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im 14 and my b/f's 15. He's a really sweet guy and always tells me that hes going to wait for me for when i want to lose my virginity and hes a virgin too. ive known him like my whole life and he is the sweetest guy ever and he is so nice and would never do anything to hurt anyone. all weve done is make out but everytime i come over or he comes over his older sister and older brother and older cousin will ask what we did and he just says nothing and theyre like well damn have you guys at least made out??? and they tease him sometimes n just be like oo all you guys do is make out??? and all that stuff and so lately i think its been bothering him. i know im young and all but i feel like, "pressured" to have sex with him and like i want to in a way so they stop teasing him, and i also feel that theyre gunna think im some prude kind of person and i dont want them to think that of me, i want them to like me and not talk about us. i dont really know how this is a question but i need some kind of advice, like what i should do and if i should have sex with him or not. (link)
Don't let them cause you to have sex just because they're teasing ya'll!! Tell them you don't give a flip what they think and you'll have sex when you're ready


Well you see i really really like this one guy. But this guy is both of my best friends x b/f. and i've liked this guy for like hmmmmm... since like 5th and i'm already in in 7th grde. and i hated it when they both went out with him.and both times they knew i liked him. Well now Janine (second girlfriend/bestfriend) broke up with him and now my other friend eva is probaly gonna date him and i swear i will commit suicide if this happens!!! i cant stand it. well lets put it this way i dont have the biggest boobs and well yea that doesn't exactly help. sooooooo please help me or tell me what to do!! (link)
I think you should make some moves on this dude! Ask him if he wants to hang out or whatever. You've liked this guy for like 2 years so you better get him before Eva does!! Just flirt, flirt, flrit! And for the boobs situation-->by a padded bra ;)-Hope I helped!!-
*Emmy Boo*


Does anyone know any movies thats just like the movie "Thirteen"... i loved that movie and want to see some other ones just like it. I rate well for anyone who gives a movie title!
Thanks. (link)
If you liked Thirteen then you will LOVE the movie Home Room!! It is awesome! -Hope I helped!-
*Emsta Boo


ok..i have a bf and we live kinda close but he goes to another school but i never see him we r in the same religion class but that is for only an hour every week and he doesnt really like to go out like to the movies so does anybody no wat i should do without breaking up with him
thanks

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Ya'll could go to the mall, out to eat, or hang out at eachother's houses. [Hope I helped]
*Emmy


Does anybody no any cute hair styles i have blonde hair that is alittle bit below my shoulders something besides just putting it down thanks ill rate good ones!! (link)
Well leaving your hair down is pretty, but here are some good hair styles:
*Pony Tail
*Corn Rows
*Pig-tails[with or without braids is cute]
*Half-way Pony Tail[put the top half of your hair in a pony tail and let the rest down]
*You could scrunch/curl your hair


Does anybody no some good stores that sell some basic cute shirts or does anybody have a good shirt that would look good on me i have blonde hair and im tall (link)
Here are some stores with really really cute clothes-
*Hot Topic
*Goody's
*American Eagle
*Wet Seal
*Pac Sun
*GAP
*Body Shop
*Old Navy
-Hope I helped!!
*Emmy Booz


hey everyone. im manda and im 14 years old. i need to start babysitting in order to get some money. well i just moved into my new house in a new town. i want to make babysitting flyers to take and give to some of my neibors. i just need to know what to put on it. um.. i get pretty decent grades, im responsible, i love kids, i dont mind changing dipers. i am trained in CPR and First Aid and have the cards to prove it. so what should i put on the flyer to make it look appealing to parents n stuff? thanks for ur guys' help!

much love
xoxo
manda (link)
Well definitely put your name, number, and address on it. And maybe you can scan the cards and put them on there too. Don't make it really crazy or atything 'cause you want parents to think you're mature. And put the price of which you charge per hour on their too.
-Hope
*I
-Helped!
*Emster


my two bestfriends hate me for no reason! they think i talk about them when i dont nd ive told them a million times that i dont talk about them. i still want to be freinds with them, what should i do? please help! (link)
I'm sure that your best friends don't hate you. Maybe they're just mad about something you did but don't realize. Set them straight and tell them that you don't and won't ever talk about them. And try to find out what makes them think that. Maybe someone has told them that. Just ask them and see what's up. If they don't believe or trust you, then they're probably not true friends.
[Hope I helped]
*Emmy Boo


Okay, theres this chickk that goes to my school. I was haveing such a good day cuz I got my hair cut and I got stuff to scrunch my hair, and I thought I looked soo nice. EVERYBODY was complimenting me, and I've never got any compliments from any of these, like my best friend amanda told me i looked pretty, and I've never been told that i was pretty before so it was really cool. But this one chick, shes supposed to be one of my best friends, says I look really bad, and I'm trying to looklike one of my other best friends named Justine, But i wasn't, because Justine doesn't even scrunch her hair! And my belt had broken that day and It wasn't cuz of me, it was because I wore it like everyday and it was fallen apart, it was my favorite belt, and I like put pins in it so it wouldn't break anymore, and then of course I said. "look at my belt" in front of her, and she said "That's what happens when your fat" and I'm like "Dude your mean" and shes like "Truth Hurts", I dunno, she was never mean before, Do you think she was just mad that everybody was complimenting me and not her??

I rate high..! (link)
I think that this girl is not your friend. Even if she was just jealous and she was really your friend she wouldn't have said that. I would ditch this girl and find a new best friend! :)-Hope I helped!!-
=|=*Emster*=|=


ive been with my boyfriend for just a week or so and he wants to have sex, and i want to too...and he told me he loved me but i dunno to belive him or not, what do i do? (link)
You 2 have only been together for a week!! And you don't even KNOW if he truly loves you. This guy is probably some perv that's trying to get in your pants. And if you choose to have sex with him wait like a year before you have sex with this dude! -Hope I helped!-
[Emmy BoO]


Okay...I went out w/ this guy who (I'll call Bobby) 3 months ago. We have remained really close friends, and I really don't want anything else w/ him right now. Well, a couple weeks ago I found out about this girl Bobby likes...so I told him to go out with her. They're going out now.

Well, anyway, people are always coming up to me now and saying that they know I like Bobby when I don't....how can I stop them from thinking this? Now Bobby thinks I like him! argh! I don't like him and I don't know why everyone thinks I do...I don't want his girlfriend to think I like him (because I don't) and because she is my friend :o/ (link)
Well sit down Bobby and his girlfriend and straight up tell them that you do not like Bobby. And just tell everyone else the same. If this doesn't work then just ignore it.
-Hope I helped :)
*Emmy


Hay.. i once when out with this guy Hayden.. we went out for 5 months...im only 13 years old.. yeah really young to have any thing SERIOUS* well.. one time we went swimming.. we went into the house... n he was touchin me n places i didnt want him to touch me.. rite b4 he left.. he fingered me.. n i didnt want this to happen.. im affraid he is going to tell everyone at school what happend.. cuz if this gets out, they mite think imma hoe.. n im not the kinda girl who wants to be n this situation.. also.. i broke up with Hayden because he was a sick perv... i found a much better boyfriend named Justin! He is so great! *not a perv* but he heard about this rumer... i didnt want to tell him what Hayden did to me cuz i didnt want him to think i wanted Hayden to do this to me or that im that kind of person.. should i tell Justin what happend? or should i keep it to myself... Also.. what should i do about Hayden? i told him the real reason i broke up with him is because i didnt like him any more... should i tell him the real reason or keep it to myself.. Hayden and me broke up July 7.... i need help! answer all my questions please! (link)
I definitely think that you should tell someone about what Hayden did to you. But only if you had told him to stop, otherwise there's nothing anyone can do about it. I would tell Justin what really happened. And most definitely tell this Hayden cracker the real reason ya'll broke up!-Hope I helped-
~Emmy


theres a party tom. night that my friends from my old school invited me too.... see i havent seen them since lik a year ago... do u think ill be left out? Should i go? or should i hang with my friends from my school (link)
I think you should go chyll with your old friends. You know, see whats up with them and let the know you haven't forgotten them.-Hope I helpled
[Emster]


hey okay im a 14/f and im home sick from school today...i have a stuffy nose, really bad cough, and a super sore throat. my whole back and neck are really sore, and it hurts to move my neck really bad. is this just from being sick or do i have something else wrong? (link)
You could be just sick--BUT, mono has been going around so you may possibly have that.
-EmmY bOO-


i just recently had sex and im worried im pregnet...what are some signs that your pregnet? (link)
If you skip your period you might be. Take a pregnancy test. -Hope I helped ya-
*EmmY bOO*


I'm 16. I'm having a problem. My current boyfriend Scott is wonderful. He's a good friend of mine and we recently started going out. This monday will be two weeks. Anyways, I'm having problems getting over my ex. (We'll call him ****** okay? I don't want to give his name.)So me and ****** have been friends for a while too. We went out for a while but then we broke up and decided to be friends. The other day he decided to tell me that the only reason he initiated the break-up was because he's afraid that he'll break my heart or hurt me. He could never hurt me in the ways that he thinks he can. But we won't get into that. And he doesn't know I'm not exactly over him. I've told him how I felt during the relationship but I never told him that I still feel that way.
Should I tell him?
What should I do about Scott? (I really don't want to hurt him)
And what am I going to do if Scott and I break up?
-Sam (link)
Well, you have to choose--Who do you like better? If you like * then go back out with him and tell him you don't care about your reputation. And if you like Scott then stay with him and try to stay away from *. -Hope I helped ya!-
~Ems


Ok, i have a friend, ive known her for a long time, but we just started to talk and get to know each other about a month ago. I'm finding a lot i didnt know about here, and im starting to like her as more than a friend. I told her im really starting to fall for her. She says that she dont think we could have a relationship for 2 reaons. 1. Because she likes someone else, and she doesnt want to get with me to just get over that other guy and hurt me in the process. basicly she doesnt want to use me. and 2. We've known each other for such a long time that she hasnt thought of me like that. The problem is, she still heavily flirts with me and acts like she wants to be with me. So do you think i have a chance? (link)
This girl is just a flirt. I'm sorry but if she has told you that she doesn't like you and she is interested in someone else then chances are that she probably doesn't like you.
-Emily


i have this friend and he keeps telling me he likes me. He said he was in love with me and that he loved my body. He is really nice. People are always calling him gay and mean things. He keeps asking me out almost everyday. It is getting annoying. I keep telling him no. I try to say like i not being mean. (I'll sorta laugh like it is a joke.) I dont want to hurt his feelings. Today he asked me out. He said, "If you go out with me I'll give you a cell phone! It's prepaid and eveything!" I hate to keep telling him no, that i dont want to go out with him. How can I tell him I only like him as a friend and nothing more without hurting his feelings? I dont want thing to be too weird between us. (link)
Well don't call him any names or make him feel bad. Just sit him down and be like listen you're my buddy and I don't like you any more than that but I'm always here for you. -Hope I helped!
-Ems


Hey well ok. i have another problem. Just in case you dont know im female and 15. I was having this problem with bieng comitted to just one guy. But then i thought i had finally found somebody. I really like him and he likes me too! So we started to go out. But a couple days later his ex girlfriend starts telling him if you dont break up with her my friends and me are going to jump her. Shes hispanic and reallllly ghetto. And im white and I have nevvver gotten into a fight. So me and my boy friend broke up because we were both scared for me. So we see each other in the halls everyday and we still talk to eachother and we even still kiss and stuff. But it's reallly hard for me to deal with all this. I get so happy when im about to see him, but once we leave eachother i end up starting to cry. We both still want to be with eachother but we dont know what to do. Can anyone help? I like him a lotttt! Thanks yall! (link)
Never ever ever break up because so and so said this!! If you like him then you should be with him! If this little ghetto freak keeps this up then tell an adult! Or have your boyfriend say I'll never like you if you're going to act like this! -Hope I helped!-
*Emmy Boo*


when should it be okay to have sex? (link)
You should wait to have sex when you are at least 16 and you're 100% percent sure that you are ready and mature enough for it. And you should make sure that it is with someone you truly love and trust.
-Hope I helped!-
[Ems]




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