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*HEY YALL...JESSICA HERE!WELL IM REALLY AN UPFRONT PERSON SO WHEN U ASK 4 ADVICE bEwArE!!
*AGE*---16~*~
*SEX*---YES PLEASE!--LOL JUS MESSIN IMMA GRL~*~
*HOMETOWN*---L-TOWN~*~HOLLA AT CHA GRL~*~
*SCHOOL*---LHS GO REDSKINS!!:)~*~
*GRADE*---10TH~*~
*FAV SPORTS*---BASKETBALL/CHEERLEADING/FOOTBALL~*
*HAIR*---BROWN/BLONDE~*~
*EYES---BLUE~*~
*HIEGHT---I'M 5'7~*~
*STATUS*---ME N SHAWN BROKE UP...I'M TALKIN TO THIS GUY NAMED LAMAR......I REALLY LIKE HIM 2... HE IS LIKE THE SWEETEST GUY EVER.... HE TREATS ME BETTER THAN SHAWN....AND IM NOT EVEN DATIN LAMAR....~*~
*FAV QUOTE*---I SMOKE WEED 2 4-GET MY DRINKING PROBLEM---LOL!~*~
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WEL YALL I'M HERE 4 N E BODY WHO NEEDS ADVICE OR JUST TALK!!! I REALLY BEEN THRU SUM SHIT IN MY LIFE!!! MY MOM IS IN JAIL N SHE IS A MAJOR CRAK HED N SO IS MY DAD...I BEEN IN JAIL/JUVI MYSELF LIKE 4 TIMES.... BEEN IN several FIGHTS N GOT JUMPED PLENTY OH TIMES N HAD MY FAIR SHARE OH ASS WOOPPINS!!! TRUST ME, WHERE I COME FROM, NIGAS N BITCHES dont PLAY!!!
YALL NEED 2 GET A GRIP... THIS SPELLING THING THAT SEEMS TO BOTHER YALL SO MUCH IS JUS ME I DO IT SO IT DOESNT TAKE AS LONG 2 WRITE THINGS.....

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hey guys i have a zit growing in like the crease of my nose and want it to go away:( does anybody have ne advice to get rid of unwanted zits!

approcott scrubb wrks good 4 me

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What is the average weight for a 17yr old?My sister is 17 goin on 18 soon, and is 5'3" and ways 86lbs. She is rele skinny and it almost gets me wonderin............

i think ur sister is way toooooo skinny 2 b 17 & 5'3.......

jessica

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Hey, I am 13 and i am 5"4 and I weigh 105 pounds...am i too fat for my age and height? All of my friends are always saying I am 2 skinney but i think that i am fat and my doctor says i am skinny for my height but i still think i am fat! what do u think?

u got nothin 2 wry bout trust me

jessica

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im 16, 5'3 and i weight 110 pounds? am i really skinny???????????? answer asap plz

u seem average

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Ok, here's my situation, I really care for this guy who is turning 18 in July and im 15. Me and him both really care So0o much for each other and know this only my parents don't liek the fact that hes turning 18 soon and that hes black...we don't want to stop doing what we're doing with the worry of my parents putting a Restaining order on him or have him sent to jail. What do I do? Is it legall to date him with out parental consultance at 16?

yea its totally illegal.my boyfriend and i broke up cuz he was turning 18 n my parents had a major problem wit it.ur parents cant get a restraining order if he does nothing 2 u.but if u all have sex after he is 18 then they can get him n ALOT of trouble...hope i helped

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I am a 13 year old boy, and a friend of mine is really beginning to annoy me. She (Yes, I have a friend who is a girl. No problems there.) keeps on mooning over other guys in front of me, telling me how much she thinks that they're hot, or how good looking they are, or how totally awesome their hair is, etc. CONSTANTLY. I don't think that there has ever been a moment where she's not talking about some other guy.

Sometimes, I suddenly get this weird jealousy feeling, but I don't feel jealous, I just want her to stop talking about other guys, and have us just be friends again.

Now someone out there, help me. I don't know what exactly I should do about this situation.

may-b she is doing it to see what ur reaction will be so she can see if u like her.

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My friend Marina cuts,smokes, and is threatning to kill herself. I've told her plaenty of times suicide is not the way, but she is not listening. Should I ignore her protests and contact someone? But who?

Please reply, thanks :)

no u totally dont need 2 ignore her. u need 2 contact someone in her family that u & her both trust.i have 2 of my very close friends comit suicide and several to say they were gonna do it.and the 2 that did it i would have never expected it.so in other wrds ppl who talk bout it usually dont follow thru.the silent ones r who u need 2 watch out 4.

jessica

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Ok, there's this guy who I met through my friend. She had a sweet 16th B-day party, and this guy was invited. I think he is her cousin's best friend. Anyway, I haven't seen him since the party, but lately, we started IMing on the computer. I got the screename from my friend. And he sent me all these emails telling me that he likes me. I like him back and we both wanna be in a relationship. The only problem is, my friend likes him to. He's told her that he only likes her as a friend and she knows this. I told her about everything and she says she doesn't mind and she thinks it's cute that we like each other and everything. I just don't know if it's right. Should I go out with him? I'm sooooooooooo confused. Lol. Thanx a bunch.
Btw, I'm a 15 y/o female.

u probly shouldn't date him unless u wanna hurt or even loose ur best friend....i wouldn't do it EVER but it's ur call.guys are here and there but friends are always there 4 u.

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okay my bf like to go out with his friends alot and like is hardly with me ...cuz my parents dont like him..and he knos..but when he goes out hes allways with his friends, and i kno there are girls tyhere..and he tells me that he mets girls but didnt hook up with any of them..and im like yea right u kno?...so what should i do or tell him? should i brake up with him or waht do i do????!

well it depends.if u totally trust him then u should beleive him though even if u do trust him GUYS LIE....reguardless if u trust them or not.but sometimes u will find a guy who will treat u right and not hit -on other grls..so u probly do need 2 tell him how u feel and then go from there

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well i like this guy, we go to church together but that thing is that i told him that i liked him but he doesn't liked me, but even know i know he doesn't like me i can't get over him i have try so badly but i can't and we still friends, but i really love him and i need a advice of how can i get over him

been there dont that. (a lot)lol...i liked this boy john @ my school during my 8th grade year but he dated 3 of my best friends and so i never went 4 it.he new i really liked him and would of went out w/ him but he never made his move so eventually i found diffrent guys that were way hotter that that jerk:)))please rate


jessica

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i just got a pet..its a goldfish..what should i name him?

NAME IT BIG ORANGE.....

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One of my best guy friends, Rob, is being really stupid and immature for lame reasons. Every time I start liking another guy and think of maybe dating him, Rob starts getting really distant and annoyed even if I don't do anything or talk about the other guy. If I so much as have a conversation with a guy that doesn't really hang out with our group much, he starts avoiding me and giving me the silent treatment. I'm 15 and a really independent girl so I normally don't put up with this crap typically but apart from his jealousy, he's extrememly fun to hang out with. But this is getting really old. Can you give me some advice on what I can do……or if I should do anything?

OMG HELLO HE LIKES U.TELL HIM HOW U FEEL AND MAY-B HE'LL TELL U HOW HE FEELS.U MIGHT FIND SOMETHIN OUT U NEVER KNEW!!!


JESSICA

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I'M 14 GOING ON15 AND ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAD SEX BUT HE IS TELL PEOPLE WHAT TO DO

deny IT ALL and 4-get that looser

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yeah well.. i really like this kid an we are sposta play spin the bottle an 7 minz of heven an the problem is i dunno how to make-out/ french an im scurd cuz i dont want him to think imma loser cuz i dunno how to.. can someone help??

14/f/ny-verry confused

shell

DONT WRY WHEN U START 2 KISS EM IT'LL COME NATURALLY AND U WONT HAFTA WRY BOUT N E THING.

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what do i do when i feel like everytime i get down or upset or depressed sometimes for no reason that i wanna kill myself.. or hurt myself... what can i do for help? my friends help by keeping me from actually doing it but im tired of feeling like i should do it.. i use to cut but my friends stoped me from doing that... what should i do?

BEEN THERE DONE THAT.WHEN I GET REALLY DEPRESSED I JUST MAKE MYSELF DO SOMETHIN ELSE CUZ I NO WHAT I'LL DO IF I DONT AND ITS HARD BUT I ALWAYS MAKE IT THRU.AND IF ALL THAT DONT WRK THEN THERES
LOTS OF DRS.TRY SOMETHIN LIKE THAT!;-)


JESSICA

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Ok. So my friend who is 14 like me, basically makes out with a different guy every night and gives head to a new guy every week. She recently lost her virginity at a party, and when we started talking about all the stuff she does she says she has fun but she looked really sad. Personally I think she's been doing way to much stuff with way too many random guys. I don't want to hurt her, and make her think I think she's a slut or anything, but I do want to talk to her because I'm concerned. What do I do?

wow!ummm...if u think u should say somethin then do it.Do it b-4 she gets pregnant or an std.14 yr olds shouldnt be doin that stuff.ya ur right she has been doin 2 much stuff w/ 2 many random guys.hope i could help



-jessica-

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how can i hide a hickey?

my friend got a hicky 1 time and she froze a lemon and put it on the "spot"good luck!!



jessica

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ok well ive been drinkin for 5 years(10-15 yrs old) its all started out with just drinkin like on the weekends or at parties, but lately ive been drinkin everynite. or at parties ill tell my self o ill just have one beer, but then i end up drinkin a 12 pack by myself! ive been arrested for drinkin and smoking, ive been to AA meetings NA meeting and everything, but i dont know wut to do... is it stress related or wut? is there any medication i could take?
*addicted, 15

it could be stress related.a lot of people get real stressed out and resort 2 other things 2 get their mind off of what is goin on.keep goin 2 ur meetings and chill!



jessica

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My friend,say her name is Sally, has been talking about my other friend, say Suzie. Sally is really nice and all but when Suzie isn't around she talks about her. And when Suzie is around she is nice and everything to her. How can i get Sally to be nice about Suzie behind her back without making Sally mad at me?

friends dont talk bout their friends behind their backs!if "sally" talks bout "suzie then wont she do it bout u 2????

-jessica-

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Does anyone actually know why the Christina Aguilera/Chingy tour was cancelled? I was scheduled to go, and then the news stated that it had been cancelled. I heard that it's because Christina is undergoing a voice operation for more than 6 months. Is this the real reason? If anyone has any information, I'd love to hear it. Thanks tons. xox Mariah

YEA CUZ CHRISTINA HAD A VOCAL PROBLEM

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