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Ok umm noone else hates me because of the rumor. Actually all the guys think it's stupid and say I should flirt more... The girl that started it is now one of my friends. We are all kind of in the "popular crowd" (i know that sounds mean but we are). This is why im around so many guys. Ive talked to her about it and every time I do she starts yelling at me saying all I care about is the boys. She flirts too (one time she even liked this one guy more then her boyfriend after he spent 200$ on a bracelet for her). Do you think I should stop flirting though? I mean one time I tried to not be near the guys but basically that turned out terrible. I have apologized countless times but none of them seem to do any good. Heres how our fighting and everything truely began.
One day Nikki was bossing me around alot. I dont like fighting or argueing so basically I did almost anything she said. Then one day I started to relize it and even one of the guys named Erik even told me that everyone thought that she treated me bad and I should learn to stand up for myself. So I did. After that she started calling me a bitch and practically ditching me. Then one time I was forced to sit with her boyfriend (new seating plan) and she kept hissing that I was gonna flirt with him and she'd say stuff like oooooh Mary and Tristan. Id always say no but she wouldnt leave it alone. So then after class she said it again and I told her to "Leave me alone and shut the hell up" she wouldnt talk to me and got others to as well. Was this all really my fault?? Help
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i personally think none of this is your fault. i think your friend has some of her own issues she needs to work out and shes just takeing the stress out on you. just be yourself whenever your with anyone..if you feel like you wanna flirt with someone dont worry about what nikki or anybody else will say. i still think you shouldnt talk to her for a while and just chill with your other friends and see how that goes. hope i helped!
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