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is it true that if you get fucked in the ass there is less of a chance of gettin pregnant./ (wit a condom) (link)
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It is impossible for a person to become pregnant by having anal sex, with or without a condom. The only way you can get pregnant is if semen gets into the female's vagina. Not her anus.
However, you have a greater risk of getting an STD/STI by anal sex. Be careful.
-FunnyCide
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Tonight is New Years ! & i don't know how i should make my hair should i put it up, put it down & straighten it, or put it down and curl it ?
Thnank you !
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I have to disagree with everyone else. Straighten it. Down.
Unless you think it looks better up or better curly.
-FunnyCide
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ok so i asked about me and my boyfriend earlier but now i have a really big porblem ok so my bestguyfrind i consider him my brother....well my bestfriend has liked him since i iterduced them and now there goin out...but like over christmas break me and him were talkin and everything like came out in the open he said alot of stuff that i never would expect from him like he liked me and has liked me since the first day and like im perfect and all that... well i feel the same way but we both love out boyfriends and girlfriends...and i dont want to do ANYTHING to ruin wat me and my b/f have or me and my bestfriends relation ship or me and my best guy friends relation ship so i dont know wat to do... cause we decided nuttin was gonna happin but everytime we talk he brings sometin up about us... :( idk thank u so much to anyone that helps me!!! (link)
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Well tell him that you're worried about your frienship. Tell him (that is, him being your guy friend) that you don't want to lose a good thing which you have in him.
Don't break up with your boyfriend and encourage your guy friend not to leave his girlfriend over you.
If it makes you uncomfortable, ask your guy friend to not bring up the fact that you have a mutual liking of each other.
-FunnyCide
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my bf is wonderful. I care for him alot...i don't know about love..but i care for him alot. The thing is, whenever I am with him, like at the movies, or at zoo lights, i love it when we just cuddle. I feel so safe when he has his arms around me and i just sleep on him, or just relax on him. I am not really that much into kissing. His best friend is my guy friend and when i talk to him on the phone, he says that my bf tells him that he likes me alot alot but he wants to kiss me more. So i went to the movies with him yesterday and we saw King Kong. It was like 3 hours. For the first two hours we just cuddled. I couldn't bring myself to kiss him for some reason. I kept on getting texts from my guy friend saying kiss him now, do it now..so i made out with him for like 10 seconds, then i went back to cuddling. is it so wrong to just want to cuddle? i don't understand what is wrong with me, why can't i bring myself to make out with him for a long time? (link)
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No, there's nothing wrong to want to just cuddle. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and have not kissed once. We both prefer "cuddling," just hugging, holding hands etc.
Some people like different things. Explain to your boyfriend that kissing him is nice, but you really feel wonderful and safe in his arms. That's how I feel when my boyfriend hugs me. So safe, warm, comforted, loved, cared for.. etc., etc., and plus, who doesn't like a hug?
It is a mutual understanding between my boyfriend and I that, while we love each other, and kissing has it's place, right now, that place is not within our relationship boundries. We love hugging each other. It is physical, but nothing that my parents wouldn't approve of.
I am a very physical person - as you are - but in a different way than your boyfriend is. Your boyfriend is physical = action. [Which is NOT a bad thing.] I am, and you probably also, are physical = attention, affection, comfort. Sure, it's great to know that someone likes / loves you, but it really is much better when their arms are around you, holding you tightly.
There is no reason you shouldn't kiss your boyfriend, and there is no reason you should feel pressured to kiss him. Don't let someone else tell you when it is a right time and a wrong time to kiss him. And besides... let your boyfriend initiate once in a while, eh? But don't pull away. He cuddles with you, you kiss him. That way you're both happy. :)
By the way, I saw King Kong with my dad [yeah, that was my "date"] and the graphics / special effects were INCREDIBLE. The water, dinosours, King Kong himself, the giant bugs... all spectacular. But the plot, in my opinion, was lacking a bit. There were places that I was just bored. But... I'm sure you weren't. [no offense. I just know that I wouldn't be bored if I were cuddling with my boyfriend.]
Talk and explain to your boyfriend. I'm sure he'll understand and be happy to cuddle with you as long as you're willing to kiss once in a while.
-FunnyCide
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alrite, well .. me & this kids ( we`ll call him *john ) so, me & *john went out for 5 months & it was the best relationship i`ve had ! he was nice & we always hung out.. then things got bad & he dumped me ( over one of my friends ) then asked me back out & i said yes cuz i really like him .. & then he did the same thing again .. & see he has friends in other towns so he started to like this girl in another town .. & they are now going out =\.. & i just broke up with *john`s new girlfriend`s friend .. but now * john has been calling me & like flirting with me a ton, and people say he likes me again ..& i still like him but i don`t know if i should take him back if he askes me back out or should i just stay away from him ??
please help me. i really need to know ! (link)
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I would stay away from him. He's broken your heart too many times and hasn't even bothered to consider how you feel.
Don't take him back. You're worth more than that.
-FunnyCide
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Ok. I recently bought my first pair of Converse. They are Chuck Taylor Premiere All Star, Low, and I was wondering if I am supposed to wear socks with them. If it helps, I'm a girl. (link)
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I have the hightops. I always wear socks. They rub blisters on my feet otherwise. But my sister can wear ankel socks and it doesn't bother her. I would wear socks like for normal tennis shoes (the "no show" kind) when wearing a skirt / shorts / capris. But when you have on pants, it doesn't really matter.
But I think it's cleaner to wear socks. Personal opinion.
-FunnyCide
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hey with the ying&yang sign thing, which color is ying and which one is yang? thanks much :-), oh and also what are the meanings of the words if u kno, thanks again (link)
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I have no idea, but this site seems to have all the answers. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Talk:Yin_and_yang
-FunnyCide
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i'm 5'6 and weigh 140...i feel huge....any ideas on how to get a good body...butin a healty way? i odnt want to have to starve....
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Eat veggies. Stay away from sodas, tea, coffee etc. No more cookies or cake or ice cream. Just eat lean meats (chicken, deer, fish, etc.), vegetables and fruits.
You might not loose pounds immediately, but coupled with healthy exercise - 30 minutes of aerobic exercise (walking briskly, jogging, biking, roller blading) three times a week, you'll be able to tell in how your clothes fit.
You're really not that big. Your BMI is 23, which is healthy. [see http://www.am-i-fat.com/ on the left side panal, third from the top it says "am I fat?" click on it.]
-FunnyCide
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bored.. someone tell me what to do....
there is nothing to do...
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Watch TV
IM people
Play cards (Solitare, anyone?)
Give advice
Play online games
Play with your pet
Call a friend you haven't talked to in a while
Read a book
The dictionary is good
Research something that interests you
Write a letter to your grandma (they love it)
-FunnyCide
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If the director thinks that you'd be good for a role, how long after your audition will it be before he/she calls you back? I don't think I got the part, but I just want to know (link)
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Well, it really depends.
When I auditioned for a part for The Fiddler On The Roof, I went on Monday, was called back Tuesday, and knew which part I had Thursday.
But then again, the cast was small - only thirty-five people.
It could greatly vary.
I was so stressed and worried that I wouldn't get a part. I lost several hours of sleep.
Don't be dumb like I was. I'm sure you got a part!
Just be patient, and if you didn't get a part, try out again next time.
I'm sure it'll only be a few days. At most a week.
-FunnyCide
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okay is it wrong to be so outgoing? i mean when im with my group of friends boys and girls.ill be one of the boys..im always the one making jokes and talk with attitude.but sometime i feel i should slow down be more reserved and sweet.becouse even tough im friendly n outgoing my girlfriends seems to be getting all the boys.why? i need advice badly becouse im in love with one guy he doesnt know about it.so i dont want 2 mess things up this time. i dont want to look like a clown.pls help. (link)
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I'm outgoing and bold also.
The only way you'll be messing up is if you hide who you really are and pretend to be something you're not.
Sweet girls have their place, of course, but if you're not timid and shy and sweet, don't pretend to be.
I always crack jokes (usually on someone or myself, but not meanspirited) and I have attitued and flair. My best friends are guys (I do have female friends though) and they seem to enjoy my humor.
There's a guy for you. Don't worry.
This may not be true of all "reserved and sweet" girls... but the one that I knew always got the guys was also a charmer. She could charm you into giving her the shirt off your back - in the middle of winter. I know guys fall for her... and fall hard on their butts. Charm makes people like you until they see who you really are.
Be true to yourself.
Somebody will appreciate it later.
-FunnyCide
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where is a store that has cute clothes and don't cost that much...i rate high (link)
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Target
Wal-Mart
Thrift store
Garage sale
None of those are 'below' you. Those places are where I shop and people often comment [positive comment] on my clothes. You can find Abercrombie, Hollister, Aeropostal, Americal Eagle etc. at the Thrift store - with the tag still - for a fraction of the price. I got my sister a pair of Abercrombie&Fitch pants with the tag still on for $6.00, when the tag price was $50.99. That's a HUGE difference, but for the same pants.
-FunnyCide
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ok i know it seems weird soem girls just talk about how horribel it is to have small boobs but i feel insecure about myself becasue i have realy big boobs adn i am only 13 i have a size D cup and i here guys talk about girls who have big boobs liei soem of my friends and say how big boobs are hard to work with and that big boobs are good to a point i dont knwo if i shoudl try to reduce the size of my chest or keep it normal i need help thanxs so much and no stupid remarks pleezzz (link)
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If you are completely self conscious about your breasts when you're in your twenties, that would be the time to consider a breast reduction. Your body may catch up with your breasts - you're only thirteen. I know how you feel though. Not like I wear a D cup... or anything above an A... but I'm a small person. I weigh 89 pounds and I'm 5'0'' tall.
Ignore your friends that say big breasts are bad. Let me tell you, guys like them. Haha. [that was mean of me] That is NOT TO SAY that if you have small breasts you won't have a boyfriend. I have a boyfriend. (Today is our ninth month "anniversary"!)
Sweetheart, God made you how you are. If your body does not correct itself, and you are unhappy with how you look, that would be the time to consider wearing different clothing that would be more restrictive of your breasts (such as sports bras instead of wire cupped, and a camisole over it).
You're not alone. I have a friend who was a D cup when she was 13. Except she liked it. She knew she looked great - still looks great - and clothes fit her wonderfully. I'm quite sure that you're the same way and are just a little self conscious.
If your breasts begin to cause physical problems - such as back pain and headaches - it would be a good idea to consider breast reduction.
-FunnyCide
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I am a 17 year old boy, the only son in family. I have four sisters, three are elder and one is younger. My all family members love me a lot as I am the only brother. I also love them. But I don’t know why I have dirty feelings about my sisters. My mind always filled with dirty feelings about them. My mind always work on dirty schemes.But they all think me a innocent boy.I share a room with me eldest sister she is about 24 years old. She has a fat body. She snores during sleep. When she is in deep sleep I touch and caress her body and feels the softness and smells her private parts, specially her hips. I also try to hear the sound from washroom when she use it. Many times I have shown my male organ to her as I come out after taking bath in towel. I like to see her impressions when I (posing that I am unaware) give her view. Twice I have also shown to my youngest sister (she is 13 year old).
My sisters are friendly in nature, I have habit of slap and pinch their hips. Some time we fake fight with each other and during that I touch their private parts posing my self innocent. They believe this brotherly love but I have dirty thinking. I try to see them using washroom or taking bath from the backyard and when ever I succeed many days spend in dreaming about that
In spite of all this I have no sex thoughts about my sisters, I never thought about that. I just like to do the above mentioned things & enjoys.
Please give me an advise, how should I control my self to avoid such things. IS I am sick?
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Ok, you're growing up. What you're experiencing is quite normal. Many teenage boys, and even young men into their twenties and older, have such feelings. They have no desire for sex - simply for the view and touch. This is why the pornography field is so vastly large and thriving. It's hormones that originally start to make you feel like you want to touch a woman's hips or breasts or private areas, but when you get into the habit of seeing, touching and fantasizing about a woman, it becomes hard to stop.
Resist. In the English dictionary, this means : 1. To strive to fend off or offset the actions, effects, or force of.
2. To remain firm against the actions, effects, or force of; withstand: a bacterium that resisted the antibiotic.
3. To keep from giving in to or enjoying.
I'm talking about the last one, specifically.
It will be incredibly difficult. But you must stop. Your poor sisters are completely unaware and , if they knew, would be terribly disappointed in you.
Imagine if that happened to you. Wouldn't you be a little... creeped out?
Yes, I think it's fairly sick.
To control yourself, think about how your sisters DNA is only SLIGHTLY different than your own. Imagine marrying your sister. Imagine having children with her. Of course, your children would be terribly disfigured and have some sort of awful disease because of the recessive genes which you and your sisters share.
Imagine having to tell your future wife about how you fantasized about your sisters. She would be devistated.
What you are doing is not good.
I would suggest telling a friend. A close friend. But... not a male friend. A female friend. Girls will be able to help you more because they really do understand better. And a guy might simply egg you on, which is the opposite effect of what is needed.
If your sisters ever found out... you could be put in jail for sexual harassment. This is the truth.
This website tells you what is sexual harassment : http://www.eeoc.gov/facts/fs-sex.html
Instead of posing unaware and showing yourself to your sisters, get dressed in the washroom. Instead of trying to view your sisters bathing, force yourself to concentrate on something else - homework, a book, TV, internet etc.
Go to bed before your sister does so you're already asleep when she goes in to a deep sleep. Should you wake up, resist the urge to get out of bed.
Imagine how this will haunt you in thirty years.
Resist.
If you feel you cannot, confide in someone. A pastor will help. S/he will not judge you.
If nothing else helps, see a psycologist, if your parents will allow.
-FunnyCide
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I love my job and the people I work with. The money is nice too. I don't HAVE to work because I am on a disability pension for having schixophrenia but I WANTED to go back to work because I needed more money and was getting bored. No one at the job knows about my disability by the way.
Well the problem is that even though I really enjoy my job and I'm good at it ( I'm a sales associate in the clothing department) my boss can be very intimidating and downright MEAN. I've heard from the other girls that she has sweared at people when there stuff was in her way. She yelled at me about two months ago for holding the clothing wrong. Well we had been getting along a little bit better the last couple of weeks but on boxind day she blasted me for not getting some work done on time for the boxing day sale. She was really hard on me and I almost burst into tears. Now I'm scared she may fire me.
How can I get her to be nicer to me? I work as hard as I can but nothing seems to satisfy her. She wasnt just mad at me though.
Does anyone have any suggestions? (link)
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Your boss probably knows about your illness. I would not call it a disablity. A person with a disibility is someone who can't. You sure sound like you can. Keep that attitude.
Your boss is... a girl. Girls have PMS. Some girls PMS all the time. I can't explain it, it just is.
If things don't look up, try finding a new job. Just try to stay out of her way, be pleasant, and work hard.
-FunnyCide
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Can anyone give me a few songs about death, suicide, cutting, anything sad and i mean SAD
It doesnt matter the 'type' of music
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I got most of these from a website. Some are my own. I don't know how helpful they'll be, but surely one of them will relate.
- Angelo Badalamenti - Twin Peaks Theme
- Barenaked Ladies - What A Good Boy
- Barenaked Ladies - Break Your Heart
- Barenaked Ladies - War On Drugs
- Bush - Glycerine
- Donna Lewis - I Love You Always Forever
- Edwin McCain - I'll Be
- Edwin McCain - I Could Not Ask For More
- Elvis Presley - Can't Help Falling In Love
- Enya - May It Be
- Eric Clapton - Tears In Heaven
- Evanescence - My Immortal
- Everclear - I Will Buy You A New Life
- Everclear - Father Of Mine
- Everclear - Wonderful
- Nobuo Uematsu - Final Fantasy
- Nobuo Uematsu - Prologue
- Nobuo Uematsu - Theme of Love
- Nobuo Uematsu - Rydia
- Nobuo Uematsu - Toroian Beauty
- Nobuo Uematsu - Dear Friends
- Nobuo Uematsu - Gau
- Nobuo Uematsu - Celes
- Nobuo Uematsu - Tina
- Nobuo Uematsu - Tina's Theme
- Nobuo Uematsu - Coin Song
- Nobuo Uematsu - Forever Rachel
- Nobuo Uematsu - Relm
- Nobuo Uematsu - Aerith's Theme
- Rikki - Pure Heart
- Green Day - Good Riddance
- Guster - Parachute
- I Salonisti - Nearer My God to Thee
- Jewel - Foolish Games
- Jewel - You Were Meant For Me
- Jewel - This Way
- Lifehouse - Hanging By A Moment
- Lifehouse - Breathing
- Lifehouse - Everything
- Lifehouse - Spin
- Lifehouse - Sky Is Falling
- Lifehouse - Stanley Climbfall
- Lifehouse - Take Me Away
- Lifehouse - The Beginning
- Lifehouse - How Long
- Louis Armstrong - What A Wonderful World
- Matchbox 20 - Back 2 Good
- Matchbox Twenty - Last Beautiful Girl
- Matchbox Twenty - If You're Gone
- Matchbox Twenty - Bed of Lies
- Matchbox Twenty - You Won't Be Mine
- Matchbox Twenty - Unwell
- Matchbox Twenty - Hand Me Down
- Matchbox Twenty - Could I Be You
- Matchbox Twenty - Downfall
- Matchbox Twenty - The Difference
- Berlin - Take My Breath Away
- Phil Collins - You'll Be in My Heart
- R.E.M. - Everybody Hurts
- Rob Thomas - Ever The Same
- Sarah McLachlan - I Will Remember You
- Sarah McLachlan - Angel
- Savage Garden - Truly Madly Deeply
- Savage Garden - Crash And Burn
- Savage Garden - The Lover After Me
- Savage Garden - Two Beds And A Coffee Machine
- Savage Garden - You Can Still Be Free
- Savage Garden - Gunning Down Romance
- Savage Garden - I Don't Know You Anymore
- Shania Twain - From This Moment On
- Simon & Garfunkel - Bridge Over Troubled Water
- The Association - Never My Love
- The Association - Cherish
- The Calling - Wherever You Will Go
- The Corrs - Forgiven Not Forgotten
- The Corrs - Somebody For Someone
The Corrs - At Your Side
- The Corrs - Hurt Before
- The Corrs - Rebel Heart
- The Corrs - Somebody For Someone
- The Corrs - At Your Side
- The Corrs - When The Stars Go Blue (Featuring Bono)
- The Corrs - Hideaway
- The Corrs - Long Night
- The Corrs - Goodbye
- The Corrs - Time Enough For Tears
- The Corrs - Baby Be Brave
- The Goo Goo Dolls - Iris
- The Police - Every Breath You Take
- The Rolling Stones - As Tears Go By
- Trisha Yearwood - How Do I Live?
- Trisha Yearwood - She's In Love With The Boy
- U2 - Where The Streets Have No Name
- U2 - With Or Without You
- U2 - Pride (In The Name Of Love)
- U2 - Where The Streets Have No Name - Live
- U2 - With or Without You
- U2 - Pride (In The Name Of Love)
- Vitamin C - Graduation
- UnderOath - It's Dangerous Business Walking Out Your Front Door
- UnderOath - A Boy Brushed Red Living In Black And White [favorite from this band]
- UnderOath - Young And Aspiring
- UnderOath - I'm Content With Losing
- UnderOath - I Got Ten Friends And A Crowbar That Says You Ain't Gonna Do Jack
- UnderOath - Some Will Seek Forgiveness, Others Escape
- Skillet - Open Wounds [favorite from this band]
- Skillet - Savior
- Skillet - Fingernails
- Skillet - Imperfection
- Skillet - Under My Skin
- Superchic[k] - Wishes
- Superchic[k] - Courage
- Superchic[k] - Beauty From Pain [favorite from this band]
- Relient K - Who I Am Hates Who I've Been
- Relient K - Be My Escape
- Pillar - Bring Me Down
- Pillar - Hypnotized
- Pillar - Dirty Little Secret
I hope this helps some.
-FunnyCide
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Anyone know some really good pop/rock love songs? 5's for good suggestions. (link)
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I don't... listen to pop as a general rule.
When God Made You -- NewSong with Natalie Grant. Ultimate Christian love song. Even if you're not a Christian, it's a super sweet song.
Purple Rain -- Prince. [or maybe that should be "the artist formerly known as Prince"...]
-FunnyCide
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ahhh thanks sooo much for your tamogatchi help! =]
but one more question - its asleep and it WILL NOT wake up! the time is not even on AM its on PM on the correct time and it is the middle of the afternoon! its been asleep for atleast a day. its even sick and needs to go to the bathroom like really badly but it just will not get up! ive put the lights on and everything! any advice? (link)
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Hmm... this happened to my sister.
She had to wait a REALLYYYYYY long time for it to wake up, and when it did, it was laying on a hospital bed with a skull and crossbones above its head. However, she was able to save it by taking it to the bathroom and feeding it and playing with it when it had eaten enough.
It happened to my OTHER sister and her's died. But when it dies another one comes back to life.
All I know to tell you is to let it wake up by itself, then take it to the bathroom, then feed it , feed it, feed it, feed it. Give it like three meals and a couple of snacks, then play a few games with it.
-FunnyCide
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Can you have sex if you're 3 months pregnent? (link)
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In most cases, yes. Usually, you can have sex well into your third trimester, as long as your pregnancy is proceeding normally. For more information, talk to your doctor.
-FunnyCide
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Hey,
My Hand is always swollen at night. Like I will wake up in the middle of the night and its numb and heavy. I never hurt it or anything. So Whats up with that? (link)
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Actually, I'm thinking that your hand is "asleep" at night, not swollen. If you lay with your arm beneth your body or elbow bent under you, you're cutting off the circulation of blood to your lower arm/hand. This will cause your hand to feel numb and heavy and as if you can't control it well. That's the only reason I could think of. If you can VISIBLY see that it's swollen, go to a doctor. If it just feels swollen, try sleeping with your arm beside you and straight out.
-FunnyCide
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