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Omg.me again!!
Okay, so a lot has happened and im so unsure what to do so I turned to you!! Im really sorry I always bug you but I appreiate your advice so much!! Thank you thank you!
okay so we ended up going to the beach. And I had to ask him. But he like completely kept making out with me and like saying how much he loved me and that he hasnt stopped thinking of me blah blah blah. And then I saw him that night.. And he was the exact same.
But then tonight after I went to a movie with someone I went and hung at a mutual friends house and he came over with these 3 other guys..he was so stoned and I wasnt really fewling anything. It was actually really freaking awkward...
We are going to the beach tomorrow..but I dont want him to just mess with my head and then leave..cause im not really sure how to take any of this...
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Well you shouldn't have asked him first. You should have let him make the effort of trying to see you first.
But what is already done, is done.
You don't need to allow yourself to give in to the temptations of kissing, touching him ect. I know its really hard not too because since he's been away, its what you have been craving, because it feels so right. But the more you allow yourself to do things like this, the more it's going to hurt if things don't go the way you want them too.
You also have to realize that he may only be saying an doing the things he is because your there. Your convient for him. But as soon as he goes back to school, you probably won't exsist to him. He is leaning towards you, because your there. And because you allow him too. Your setting youself up for a bigger, and more intense heartbreak than you understand.
You need to text him, and have him meet you somewhere.
Sit down and talk to him. NOT TOUCHING, KISSING, SEXUAL THINGS, ect. Just conversation.
You need to figure out what the hell he wants from you longterm, and not just "winter break" wise.
Let him know exactly how you feel. Lay everything down on the line. DOn't forget anything, because you don't want any regrets. Ask him what does he want from you. Does he want a relationship, friends, what?? Does he have someone back at college, and make sure your watching how he's answering this.
He could have someone back at college, and that could be a firm reason for not wanting a relationship with you. He could also use the excuse, "I'm not ready yet, " blah blah blah.
You know him better than I do; so just watch for signs of lying, sneakyness, ect.
Let me know how things go!
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