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shying away
hey, i like this boy named kyle at school and ive liked him for a couple monthes now, ive told him that i like him. my friends have talked to him and he says "its possible" that he likes me. hes VERY shy and sooo sweet. ive never liked someone this long before and i really want to be with him. i just dont want to ask him out and give me the answer thats not true because hes too shy. in september his heart was broken by another girl, and id promise to never break his heart. he's one of those boys thats kinda hard to tell what they're thinking so im stuck in the middle. he's not the most popular person, and he trusts me with a lot and we're already really great friends... what's your advice?
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definitley go for it! if hes so shy, u guys wont get newhere if ur not the one ta ask.. i say definitley ask him out .. and u have nothing ta lose soo if u get the anser ur not looking for, shit happens.. =D
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Talk to him more as his friend first, If he's too shy to have a relationship, maybe he feels he doesn't know you well enough. Maybe you having your friends go upto him and telling him how you feel is intimidating him, maybe he's just not ready, and if you like Kyle like you say you do, then you should be able to wait. Hope I helped! -Dr.Anqel
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when it comes to guys, im a really shy girl sometimes. i always find ways to keep it low and not embarass myself. talk to him in private, remind him you like him, and ask him a few questions, but don't annoy him. since his usual response is "its possible", ask "if we had the chance, do you think you'd take it?" and let him know you're okay with any answer he gives. just don't spill your heart out yet because that tends to scare boys sometimes, and with a shy guy like him, its highly probable.
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Aww, poor guy, had his heart broken...
If he trusts you so much, stick with him. You need to reassure him that you won't hurt him. I have a friend in your situation.
I suggest you ask him yourself if he likes you. I say never go through friends while dealing with a guy you like. With a shy guy like this, it's hard to tell what he's thinking - unless you ask him.
Once you figure out what's going on in his head, decide what to do. Just friends, maybe more...etc.
I hope everything works out!
-Siren =)
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keep talking to him and maybe even start hanging out with him when you 2 arent at school. that way the both of you will get to know each other a little more and who knows, maybe he'll come out of his shell and you too will hook up?:-D
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I think this kid already knows how you feel. All you need to do is reinforce. Let him know you like him, you think he is a great guy and that you 2 would go good together. And then just see what he says. If he is not ready, then you will still have a great friend. Hope I helped and Good Luck! :)
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