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Q: Im not allowed to have a boy friend and im going to be 13 they treat me like im two. well i have a bf named chris and i been sneaking him for a LONG time now since i was a little kid we keep fighting and getting back together and fighting and well ne wayz i am sick of sneaking but i love him soo much and i dont want ne thing to happen between us but i am sick of my parents...what should i do.
LoVe,
puppyluv

been there, done that. dating behind your parents' backs just causes a big mess. it's horrible. try sitting down and calmly talking with your parents about the situation. if they still don't want you to date, you shouldn't. trust me, it ends badly.

Q: My boyfriend always seems so sad and depressed.. What are some things I could do to cheer him up? Like little or big things, doesn't matter.

you can't bring him out of depression. you shouldn't even try. just don't bring it up because most likely he doesn't want help. he's a guy and they're all like that. my advice, let him know how much you care every day. make sure he knows he can talk to you about it. :)

Q: I was looking at my boyfriend's myspace friends, and saw that on some girls picture, he had commented "that pic is fucking hott." should i be concerned at all? do you all think this is a big deal or something i should just let go?

sorry to say it, but your boyfriend will think other girls are hot. all boys have hormones, and they can't help it. i would just let it go. but if it matters a lot to you, just tell him it bothers you when he says things and he should just keep things to himself. :)

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Q: ok..... PLEASE help me im SO stuck!!! well two of my BEST friends in the world are in a HUGE fight, they say i have to pick one of them. i dont want to pick one, but i dont ant them to fight!!! they sometimes fight OVER me!!!!!! but PLEASE help me im begging you!!!! im desprate!!!
ps. they talk about eachother and i dont want to talk about eather one!!!

i have the same problem. don't try to make them get along because they will just hate each other more. hang out with each of them seperately. if one starts talking about the other, simply tell them to stop. if they're really your friends they won't get upset and leave you. it worked for me. and my relationship with each of them is better than ever.

Q: 0N MYSPACE-----

how do you put banners where it says "____ is in your extended network"

and what website can i get them from?

AND

where it says "add to friends,send messege,etc"

how can i get those cooler?

www.chasebadkids.net

Q: okay ive been getting that white stuff...i thought that means ur getting ur period soon, but i havent had it, and its been a while...

discharge. you can't really tell how long you'll have it before you start your period. don't worry about it. just wait it out.

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Q: I have a myspace and I am wanting to put a picture marquee with about 20 pictures onto my page.

Does anyone know the code for a marquee with photos, and where do I put it, and how does everything work? Thanks babes

PICTURE TAGS put it in whatever section you want it in. if you don't know how the tags work, upload your pictures to photobucket, and there should be a section under each picture that says tag. copy and paste that into the marquee. then add me. www.myspace.com/you_and_ii_collide

Q: wut type of shoes are in rite now? like that i could wear with jeans to school nd stuff. thanks mwa bye.

don't worry about "in". i wear whatever i can find. $15 shoes from TJ max. and everyone loves them. i have a few pairs of keds with really cute designs and the way my jeans cover it is really cute. then there's converse and vans.. can't go wrong with them.

Q: I am getting my haircut tomarrow and I am thinking about getting angled bangs and layers, but i cant seem to find any pictures of this hairstyle. Does anyone have any pictures of THEIR haircut, or other hair pics that I could show to the stylist?

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Q: where can i get music off the internet? not anything like limewire or anything that i have to download?

i use www.singingfool.com because you can create a playlist. then there's www.purevolume.com because you can create a band list. ;]

Q: this year are long dresses or short dresses in style for homecoming?
thanks bunches!

short. but don't be whorish. :]

Q: a few stupid questions...but i don't know who else to ask. just wondering what these mean?

l33t

pwn

143

thanks in advance!

pwn is pronounced pone. there's also pwn3d which is prounounced poned. it's used instead of 'you got owned' or 'i own you'. it also means 'burn'.

the others, i have no clue.

Q: im 14,and i have been dating this guy that i think im in love with he wants
to have sex, 9he isent making me) , i want to but i got raped when i was 12
and im scared..what should i do?.

you need to tell him about the rape. even though it must be difficult to talk about. tell him you're scared.. and it will bring back terrible memories. plus, you shouldn't be having sex until you're married. save it for the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Q: Does AIM store your conversations?

no. not unless you save it yourself. but there is a way that it stays on your hard drive. but, it's difficult and you have to know a whole lot about computers to find them.

Q: what do u do to get rid of hiccups??

eat peanut butter. it's a little known fact. but it works.

Q: Yahoo launch, and MTV.com music videos aren't working for me. Are there any more music video sites that are similar to launch? Like It keeps playing videos without picking certain ones? if that makes any sense...
but i really need help, this is driving me nuts!

www.singingfool.com you can even create your own playlist.

Q: ok so what if you do not wear tampons whatsoever-how do you take a shower. . .? thanks

i'm not exactly sure what you mean, but i'll answer anyway. if you use pads or tampons, you take a normal shower. throw away the pad when you undress. leave the tampon in and act as if it wasn't there.

Q: yeah hi. well um i cant figure out the dam tampons. i REALLY want to use them soo bad cause pads are so nasty! i need a freakin like DRAWING to help me because words dont work. idk if you can help but im just putting it out there!

i had the hardest time when i started using tampons too. but i was motivated. you just have to sit back and relax. just take a few deep breaths and most importantly don't look down there, it'll make you nervous and your muscles won't be relaxed enough. i'm sure the answers to your other question explained the rest. go to www.tampax.com if you need more help.

Q: wut color is yur period supposed to be???

most likely red, dark red, red/brown. it's blood, so if it doesn't look like normal blood, something is probably wrong.

bio

I'm Katelyn. Not Katie Lynn.

PERSONALITY:
-God comes first.
-I am Pro-Life.
-I put others before myself.
-I'm usually nice.
-I don't cuss and I don't gossip.
-I'm not perfect, but I know God is.

APPEARANCE:
-I'm short.
-I have a mullet.
-I have freckles.
-I change my hair often.
-I have green eyes, not blue.
-I'm usually considered cute.