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please answer? my bestfriend, the boy & I?
okay so, me and this guy jake, have got really close, but my friend likes him a bit? he's wanked infront of me a few times then 2 weeks ago we were sitting in his house alone and he said you wanna pull me? i said yeah? and one thing led to another and i was blowing him, then he asked me if i would shag him and i didnt say no? so we ended up having sex then his mum came back and we heard her coming up the stairs so i ran into the bathroom while he quickly pu his clothes on when his mum walked in she realised something had been going on and dragged him down stair by the hair? since then we have done it ALOT of times.. the thing is o feel awful about it because of my bestfriend, she has relised i wasnt telling her something and like got all upset. she knows im really close with him and that he has wanked infront of me and stuff but i wouldnt tell her anything else.. me and jake were planning to meet up and spent new years together and do it again and get wrecked together but we will be in the house with his parents and big brother and sister. i know its wrong but were in love.. oh im 14 hes 15.. and my bestfriend is 15? advice strongly wanted.
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You need to talk to your bestfriend. If she is a real friend than she will be there for you and understand. It isn't your fault this boy is showing you more attention; but than again. Your 14, and he's 15. He's probably showing you more attention because your having sex with him. Guys that age don't fall in love with girls. They have sex, and than leave. Because to them, its 'cool'. I wouldn't be surprised if this guy finds another girl, and than cuts off all contact from you. Your friend deserves to know that you had sex with him, just so she doesn't go have sex with him either.
God forbid if you get pregnant at 14.
Just be honest. Thats all you can do.
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Girl rena is right you should tell your friend if shes a true friend she will still be here for you i understand what your going through because im in love with this guy and hes in love with me but my friend ih head over heels for him but we havent got that far but its best to tell your friend because she might understand but if she ends up finding out with out you being honest and telling her you might end up losing her as a friend so just be honest and tell her
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Ever hear the saying "All is fair in love and war"? Even if your best friend fancies him, it already appears you and this boy are already an item. If your friend is really a good friend, she should be happy for you and not hate you for it. At your age, everyone you end up with you "love", but in my opinion its more of an infatuation and lust. I wouldn't feel bad about being with him even if your friend is upset about it, she'll get over it, and perhaps find someone else she ends up fancying. As for being intimate with relatives in the house, if things turned out bad the last time you two got intimate, then I suggest taking extreme caution, as well as using protection! You are far too young to be getting pregnant. I won't say "Don't do it, blah blah" because anything anyone says I doubt will stop you from doing as you please. But you should also ensure that you two are actually together as boyfriend and girlfriend, or else there will be much heartbreak later on should he end up being with someone else. As well as the sad possibility of terrible rumors. Clarity in relationships is very important. But I digress, don't feel bad because you were the one to date a boy that you and your friend both fancied, he apparently liked you much more compared to your friend, so you are not at fault, but neither is he. Be positive you and this boy think the same way about your relationship (ie; You both feel that the other is your bf/gf), and for the love of all that is good in this world, use a condom, think about your future BEFORE you think about a family.
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