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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
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I'm about 5'2 and weigh around 95 lbs..but everyone tells me im really skinny. How much should i weigh if im 5'2?
According to the www.amifat.com's BMI calculator, you're under weight by 1.5 points. I'm 5'3" almost 5'4" and I weigh 115. You should weigh at least, 105 or something. You're quite thin. And what everyone is telling you is true, you are really skinny. My suggestion is get some weight on you! Being that skinny isn't all that healthy. Hope this helped.
ok well.. i am going out with this guy... hes really great... we have had a few problems but we are totally awesome now... so ne way... we have been going out for a little while now and i really really like him... we have gone pretty far and are started thinking about have sex... we have always talked about it even before we were together and i kind of want to but i am afriad of regret.... i hate regreting things and im worried that if we have sex i will regret it... the thing is, before we did everything we have i thought i would regret it but i totally dont... is it just a 'virgin thing'?? i trust him completely... im just scared im to young (14) although (and i swear im not bragging) i am way more mature than the 'average' 14 year old... (if it makes a difference he's 16) i guess im asking all those 'non-virgins' out there... do you regret it? and do you wish you had waited? what do you think i should do? please answer!!!
...claire
Honey I'm in your exact position right now. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months on monday (yay!) and he's 16 and I'm 14. I still feel like I'm too young and that we aren't mature enough to be making that kind of decision. We're both still young and we have a ways to go on growing up. My advice for you (since this is what I'm pretty much doing now) is to wait a little longer. I too feel that I am more mature than a normal 14 year old. The only thing is you have to really think to your self if it is the right thing to do. Think of all the pros and cons involved in making that decision. My friend lost her virginity at 13 (yes young I know) it was honestly the biggest mistake of her life. She wishes that she had known the guy longer and that they had been closer. From the way your question sounded, you sound scared. You have to wait until you KNOW you are ready, physically, mentally, and emotionally. I think that losing your virginity at 14 isn't the best age, but then again I was planning on doing it too (I'm 14 as well) I decided I'm not going to. Friends of mine have done it before and regret it because it ruined their relationship because all it was was sex sex sex and nothing else. They said that they missed the sentimental things about having a relationship, just the hugging and the kissing and laying down and relaxing together. It all depends on YOU though, not what anyone else's horror stories were about having sex for the first time. It's all about YOU. Are YOU ready? Do YOU want to do it? And are you ready to have the responsibility of having sex? Losing your virginity IS a big deal, most people don't think it is but they're wrong. You can't get that back once you've done it. Do you love him? Does he love you? Can you trust him? Can he trust you? Does he respect you? You have to really think about that. Don't do anything that you're not ready to do! Hope this helped. Good luck hun.
ok this is going to sound really wierd...but i heard u tell some other girl about certian dri deoderant. can u tell me if i need a perscription for that...or is i can get it in drug stores...thanks
No prescription needed. You can get it at the drug store. It's in a box that is white and green. Hope this helped.
hey yall,
in vanessa carlotn's song white houses... at the middle is she talking bout her first time ot have sex? i will rate!! i just wanna know.
I looked over the lyrics and I'm pretty sure this is the part you mean: "My first time, hard to explain Rush of blood, oh, and a little bit of pain On a cloudy day, it's more common than you think He's my first mistake." I'd have to say that she is. My first time would refer to sex a little bit of pain... the first time hurts so I've heard. He's my first mistake... losing your virginity to the wrong person can be a mistake. I'd have to say that she is talking about that. I'm not 100% because all lyrics have double meanings. But if you read the rest of the lyrics and really really think about it, it could be possible that it is what she's talking about. Sorry that wasn't much help but I hope it helped a little!
ok so,i play like every sport there is except rugby and football...cuz im a girl...all my friends say that im amazimg cuz when i get home from school iu do my homework get online then sports the rest of the night..but sometimes i goto basketball then to soccer then to lacrosse then to swimming. everyone says that i should quiet mayb 3 sports and only havge like 3 sports to do...should i quit? but i always have time for them...i rate REALLY high..*but it has to be good please!)
Hey, if you have time for your sports and you love doing it, do NOT quit doing it!!! You can get SOOO many scholarships from doing sports. Sports are very importany for your college resume to help you get into college. They look for that stuff. Do not quit doing it if you love it!!! Hope this helped.
In America, is there a certain age you have to be before you are allowed to have sex? It's just that in England you have to be sixteen.
No, there is no age. That's why we got 12-14 year old girls getting themself pregnant. It is illegal however for an 18 year old or older to have sexual intercourse with a minor (under 18). That's interesting that in England you have to be 16. Hope this helped.
OMG i have this huge problem i have this boyfreind taht im absoulty in love with! i would do anyhitng to be with him every second of mi life ! and if im not with him im not havin fun and if im not on hta phone with him im not havin fun! if im without him im tahinking about him and i dont kno whut to do mi cousin is 16 and she is tha same way and now all she does is hang out with her boyfreind! and she never does anyhting with her freinds OR ME and now im becomeing like that but tha thign is a cant control it it feels soo good to be around him
IS this ok whut can i do to help this
!!! IM CRAZY BOUT HIM !!!!
ps: me and him r really colse on our 2nd day goin out we kissed 5 made out adn now all we do is that im afraid of whut might happen next!
Plz HelP ASAP
You sound like what I was like when I was dating this guy who was a complete jerk. We were together for 4 months and a day (the asshole broke up with me the day after our 4 month anniversary) I know that feeling that you're so in love and they are the greatest thing in the WORLD. I know that feeling and it does feel great. I'll tell you what will happen next out of my experience. Honestly, you'll get sick of seeing him EVERY SINGLE DAY you'll argue with eachother all the time about the stupidest things. You'll lose many friends because you're life is devoted to this guy. You need to stop, I know that it's great having someone care about you so much but you're way too attached. Guys don't like clingy girls which is what I learned after dating that guy. I told my ex boyfriend that I loved him and he said he loved me too which by the way he lied about because he never loved me. I told him about around our 3 month anniversary that I wanted to lose my virginity to him but I said I wasn't ready. He said "No, don't worry you're ready! I love you you'll be fine!" He kept talking about where he'd get the condoms and how exactly we'd do it. I' was having problems with my family so I never go to see him and I was depressed as hell. He got mad at me and was being a selfish jerk because all he wanted was some ass. If I would have stayed with him, I'd probably be pregnant with his kid right now. Think about this: How long have I known this guy? Can I really trust him? Is he worth my time? Can you see yourself with him for a long time? Does he respect you? I'm sorry to say this, but being that obsessive like I was, is NOT good. If you get too attached, and he breaks up with you, you're left with nothing but a broken heart and a chocolate bar to make you feel better. You won't have your friends to comfort you because you stopped hanging out with them. I'm not saying he's gonna go out and do that to you like what my ex did to me, but I'm letting you know of the consequenses of getting too attached. I honestly think that long distance relationships are better if you really think about it. You're not with them all day every day. When you're with someone all day every day you get SICK of them! And when you see them at the end of each week, the excitement it awesome when you see them walk through the door. It makes it all more meaningful. Try not to be so attached. Set aside a couple days in the week to hang out with your friends and then a day or two to hang out with your guy. And the sleeping with the shirt thing, I do that too with my new boyfriend. He goes to another school and I have his sweatshirt that I wear to bed, to school, to fencing practice, EVERYWHERE. The sleeping with the shirt thing isn't a big deal. Please don't get too attached! And sorry you had to do so much reading! Hope this helped!
Ok ever1 on here can be rated. How do i make my self so i cant get rated too. I wanna see how Im doing answer ppl's problems
You're automatically rated if someone decides to rate you. When someone asks a question that is open for anyone to respond to, for instance this question, there is an option where they can rate other people's advice. It's a scale from 1-5. You probably haven't been rated yet so that's why it's not showing up. If you're not sure if you've been rated or not, go to the "You're advice column" link under where it says Welcome _____ (you're user name) It will show you what you're advice column looks like. Just go to read feedback and the ratings will be there. If there's nothing there, no one has rated you yet! Also, a word of advice, do NOT answer questions and tell people to rate you. 90% of them just give you a 1 or don't rate you at all. If they give you a 1 they say "Don't ask me to rate you!" Hope this helped!
sorry! ook..here it is.. i sweat alot under the arms.. ( im a girl . 13 years.) if i try to wear a color shirt besides black or white..you always see sweat spots around the arm pits..even when its winter.. what should i do so i can wear any color shirts? .. (by the way. i wear non-presperant deodorent)
Ew, that used to happen to me! I hated it! I found this anti persprant called Certain Dri. It's the best thing out there. You can get it at a pharmacy it's in a box. It's a liquid and it's a roll-on but it works GREAT! I loved it and now my pits aren't gross and sweaty! It's a little expensive though but it's totaly worth every penny! It's about 7-10 dollars depending on where you get it. Hope this helped!
my my and dad divorced a REALLY REALLY REALLY long time ago..my mom has been dating another guy for like 3 yrs, but i found like personal lubricant in her rOom and like a sheet on how to masturbate..does this mean she masturbates??
It could be. Or it could be how to orally pleasure her man. Don't bring it up to her though. She could get mad at you for going through her things or she might just be embarassed about it. Masturbating isn't abnormal. Lots of people do it. It's not a bad thing at all. Don't worry about it. Hope this helped.
What exactly are those livestrong bracelets for. I've seen a lot of people with them I was I was wondering does it mean that they want to wait until to marriage to have sex. Or is it something completly different
There are pink ones, blue ones, yellow once and multi colored ones. The pink ones are for breast cancer *Share beauty Sread Hope* Blue ones are for lukimia, yellow Lance armstrong it's for some type of cancer *Live STRONG* and the multi colored ones are for research for cures for cancer. The wanting to wait until marriage to have sex is "The silver Ring thing" Where they all have silver rings and vowed to not lose their virginity until marriage. Hope this helped!
hey im a 15 year old girl and i have oily skin, any body have any good concealer/foundation/cover-up/powder ?
Covergirl concealer and pocket powder! They work great. I have oily skin and I use that. I don't use foundation though... My mom has the same type of skin as me but she uses that new matte finish stuff and she tried it once and she's been using it ever since she loves it so much. Hope this helped!
Ok so in july i had my apendix taken and i was told that i might not get my period and I was ok kewl. But I got my period in august and now I haven't gotten it in 3 months. When before my surgery i had it regular for 2 years. My mom called her geinocologist(cant spell) and she said i had to wait till i didn't have it for 6 months and then even then they will examine me but wont give me anything. Is this normal?
Well if they told you that you might not get your period then yes, it's normal. Also, when you're young and you've just started getting your period, it isn't on a perfect schedule for about 4 years. It could be from the surgury, it could be from stress. Stress and physical activity cause your period not to come regularly. My friend was active in dance, cheerleading, soccer and basketball and she'd get her period about every 4 or 5 months. If you're still worried about it, talk to your mom and have her take you to go see a gyno sooner. Don't stress it. I'm sure you'll be fine. Hope this helped.
the other day i was beat by my dad so bad im 16 and a guy but i can't stand up to him. he punched me in the nose once an threatened to kill me so i took a shotgun an put it to his head an told him to back the f*** off. i thought i made the point clear to him but the next day he had iron knuckles with him an nailed me in the forehead. im lucky i barely felt it i guess over the years ive become almost immune to pain. but i dont know what to do to have him stop without cops or foster care getttin involved i luv him to much even tho he busted my lip and my forehead open. luckily im ok i dont feel dazed or nothin from the hit. im lucky i moved backwards with the punch so it didnt get me bad just a lil blood. but if i hadnt moved i could probly be dead rite now........... any advice would be helpful............ but toher than my dad i have a goood good life an grl im a QB for my highskool and i make straight A's.... i need sum help plz
He beats the shit out of you, and you love him? Talk about a love-hate relationship. Honey, I really don't care if you say you don't want to go into foster care or get the cops involved, but this is CHILD ABUSE. Which by the way is ILLEGAL in all 50 states. You need to contact someone, talk to your school guidance counselor. You're not safe at home. A girl in my school got the shit beaten out of her EVERYDAY by her parents. She'd come to school with a black eye. She'd tell people that she just got hit with something but I knew what was going on. I lived next door to her for 14 years. I knew that everyday she'd go home and walk out of her house in worse condition than when she walked in. I didn't do anything about it up until 2 months ago. She came to school with a fat lip, black eye and a broken nose. I knew what happened. I had to do something. Seeing her get hurt by her parents for 14 God damned years and I didn't do SHIT about it. I'm tired of hearing these stories. You're father is an asshole and he deserves to have his ass in jail. Please, before things get any farther, call the cops. You're safter in a foster home then living with him. Please, please, please, Do it. Hope this helped. If you need anything drop it in my box. Please get help.
Is it better to masurbate or be sexually active with someone? I dont know which one is better to do. Can someone help me?
Well, if you're a girl and want to avoid from being pregnant, then masturbating would work. Being sexually active has many disadvantages ie: disease and pregnancy. Also, being sexually active you don't have to have sex really. You can give oral blow job, fingering, eating out, hand job. That kind of stuff. It's your choice really. You just have to think of the pros and cons of each action. Hope this helped.
Alright, i'm looking for a religion. I'm not christian, i know that. It doesn't feel right.
I'm kind of thinking about being a wiccan, my friend said it would be perfect for me. She was looking for a religion for a while like i am, but she found wicca, and she really likes it.
Does anyone out there know what its all about, or have any good sites about it?
I have a site : http://www.wicca.com it has everything about it. Hope this helped.
why is it that every time you are realy in love with someone they go and break your heart?
I'll tell you the same thing I tell my friends when they get their hearts broke. 98% of men are assholes. You need to find one of the guys in the 2% area that isn't an asshole. Hope that helped.
In drama class I have to do a mimeing skit thats at least 45 seconds long...but I'm not sure what do, if any of you have good ideas or some websites it would be very helpful!
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Thanks
Ah yes, the dreaded pantomime. I had to do that too. You could start out with making yourself something to eat, drink, and read something. Facial expressions are essential. You have to make sure your body movements are accurate and you have to pretend you're actually doing that. For instance, if you were to be carrying a large, heavy box you'd have to have the facial expressions that show you are having difficulty. Show tension in your body that will also show you are having difficulty. Start out with sitting down, bored and reading a magazine. You start to get hungry, so stand up, open your pretend fridge and pull out something to eat, smell it and then make a nasty face, put it back and grab something else. take out a couple more things and then put together a meal for yourself! Hope this helped.
ok lol...well i just started my period today (ive had it for about 2 yrs) but i got it today again....but my ? is i hav REALLY bad cramps today....and like ther extremely bad....is there nething i can do to make them go away??
For all girls that get their period and have cramps... You MUST MUST MUST get a heating pad! They work great! I love them. I've had mine for about 3-4 years and I get bad cramps alot. My lower back hurts and it's TERRIBLE! I know how you feel. You should get motrin and a heating pad. Take 2 motrin with a big glass of water, a heating pad and put in on your stomach and a box of chocolates. You'll be cured! lol. Hope that helped. If you need anything else drop it in my box!
My daugthers room is very very small is has hardwood floors and walls so its not very attractive for her 15th birthday we're redoing it we ordered her a loft bed but we'd like some ideas on how to redecorate and we'd like to know if its okay to paint on the wood walls. We want a color that will open it up thanks for your help!
If you're going to open up her room, you need to use a bright/light color. Use a light blue/pink/white/yellow or any pastel color or a light color. You could also just paint it white and accent it with different colors. For her windows, use a sheer fabric and light curtains to bring light into the room. And yes, it is okay to paint on wood walls. My room is pretty small, I am getting a loft bed for myself so that it will give me more room. I have all of my walls painted white except for one which is my favorite color, pink! You could do that too. My room is accented with all different shades of pink and oranges and reds and yellows. Those are great color combonations. Make it comfortable too! Lots of pillows and soft fabrics. Peir One, Macy's, Home Goods, and even Wal*mart have great stuff! Hope this helped.