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love/hate friendship???
Ok i have this friend...Kerry. We were unseprable in the beginging of the year,always got each others back. But now...we tottaallyy split apart. She got mean to me..so i went into another group..and told them my experience with her. I hate her..and i never want kerry to be friends with my other friends..because i dont want her in my life and i dont want them to get hurt like me. I like my other group..they really do got my back there nice and i think i'll stay with them forever. I like kerry..kinda..but not when shes around them. and i hate her for what she dose to me and she is a poser. She poses my friends and copys them all the time. I hate her for this..but i feel bad for her i dont no why.
I feel sad around her to...and i bdo not no why.
Should i let her go? Im just so mixed up and i do not no what to do
sorry this is long i will rate to 5's
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People usually copy others when they really look up to them...or have no imagination of their own. That doesn't make them bad just annoying. I think you are feeling bad because deep down you probably really like Kerry. It saddens you that you are no longer friends. Why don't you try being friends again and maybe help her develop her own style? But, if you don't want to then that's okay too. Feeling the way you do is normal though. :)
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well if you like her then wouldnt it be good if she was part of your new group. you wouldnt be one on one with her so i would think it to be a good compromise. but if you physically get upset when shes around then you definitely dont want that kind of a friend. friends should make you feel happy and excited when your around them.
since you were friends with her at the beginning of the year, then you know there must be some kind of bond there. if you think there is no bond there anymore, then let the friendship go and try to avoid her.
kerry sounds like shes kinda lonely. if she poses other people then she probably doesnt have a real opinion of herself. she may really need a friend.
think about your true feelings toward her.
sorry i couldnt help more- :)
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