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how do you know when you are truly in love with a guy and how do you know when it is the right time to tell him?
when you are truly in love with a guy, you'll know. because all you can do is think about him, you always want to be with him and just looking at him gives you butterflies:-) The right time to tell him that you are in love with him, is if he tells you that he loves you first or anytime where you are feeling very close to him at the moment. Some guys take that pretty well and other guys don't. just use your best judgement
Hey there everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and I am a virgin. I am in no way thinking of having sex or asking if i'm too young to or anything, this has to deal more with the future. I am going to wait to have sex until I find a special person, it doesn't really matter if I am married or not. But, I'm afraid that the longer I hold out, it's going to be harder and harder to find a guy that's a virgin also, because it seems like there are none left. So I was wondering if it's silly of me to think that there is a guy out there that is a virgin that I will find somewhere down the road as I get older. Or stop being silly about it and not care?
if you really cared for that guy who was that special someone for you, then it wouldnt matter wether he was a virgin or not. and trust me there are still guys your age who are virgins. just keep waiting and see what's there for you in the longrun.
Hi im a 16 year old girl and I have been dating this girl for 3 months now but we dont really talk, and i can tell my friends think i should break up with her, but i really like her and i want to go out with her but i want us to talk more what should i do?
Call her up and start talking to her, or arrange a date where you 2 can hang out. Why be in a relationship with someone if you don't talk to them??
Hey Amber you helped me before i dont know if you remember or not but i was the one whos boyfreind went away to military school for 5 months and i was depressed i never wanted to leave the house? yeah well i passed that fze lol i think i told u that already too. But anyways i loved the advice u gave me so i have another problem im hoping u can help me with. So ok u know my boy freinds gone ( he vists in 2 weeks) but anyway iv become really really close with his best freind michael. and i think im developing a crush on him, where together everyday and we flirt all the time everyone asks me if im cheating on my bf and i say no b/c im not and never will but i do like michael and i havnt told anyone that, i would never break up with chris for him though b/c michael isnt what u call boyfreind material i mean he has issues hs even choked me once through me against a wall and started choking me, but anyways i dont know why i have these feelings and i dont know how to get rid of them i mean i know you'll sya well start spending less time with michael but i cant hes a really good freind, and i know he likes me b/c hes already spilt his feelings out to me but even he says he would never kiss me b/c he doesnt want me cheating on chris, ugh i dunno what to do to get rid of these feelings can you please help me? thank you amber your the best!
Mandy
hay mandy. sorry i haven't responded so quickely, im on vacation right now:-p Newho, the only reason why you think your starting to develop those feelings for michael is probably because you miss chris a lot and you are probably just feeling really lonely. if michael flirts with you a lot and stuff then that probably makes you feel like your getting a lot of love and attention, and who would want to give that up? From what you told me about him, I'm glad that you would never go out with him because he sounded very abusive to me. you can still hang out with him n stuff if you guys are really good friends, but i'd keep waiting for chris to come home. because when he does come home then you'll feel the love and get the attention that you really need from the RIGHT person. So don't worry about anything, it's prolly just a little phase that you are going through right now. n just think, in 2 weeks chris comes home and you get to see him!! EEKKK!:-D Well good luck with everything hun! i hope I gave you some kind of advice that helps you out right now...
Is there something wrong with thinking Ariel from the little mermaid is soooo hot?
hahahaha no! when i was little, i wanted to get married to prince eric when i grew up:-p
ever since june two of my friends told me they didnt want to hang out with me anymore and wouldnt tell me why....now they tell everyone else not to talk to me for no reason and make up all these lies and tell people them....they tell me i wont let it go yet they're the ones who tell me to committ suicide and spread lies...they wont let it go...what should i do?
i know that this has to be a really tought situation for you. The best thing you can do at this time is try to just ignore them! If things get worse where you can't take it anymore, than tell one of your parents about it or someone who you can really trust. Personally i think they're being very immature right now n i KNOW that you can get through all of this. Juss keep your head up high and don't ever let someone else bring you down! it's not worth it believe me...
i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in 18 and hes 19, we have sex often. im a 34b adn he thinks that i should get implants. should i do it just to please him?!?! i really think that he might be the one, adn we've talked about our future.
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if he really loved you the way you think he does, than he wouldnt have told you that you should get implants. He should love you and your body just the way it was made. if you are going to get implants than do it for YOU and not him! but if i were you i wouldnt. i read in a magazine that a lot of guys prefer it to be the real thing rather than the plastic sugery. One of the stories explained how he and this girl had sex in really hot weather but when he felt her fake breasts they were icecold and it really freaked him out. So if i were you i wouldnt get them unless you REALLY REALLY wanted too.
I have this friend. We aren't going out but he still took my virginity and we are always making out. The last time we made out he asked me if I wanted to try again. But he wants me to be on top. I am scared to because I dont know how and wut if I do it wrong. We didnt do it because I had to leave but I want to have sex with him again but I am scared that he would want me to be on top like he asked me last time. What should I do and if he does ask me... how di I do it?
Just go for it. The only thing you really have to worry about is if it feels good to you or not. It's a better way for yourself to control on wether you want it in deeper or not as deep, harder or faster or w/e else you want at that time. N don't feel like you have to impress him with anything because the more you do that the better you'll get at it.
k, me and my bf have been going out for 6 months, and we've had sex like...a lot. like every time we see each other at night, we get turned on. we've done it everywhere. now he's telling me that he's got another girl, and he accidently called me her name last night. i got mad, and he got mad too, and said that he didn't want me anymore and he was just using me for sex, and she was his real gf, and she fucked better than me anyhow. so what do i do now, i love his sex, and i love him.
Why would you love an asshole like him? I can understand where as in the beginning everything was "perfect" because it's always like that for relationships. I don't understand why he got mad if he was the one who cheated on you?? that's really pathetic. I'm sure there are better guys than him out there who could possibly give you better sex. I know it's gonna be hard for a while but you need to forget about that loser and find someone who'll treat you a whole lot better!
i'm 12 and i started my 1st period june 15. i heard u were supposed to get it every 28 days and i'm about a week late if that's the case! could i be pregnant, i mean i havn't had sex, but could i be? plz help!
haha no ur not pregnat. You can only become pregnat if you had sex and u either didnt use protection or the condom broke when the guy came. Every girl is different. When i first got mine, i skipped a whole month before i got it again. Your cycle is gonna be really messed up for about a year until you start to know when you are going to start for that next month
My sister is a lesbian, and I am good friends with her girlfriend. When I am introducing the two of them to other people I always find myself saying "this is my sister and her friend."
I know I should say girlfriend, but I never can get it out.
Is it alright if I just say friend to avoid akward moments and let coversations to contiune to flow, or do you think it is affending to my sister and her girlfriend?
If you really need an answer to this question than you need to talk to your sister and see how she feels about it.
I am twenty one years old and have been married for over a year. My husband and I recently discovered that we are pregnant. Though it wasnt planned, we are both very excited and happy about it. So is everyone else... my friends, my family, even my mom. Everyone, except for my father.
When I told him the news, he was completely shocked, which I could understand. I called a few days ago to see how he's doing, and he said some very mean things that made me pretty upset. I dont understand this reaction, because he also got married and started a family at a young age.
Its been about two weeks since we broke the news to him, and he just seems to be sad and disappointed in me.
I just want my dad to accept this and to be happy for us, but at the same time I dont understand why I am so strongly seeking his approval.
Any advice is greatly appreciated.
I think your dad is being really immature about all of this. First of all, you are married and the best time to have kids is when you are married. He should appreciate the fact that this didn't happen to you when you were 15 or something like that. If i were you, i'd call him back up on the phone again and say something like "I don't understand why you are so upset about all of this when I'm a grown MARRIED woman!?" you should ask him why he's so upset about all of this too. Maybe once you 2 get to talking you'll find a lot of things out about each other. Good luck with all of this, and CONGRATULATIONS!:-D
Hey, I've been using tampons for a little while now and it's kind of weird! Are you supposed to feel a little uncomfortable wearing them if there still new to you? Do you think they feel that way because it's not up far enough or something? I know I put it in right, but I still feel a little discomfort when there in! What's wrong?
you just gotta push it up a little further, then you'll be fine:-D
im 13 and a girl and i want to do alot of things like make out with guys and maybe in a year or so have sex with a guy. but 1. im scared im a bad kisser. 2. i dont wanna get pregnant and 3. i havent found the right guy to do any thing with...what should i do?
What makes you want to do all of this?? Your still so young now! makeing out isn't all that bad but be careful because a lot of people would prolly start considering you to be a slut if they found out that you made out with a lot of guys. And with the sex thing, DONT do it until you found someone who you love and trust. preferably your first love?
im a sophmore in high school but i moved and im starting a new school and i dont know ANYONE!!!! im sooooooooo nervous....i was jw if anyone had 2 do this?!?!
oh i had to move before and it was really hard. The best thing you can do is try to start talking to some of the people in your class and befriending them. It may take a while or it may not. it all depends on your personality. Good luck with everything!
I don't know what to do..im not fat.. but im going to be someday if i continue my eating habits... i wake up in the morning and I say okay no junk food 2day.. but by the end of the night im eating a bowl of ice cream.. or i hate a whole bunch of peanuts or sumthing.. i try to maintain my wait by drinking alot of water but im afraid thats not going to be enough to keep me the way i am... I bike ride with my friends sometimes... and i only go to the gym when my mom wants to but she hardly goes... i dunno what to do.. how i can tell myself that im not going to eat junk food and actually stick with it!.. plus i think i eat out of boredum.. how can i stop that...( i mean im sitting in front of the tv and i automatically go into the kitchen for food)
why dont you try exercising with your friends instead of your mum. or maybe go for a run by yourself around the neighborhood. Joining in on a school sport is also a GREAT way to keep yourself occupied instead of eating infront of the TV all day.
Hey im 14 do you think its wrong for me to date someone 10 years old?
Guys your age are usually really immature still, why would you wanna go 4 years younger than that??:-/
hey, i like this boy named kyle at school and ive liked him for a couple monthes now, ive told him that i like him. my friends have talked to him and he says "its possible" that he likes me. hes VERY shy and sooo sweet. ive never liked someone this long before and i really want to be with him. i just dont want to ask him out and give me the answer thats not true because hes too shy. in september his heart was broken by another girl, and id promise to never break his heart. he's one of those boys thats kinda hard to tell what they're thinking so im stuck in the middle. he's not the most popular person, and he trusts me with a lot and we're already really great friends... what's your advice?
keep talking to him and maybe even start hanging out with him when you 2 arent at school. that way the both of you will get to know each other a little more and who knows, maybe he'll come out of his shell and you too will hook up?:-D
what should i do should i stop bein friends with her cause me and her haven't been good friends since i moved 3 yrs ago and we been friends for 10 yrs. she blows me off when we are on the computer ever since she had her boyfriend.
what should i do.
lost friend in clarks
it sounds to me like your friendship died. if she keeps blowing you off online ever since she had her boyfriend, then maybe you should just stop trying to communicate with her for a while until she decides that she wants to talk to you first
what do u do if u like ur EX-girlfriend and u know u cant get her back but yet u cant get over her or stop thinkib bout her?
you can either try hanging out with her more and try to impress her more so maybe she might change her mind, or just get out of the house and meet new people.