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I'm Michelle. I'm 17 years old and going to be a senior in high school. I work at Giant full time during the summer- 40 hours a week. I love to have fun, talk, and my boyfriend. Asssk me anything!

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ok I'll start from the beginning,

one day I ask this girl out. she says let me get back to you. so she goes & tells her friends what happened & they hide & talk. after lunch she says yes. well, two days later she says she wants to break up because she doesn't want a boyfriend.
taht happened about 6 mons. ago. well I still have feelings for her. and I hear she still has feelings for me. I'm afraid if I ask her out She'll say no. what do I do?

Well you really can't trust what other people say...if YOU think she still likes you, then go for it. If you don't think she likes you (*or aren't sure) then you should probably just hang out w.her untill you think you kno if she likes you. Be like "I know we already went out n all and you didn't wanna boyfriend and everything but what are you doing this weekend (*or whenever..) bc I wanted to know if you wanted to hang out or smthn" and see what she says! If shes like..."I don't wanna boyfriend" just tell her you're not trying to be her boyfriend just a friend. Then..she'll either start to like you, or she won't. If she knows you are just trying to be her friend then theres no pressure and it'll be so much more fun, and theres a better chance she might start liking you. So I think you should...become her friend, be yourself and see what she does. That is unless you already think she likes you...then ask her out
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How do you get over a hangover?

sleep, advil, and pepto to help your stomach
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ok tomorro night my dad and i are going out for a steak dinner and maybe some shopping. My friend tutored me for free a few times, which was really nice of her. My mom suggested me taking her tomorro.. my dad said he didnt mind even though he did mention he'd rather it be just the two of us. What should i choose to do?

I think you should just go w.your dad. If you have a friend there it'll be kinda hard to divide your attention and it'll be boring for either your friend or your dad. Instead of having her come with you guys tomorow, pick another day on a weekend to go out to dinner and then have her sleepover or go bowling or shopping or smthn so it's fun for her and she doesn't feel like shes just tagging along, but you actually planned smthn special to thank her for tutoring you
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me and my girl are realy close but lately about 3 other girls have been hitten on me. including like my best friend. i dont know how 2 let them down couse ive told them i have a girl

Just ignore them, like don't be mean to them...but don't pay that much attention to them and if they ask you what your doing that nite or smthn, tell they you're hanging out w.your girlfriend and talk about her a lot..they'll hate it and back off
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I didn't know what to put this under. My mom and I want to help out with the tsunami disaster by sending $, but my mom doesn't think it'll help. Like it won't be enough. What do you think? Should we send the money or no?
Thanks

Yes! Just a little bit of money can help, like I know they're giving out packages of noodles..and just like $20 can probably buy a lot of noodles or like a blanket for people when they get cold
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what are some good love songs

This I Swear by Nick Lachey. It's seriously the best song ever and sooo sweet. I love it so much...it's gonna be my wedding song
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New Years Eve, aka tomorrow night is my friend Lisa's birthday. She is throwing a small party that starts at three thirty. My friend Jenny and I want to go to another party that is kind of late at night. Lisa never really articulated when her party was over and doesn't really seem to express interest in late night stuff. So me and Jenny are confused if it's rude to leave her party at 11 or so to go to the other one because we really, really, really don't want to hurt Lisa's feelings.

Yah, I think you could leave around 11...that sounds like a long party if she's not into late night stuff. Just call her up tomorow and tell her how excited you are about her party and talk about whatever and then be like, "Oh yah, what time is your party ending?" and if she's like "oh, theres no real ending time..." just tell her you have to leave around 11. It's not rude...and chances are, her party will be ending before that anyways!
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Ok I'm a boy my friends call me lil John ok now i'm a boy and i want dreads and my friends think i'm gonna look like a girl and i really want dreads but my friends think i'm gonna look like a freak. if you don't know what dreads are there like like braids but like bigger.soooo should i get them, or not.plez i need some advice so i need an answer

I say, get them if you want to....your friends won't like, stop being friends w.you bc they don't like your hair. I can see some girls being like that, but unless you have really conceited guy friends, they'll get used to your new hair and won't care after like a week. And if it really doesn't turn out good...you can just shave ur head or smthn and your hair will grow back fast
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i hurt my wrist playing volleyball about a month ago. my dad told me it was sprained and it would stop hurting in about a week or so. but my wrist has been hurting for a month. i can't do pushups or lift anything without it hurting. what do u think i've done to it? i rate high!

They REALLY need to take you to the doctor...if they absolutely refuse, talk to your school nurse or smthn and maybe she can talk to them and recomend that you go see a doctor...or you could even call the doctors office and they might be able to give you a referal to get x-rays. Or you could just get someone (*friend, older sibling, cousin, aunt, uncle etc) to take you to the doctor bc you really should go!! If you call the doctor they might be able to prescribe you pain killers over the phone. Once I bruised my foot playing field hockey and it hurt for about 4 months, but it really helped me to soak it in warm water (*and this stuff from bath and body works...it was like some kind of soothing body wash that I mixed into the water)and wrap it in an ace bandage. Nothing was wrong w.it so the doctor couldn't really do anything...I just had to wait untill it healed.
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if someone reports another person, will the person being reported know the username of the person reporting them? sorry if confusing!

Nope
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wut are good ways to help or cure hyperhydrosis? its been an embarassing problem for about 3-4 years now! thanks in advanced!

botox-- seriously it works!
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I was cleaning out my closet that I havn't cleaned for like a year and a half and I found the $125 gold necklace that my ex-boyfriend gave me last year. I remember throwing it in the closet when i broke up with him-----but now I found it. I don't have any jewelery that fine and I was thinking about wearing the necklace. Who's gonna know? My ex lives in N.Y.C. anyway and i'm like 2 hours north of the city, so I wont see him. Do you think its ok to wear it???

Yah, or course you can wear it!! If anyone makes a big deal about it, just tell them it's pretty and you wanna wear it and theres no reason y you can't!
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My sister said I over do it on the eyeliner factor. She says I wear to much, and it should look natural and you shouldn't put that much on cuz it makes you look alot older. I like the way I wear it and her nickname for me is eyeliner. I hate it. What should I say to her?>

I don't think you can over do eyeliner. Like, only a certain amount can go on w.out looking bad (*like if it looked bad you would kno it) I can definately relate bc my sister always calls me chico bc I look like a boy? lOl I dn...but just tell her that you like it and she needs to back off. And she'll stop eventually, like it'll get old to her and she'll stop. But untill then, just keep telling her to stop and if it's really necessary, tell your mom shes bugging you. I've gotten used to the whole chico thing where I used to hate it and now I'm just used to it. I guess eyeliner can make you look older...but not really THAT much older...tell her she just doesn't understand eyeliner...it becomes like, part of you. You'll miss it if you stop wearing it. And she might just be jealous of you so she makes fun of you...
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ok im working on a chart for science... and its one of those things that teachers assign you because they have nothing better to do. We have to find 7 kinds kinds of plastic and list 3 "uses" and 3 "can be recylced as". it sounds easy but its kinda confusing because i don't know if what im saying for "uses" is right. i found a type of plastic that used to make pop bottles and peanut butter jars, etc. is that a use? i mean it sounds like it is, im probably just being parranoid.. could i use pop bottle, and peanut butter jar as uses? for the "can be recycled as" could i use the same thing? like, pop bottles can be recycled so could i use that?
Thanx!!

Yah, that sounds right. bc the plastic is USED to make those things. So it's a use. I think you're right...how wouldn't it be a use??(*and if you're really not sure, talk to some other ppl in that class) and if it can be recycled into another bottle, then I think you're right on that one too! Good Luck w.your project!
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okay the guy i liked just asked me 2 do somthing with him(go 2 the like the movies) and i am SO nervous!!!
HELP!!

Go and don't worry! He'll probably be nervous too. But there's really no point in being nervous, you wanna go (*well I'm guessing you wanna go, bc you like him...) so you should go. It'll be fun! And in the movies its dark and you have to be quiet so there won't be that much talking or weird silences
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On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks..

Personally, I think you should only have sex w.someone if you love them. I mean of course me and my friends always talk about how hott someone is and how we'd have sex w.them but when it really comes down to it, you should only have sex w.someone you truly love. And you have to be OK w.people calling you a slut bc it'll get around and people WILL call you that. He could have really changed since the last time you went out w.him, so you should probably know him a little better on the boyfriend level before you have sex w.him. Do you really want your first time to be when you're 14? If it was me...when I'm like 30, I wouldn't understand why I had sex when I was 14. You just have to think about 5 years from now, or when you're getting married (*to someone who ISN'T him) or when everyones talking about you being a slut, if it'd still be the right choice. There's definately conciquences and my advice is to NOT have sex w.him..you shouldn't have sex w.him bc you're tired of being a virgin, being a virgin is a good thing, not a bad thing, and you shouldn't have sex JUST to loose it, but if you do...new years eve is probably a good night!
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Ok so theres this guy, and he lives in Richmond, and we went to camp together 2 years ago and we talk on the interent all the time, and lately hes been hitting on my a lot over the internet, and now he wants to see me and lets just say its not just to talk to me, what should i tell him?

If you like him and wanna do w.him whatever it is he wants to do w.you, then go see him!! Actually, make him come see YOU. But if you just like him as a friend or if you don't wanna do more then talking..you probably shouldn't see him unless he knos that (*and is OK w.it). He could have changed a LOT over the last 2 years and be like, dangerous so you probably wanna be cautious if you do see him, but if you know him good and trust him & wanna see him then tell him and you guys can hang out and it'll be fun! I don't know how you feel about him, but if it was me, I'd probably hang out w.him but I wouldn't do anything I didn't want to...like if I didn't like him, we'd just end up talking or smthn
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My mom seems to think that only black people wear brands such as Roccawear, Baby Phat and Ecko. I like the clothes and she wont let me wear them because on the websites the people who are modeling them happen to be black. So tell me really, do these brands are truly only worn by Africans?

I think they're made mostly for black people, but white people can wear them too. It's just a style that a lot of black people like, but its not likw white people CAN'T wear those types of clothes. I see white people wearing those brands all the time. If you ACT black and wear those kinda of clothes people might start calling you a wigger (*white n....) but thats only if you like, think you're black. Just explain it to your mom and if she doesn't understand..then it sucks but you have to do what she says
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HI,
Ive got a book jammed down the back of the radiator and I need to get it out. I can't get it out the bottom or side of the radiator, only the top. I can't fit my arm through the top to get it. How on earth do I get it????
Zoinatrobe

Try getting someone w.smaller arms to help you! Or maybe tweezers or salad tongs (*depending on how big the book is) I'm not sure if you can move radiators bc I don't have one, but try to find out if you can move it away from the wall or smthn. There's probably some type of radiator repair company around so you can probably call them up and ask how to get it out, or they can come by and get it out for you. That's all I can think of..Good Luck!
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ok i have these white dots on my nails. there in any random spot, anywhere on my nail. does anyone else have these or know what they are?? thanks

Lack of calcium, take some calcium supplements or drink milk or orange juice or anything w.calcium and that should help them go away (*and not come back!) I don't really think I've ever gotten them but I remeber my friend getting one like in 7th grade and she put (*calcium enriched) nail polish on and when she took it off a couple days later, it was gone. I'm not sure but I think it was some type of Sally Hanson nail polish (*you can find it @ wal-mart)Probably any kind of nail polish that is supposed to strengthen your nails will have calcium in it..they're nothing to worry about tho!!
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