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Anyone know any good songs that talk about letting go of someone you love but you know doesnt love you back. It can be really sad if you want. Anything but heavy metal works. I really wont a song like that for personal reasons. Thank you in advance (link)
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did you ever love somebody - jessica simpson
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If a guy says a girl is "Alright" and then says another girl is "Cute". Is one better then the other, or does he basically mean the same thing about both girls? (link)
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i think cute is better but it also depends on the guy whos saying it
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Ok umm noone else hates me because of the rumor. Actually all the guys think it's stupid and say I should flirt more... The girl that started it is now one of my friends. We are all kind of in the "popular crowd" (i know that sounds mean but we are). This is why im around so many guys. Ive talked to her about it and every time I do she starts yelling at me saying all I care about is the boys. She flirts too (one time she even liked this one guy more then her boyfriend after he spent 200$ on a bracelet for her). Do you think I should stop flirting though? I mean one time I tried to not be near the guys but basically that turned out terrible. I have apologized countless times but none of them seem to do any good. Heres how our fighting and everything truely began.
One day Nikki was bossing me around alot. I dont like fighting or argueing so basically I did almost anything she said. Then one day I started to relize it and even one of the guys named Erik even told me that everyone thought that she treated me bad and I should learn to stand up for myself. So I did. After that she started calling me a bitch and practically ditching me. Then one time I was forced to sit with her boyfriend (new seating plan) and she kept hissing that I was gonna flirt with him and she'd say stuff like oooooh Mary and Tristan. Id always say no but she wouldnt leave it alone. So then after class she said it again and I told her to "Leave me alone and shut the hell up" she wouldnt talk to me and got others to as well. Was this all really my fault?? Help (link)
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i personally think none of this is your fault. i think your friend has some of her own issues she needs to work out and shes just takeing the stress out on you. just be yourself whenever your with anyone..if you feel like you wanna flirt with someone dont worry about what nikki or anybody else will say. i still think you shouldnt talk to her for a while and just chill with your other friends and see how that goes. hope i helped!
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My best friend and I have been really close. We used to tell eachother anything and everything. We always stood up for eachother and we always taught eachother new things. Basically we were best best friends. She has a boyfriend which she has been going out with for over a year now. They are really good for eachother. They used to get into fights because she always flirted with other guys (majorly one time she gave 2 guys a shoulder rub for no reason) but he'd always come back and appologize. I always tried to help her with their problems and I hated when she was upset.
But a girl in school made up a rumor about me being a total flirt. I didn't really mind because all the guys were on my side BUT then my best friend (lets call her Nikki) started going along with it. She started agreeing with the girl and tormenting me about it. Months went by and slowly people forgot. Near Christmas time we bought best friend necklaces and I have never taken mine off.
After christmas break however she started the rumor up again. When I confronted Nikki about it she started yelling at me about how I flirt with this one guy (lets call him....James) all the time. I have liked James for months and he is the only guy who has ever really been there for me in almost everything. We fought but made up. The problem is she keeps bringing up the flirting topic all the time.
About 3 weeks ago I started noticing she always seemed mad at me. Her voice was snappy and she barely told me anything. She also made it her duty to try to get James to hate me along with every other guy. I also know she has talked to other girls and gotten many to look down at me. I have asked the guys and they say all I do is talk to them and I barely ever flirt. I have also asked some girls. She alwasy gets angry when im around the guys and especially when im around her boyfriend. Her boyfriend and I are really good friends and he also used to tell me everything about their relationship. He is also one of the only people im close with in half my classes so bottom line I talk to him quite a bit.
Lately she always makes me feel bad and tells me I cant stay away from the guys. The problem there is I have about....5 girl friends and about 20 guy friends. And ALL my girl friends have been staying inside for recess and i love recess so I go out. Also they are on the basketball team and I am not so many times Im forced to be with them. I have tried my best not to do anything that looks like flirting anymore and once publically humialted myself doing so. But everything I do seems to have no effect. She then says I do stuf for attention. Its driving me crazy and lately ive been crying almost everynight because of her.
I dont want to change for her but I feel as if I have to. I would rather have her as a best friend throughout high school then a boyfriend. I care about Nikki soo much. I really dont know what to do anymore. Its really hard for me.
About 4 days ago we sat beside eachother on the bus because we were forced to. The ride was pretty much silent except for two sentences. I turned to her and asked "Do you hate me?" and she replied "A little." those words hurt me so much. Then on the busride home out of nowhere she started yelling at me and telling me how horrible I was. She ended off saying "You have no idea how many people hate you" I have barely talked to her since. Ive been crying constantly. I try so hard to get us back but she keeps pushing me away. I dont understand it! What happened? What did I do? Please help!
If you want more details on certain things tell me cause ill probally ask more questions. (link)
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wow thats a tough situation. the first thing that popped into my mind was "is she jealous of you?" mabye at first she was only saying you flirt alot because she wanted to be like everybody else. and then mabye she relized that you do have alot of guy friends and she is jealous of that. i think the only reason she said she hates you a little bit is because everyone else seems to not like you because of the rumor and she doesnt want to be your only friend. i know it may seem mean but kids these days do anything to "be in the crowd". what i would suggest is just stop talking to her for a while. you said you have plenty of guy friends and some girl friends so its not like your a loner lol. and mabye once you stop hanging out with her she will realize how much she misses you and she may come back to you. dont cry yourself to sleep at night. keep telling yourself that SHE treats YOU bad. its not your fault because you didnt do anything. just hang out with your other friends for a while and see how things go. ask me anything anytime!
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any good
R&B
rap
hip hop
pop
or country songs
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i`ll rate high
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this r&b song by lloyd ft. lil wayne - i want you
and also by tpain and young joc - imma buy you a drink.
shes like the wind - lumidee
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any good sites besides myspace to meet new people? (link)
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facebook.com
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my boyfriend just moved 75 miles away from me.. i've been dating him for 3 years and we're both pretty bummed about him leaving. i want to make him a CD with a bunch of songs saying how much i miss him, and being far away from him. any suggestions? (link)
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come home soon - shedaisy
how do i live with out you - various artists ( celion dion )
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Sorry if this isn't in the right category. I wasn't quite sure which one to put it in.
Okay so here's the deal. I got in a huge fight with my dad (we always fight and he's an alcoholic) right before going to my friend's party. Well, everybody knows what happens at highschoool parties: everybody get's drunk and whatever. Well, I was really upset about the fight I got into with my dad and at the party i decided to drink A LOT(which isn't good because the whole reason why I was drinking was to forget about my alcoholic dad and I don't want to turn out like him) and i usually don't drink too much at parties, maybe get a little tipsy but never over the top piss drunk. Well, this time I did. I passed out on the couch not too far into the night and woke up the next morning naked on the floor with my clothes scattered around the house. I don't remember what happened, what I did, what I didn't do, and I'm SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO scared that something could have happened. This is a huge problem because there are so many things that could happen. I could've had sex with somebody and gotten pregnant or have an STD or something. I don't know.... And if something happened things with my boyfriend are shot to hell which REALLY isn't good because he's the only person i can talk to about anything and I love him and I don't want to lose him... I wish I could take back that night. I don't know what to do. This stress is killing me. HELP.
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ok first off go get a test. theres a good chance something happened if thats how you woke up. if something did happen tell your boyfriend you were drinking because you were upset with your dad and you dont know what happened next. remember its not your fault. try your hardest to get tested. hope i helped
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i have a little situation...my best friend who i've know all my life, shes always been there i really can't remember my life without her in it. and recently we've been working out and trying to get in shape for s.b 07..and anyways i hateee that i'm saying this and thinking this, but like er i sometimes don't wanna go places with her because shes not really like pretty and i hate that i just said that. and i wanna give her a makeover because she could be soo pretty if she only wore cuter clothes for her body did some stuff with her hair, and other stuff. but i don't know what to do. i don't wanna tell her that or anything but i don't know what to do. and i just feel horrible for ever thinking. so ah i don't know what to do! (link)
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dont feel bad. its ok. just go up to her and be like omg you know what would be cute for you?! and pick out some clothes or do her hair a certain way and be like you look great you should do that more often! hope i helped
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okay this boy trevor , who i thought was my friend used to tell me how pretty i was and stuff and how i was fun to talk to and idk but we were just friends. like nothing more that that .. and well we were talking sunday night about this kid matthew and i was like yeah matthews hot but he wouldnt remember me anyways cause i met him for like five seconds and hes like yeah matthew said that you didnt look bad in your pics but your ugly in person? ... but i dont think matthew even remembers me or knows my name but whatever .. i told him to ask him where he saw me on monday and he said he would .. but he hasnt talked to me since and i kept asking him if he was mad at me but he wouldnt say anything or he'd delete my comment ... so today i texted him on my friends phone and was like are you mad at melissa and hes like no i just dont have my phone whenever she texts me and stuff ... well a little bit ago his friend from my school IMs me and goes do you like trevor and i was like as a friend why and hes like cause he told me to tell you that the next time i see you at school i have to say he thinks your ugly and he never wants you to text him again ... and i just don't know what to do anymore .. i feel like im the ugliest person alive and no one likes me ... i just idk what to do , someone helpp me please [:
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oo tough situation. i think mabye trevor likes you and he was jealous when he found out you thought mattew was hot so he made up that as an excuss.mabye one day just confront him be like i thought you were my friend why would you say those mean things.hope i helped.
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I don't have a boyfriend. I think it's because I have a hard time being myself and staying relaxed around guys.
What should I do to be myself and keep confident?
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just relax when your around a guy you like. act like you only like them as a friend but kinda give him hints that you do like him. whenever you around a guy you like keep telling yourself that you look hot and give your self all these compliments. youll feel more confident. hope i helped
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so there`s this guy, lets call him jake. anyways. jake is a real sweetie. he`s a real gentleman, straight edge, unlike his friends, and just, basically, a nice guy all around. and pretty shy when it comes to girls. i think so, anyways. so i started hanging out with him months ago. at first, we just didn`t talk much, but whenever i ditched, i went to him. and i may have known some of the other guys i hang out with longer, but i only have his number. and this one other guy, but that`s a different story. anyways. for a while, i guess i sort of led him on, but not really. i just told him he would be mad at me. so he thought i was going to do something to him, but i wasn`t. and i guess he just took some stuff the wrong way? so for that while we would hug and stuff. [i hang out with like, all guys, so i don`t hug them really, they`re like my brothers so we just do that handshake thing.] so anyways, then he found out why i would make him mad, i was gonna smoke for the first time. [please don`t try to tell me to quit, i`m not hooked.] so anyways. that night was the night we got out for winter break and we slept over at a friends house. the next day, he didn`t really talk to me or anything. then i invited him to the movies with me and me friend, but he couldn`t make it. then that night, when i got home, after the movie, on his aim profile he put "she likes me!" and then we stopped talking for a while, especially because of break. when got back into school, we talked a bit, but not as much as for that little while before break. today, i told him that this one guy was taking me to speedzone. and he was like. "wtf.. wtf!" because like, the guy that was taking me is like a crazy motherfucker that no one really expected me to be hanging out with. then when we went to get gas, we were talking, and he was like "so what, you guys are going out or something?" like in a fake joking kind of way, like he really cared, but he didn`t want me to know he cared. i said no and then he kinda dropped the subject. then we talked about food. [because we`re fatasses, it`s our little thing we do.] and then we went back to school and it was kinda quiet for a while. and then he was like "so.. you`re going with ghost.." [that`s my friend`s a.k.a.] and i was like yea. and he was all "oh..." and i was just like yea, you should come. but he said he was going to the gym. and he was kinda like "when did you start talking to ghost?" and i told him i`ve been talking to him for a few weeks now. what else.. well, he always jokes around with me like to flirt with me. like one time he was drinking water, and when he finished it, he lightly threw it at me, and i gave him this look n he was automatically like "just kidding just kidding just kidding!" and like he was making sure i wasn`t mad and stuff. but we really don`t talk that much anymore.. so yea, i don`t really know.. (link)
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wow this can be a really confusing situation. mabye he stopped talking to you because since hes straight edge he didnt like you smokeing,that could be a reason.hmm another may be that he does like you and since he is shy he doesnt want to make the first move or anything. mabye he thinks he doesnt have a chance with you anymore because your hanging out with ghost. why dont you go up to him one day and be like i miss hangin with you. see what he says. hope i helped
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i can never keep a good conversation going, unless someone else starts something i can go on about. its really weird. its because i think so much, i think. whenever im out with friends, i dont talk very much unless someone talks to me first, and i usually suck at keeping a conversation going, and i feel like all my friendships are failing. i feel so self-councious all the time. i hate it. im always worrying that im boring someone or something like that. what should i do? (link)
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well first of, friends are friends because they have things in common and they like each others company. your friends wouldnt even be your friends if they thought you were boring. just relax when your around them.say " hey did you see that one movie" and if they say yes ask them how they liked it. or if they said no suggest you all go see it together one night. hope i helped!
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Ok, i have this friend thats a girl, lets call her jan. and my friend that is her boyfriend's name can be bob.
Okay, Jan and bob have been together around 3 months, and suposibly they are in "love." Well theres just one thing. Bob is verbally abusing jan. Every time jan tries to talk to her friends or hang with them bob gets mad. every time jan talks to other guys, bob gets mad. Bob is trying to get all of jans friends turned against her so that he can have her all to himself.
example:
one night bob and jan were at a school dance. jan started talking to her friends, and not just to bob. Bob gets really mad, goes and gets his stuff and says im leaving. Jan tries to stop him, and says well im not going with you, im not letting you ruin my night. but finally bob stays. well for part of the rest of the night jan was all over bob, he was just fine. then jan started talking to her friends again, bob gets mad. and this is what always happens.
ok so clearly, bob is verbally, and emotionally abusing jan. Jan doesnt realize this because she loves bob of course. Ok, i am jans best friend and i dont want her relationship to go on and on like this. i want to get her to realize it. Bob is going to get all of her friends turned on her and leave her with nothing. If i talk to Jan, she is going to get mad and blow me off, just the way bob wants it to be. if it goes on the relationship could turn physical. and i dont want this to happen.
since im her best friend i feel like i should do something about it. I know its not really any of my business but i cant stand whats happening to her.
HELP! what should i do?
(sorry so long) (link)
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you said if you talk to her about it she will get mad and thats what bob wants. mabye you do need to talk to her about it. just ask casually " whyd he get mad the other day when we hung out?" if she gets mad shell be with bob more often and mabye shell relize she doesnt like being with him? hope i helped! PS if things get to extreems with bob and jan take it into your own hands. tell a school consoluer that your friend is being abused. hope i helped out.
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Hi! OK. Its really simple, my boyfriend and I can text all day on the phone, but when we actually get on the phone, its hard to keep the conversation going. PLEASE HELP!! Give me some topics or something. I've never been at a lost for words but with him, I can never get my words right, PLEASE HELP (link)
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just talk to him on the phone about the stuff that you guys talk about through texting. if you run out of things to say just make up something " what are plans for tomorrow " just anything. hope i helped
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I am 16 years old and a female. I don't know how to cook, I stopped after I burnt some eggs one morning. I haven't had the courage to go back in the kitchen. So when I do go back, I kind of forgot what I am suppose to do( I know sounds silly). Please help me with what I need to do to become a good cook. (link)
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you just need to relax. have all the ingridents out and just follow instructions. forget about the agg incident. we all screw up once in our life.im sure youll be fine. hope i helped
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I can't stand it when my mom talks to me. I think she is doing it purposely and I feel hurt and there are other bad feelings I feel. I cannot just tell her about it because she will just get mad. I can't stand it. It's been happening since I was 17. It's hard to describe but it's like she doesn't mind her own business. Like she wants to make me cry all the time. What am I going to do not come out when she is around but what if I need to. I don't get why she does this to me. help it' really hard for me. (link)
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Im sure she doesnt make you want to cry purposly. Mabye shes just talking to you more because shes afriad you might move out on your own and shes just talking to you more now because she might feel she wont be talking to you in the future.And when you say shes in my business mabye she just wants to know whats going on in your life. think of all the possiblities! hope i helped
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Hi, I'm a 14 year old girl in Junior High. Today, I was called down to the office and accused of doing drugs. (Which I DON'T.) The guidance counselor and vice principal then practically strip searched me, made me empty my bag, take off my shoes, and then they called down a nurse to give me an eye test, take my blood pressure and listen to my heart to determine if I was high. Their reason behind all of this? Apparently earlier, a girl whos name they "could not tell me" told the office that "I was seen in the bathroom with a tube of white powder." I had been in the bathroom, but I had absolutely NO tube shaped items or any item, not even any makeup with me, that looked like powder.
My mom and I are thinking of suing the school district. Do you think that this is a violation of my rights? I do not think they should of searched me just because some random girl TOLD them that. Obviously she was lying. Do you think this is enough to bring forth a lawsuit against the school? (link)
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i dont think it may be that necessary but i think whoever said that should deffinitly be suspended or expelled
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i have my sophmore dance on the 23rd and i still have to get my dress. i am 15 and i am pretty much light skin tone with brown hair and blue eyes. i weighh about 125 pds. and was wondering what color dress would go good for me? any suggestions (link)
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i think mabye a blur..how about turquois? hope i helped
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I am 20/male in college. In one of my classes there is a girl that I like that sits across the room. Every once and awhile we will make eye contact for a few seconds but neither of us really smile. So how can I tell if she's interested or not? And how can I approach her if we sit on opposite sides of the room? I think we are both really shy and might just be in some sort of standoff or something. (link)
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try talking to her before or after class. make an excuss just to make a conversation going " hey what was the homework for last night" and just keep it going from there and mabye say we should hang out sometime with our friends so it wont be so akward with just the 2 of you
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