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i am an average teenage girl...i guess.
i have brown hair, not too long, but not too short either. i have multi-colored eyes (brown, green, blue, yellow & black), and i about 5'4ft and that's about it physically.
i play soccer, i play the flute and am learning the french horn, i love to read, hang out, go crazy, write, be myself.
i love to listen to music. almost any kind of music sits with me...but some types, i just can't stand. rock n' roll or heavy metal is basically my favorite.
i am still in school, and i am crazy for taking the classes that i take...
and well, that's about it.
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E-mail: thepresident89@yahoo.com
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Location: montana
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Age: 17
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i lost a big part of my life...the person i loved more than life itself...he told me i was annoying and a bad girlfriend...it tore me up...i want him back and now hes talkin to my friend...i just want to die...how do i get over him? someone help me please before i do somethin stupid (link)
i was in the exact situation about two months ago.
i was told that i was a burden...but...that's me. this question is about you.
at first you will want him back. he will be all that you think about, talk about. everything that you see will remind you of him. it is hard the first couple of weeks, but then you realize that even though you loved him, and he was a big part of your life...life without him may be better. you'll still be mad at him when you see him, you still may secretly want him back for a long time, but over time...that desire will fade.
and myabe if you're lucky, and the guy that you were dating is somewhat decent, he will come back and say he was sorry for what he said and he'll want to be friends.
i know what i am saying seems like a lot of bullshit right now, but after a while...you'll understand exactly what i am saying.
i hope that you get over him, he had no right to say that to you, and remember that despite what he did to you there are other fish in the sea.


What is the best age for a girl and a guy to get married?

And what should be a good age difference? (link)
i honestly don't think that there is a 'best age to get married.' i think its when you are ready and you think that you found the right one.
personally, i think the age should be in the 20's. early or late...doesn't matter.
as for the age difference...any is good as long as you are happy.
personally i think that 10 years is the maximum...any more and that would be weird...at least for me.
whatever makes you happy is when you should get married, and as long as you are comfortable with the age difference with you and your future spouse, then the diference doesn't matter.


I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and 3 months and I'm 19. Lately it seems like whatever he does I am always frustrated at. I feel like I am never happy anymore and I just dont understand why. I know I want to be with him but I don't know if I should be anymore. Maybe I am getting tired of him? Has this ever happened to anyone else before? Please help me (link)
yes, it has happened to me.
and the longer i stayed with my boyfriend that made me frustrated...the more fights we got in.
for us, it was better to brake up.
for you...that might be different. but if he is driving you crazy and making you frustrated, maybe you should think about a break up.
just think about it some more, and take in all the possibilities.


hey therr. ok heres my problem . in july im going to universal studios for 5 days and i invited my friend to go with me. i bought her a ticket n evrything and her ticket was like$120 . well i just called her and she tells me she cant go anymore because her little sister found out and got mad because she wanted her to go to keywest with her. so she completly bailed on me and its most likely i'll never see her again either because shes trying to move back in with her mom and shes not going to the same school i was at anymore. can anyone give me advice on what I should do now. Ive tried inviting other friends but my mom hates most of my friends andthe ones she does like are busy doing something else or im not that good of friends with them to take with me for 5 days. i need help...fast.
thanx
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can you take like a cousin that you like?
i know that might be weird but some one is better than wasting the ticket.
or a boyfriend? if you are allowed to.


This guy is really cool. But, it's so confusing to tell if he likes me. First, he has a cute nickname for me, and he touches my shoulders a lot when we're walking. Also, he gives me complements and looks right into my eyes when we talk. I also catch him starring at me during class sometimes like at my legs or at my face. Does it sound like he really does like me?

thanks! ill rate 5's!! (link)
yeah...the dude can't stop thinking about you.


wut is a 3 sum? (link)
where you have either two guys and a girl, two girls and a guy, three guys or three girls getting it on. or having oral.


ok i have a kitten and i sound really stupid when i say this but i don't know if it is a boy or girl.Some people say its a girl some say its a boy and i need to find a name for it. I tried to look at the thing but i can't tell it looks like it could be both atm.I thought maybe i could tell from the tits it has 8 tits! Does anyone know if a male cat has the same number of tits please could someone help.Thank Youxx (link)
its a female.


So I have the worst stomache in the history of man. Now, thinking back to elementary school, the Nurse always recommended a saltine cracker or two. QUESTION IS: WHY was that? Was is something SPECIFIC about the CRACKER? And is there any other food the average household stocks that can beat this intense pain? I will be soo thankful of helpful answers - this pain is sooo bad it could ultimately take my life. =/ gr. (link)
saltine crackers are really good because the crackers soak up any stomach acid that is bothering you.
almost any salty cracker will work for stomach pain and discomfort.
hope you get better and that i helped.


okay well i got my period on friday, and i'm going swimming like saturday or sunday probably. my period lasted a week last time i got it and that was the first time. so should i be worried? because i know if i use a tampon there probably wouldn't be enough blood or whatever.. and can't that cause tss? i'm just scared if it will happen in the pool or something

thanks, i rate high for good answers that will work (link)
i don't think you should be worried.
you are going to have your period when you go swimming and you can't change that.
just use a tampon and make sure to change it every four to six hours.
tss is will only occur if you wear the tampon for over ten hours.
just have fun, forget that you have your period, and don't forget to change the tampon.
hope i helped.


Whats a good first day of skool outfight exspesicaly if your going to a new skool next year!? (link)
something that is comfortable.
you don't want to be in stiff clothes that are itchy.
something cute like capris, shorts, jeans or a skirt and a top.
personally i would recomment wearing either shorts, capris or jeans with a cute top...skirt would be annoying.
also in determining what you want to wear is the weather.


hi..okay well one of my bestfriends (mary) is saying that i am replacing her and that i dont hangout with her anymore wich isnt true becuz i do..and like i became really good friends with this other girl (beth) and mary is like saying that i replaced her with beth and that i hangout with her all the time and stuff and i dont like hangout with her and i mean i hangout with beth alot but its becuz she always asks me to hangout and mar never does...and shes saying that every1 is saying that and like wat should i do?
thanks,
julie (link)
i think that you should talk to mary and ask her what she means.
just because you have other friends does not mean that you are replacing her.
maybe it is because that beth is the frist to call or make the effort to hang out. if mary never tries to get ahold of you to hang, then it is not your fault, and you need to tell her that. if you already have plans, maybe you should suggest doing something the next day, so then mary can't say that you never hang out with her.
hope i helped.


my grandmother is making me go to therapy again. i don't wanna go, and i don't see the point of wasting the money for me to talk to someone just so they can't say anything about it to her. my grandmothers reasoning is that she feels that my friends may talk to their parents about what i say and she wants me to be able to talk to someone that won't be able to say anything about it to her. now im not normally rebelious and something that i just got back is at stake if i tick her off, so should i just go though it to please her or say something??? ill rate high for good advice!! (link)
i think that you should talk to your grandmother.
i know that may seem hard, but it might be the right thing for both of you.
tell her that you do not feel comfortable with talking to a stranger about things that you could talk to her about if she would just listen.
maybe why she is doing this is because she is not ready to listen to what is going in your life, which in my opinoin is lame, but maybe if you talk to her a little about little things, she might warm up to the idea of letting you talk to her and visa versa.
i hope that everything works out.
hope i helped.


I'm Eurasian (half Spanish/Portuguese half Chinese) and i LOOOOVE black eyeliner!!! I'm not sure whether I should line both lids or just the top. I like lining because I think it looks better than just the top but my mom thinks I look unfriendly, evil, sallow, like a raccoon (even though I smudge it with a Q-tip and I put it on lightly!) and like I come from a bad family. I'm 14, I have almond-shaped eyes (but I like have the folds over my eyelids), and brown hair. Help!!!! Sorry if this sounds self-centered, but all my friends are away, and I have nobody else to ask!!! sorry that it was so long! :) (link)
i think that liner looks good on both top and bottom. my mom says the same thing, but as long as you think you look good, then that is all that matters. your mom will get used to it. i also think that if you just line the top lightly then line the bottom a little darker it looks really good.
hope i helped.


I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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well...the guy usually stares at you A TON! he is always trying to get near you and try talking to you. and if you are ticklious and he knows it, the he will start trying to tickle you (i hated when the guys did that). sometimes he randomly comes over to you when you are not expecting it and just says hi. those are some signs that a guy is interested in you. as for his friend...ask him if the dude likes you. and if you are not comfortable with that, ask one of your friends to do it.
i hope i helped.


On Xanga, how do I swtich my Modules [the boxes with my 'Interests', 'Expertise', 'Subscriptions' and so on] to the right side of my daily entries?? Is it on the MAIN page of the 'Look & Feel'?? I have a layout; do I find it in there instead? And if so, how do I change it? Any USEFUL help is great.

I guess I'll bride like the rest of the herd...
"I RATE HIGH" hah.

Thank you! (link)
i think it is in the look & feel part of the xanga.
you go down to where it says 'Left Module' and under it it says Border, Title, Interior. at the bottom of the title and interior it says alignment, then you click on that, and it will give you options.
i hope that is what you are talking about. if not, i am terribly sorry. i will have to ask my brother...he's had xanga longer than i have.


Does anybody know any good work outs to help tone you thighs to make them look nice and not flabby? (link)
do pilates or yoga.


How much eyeliner is too much? How can you tell? (I know this sounds really retarded, but I don't know!!!) (link)
too much eyeliner is when it is like a bag under your eye. then you start looking like a raccoon...not good.
just a think line under your eye or on the flat spot over your eyelashes is enough.
make sure its noticable enough to accentuate that you actually have some on, but not enough that it looks like you haven't slept in a while (bags).


ok, where can i get the codes for the music i want to put on my xanga? ill rate a 5 for everyone who answers unless they give me no useful information! (link)
go to www.xanga.com/xangamusic
that is where all my friends get theirs or they get to know how to get music from there.


what are some good qualities you need to have in a friendship? for example ..loyalty. i need at least 3 of them. thanks i rate high for good answers

:D (link)
honesty, trustworthiness, loyalty, humor, seriousness when needed, tolerability, openness of mind to change, being a shoulder to cry on or a scream for joy.
each relationship is different, but those are some of the things to have...


umm i like this dude nd hes not like hott but reli sweet nd every1 hates him but im goin out with him neway....should i stay with him nd be laughed at, or just break up? (link)
if you like the guy, then keep going out with him.
looks are a perk.
why does everyone think that your bf has to be hott in order for you to be happy? that is totally not true.
personality is much better than looks, and plus if he cares for you as you care for him, then what is better than that?
who cares what other people think. if you are happy and so is he, then nothing else matters.




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