what should i do should i stop bein friends with her cause me and her haven't been good friends since i moved 3 yrs ago and we been friends for 10 yrs. she blows me off when we are on the computer ever since she had her boyfriend.
what should i do.
DrAnqel answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:22 pm: if you're having a long distance relationship, then you need to be more "long distance" dont be as close as you were with her before, when she realizes that somethings bothering you, then she will confront you if shes a true friend, It hurts to lose a best friend, but you should definitely try to communicate with her, if shes your best friend, she should understand why your mad, and she should try to help, if not then that's pretty sad. As for her new boyfriend, maybe you should talk to him tell him how you still want to be friends with his girlfriend. Hope I helped! -Dr.Anqel [ DrAnqel's advice column | Ask DrAnqel A Question ]
ixsAveDxmYsELf answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:21 pm: TALK TO HER! My friend had a boyfriend that she reeeeeeeallllly liked. After a few days, she started to blow us off the same way, whenever she was around him. My friends and i told her how we felt, and she totally changed.
[[[i know how u feel]]]
Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 9:54 pm: I suggest you talk to your friend about what you feel has happened.
Tell her you feel like she's been blowing you off ever since she got a boyfriend...she might not realize it.
Some girls have trouble balancing a guy and their friends.
You miss your friendship - tell her.
You've gotta communicate with your friend if something's bothering you.
I hope everything works out!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
Questions4KT answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 9:51 pm: I think you should try talking this out with her. See what happens when you tell her how you feel. Explain to her that even though you moved, you still wanna be tight. If you have been friends with her for 10 years hopefuly she will understand. If tat doesnt get the message across to her, you could do one of two things. Send her a bunch of old pictures of you two and lots of memories of you two togeter. That will make her feel guilty for not spendin the time with you that you deserve or you could do the mean thing and ignore her back. When you do talk to her, talk about all the things in your life that rock and make her feel horrible. I ope that you dont have to relate to that! Hope this helps. Ask me anything anytime!!
LilMia811 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 9:47 pm: This happens alot. The thing that sucks about it, is there is really nothing you can do about it. You can try to talk to her about how you feel and how you feel shes been acting, but chances are she will over react and start an argument. I know that it is really messed up how good friends grow away from eachother after so long, especially when they get new boyfriends. All you can do is hope she will understand you when you talk to her, otherwise, you will just have to deal with things. It will be hard, but it is what you will have to do. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 9:46 pm: it sounds to me like your friendship died. if she keeps blowing you off online ever since she had her boyfriend, then maybe you should just stop trying to communicate with her for a while until she decides that she wants to talk to you first [ SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL's advice column | Ask SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL A Question ]
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