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my grandmother is making me go to therapy again. i don't wanna go, and i don't see the point of wasting the money for me to talk to someone just so they can't say anything about it to her. my grandmothers reasoning is that she feels that my friends may talk to their parents about what i say and she wants me to be able to talk to someone that won't be able to say anything about it to her. now im not normally rebelious and something that i just got back is at stake if i tick her off, so should i just go though it to please her or say something??? ill rate high for good advice!!
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I think its good that you can have someone to talk to about things. Why is it grandma doesnt want to know what is going on with you herself? A little strange. But, since you have things at stake I'd go along with the therapy. Therapists can be good for you. Just tell them everything and anything that's bothering you. Even this. :)
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i think that you should talk to your grandmother.
i know that may seem hard, but it might be the right thing for both of you.
tell her that you do not feel comfortable with talking to a stranger about things that you could talk to her about if she would just listen.
maybe why she is doing this is because she is not ready to listen to what is going in your life, which in my opinoin is lame, but maybe if you talk to her a little about little things, she might warm up to the idea of letting you talk to her and visa versa.
i hope that everything works out.
hope i helped.
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man i know how you feel and i just said im tired of this so i think you should just tell you grand mom that you dont want to waste you time and if that dont work dich or try to get kicked out or some thing like that i hope i helped. >robert<
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Just go to the therapy, it's not your money she is wasting, just a bit of your time.
Why don't you want to go anyways? It might feel a bit wierd but your grandmother has a point of having someone to talk to who can't tell anyone else what you are saying. It's a nice way to get stuff off your chest.
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If you don't wanna piss her off, I would just go to therapy.. that way you get to talk to someone, and you still get to keep whatever you just got back. Point out to her though that you're fine and it may be a waste of money. But don't push it, if she still wants you to go, do it.. Good Luck!
Hope I Helped!
~Lana
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