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Sorry it's long, but I need some help

Okay, no offense to this kid, or anybody out there, I'm just describing him.

There's this one realy geeky, kind of overweight kid (I'm a few pounds overweight too, so nothing against him) Well he likes me, and he does whatever he can to talk to me. I know he's trying to be nice, and his best friend said he liked me, but I have a boyfriend, and he doesn't seem to understand that. Today, we were waiting in the commentary during school, and he came up to me and started to act like a real loser (he's a loner with only a few friends) but he made all my friends leave, and when I tried to walk away, he'd get in front of me. I'm stuck sitting next to him in 1st period, I have tried talking to the teacher, and I told her I felt like I was being sexually harassed, because he has tried touching me, but she wouldn't really liste, because she knows hit too well, and he just wouldn't do that type of thing, so I can't move seats, I've tried talking to an administrator, and everything, the only thing I haven't done was talk to him. I'm not sure if he's mentally challenged, and I don't know how to say anything without being mean, He never said he liked me, but you can just tell, and his friends have asked me if I'd go out with him

How do I get it in his brain, I have a boyfriend, and I DON'T LIKE YOU!! I don't want to be friends, I just want him to leave me alone!!

well if you want him to leave you alone just tell him to his face and don't be mean, just say" i'm in a searious reltionship and i don't like you that way, i really hope you can understand" you see saying it that way is getting to the point and not comeing off mean at all. I hoped i helped.

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im so nervous around my b/f cuz i never know what to say! any ideas? thank you!

you can ask him about his day or sports ( most guys love to talk about sports) just get to know him by asking him question about him self and he'll soon ask questions about you and then yall will be talking all the time.

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i would lije people who have either seen this movie or saw a scary movie and had the same problem as me to answer this.

i watched this movie "The Ring" like 5 months ago,and i still get kinda scared and cant sleep.what should i do?

ok well i have the DVD and i saw the movie on a rainy night and after i saw the movie the phone rung , now that messed me up. All i did was say to my self over and over again that it's not real, it's just a movie , it never really happend. I hope when you do that you won't be scared any more.

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what is the best thing to put on cuts and sratches to make the marks go away? thanx

um neosrpon ( i don't think i spelled that right) or cocoa butter now that always works.

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If your a virgin (( girl )) then how can you get pregnant?

well if cum accidently got near your vagina or in your vagina then thats a way you can get pregnant without intercourse. I don't really know anyother ways.

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umm...why would u wanna swallow the cum when u giv head?? i think taht is just really sick. i don't think i can do it to my bf. and im not sure wat he wants me to do. i hav also heard that u can get hiv or usmthin from swallowing cum or can get a STD. is this true? and wats sooo great bout swallowing cum from a guy? i would rather just giv head and use a condom. that way i dotn hav to taste it or nething. wat would b best? o im 13/f (and not a slut. im a virgin and ive never gave head and ive been wit my bf for 3 years!!)

um well that's true you can get HIV's and AID's from giveing oral sex and swolloing the cum is mostly how you get it. I think using a condom would be best cause that way you'll be safe from getting anything ( but you can only get something if your boyfriend has it and you happen to swollow his cum then you'll get something)But besides that using a condom is smart when giveing oral sex.but remeber flavor condoms.

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Okay see I like this guy..alot. We talk on the fone almost everyday and sometimes we talk at school. My friends asked him if he liked me but they wont tell me what he said. So i asked him myself and he sed that he likes me in the middle 50% like 50% just friends. I want an yes or no answer from him tho nd i want him to say yes! what can I do?

well i know exactly what your going through except the guy i liked kept saying " i don't know" or "maybe", anyways i think you should tell him how you really feel about him and that might make him make up his mind. Hoped i helped.

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If u liked a guy so much that u were in love with him, but then u haven't seen or said anything to him in a few months, would u even take a chance to try and make it work? (o and by the way he kinda liked me too the last time i talked to him and stuff).

If your in love with him then you diffinitly should try to make it work, and he kinda likes you so that's another reason to try to make it work.

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First off, I'm not sexually active and am pretty much a 'good girl' when it comes down to getting serious and sexual with any guy. The problem is, I have these very sexual, heated fantasies. When I meet a hot guy, and we start talking, I start to daydream about us having sex. I don't mean normal sex either - like rough, hard and in odd places. Is there something wrong with me? These fantasies are taking over my life and mind.

No theres nothing wrong with you,I mean i have sexual fantasies too every one does. thats just puberty for ya.

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how come people say it is bad for a 13 year old to be friends or have a realationship wit a 16 year old?

well it's not bad to be friends with a 16 year old ( i'm friends with this girl and she's 16) and well to have a relationship with a 16 year old and your 13 well i wouldn't do that if i were 13 but i'm 14 so yea i would date a 16 year old, But if your parents were ok with you dateing a 16 year old but (i dought that any parent would be ok with it), but couldn't he get in troubel for dateing a 13 yearold at 16, i think he could.

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are ghosts real? have you ever seen one?? just wondering!!

Yes there real i've actulley seen one i swear my house is like haunted. But most peopel don't belive that there real but i do.

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okay. so i like this kid and hes not the hottest kid ever k? but hes so so so nice! and he has like the best personality. I also kinda like this other kid who is my friends cousin and hes fricken hot and he has a good personality too...except sometimes hes mean to some people and like yea...but his personality is okay. SO i have NO clue who to choose. Its SO hard and they are both awesome...the hot one asked me out yesterday and i said i'd think about it and the great personality one asked me out this morning...so what do i do? plz help!!!

well i think you should choose the one that you have a better attraction to( and i don't mean i physical attraction) I mean a emotional attration.
Or the one that you like the most.

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Hey, i am 15 and weigh 150 lbs. I'm not "fat" but i feel that way. I dont look it or anything, but i have no idea where the weight is going. I have been taking birth control for like 4 months, and that might be the reason for gaining all this weight, but i dont know how to get rid of some weight. I have tried the south beach diet, i dont eat that much.... never really have, i drink only diet drinks since forever, but i still dont know why i am gaining all this weight. It worries me a lot... Hopefully you can help.. thanks

well i knew this girl who took birth controls and it made her huge and as soon as she stopped taking it the weight went away. Maybe you can stop taking the birth controls that your taking now and switch to one that won't add weight gain as a side effect.

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14/f I wasn't sure what category to put this under. I had this dream about this guy at school that I kind of like. I dreamt that I was pregnant with his baby and we were a couple. I'm only 14, but in my dream I was entirely happy about this. What does this dream mean?

Um i guess yuor dream is reaviling your true inner feelings for him.

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well, he's the scenario. in the summer before 7th grade, i called me friend, nick. nick said he had to go to lake tahoe the day i had invited him over, and i said ok, call me back whenever you come back, he said ok. he doesnt call for many many weeks, so i decide to give him another call. he says he has to go somewhere else, so i say ok, call me when you get back. my dad says he sees nick walking with josh and matt (his 2 other friends) walking around where i live (because we live in the same area. im not friends with matt and josh by the way) so i guess ok he's blowing me off. i decide not to call him again. school starts, and i dont see him so much, and when i do, we just passed each other without a word. its his fault our friendship hasnt progressed at all. this year (8th grade) i see him in halls a lot more. when i go past him, should i say hello or nod my head? because remember this guys ruined my 7th grade world. i had to make all new friends. luckily i'm a great friend maker, and have gotten myself into 2 groups of my own. so should i acknoledge his existence? or pretend he's not there. thanks, and have a nice day.

i think you should just not acknoledge he's there i mean he did that to you. He blows you off and lies about where he's going just so he can avoide you. If i were you i'de give him the cold shoulder.

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Ok I know this may sound wierd and all but the other day I was searching around in my parents room and i found strange things like handcuffs, whips, and wierd looking masks. I remember watching something on television about this sort of thing but im not sure if its really happening with my parents. Can somebody tell me what i should look out for.

well... you can look out for a gag ball cause that's sometimes used in dominatrix.

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OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!!

um.. i don't really think haveing sex at 14 is stupid. If that person felt they were ready mentaly and physicly, is it really a big deal that they had sex IMO no.

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my friends asked if i wore tampons and i said yea i do i can never feel them..its comfortable to me but she said ima hoe cz its like havin a dick stuck in me for hours at time vs. feeling like im wearing a diaper..im the only one out of my friends that wear tampons everyone wears pads..am i doin somethin worng and how does it make you a hoe ..its not a dick its a tampon!?

I'm the only one out of my friends who wears tampons too but they don't call me a hoe for it.And wearing a tampon does not make you a hoe at all, and i think your friend is really immature for saying something like that.

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Okay my friend is kind of lets say gothic... everyone picks on him at school and sometimes they get down right cruel. He has rocks, footballs, popcans(full),anything they can find thrown at him. He is also now afraid the go to school because of everything that goes on. Well anyways I was talking to him tonight and he told me that he almost lit a house on fire and he is thinking about homicide.. to the kids that are mean to him.. should I tell someone so no one is hurt... but then wouldn't he get mad at me.. I dont want him to get sent away cuz all his mom has left is him.. but wouldnt it be wrong not to tell anyone and have someone get killed.. plz help and fast before he does anything stupid.. thanks

i think you should atleast tell his mom of his plans. Think of it this way if he kills the kids he get's in mad troubel but if you tell his mom than he might just get talked to.since your his friend i think you should talk to him and tell him that theres no reason to go that fare and its totaly messed up how those kids are treating him, you could atleast report that to a teacher or the principel.

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Okay I asked a question before about boners before. :/ Please dont delete this question, I need some opinions. When a guy gets a boner is his penis supposed to go up or straight. Somone told me its a sign of cancer. :( Is that true? Or does it have something to do with age? Help please!!!!

lol when a guy get's a erection it does not mean he has cancer and when a guy gets a erection it goes up.

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