[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? jumadel answered Monday June 19 2006, 5:42 am: Hi there, you've basically got to go up when the time is ready to her and introduce yourself. Or sometimes like for example if you were at a party or something similar then say something like, "Hi, what do you think of the party" and take it from there. What are you looking for out of the conversation. If your looking for a date or girlfriend then just talk to her every day and as each day comes talk even more. Aventually it will get easier and you won't feel as shy as before. You might find that your confidence lifts you up and you can talk more and more. Then maybe when you feel ready just say something like "You know, I was wondering if you would like to hang out and talk some more sometime" If she says yes then congratulations. If not then just keep your head up and say "OK, maybe another time" Aventually you will notice if or if not she actually wants to go out with you. Complimenting her will tell her that your friendly and a nice kind guy. Making eye contact with her will show that your interested in her, especially with a smile. Heres 3 tips when talking to a girl:
1. Compliments
2. Ask open questions
3. Small talk
Say things like "Hi, wow have you done something with your hair? Because it looks really nice" or "Hey that dress really suits you" or basic "Hi, your looking very beautiful or nice today". Remember not to say things rude like call her sexy or hot. And don't keep looking down at her bra's. Girls would think your after sex. Just go with the flow, and remember those 3 tips when in a conversation. Goodluck!!! Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
BlahBlahBlah answered Monday June 19 2006, 12:14 am: try bringing up common interests...other than that just try to act natural, dont stress about what to say, just say what comes to mind.
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