I'm Suki. I love to see the first bloom of a wild rose, to smell the salt spray of an ocean breeze, to hear the laughter of little children at play. Oh no, wait - That's somebody else.
Gender: Female
Location: United States
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MSN: cardsforsorrow.cardsforpain@hotmail.com
Member Since: September 5, 2005
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Last Update: August 29, 2006
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i have 2 questions, and i would like honest answers!
What do you consider a girl that has had sex since the age of 13. Had 2 other bfs at 14, cheated on the last 1 with a guy she hardly knew the 2nd day they hung out? (the guy was 17) they are still together.
What do you consider a guy that has sex with a girl he barely knows the 2nd night knowing she has a bf??
i rate 5s for intelligent answers!!! (link)
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Person One: A whore.
Person Two: An asshole.
Just like The Rocky Horror Picture Show. No, wait, that was "slut" and "asshole"...
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is it bad to put a warm/hot wash cloth over your eyes for like more than 5 minutes? idk why it would be but im just wondering. (link)
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No, I do it often and nothing ever happens.
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i died my hair and it was suppose to be dark brown but it came out as dark dark black.. my natural hair is black but my hair now looks 10 times worse ...my question is what can i do to make it lighter again... if i die it again will it work ? and (link)
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Yeah, if you go to a hair place they'll be able to take it out for you.
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Okay so theres this really creepy older guy that is living common low with another woman and is always hitting on me. He honks at me when he drives by in his car (which is almost every day)and has called me cutie when he was on his bike.
This one time he came into my work ( I was receptionist) and started asking me how old I was, where I lived, and then told me I looked really good and he wanted to phone me. I told the staff and they were going to phone the cops, but he never came in again so they never called them.
He is a total sleaze, I talked to one of his kids once and they said that he's fathered nine sons by nine different woman.
Other people have told me he his really mean to his wife. He has spent time in jail and was banned from the place I worked for harassing other people.
At first I just laughed off his behavior but It is really beginning to bother me. I don't want to tell him to stop honking at me and stuff because I don't want to piss him off but also don't want him to think I like him.
What should I do? (link)
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You should get a restraining order put on him if he doesn't leave you alone. Seriously.
There are many things this guy could do to you if you guys ever were in semi-private. Make sure this never happens.
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Me and my friend Alex I thought were pretty good friends. Her and I borrowed some clothes from eacho other. And last week I called her to ask her if I could come and pick up some clothes and my mom was yelling really loud in the back ground and Alex said my mom hates her. I went to her house to pick up my clothes and she really didnt say much. It was homecoming week last week and AL and I did tug of war at our pep rally and she didnt even say anything to me really. I saw her at our homecoming on saturday and all she said to me was hi..I heard from this girl Rae that I know that Alex told her about my mom. And Al doesnt like drama. I dont know if her and I are friends any more. Its not my fault that my mom was yelling. I told Al that I was sorry about it..Al and I used to hang out alot and I love the gurl to death bc she was one of my best friends..Idk if I should just ignore the problem or talk to her about it..i am usually good with situations like this but this time idk what to do..I just want all this fixed..what should I do. (link)
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Tell her how you feel. And make it clear that your mom does not hate her. If she continues to ignore you, it is obvious that she doesn't want to be friends with you anymore. In that case, you should move on with your life. There are better people to be friends with than ones who treat you like shit.
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Ok, my girlfriend and I have been broken up for about 3 weeks. Last night we went out to dinner and we made out under the star-blanketed sky at the beach. She called me later that night and sometime later she asked me If I had thought about having one last "night". What should I do? I want to. But I don't know if I should. (link)
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You can do whatever you want to, but if it were me, I wouldn't do it. It is obvious that she only wants the physical part of you. Perhaps she'll keep calling for more sex, but does not want to have a relationship. This means she is just using you for the sex. I would never want to be taken advantage of like that. But, hey, it is your call.
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 months but have been friends for 5 years. Even though were young weve been discusing marriage because of the amazing bond we have. Just recently we started having sex. I wouldnt know any other kind of sex but to me it seems really hardcore and more about the sex than the love. Weve never done any oral, but he told me this morning before he went to his am classes that when he comes home he is going to give me the best sex I ever had. He left a note saying this along with little clues about "tonight". This has really been grossing me out and concerning me because he said ... "My fingers will be up there along with my tongue,baby"!!! I dont now whatt to do because Im still new to te sex scene and those words coming fom him shock me!!
HELP!! (link)
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Talk to him about it. He seems like an okay enough guy. If he does not want to be with you or pressures you into doing things that you don't want to, he is not worth dating. Tell him that you want to slow things down a little and everything else that is on your mind. You shouldn't have to do anything you don't want to and you will end up deeply regretting it later on.
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Do pink and black go good together? (link)
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Yeah, they usually do.
But it is all a matter of opinion.
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Damn I have nothing funny to read on this site anymore. Why do you guys have to ban all the funny people? Do you have to take them so seriously? Or just ignore them? (link)
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If you want comedy, go to a site that provides it. Forums generally ban people who do that shit. That is life. And, the admins who run this site can ban whomever they want.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating 3 months. We both have decided that we're not going to throw around the word 'love'. Seeing as most 14 year old couples do. So this is what we do..
When we do say i love you, we agreed we should only say it when we feel the moment is suitable, but we both know that when we say it we mean 'like is too small of a word, but love might be too strong of a word'
Other times we just say like 'I like you a whole lot', but we both know it's not just a normal 'crush' kinda of like.
Do you understand what I mean?
Does anyone think this is a stupid way of going about things? (link)
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No. I personally think it is better than throwing the word "love" around. But that is just me.
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Me and my friend Paul are practically brother and sister! We've always been tight but over the summer it seemed as if we were getting feelings for eachother that werent normal 'friendly' feelings. He invited me everywhere with him. We went to the beach to watch fireworks, i joined him for dinner, and almost every weekend we hung out at his house watching the stars and talking. i never feel uncomfortable around him and i can tell him anyhing. Were both strong christians and believe that God will lead us in the direction we need to go. But I just dont know ...
is this Love? :-\ (link)
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It could be love, however you never know until you try.
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How can you usually tell if your in love? (link)
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You feel like you want to kill yourself and everyone around you.
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Should I be mad if three guys bet on me saying I bet she'll say no to you when they ask you out or she'll say ya to me, and I knew them all as friends and stuff? I rate high, thanx. (link)
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Yeah. I'd be mad if my friends did that to me. Unless they were just kidding around.
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does dark red hair (burgundy) drain out ice blue eyes? (link)
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No, not in my opinion.
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ok , i like this guy . he knows im there but where not friends . he's talk to me but not real conversations . he is sort of a smart ass with really good jokes and sarcasim but i still like him . saying oh ilove you is someting he would laugh at . i need to become cool to him then get into the i like you stuff . any suggestions ? (link)
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Learn sarcasm.
And find common interests to talk about.
But don't sound too needy. Then he'd mock you.
And you might want to practice the sarcasm before you actually say things to him so you won't make yourself look like a fool.
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My skin has so much oil on it! I cleanse my face and everything, but then it gets grosley shiny. I also have a problem with blackheads. What should I do? I feel I'd be pretty if those things were gone! HELP! (link)
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You might want to see a dermatologist. Sometimes putting moisturizer on it actually clogs up the pores and makes it worse. A dermatologist will recommend a good soap or something to wash your face with to make your problems less noticible and/or go away completely.
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i want to ask this guy to like this spooky woods thing.. but im kinda scared.. (feeling like an idiot if he rejects me) we are friends, and i was thinking of like, on aim, i should be like "haha, your so cool we should hang out sometime." like that? then asking him tommarow :/ but idk. can you help me? (link)
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Since you are friends it will make it a lot easier. You could either just ask him, or invite a few friends including him. That way, if he says no, it isn't like he said no to go alone with you. Your plan sounds good also, though. Stick with it, if you are content.
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umm is stealing street sign illegal, like a stop sign or a name of a street, i think i know the answer but if you could help id appreciate it (link)
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Yes. It is a form of vandelism.
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someone keeps stealing the sign off of our lawn that says vote for judge price! we keep getting new ones but they keep getting stolen... is there anything we can do to them if they get caught?
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Yeah. If you catch them, they could get arrested and/or fined, depending on the laws of the area you live in.
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my parents and I ALWAYS fight. Right when I turned 13 they started becoming so overprotective. They track my e-mails, text messages, and phone calls. They won't let me hang out with my friends either. I got invited to Washington with my BFF for Fall Break and of course they said No. When I asked why they started yelling at me and grounded me for " being a brat. " I can't take it anymore. I'm stuck in my room everynight for the dumbest reasons like, I got an 83% on a math test (apparently a B isnt good enough ). I CANT TAKE IT. pleasee help, I'd really like it.
PS: I've never been a bad kid. I'm responsible, great in school, I don't get into trouble or do drugs or anything. SO why did they become so overprotective ?
thnks bunches. (link)
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They are uptight beacuse, in their eyes, you are still "their little girl". Sit down with them and have a serious and mature conversation about being treated like an adult. Or rather, an adolecent. Don't whine and shit because that just shows that you aren't mature. They don't want you turning into a whore. Ironically, most kids whose parents are very overprotective go completely crazy when they are eighteen and have freedom. They do shit that they regret for life.
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