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Okay, I'm 14, and I know I have a lot of growing to do in the future, but I'm wondering.
Both my generations before me (my grandmother, + my mom and her sisters [my aunts]) have big boobs, they're all have D+ sizes.

Now, being about a little over 14 and a half, i fit B36 in womens (not juniors, in juniors i'm a 36/38C).

So what i'm wondering is, do boobs grow like from jeans of your mother, or is it all just a within your body sort of thing?

Thanks in advance. :] (link)
its genes, especially if your grandma, mom, and sister all have D's...then you will most likely have D's as well.

Hope I helped!


ok so im going to babysit this one family and i want to make a good impression so shell call me back... what should i do?

thanks i rate 5's (link)
Play with the kids a lot, because if they like you, then chances are they will tell their mom and she will always want to call you b/c the kids like you so much. Also, make sure the kids get to bed on time and after they go to bed, straighten up the house a litte (not over board, but enought to notice) especially the games and food that the kids used, b/c this will also probably put the mom in a good mood, and she will remember how efficient you were.

Good Luck!!


Hi, I'm looking to buy a mp3 player. I want one that is at least 1gb. Which mp3 players get the most bang for your buck? I'm on a tight budget, but I still want one that is good quality. thanks. (link)
i'm not really sure which is the cheapest...or the most reliable...but i have a mini ipod...and i lovee it! i think that anything made by mac is really good.

hope i helped!


this is most likely the wrong category but whatever i was just wondering can you be gay if you dont want to. (link)
i would say not...if being gay doesnt appeal to you, then that means that you arent attracted to men. At least thats how i see it.


I'm sixteen years old, I'm a virgin, I've never kissed a guy, and I've never had a boyfriend.

I feel like if I don't do these things soon, I'm never going to do them. I feel like everyone around me is so experienced in all those things and I'm still just a kid. I've gotten really depressed about it because I feel like no one wants me.

Am I alone in this? (link)
Your not alone--at all! I'm 15 and i have only like pecked some guys (they were dares and spin the bottle) but my only boyfriends were like 6th/7th grade, which dont really count. I feel the same way as you!! And i realize that this is easier said than done...but you just have to remember that it WILL happen, and you just shouldnt rush these things.

hope i helped!!!


I'm a 14/f and i haven't had a bf in like over a year!i think i might be giving off the wrong vibe to guys but i'm not a les.I'm supposedly the prettiest out of my friends and i like guys but they dont seem to like me!Help please! (link)
DONT STRESS!!!!! It doesnt matterr--your only 14! there is no sense in rushing out boyfrinds you have all of your life to date, and there is no reason to rush it all now.

hope i helped!


alright you guys i need answers fast and i need good ones. theres this guy nate who i met about 5 months ago and after about 2 months we started liking each other and we made out a couple times. now, tomorrow he wants to hang out and he plans on taking it to the next level. im 15. everyone i know is telling me to wait and lecturing me so please dont. the thing is, is i want this to be really special and i dont want him to just think of me as just antoher girl (im a virgin and hes not) and i know that im getting really strong feelings for him and the thing is is like i dont know how he feels about me and hes not the type of person to come out and say it and it would be akward if i asked. today i was trying to talk about it and i was like if i said i didnt want to what would you do and hes like well id try to sweet talk you into it but then id just give up and i mean thats how he is and it was funny but i dunno im really stressed. what do i do? (link)
deffinatly dont do anything your not comfortable with. your only 15! you dont need to rush into anything--i would say to deffinatly deffinatly wait. you dont want to go too far and then regret it- making out seems far enough to me.

good luck.


How do you make a good natural conversation? (link)
try bringing up common interests...other than that just try to act natural, dont stress about what to say, just say what comes to mind.

hope i helped!


someone said;

"I got my permit"

what does the person mean? thanks..
I rate (link)
a permit is like a "pre" license. You have to have it for (i think) 6 months before you can get your permanent license. When you have your permit, you have to drive with an adult who already has his/her licence.

hope i helped!


okay im so stressed out with love and my friends moving away and i need a way to relieve the stress so particarly are ther any tae kwon do work outs? (link)
you should try punching a punching bag...it really helps when you get upset (or stressed) or if you get like an intense workout tape, from a video store...those help as well.

good luck.


How long dose it take for a girl to show signs of pregnancy? (link)
it depends entirly on the person. i knew someone who had a baby, and hardly showed at all..but then some people start showing earlier on. But all in all, i would say between 3 and 4 months.
Hope i helped!!!!!!


I have been really good friends witht this chick for a long time but then she got drunk and something happened one night and she did something that i thought would never happen, she flashed me. I didnt care cause we were too good of friends but i told her what she did and then another one of her best friends told her that it never happened and now she believes them and has forgot about me and wont talk to me...however it really did happen and i have no idea what to do about it..how do i convince her it was true and it did happen? Then if i cant convince her how do i gain her trust back? Thanks! (link)
i would appoligize and say that you were so drunk...you mixed her up with a differnt girl. Cances are she is just really embarresed, and her friends are just helping her to cover it up because your friend is scared you'll think less of her.

i hope i helped!


My friend is 13 and ran half a mile in 5 mins and 13 seconds. Is that slow, regular, or fast? (link)
i think its probably about average. (maybe a little below).


Okay this is going to be REALLY long, this all started when i was doing my clothes at around 11.... i wanted to clean some of my clothes so i would have something to wear tomorrow.

so i threw 2 pairs of abercrombie pants in the wash and dryer. so my mom was all like throw some of my jeans in! but i was half way threw the cycle to put any thing else in the the wash so i didnt bother.

then we went out and i was all nice to her. very nice. this lasted till about 3?

then i got home around like 3:30, and wow was it hell. i put my jeans in the dryer. so they would be dry for about 4:00. then my mom threw in some of her stuff, so i threw in the whites that were dirty in too. no problem with that right?

Okay this is when the shit started, i threw her stuff in the dryer without looking. [with my whites....] and so i did that so i could wash my so lows. so i did that. no problem right?

okay so my mom SCREAMS AND YELLS. becuase her stuff apparently shrunk 2 sizes. i told her if she wants to fit into them again, [ps their like designer] so she starts a hussy-fit with how everything gets broken left and right. and i dont need this beause i have finals from the 13-20th. do i need peace and quiet. but Apparently i cant get it sence my mom is bitching [sorry but i dont have anything else to say for that]

and i didnt invite her to dinner because i dont allow whiners eat the food i make, [im like a chef and planning to be one] so i made pretty good food. its hard to resist ;]

but like, then i was eating then she said to my dad, ricky, sister, melissa, and i, laura, "i hope you bastards [im quoting the EXACT words] fucking die form that taco shit you call food, and i hope you CHOKE AND DIE"

what should i do? call the cops. HELP! (link)
WHOH!!!! i dont think that calling the cops would help, because she didnt break the law. Also, it depends on how old you are. I would say to her that your sorry for shrinking her clothes, but she doesnt have to be such a brat about it, because you didnt mean it. Also, maybe she had an especially bad day, and everything was just piling up on her and she couldnt handle it. Talk to her (eaiser said than done, i know).
Hope everything works out for you!
Hope i helped! And let me know how it ends up.


Okay, so I was at this party one time, & this boy says that he likes me, & asks me out.
I had a BIG crush on him at the time, so of course, i said yes.
A few days later, he says that he was only kidding, & he didn't like me. He only asked me out because his friends dared him to.
On the last day of school, he asks me out... AGAIN. What am i supposed to do? Should i believe him, or not? (link)
NO! he may be serious this time, but you deffinatly dont want to go out with someone who tricked you in a mean way like that. Also, there is always the chance that he is just trying to get you to say yes again.


Hi, well I've just start used tampons, and I'm still on my first one. It's been very well over 8 hours, and when I try to pull it out, it hurts. I'm doing it slowly, but it doesn't really budge. Also note that it is an expanding tampon. So is it a good idea to try to fill it up with water? And is it supposed to hurt a whole lot for the first time you remove it? (link)
it shouldnt hurt! i would tell your mom, or someone, because you shouldnt have one in for that long. Try to just pull, using light force, it should come out, and not hurt.


okkk so me and my friend were going to start a clothing company, kind of like how brooke did clothes over bros on One Tree Hill. does anybody have anygood ideas about what we could make it called? definantly something with couture in it (link)
i lovee the word couture in a clothing company name!! you could try your first name courture (like Brooke Couture, or B Couture or something along those lines)


What should I say to my boyfriend that just got fired from a job he was in only 2 week? There was other people fired as well, I don't think it was him. I said that must be the most frustrating thing to go through, but other than keep saying that (or I'm sorry, which I heard guys hate to hear) What do I say??? (link)
just tell him that it was thier loss, and clearly it wasnt him, since other people got laid off as well, maybe they were just downsizing. And that there will still be other jobs--better jobs.



I've been waking up say 5 or 3 in the morning for the past few nights.

I don't even know why, it's so weird.
I usually wake up with my covers kicked off my bed.

I don't remember having a nightmare or dream or anything. I don't know why this is happening?

Any ideas on why it's happening and how to prevent it? 5 stars to anyone who helps! (link)
Are you more stressed out than usual? Because it could be just that you are thinking about it at night, and you just dont realize it.


Okay, i went to new jeresy shore like 1 week ago, and i got badly sunburnt. So my skin is peeling really badly. i tryed aloe of all kinds, and its not stopping. what can i do to get it to stop. ill rate ;] (link)
unfortunatly, i dont think ther is much to do to stop the peeling, i think the aloe is just to stop the irritation from the burn.
Hope you feel better!




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