you allow yourself to do things like this, the more it's going to hurt if things don't go the way you want them too.
You also have to realize that he may only be saying an doing the things he is because your there. Your convient for him. But as soon as he goes back to school, you probably won't exsist to him. He is leaning towards you, because your there. And because you allow him too. Your setting youself up for a bigger, and more intense heartbreak than you understand.
You need to text him, and have him meet you somewhere.
Sit down and talk to him. NOT TOUCHING, KISSING, SEXUAL THINGS, ect. Just conversation.
You need to figure out what the hell he wants from you longterm, and not just "winter break" wise.
Let him know exactly how you feel. Lay everything down on the line. DOn't forget anything, because you don't want any regrets. Ask him what does he want from you. Does he want a relationship, friends, what?? Does he have someone back at college, and make sure your watching how he's answering this.
He could have someone back at college, and that could be a firm reason for not wanting a relationship with you. He could also use the excuse, "I'm not ready yet, " blah blah blah.
You know him better than I do; so just watch for signs of lying, sneakyness, ect.
Let me know how things go!
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21 Female. Boyfriend is 19
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months now. We are so comfortable with each other when it comes to being sexual. He loves everything about me and I love everything about him. We've done just about everything, the only thing we haven't done is him eating me out because I'm not comfortable with that yet.
Anyways, I occasionally will give him a HJ. Some times it takes longer than other times for him to finish. Sometimes I'm thinking 'OMG will you finish already my hand is hurting!' And I know he is enjoying it by how he acts and what he says. I've only given him a BJ twice. The first time he finished and it wasn't that bad. The last time, which was last weekend, I had to stop because my neck was in so much pain & I was getting tired. I have bad neck problems (I go to the chiropractor twice a week) and I was doing it for about 20 min and I said sorry babe I have to be done I'm in pain. He didn't finish that time. I felt SO bad that I didn't make him finish. I offered to try and finish him with a HJ but he said no that was fine. Well that night when I went home I felt really guilty and so I texted him and said 'I feel like such a bad girlfriend for not letting you finish, but I got so tired and my neck was killing me' and he said baby don't worry about it, you're not a bad girlfriend at all I love you and it was still amazing.
I still feel really bad, what if my neck starts hurting the next time I do it and he doesn't finish again? I don't know if I'm doing it wrong or what. He just seems like he takes forever. Is there anything else I can do? I know he is enjoying it and I know what he likes but I don't know what else to do. I'm a little worried now. (link)
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Something that my boyfriend likes, is when I stop giving head, and give him a hand job.
Switching it up makes it alittle easier for him to finish. He's getting different techniques that allow his experience to build up.
It also helps if you spit on it before giving him a hand job. The wetter it is, the better it feels.
That way you can give your neck a break.
Your not a bad girlfriend at all. He really loves you, so it's not going to affect your relationship with him. YOu have a good guy; most guys would get annoyed, or tell you to keep doing it regardless of how much pain your in.
It also helps them nut when you play with their balls. He may not like it, it's just something you'll have to find out, or ask.
If you go to youtube, or google; there are videos of some asian chick showing you different techniques of blow jobs, where you aren't using your mouth as often but its still feels amamzin.
Try a different postion.
Knees, leaning over, have him stand up on something so you can stand up as well. That may help the tension in your neck.
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So there's this guy, He used to go my school but then he moved. A couple of months ago he commented on my picture on facebook and told me I was cute then messaged me, we started talking and then he asked for my number so I gave it to him. At the time he had a girlfriend. He would text me everyday and say "good morning gorgeous" usually I would think that would be a cute thing to wake up to but I kind of feel like he was playing me since he had a girlfriend. So I would respond and be really short with him. I then saw about a week later his status on facebook was "went from a relationship to single" he would continue to text me and flirt with me, but I didnt flirt back with him because I didn't like him at the time. He would ask me questions about my sex life, and ask me if I had a boyfriend and all this stuff. I told him that I didnt have a boyfriend and to stop asking me questions like that and that I was willing to be his friend and thats all. He said he understood, and we continued to talk as friends. Then I realised he's really nice and cute and I want to get to know him better. but He hasn't texted me in 2 days, and when he doesnt text me it makes me really sad. but when he did text me he would creep me out and I would want him to leave me alone. What is wrong with me? I want to text him, but I feel like if I do i'll come off as annoying. Guys, when a girl texts you first do you find it annoying or do yall think its cute? What should I do?! i'm scared to make the first move? do yall think I should continue talking to him or not go down that road since he started talking to me while he had a girlfriend? (link)
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From past experiences, I would NOT go after him. Guys who do that kind of stuff behind there girlfriends back, will do it to you too.
He isn't worth it. I think you only get sad because you like the fact that someone is there to talk to. Save your time, and your feelings for someone who is faithful to a girl 100% regardless if its kissing, touching, or even talking.
I can promise you, that I bet you weren't the only girl he was texting while he was with his girlfriend. I also bet that he even cheated on her as well, which is why they ended. Girls dont just break up with guys because they flirt/text just one other girl. There was probabyl more involved.
Stay away from him, trust me sweeetie. He's a waste of time.
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Alright so I've looked up many things and I've talked to one of my friends about these dreams and it's kinda awkward to talk about. I know there isn't going to be an actual person who could tell me.. but I want other peoples opinions..
I've been having these dreams about my teacher. My physical science teacher. I can't remember how many I've had but it's about 2 or more..it's not every night but I at least have one about him every other night..I also dream two dreams a night or so.
The first one, was where I was hugging him and he was flustered about it. Than he was massaging my back with my shirt off -__-.
The second.. It's was quite sexual nd I won't go into detail.. DX.. it wasn't that bad though.
The next one was the other night, my boyfriend was in my science class & he was screwing around and He was like "You picked a good one, Emily." Sarcastically, of course. (He's like that) So I figured that meant my boyfriend isn't right for me.. *sigh*
Lastly, last NIGHT.. I was walking with him in the hallway and he was bitching about me being late for his class because I needed my folder..when he told me I needed it. ( That day, I was late because of that reason) Than he popped up in the girls bathroom when I tried to tell my friend bobbie about it.. nd he said "Your not suppose to be in here." Blah blah blah.. than my friends like "SEE! I told you he liked you!"
0_0 so, I'm a freak? I don't understand these dreams. I don't even think about him at night.. I'd rather dream about my boyfriend. I just don't know why he's in there? What connection is there between us.. NONE? I want them to stop, because I feel so embarrassed when I see him at school.
Also.. when I looked this up...it said having sex with a teacher means you need to learn more things about sex? -___- I haven't had sex. lmfao
Srry if it's long :// I'd just like to know.
I don't understand these dreams.. (link)
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Some people will say "These dreams mean nothing at all. It's just dreams." I've had dreams before that have woke my boyfriend up because I was screaming and crying while I was asleep.
I've had dreams that left me with an icky feeling inside for days. But thats just your mind. It's hard to believe that 'They mean nothing at all.'
I personally like to look up my dreams. You dream every single night, some you remember, and some you do not. You need to pick out certain parts of your dream, that you remember perfectly, and look those certain things up.
I use a website called Myjellybean.com
once you go there, you can go to "Decode a dream"
and BOOM, you can look up whatever it is you see/remember from your dream.
As of your boyfriend, THAT DOES NOT mean that he isn't right for you. AT ALL.
I had a multible dreams that I had sex with my boyfriends bestfriend for two weeks straight, and than at the end of having those, after I had sex with his bestfriend, I killed my own boyfriend.
Pretty intense huh?
Just because you dream of having sex with someone, doesn't mean much of anything. It's just a dream.
Now, I know on Jellybean.com, that when you look up sex, it means sexual desires for that person; all these website that decode dreams, aren't the same. They all have different opinions on what each term means.
So browse around ti'll you find one that sounds more like you.
I know when I use to look up my dreams, the meaning of each word would hit dead on with what was going on it my life.
So maybe you'll have that experience.
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What should I do for my guy friend(with benefits) for christmas? We have had a relly close friendship for about 4 weeks. Then he finally made the first move and we kissed. Right now, we are at the hot and heavy stage we are now making out a lot and is about ready to go to the next step. We have tried, but we ran out of time. This Sunday is christmas and I was wondering what I should do for him. I have grinded on him before and gave him a 'hard on'. he has also felt me up before...but not in my 'areas'. So what should I do for him for christmas? Like give him a bj?? Idk!! Please help!! (link)
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You've already asked this question, and you shouldn't give him anything sexual!
You guys are not dating. Which means that once you give him what he wants, he will just dump you like someone dumps trash on the side of the road.
Seems like you guys don't even have much of a relationship. It's just sexual. Thats all your relationship with him will be based off of. He doesn't want to date you, he just wants to mess around with you. Don't kid yourself.
Have some respect for yourself. If a guy really wanted to be with you, than sweetheart, he would have already asked you out. Clearly he doesn't want committement from you, just some pleasure.
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im getting my belly pierced this thursday, and im scared...
please tell me how you felt or anything like that..
HOW MUCH IT HURT
HOW LONG DID THE PAIN LAST, ETC
THANKYOU! :D (link)
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Its nervous to be scared. Something that kind of calmed me was going on YouTube.com and looking up people who had their belly button pierced. Honestly, your reacting over nothing. All it is a little pinch. Although pain is different for everyone. Some people have a higher pain tolerance.
On a scale 1-10 it hurt probably a 1. I didn't even really feel it. If anything I'd have to say my cartlidge in my ear, hurt the worst.
My pain only lasted a couple of days; but of course that also depends on how well you take care of it, or if your alergic to the type of ring they use.
Just a little pointed, DO NOT GET THE HOOP RING! Those are the hardest to take care of. You want to get a regular belly button ring. That way you can actually move it up and down; with the hoop you have to twist it, and that will hurt like hell if your sore.
So please take my advice, and get the regular, and not the hoop. Ipromise you you won't regret it!
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Hi
When guys ask me to do stuff its hard for me to say no. I really enjoy fooling around and it feels really good. I dont want to be a "slut" but I really do enjoy it. How do you enjoy pleasure without being seen as a slut?
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Not doing it with multiple guys. Pick you out a couple of guys and do things with only them.
I wouldn't even recommend that either; but its the only way I can think of that won't make you seem like a big slut;
People are going to percieve you the way they want too;
Personally, I don't see why people would enjoy fooling around with a lot of different guys; I think its kind of nasty, but everyone has different opionions. It's also degrading.
But hey, its your life.
Just be aware of STD's, pregnancy, and your future.
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So I was making out with this guy I really like, I was on top of him and you could clearly tell he had a hard on. So I decided to make this a little more interesting and lay flat on top of him so our bodies were plastered against eachother. We were still making out (yes, we were laying on the ground) I then began to move my hips from side to side like I was grinding on him. He pulled away from the kiss and said "you are such a tease" I couldn't tell if it was a good thing though. He then put his hands down the back of my pants and pushed me harder onto his 'area'. I started making out with him again and grinding even harder. He pulled away again and said "why do you do this to me" in a whining voice. Sience it is a week before christmas he said "can I have my present early" and started sliding his hand up my shirt. I immediatley stopped him cuz I'm insecure about my stomache. So...what do you think?? When he called me a tease, was it a good thing or a bad thing? And wht do u think I should do to him for christmas? (link)
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It doesn't seem like a bad thing. It seemed like he really enjoyed it.
But my advice to you from personal experience, don't do anything more than making out with him. He is a boy you like, not your boyfriend. Sleeping around or messing around will give you a bad name.
Guys like a chase. When you give them no reason to chase you, they become bored and move on to the next chick.
I can promise you that once you give your 'goodies' to this guy, things will never be the same between you too. He will become distant, and you'll end up getting jealous and too emotional for him, because his intentions are different than yours. If he wanted to be with you, he'd already ask you out.
You need to respect yourself, and wait to give your sexual pleasures to a boyfriend who lvoes you, and not just some guy you like.
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I have an LG Vu Plus from AT&T, but for Christmas I want a new phone. The only problem is, I don't have money for a costly phone. So, I need to know if I buy the Android Avail that is prepaid for AT&T at Walmart if I can put my sim card from my phone now in it and it work. I've been told it will, but my only concern is with it being an Android and all if I'd be required to have a data plan (because I don't have one), or if because it was set up as "prepaid" if just the sim card would work.
Thanks in advance! (link)
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I have AT&T as well, and yes you can. I've done this many times. I have the phone from Walmart that was 59.99 and put my sim card in it. It works just fine. You don't have to prepay in order to activate it. I think its a good way to cheat the system.
You shouldn't have any problems. You can try it out, and if it doesn't work, you can always bring it back with the reciept before 30 days
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Hi guys, this question is just one that im wondering about. I made a deal with my mom about me getting a new piercing. I can get my tongue or my belly button. i'm not sure which one to get. Neither of them are to seduce people, i just really like them both. But which one should i get? i just want to see what people have to say about it. thank youu! (link)
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I have/had both.
I got my tongue pierced, and I hated it. It looks okay on some people, but it wasn't worth it. It was swollen for 2 weeks, ice became all I could tolerate. Plus it makes your teeth decay after a period of time. It removes the enamal off your teeth, and thats not good.
My belly button, I've had done since I was 12, I'm 19 now and I've never had any problems out of it. It's cute, doesn't need to be cleaned as much as a tongue ring, and it only hurts for a couple of seconds after they pierce it, and not two weeks!
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