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I heard vitamin water was actually bad for you. Is that true? Because I love it and I'm always drinking it.

It's not bad for you, it's name just sparks some interest in some people. Its calorie content is actually the same as a can of Coke. It definitely has vitamins in it, which is obviously good, but like I said, it's not the healthiest thing that you can drink.

You'd probably be better off drinking Propel.

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well.. i have this ex boyfriend, let's call him Jimmy. And Jimmy and I went out about 2 years ago, and we had a harsh break-up. Because ever since we broke up, he's been giving me the cold shoulder. And right now I have a current boyfriend, and out of nowhere, 2 years later, he messaged me and it said "
i know i hurt you and i didnt mean to i was just so stupid back then... i may still be dumb but i grew up i know your really mad at me and may never talk to me again you dont have to talk to if you dont want to. i made a big mistake not apologizing to you sooner and an even bigger mistake for hurting you i didnt realize it... no its not that i didnt realize it i was just stupid i was just so mad.... ever since i left you my life hasnt been the same.... i just hadnt realized you were the best thing that happened to me... i'm glad that i met you... can we jst be friends and start over again i'm so sorry" then, i forgave him, and we started talking on aim. And he couldn't tell me something, because he thought it'd be awkward.. but eventually i got him to say what he didn't want to tell me. he told me that he didn't get over me yet, and the reason why he was single for so long now, because his past 2 girlfriends didn't make it easier for him to forget me, because when he went out with them, he says that they made him realize how good of a girlfriend i was. and that he didn't really like those 2 girls. and i asked him what he's been doing for the past 2 years, he said "thinking about you..." and i promised i wouldn't tell anybody. But i felt happy when he told me that, because NOBODY had liked me for that long before. And then, i told him the truth.. and it was that he was the best boyfriend i ever had. and he said "=) i miss talking to you" and he still does that at times, but two days later.. we stopped talking, but we do at times when we aim each other. but he's also going back to giving me the cold shoulder. and so i was wondering.. does he still like me? or is he acting like this because i'm taken now? answer this please!

ps. guys are very complicated to deal with.

I was in this situation a few months ago. I moved on from a guy after liking him, and admitting him. He pushed me so far away, that I just straight up got over it. He noticed the lack of communication, and how different it was to not talk to me all the time. The best thing to do in this situation is to realize that Jimmy had his chance, and that he should have taken it when he had it. I think that he still likes you, and has definitely taken time aside to think about his relationship that he had with you and how he should have valued it.

Guys are extremely complicated to deal with.

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i have acnee on my back (yes i know DISGUSTING)
i've never had this.
they hurt to scratch or pop.
i cheerlead during the fall
& all summer im in a bikini
HOW DO I GET RID OF THIS ASAP?!

Neutrogena has a body wash that helps get rid of pimples.

http://www.drugstore.com/qxp45779_334918_sespider/neutrogena_body_clear/body_wash_salicylic_acid_acne_treatment.htm

It will be about 5/6/7 dollars at your local Walmart/Walgreens/CVS.

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I'm a freshman, 15. All my friends are having sex with their boyfriends, I want to have sex with my boyfriend...but I'm scared you could say of getting pregnant, there are so many risks.. But I really wanna do it. Am I too young? Should I do it, cuz I do love my boyfriend alot? I'm just so confused.

I'm 15 too, and I know what it's like to be surrounded by people who always want to have sex. The thing is, some people aren't as lucky, and the condom does break sometimes, or maybe you'll just get lost in the heat of the moment and will forget to put on a condom at all. I don't want you to have sex because of everyone else. I want you to have sex when -----> YOU

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okay last night i had "sex" for the first time.? but im not sure if you would call it sex. the head of his penis was in, but thats it cause the rest wouldnt fit. could you tell me if thats sex and what is actually considered sex? like, is it when the whole thing is in or what?
thanks!

I consider sex head-on penis entering the vagina. I don't think that you had sex. There's really not a name for what you were doing, but I wouldn't consider it full fledged sex.

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there is a song playing at the end of it,


a guy says...

' i called her on the phone and she touched herself' and he keeps repeating it. i don't know who sings it and it's annoying me! help please and thanks! :)

Is it..

"Wow, I Can Get Sexual Too" by Say Anything

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i need to know how to send a picture from my verizon u740 cell phone to my computer.

http://tutorials.photobucket.com/tutorial_6.html

There you go.

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how can you put a password on your my pictures on the windows system?? any ideas?

http://www.metacafe.com/watch/444905/password_protect_folders_and_make_files_invisible/

There you go :)

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Everytime I try to sign in some website (For example, MySpace.com, Allpoetry.com, Yahoo.com, etc.)

When I try to sign in on Yahoo! to check E-Mail, it says:
"The browser you're using refuses to sign in. (cookies rejected)"

I don't know what that means?

And when I try to sign on MySpace.com, it just refreshes the page and doesn't log me in onto my Home page.

Can anyone help me fix this? Off my computer to allow me to sign in any website, or send me a step-by-step on what to do!

THANKS!

http://www.google.com/support/calendar/bin/answer.py?hl=en&answer=37061

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Ok... It all started a year ago when I moved here. I knew this girl from Winter League Basketball. She didn't really talk 2 me but I really didn't care.. Now this year every time she wants something she will come 2 me and ask but otherwise, she never talks 2 me as if I were her worst enemy.. So just the other day she called me a bitch and said that I talk bout evry1 behind there back.. Wut should I do?

Honestly, the best way to get rid of her is to just ignore her. You will add fuel to the fire if you continuously try to answer with a witty comeback. If she says that you're a bitch, say 'Sure', and walk away. If she says that you talk behind other's backs say 'Really?', raise your eyebrows, laugh, and just walk away. Do not stay to see her reaction. I've done this PLENTY OF TIMES before, and it's driven some people CRAZY knowing that they can't respond; because they truthfully can't. As some time goes by, she'll get bored, and will move on. As much as the temptation grows, do not give in and try to get her to see things your way. She's not worth your time.

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so, im redoing my room.
And i need some cute ideas for like
-wall storage
-decorations
-bed pillows [[i have a checkered bed i want to make "POP"]]
-table decor
-paint colors [[websites please?]]
-clothes storage? [[im gonna have an extra small closet]]
-shoe storage
-couch covers? [[i have a gay granny couch that i want to cover]]

By the way:
-im a 13 year old girl
-i like bright neon colors
[[orange, pink, green, yellow, briiight purple]]
-i want a creative room that none of my friends would think of. without it looking tacky.



please and thank you... [[i rate]]

Okay, so I have a pretty good idea set for your new room. I just finished listening to Natasha Bedingfield's song 'Pocketful of Sunshine'. Since you said that you liked bright colors, paint your room a sky blue, and stencil in a sun. I'm going to draw this in paint to explain it more thoroughly.

- Wall Storage

[http://www.target.com/Shelf-Hooks-Dark-English-Oak/dp/B000VRF372/qid=1205895616/ref=br_1_1/602-4348297-9253425?ie=UTF8&node=394217011&frombrowse=1&rh=&page=1]

A couple of those should do the trick.

- Decorations

Since the room will have bright colors, you need basic, preferably metallic decorations to tone down the brightness in the room.

[http://www.target.com/Mosaic-Decorative-Ball-Set-Silver/dp/B000V26CBS/sr=1-3/qid=1205895251/ref=sr_1_3/602-4348297-9253425?ie=UTF8&index=target&rh=k%3Adecorative&page=1]
[http://www.target.com/Love-Letter-Set/dp/B000VELGZS/qid=1205895291/ref=br_1_15/602-4348297-9253425?ie=UTF8&node=318882011&frombrowse=1&pricerange=&index=tgt-mf-mv&field-browse=318882011&rank=pmrank&rh=&page=2]

- Bed Pillows

[http://www.target.com/Casual-Home-Toss-Pillow-Brown/dp/B000GUNA6K/sr=1-20/qid=1205896068/ref=sr_1_20/602-4348297-9253425?ie=UTF8&index=target&rh=k%3Apillows&page=1]

- Table Decor

[http://www.target.com/Mosaic-Decorative-Ball-Set-Silver/dp/B000V26CBS/sr=1-3/qid=1205895251/ref=sr_1_3/602-4348297-9253425?ie=UTF8&index=target&rh=k%3Adecorative&page=1]
[http://www.target.com/Love-Letter-Set/dp/B000VELGZS/qid=1205895291/ref=br_1_15/602-4348297-9253425?ie=UTF8&node=318882011&frombrowse=1&pricerange=&index=tgt-mf-mv&field-browse=318882011&rank=pmrank&rh=&page=2]
[http://www.target.com/Clay-and-Glass-Mosaic-Bowl/dp/B000NZY1XO/qid=1205895961/ref=br_1_14/602-4348297-9253425?ie=UTF8&node=13940451&frombrowse=1&pricerange=&index=tgt-mf-mv&field-browse=13940451&rank=pmrank&rh=&page=2]

- Paint Colors

[http://i25.tinypic.com/358zbie.jpg]

- Clothes Storage

[http://www.improvementscatalog.com/home/improvements/792912094-cedar-scent-hanger-holders-4.html]

Since you said that your closet is small, you can put up to 4 items of clothing on just one hook.

- Shoe Storage

[http://www.target.com/Over-the-Door-Shoe-Rack-36-Pairs/dp/B000MQ6V5U/sr=1-10/qid=1205896006/ref=sr_1_10/602-4348297-9253425?ie=UTF8&index=target&rh=k%3Ashoe%20rack&page=1]

That fits on the door, so you can even put it on the door that opens to your room to save space!

- Couch Cover
[http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=5606380]

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hey i donnot live in the us but im going to go there, i want to buy a TI (graphic calculator) where can i find these?? thnx like stores target those kind of things?

**EDIT**
I was joking about the gas station thing? lmao.

Yes, any stores that manufacture electronics will definitely have graphing calculators.

Some examples:
Target
Walmart
Best Buy
Circuit City
CompUsa
etc.

Stores that wouldn't work:
Gas stations & drugstores [obviously, LOL].

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well im a girl and when i finger myself i start to ejaculate quickly
is this normal?

Yes.

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i cant stop biting my nails! help! is there anything i can do to stop i just never can, they are sooo short that they bleed. but i always forget and chew on them again. is there any tecniques i can use to stop?!?!
help and thanks :]]

Ohhh hun, I have the same exact problem as you. I've been biting my nails ever since I could chew. I don't bite until they bleed though, since I'm terrified of blood. Anyways, what I did was put electrical tape on all of my finger tips [it's black, what you use to cover electric cords that have been frayed/teared]. They got in my way when I tried to type, but I told myself to keep them on. Finally, I was so annoyed with myself, that I literally ripped off the tape. It's pretty weird though, since I haven't bitten my nails in about a week. I've started and stopped. I've even tried dipping them in acetone [which burned like hell], but I still got around to biting. Try to keep your mouth busy too, [I'm chewing gum right now to fight the urge]. Or try to type a short story or poem, maybe? That helps with keeping your hands busy. What I've also tried is painting my nails a bright color, so that when it comes near my mouth, the color stands out and reminds me that I shouldn't bite. It's definitely hard to stop, though. I know where you're coming from.

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Who is the black woman in the Life Water commercial that does the "Thriller" dance with all those lizards & whatnot? Is she famous- if so, I definitely must've missed something, because I don't think I've seen her anywhere.

Yeah, that's supermodel Naomi Campbell.

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my hair was probably down to the middle of/almost under my boobs. and it was getting split ends so i went to this really nice haircutting place and they took so much off. it probably has atleast an inch off when i asked for a half. i have really wavy hair & they layered it too, so it looks even more shorter. i hate it when my hairs short.
how much does hair grow in a month!? :(

**EDIT**

How did you click it twice if this question came up one day before the other one?

No need to get snappy :)

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=533995

You already received 5 answers there. There's no need to post your question a second time if it was answered the first time.

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Why does washing your hair under cold water make it shiny?

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080108180051AAKXdTE

Read the first answer.

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this is totally random but I just wanted to know some good emotional songs or party songs. I don't really like rap that much but I'm fine with Chris Brown and T-Pain. Can you just list songs that you like listening to? I'm just looking for some good songs in general. Rock is also appreciated.

These are songs from my itunes.

"Ready to Fall" - Rise Against
"Prayer of the Refugee" - Rise Against
"Hifey [remix]" - e40 ft. Keek Da Sneak
"Remembering Sunday" - All Time Low
"Smother Me" - The Used
"Blue Magic" - Jay-Z
"Starz in Their Eyes" - Just Jack
"Dough is What I Got" - Lil Wayne
"Lake Michigan" - Rogue Wave
"When It Rains" - Paramore
"Icky Thump" - White Stripes
"All My Friends" - LCD Soundsystem
"S.M.S" - Barcode Brothers
"Keep the Car Running" - the Arcade Fire
"Under the Blacklight" - Rilo Kiley
"Respiration" - Mos Def/Talib Kweli/Common
"Hot Thing/In the Mood" - Talib Kweli
"Where's Your Head At" - Basement Jaxx
"Days Go By" - Dirty Vegas
"Black Mags" - Cool Kids
"'88" - Cool Kids
"I'm Throwed" - Paul Wall
"Shut Me Up" - Mindless Self Indulgence
"Straight to Video" - Mindless Self Indulgence
"Bleeding Love" - Leona Lewis
"Smooth" - Santana ft. Rob Thomas
"Touch the Sky" - Kanye West

Message me if you need more.

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its spring break now, and we have 2 weeks off, my face is really pale, and i reealllyyy want at least a bit of a tan before i go back to school. Its not exactly the most sunniest of months right now, but how can i get at least a bit of an even tan on my face in 2 weeks??
Thanks:)

http://www.wikihow.com/Self-Tan-Your-Face

That's a step-by-step guide.

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What are creative ways you got asked out/asked someone out/to prom/etc?

What I've seen done to friends:

- Fortune cookie microwaved for 5 seconds, 'prom with me?' written on small slip of paper. Gently pry open the cookie [since it is soft], and slip the paper inside. Close it back up, let it sit.
- My guy friend got permission from my parents while I was at tennis practice, filled up a bunch of balloons so that the room was completely smothered with balloons. He had flowers in his hands, and was holding up a sign that said 'Sweetheart's with me?'. It was extremely sweet.
- Kind of like a scavenger hunt. My friend Anna's boyfriend had all of her favorite things on-hand [Twizzler's, Reeses Pieces, ect.], laid them out so that she could follow them.

That's all that I have right now based on personal experiences or things that I have witnessed.

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