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He started talking to me while he had a girlfriend... should I go after him or leave him alone?
So there's this guy, He used to go my school but then he moved. A couple of months ago he commented on my picture on facebook and told me I was cute then messaged me, we started talking and then he asked for my number so I gave it to him. At the time he had a girlfriend. He would text me everyday and say "good morning gorgeous" usually I would think that would be a cute thing to wake up to but I kind of feel like he was playing me since he had a girlfriend. So I would respond and be really short with him. I then saw about a week later his status on facebook was "went from a relationship to single" he would continue to text me and flirt with me, but I didnt flirt back with him because I didn't like him at the time. He would ask me questions about my sex life, and ask me if I had a boyfriend and all this stuff. I told him that I didnt have a boyfriend and to stop asking me questions like that and that I was willing to be his friend and thats all. He said he understood, and we continued to talk as friends. Then I realised he's really nice and cute and I want to get to know him better. but He hasn't texted me in 2 days, and when he doesnt text me it makes me really sad. but when he did text me he would creep me out and I would want him to leave me alone. What is wrong with me? I want to text him, but I feel like if I do i'll come off as annoying. Guys, when a girl texts you first do you find it annoying or do yall think its cute? What should I do?! i'm scared to make the first move? do yall think I should continue talking to him or not go down that road since he started talking to me while he had a girlfriend?
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I wouldn't go for a guy like him. He started talking to you while he had a girlfriend. Who knows, maybe they were having problems or maybe he's the type of guy that plays around with girls.
Either way, if you two started dating, he would probably be doing the same thing.
You liked the attention you got from him but at the same time he would creep you out with all those text messages about sex and stuff right?
So that kinda shows that he's definitely into sex and that's probably what he's gonna want from you if you guys get involved.
Well it's all up to you in the end. I'm sure you can find a better guy but if you want to keep talking, then go ahead. But he doesn't sound like a very good guy.
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This is complicated in many levels...I went through something very similar...but I think if a guy really wants to be with you..he will do whatever it takes. Texting is not good enough, for all you know he was texting more girls unless personalized messages were sent or if he is asking you to go out on a date or to meet you. If he texted you while he had a girlfriend...that is certainly questionable. I think your gut feeling is right, you are unsure. That should be enough to walk away.
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From past experiences, I would NOT go after him. Guys who do that kind of stuff behind there girlfriends back, will do it to you too.
He isn't worth it. I think you only get sad because you like the fact that someone is there to talk to. Save your time, and your feelings for someone who is faithful to a girl 100% regardless if its kissing, touching, or even talking.
I can promise you, that I bet you weren't the only girl he was texting while he was with his girlfriend. I also bet that he even cheated on her as well, which is why they ended. Girls dont just break up with guys because they flirt/text just one other girl. There was probabyl more involved.
Stay away from him, trust me sweeetie. He's a waste of time.
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