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accept or ignore?
well, he's the scenario. in the summer before 7th grade, i called me friend, nick. nick said he had to go to lake tahoe the day i had invited him over, and i said ok, call me back whenever you come back, he said ok. he doesnt call for many many weeks, so i decide to give him another call. he says he has to go somewhere else, so i say ok, call me when you get back. my dad says he sees nick walking with josh and matt (his 2 other friends) walking around where i live (because we live in the same area. im not friends with matt and josh by the way) so i guess ok he's blowing me off. i decide not to call him again. school starts, and i dont see him so much, and when i do, we just passed each other without a word. its his fault our friendship hasnt progressed at all. this year (8th grade) i see him in halls a lot more. when i go past him, should i say hello or nod my head? because remember this guys ruined my 7th grade world. i had to make all new friends. luckily i'm a great friend maker, and have gotten myself into 2 groups of my own. so should i acknoledge his existence? or pretend he's not there. thanks, and have a nice day.
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well if i was in your shoes i would prolly give him another shot at being your friend. i mean its completely up to you but if you really want to be his friend again talk to him if he still blows you off then just ignore his exsitance on the earth. if you need anymore advice you can im me at seksielilchick09@aol.com or e-mail me at prtygrl2009@yahoo.com
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I think you should definitely ignore this guy. Because obviuosly he isn't really a friend and hes not worth wastin your time on hun! :)
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i think you should just not acknoledge he's there i mean he did that to you. He blows you off and lies about where he's going just so he can avoide you. If i were you i'de give him the cold shoulder.
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Don't be resentful. Holding a grudge will just bring you down. Instead, just spend time with your new friends who accept you for who you are. If you see this guy in the halls, nod your head or smile. If he ignores you just let it go. You have your own friends and you don't need him to fit in. Pretending he's not there will just let him know he's affected you in some way. Don't let him know he's won. Enjoy your new life without him in it.
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