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Q: How do you keep your eyeliner straight when you do the "eyeliner tears"? (ex. Benji from Good Charlotte)

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Q: ok im getting contacts and i was thinking about getting colored i have blonde hair that is about the color of paris hilton my eyes r like light green. wut color do u think i should get i was thinking maybe a lil greener or blue?
blue!!

Q: Hey i have blonde hair about halfway down my back and i've been thinking about getting cut just for a change. Dose anyone have any ideas what hairstyles might look good?ThAnKs!
get it layered

Q: Hey!I was wondering if you can get colored contacts even if you don't need them because I only want to change the color of my eyes.Also, I would like to know if I would have to make an oppointment with an optomitrist(sorry about the spelling)before I get them?Thanks!
Yeah you can get unperscribed contacts. That just effect your eye color. Yeah you would have to make a appt. -trix

Q: Hi ! Well i was wondering what would be a good hair color for me to go with this fall/wonter i want to go darker but i don't want it to wash out my face ya know ?? So like my skin is like a creamy natural color not to light not to dark..and my eyes are greyish/hazel !! Yeah..right now my hair is Light Ash Blonde !! Thanks !!!!
go light brown!

Q: Okay...long story short...i need an afro by halloween! i was going to get my hair braided then leave it in and just take it down on Halloween nite but ive missed that stop so now i need to know how to make my hair a huge afro. dont tell me wigs or anything because if all else fails thats what ill do but right now i wanna try my real hair??? any suggestions anyone??? no smart ass comments from jackasses this time thnkx
I was a thug this past halloween i have long blonde hair.. so i couldnt make it a fro.. plus im girl so i just tied a bandanna around my head like tupac! try that! and braid it too. sorri no afro ideas!

Q: Hi. im a female at 13 years of age. And i need some advice. Ok so, I have a little bit of a flabby tummy. Its not a lot.. but i still feel uncomfortable with it. Most of the time in school I wear sweaters cause i dont want to show off my tummy. Christmas is sorta coming and I want some cute clothes that will look cute on me without people making fun of me for the little bit of tummy i have.
please help! i rate all 5's. thanks!
Crunches-trix

Q: i go to a private school...we don't have uniforms but we have a dress code...polo shirts, sweaters, that kind of thing...what do you suggest i do to accessorize/spice things up?
do you hair very cute! wear neclaces earings bracelets ect... do make up to fit your mood.. which will help make you different from the everyday everybody same look. Or look for diff. polo's that nobody wears. -trix

Q: How does a person get rid of stubborn black heads...especially on the nose...My nose looks like a strawberry(except skin colored)
Please Help! I RATE!
Get nose strips go to the dollar store.. they have some there.. FOR A DOLLAR TOO!!-Merry christmas-trix

Q: Hey! I need some advice. I think I'm in love because I've never had these fealings before for anyone! My boyfriend means so much to me and i can't stand being away from him or not talking to him for even a day! Do you think it's possible to love someone I've only been with for four months at a young age?
Yeah i think loving someone is possible at any age. I believe that you love him because if you cant stop thinking about him and want to be with him them then i would think you do love him. So I deffinately think its possible!! Trust me personal experience :) I love my bf.. its been 8 months tho! Krista and Zach have been going out for almost 2 months on christmas eve and i know for a fact that they love eachother too!! So yeah its possible. -trix

Q: i am 13 and i went and got blonde higlights on my brown hair and i noe the highlights will start to go away but i was wondering if i striaghten my hair everyday and wash it everyday will it make the color go away faster?? and is there anything i can do to keep my highlight from not letting the color fade away so fast?? can u plz help me!!
Well its pretty much the growth of your hair not the color fading really. for washing it.. you can buy shampoo and conditioner that help color treated hair stay brighter longer. Just make sure you use good shampoo n conditioner to keep the color. Maybe when you get your hair done at the salon ask if they have any good shampoo's or conditioners.. like hair care stuff. And for straightning your hair.. that wont harm it-trix

Q: When I have my period I break out and get HUGE pores and blackouts on my face. Every single thing that I use to try to get my face clear NEVER works! I've trie some thing with acid in it to Dove and world-known stuff but it never works. And then I see the guy I like at school and I'm so embarrassed because of my face!
Well use clean n clear morning burst! -trix

Q: okay.. me and this guy have been "talking.." like.. we like each other.. and me and his ex girlfriend DONT like each other.. well.. she IMed me last night.. and she was like.. " i just wanted to tell you im sorry and i dont hate you.. im just jelous of you because you have the one thing i want.. " and then she was being super nice.. well.. today.. he came over to my house.. and she called his cell and was telling him all these lies about me... ( she didnt know he was at my house ) okay.. so i got on the phone and i was like.. "um.. hes busy.. bye!" and then she wrote my advice column saying all this stuff about me.. and i dont know what should i do? should i end things with him?
i'd say.. do not end things with him.. if he cares about you enough he'll beleive what you say to him.. not the lies his jealous ex is sayin.. if he doesnt beleive you. then that'd be the time you might wanna end things.. cuz that is sayin that he still has fealings for this other girl as well. but just talk to him about it and see what he says. -trix

Q: Hi i have this friend and she lied to me and it realy hurts well this is how it goes, i have this friend who will belive any thing i or my friends say anything so i was gonna tell her something just to see if she would believe me. Well it got out to a friend and i told her i wasn't gonna do it, so wat does she do, she goes off and tells her that she was gonna get hurt by me even though i told her i wouldn't. So we start talk'n and they say there is someone who likes this guy so i beg them to tell me but they wouldn't, so insted of tell'n me to stop they make up a lie to teach me a lesson amd to get me to shut up!!! Well one of my friends told me that she lied to me and i can't get over it. She was wat i would of called a true friend. So i asked her about it and she lies and said she didn't! Finally she tells me the truth and i so mad i cant even think! We were talk'n earlyr and we couldn't stop fight'n! She says i shouldn't be mad at her i should be mad at my other friend but she went along with it and still lied!!! wat should i do!!!
Your Truly,
ShrtJumpr123
haha hmm.. i think she's the one who pretty much started this all.. but then her friend shouldnt have lied to her.. so this one is just messin with my head.. i would just keep talking it out to her and go from there hopefully everything will go back to normal soon happy holidays! trix

Q: Hi! I don't know if you'll be able to help, but I'm hoping you will. Ok, I think my boyfriend thinks that I'm cheating on him. He's been told by many people because of stupid rumors going around. He tells me that he loves me too much to beleive it, but I still think he doesn't beleive me. He was also told that me and his best friend are doing stuff, which also is not true. I just need a way to bring it up to him so that he knows for sure i care too much about him to do that. What could i say to him?
Just reassure him that you love him. I was actually in this situation. My boyfriend brought it up to me. I started crying. He told me the exact same thing. Just say listen *name* im glad you believe me i just want you to know i would NEVER ever cheat on you! I love you way to much. I have never thought about it it has never come across my mind. I doubt it will ever come across my mind i just need you to know that i would never cheat on you in a billion years. I wish people werent saying this because i hate being at risk of our relationship. thats pretty much what i said.. Go ahead use my words :) ill let ya. I made him a card to and sent it to him. try that if you want. (my bf doesnt go to my school either) Hope I helped!! I really hope everything works out for the best too!! I hate this sort of stuff... its such a terrible feeling! **trixxle**

Q: I've known renee since the 5th grade we became best friends in the 6th grade she never really got any guys because she just wasnt liked by guys and i was usually the one getting the guys now we go to different schools and were in the 8th now its the other way around but she brags in my face about it and rubs it in my face which i never did to her she thinks shes all that and pretty now our relationship is totally crushed and i wanna hit her what do i do?
You could hit her thats a starter. But i would talk to her about it and just let her know how you feel and that you dont like it when its rubbed in your face. Its nothing you ever did to her. -trix!!

Q: Ok~ i've been here before and you'be deffinately helped me. But i have another issue. My boyfriend has an ex girlfriend who i think still has fealings for him. And they talk all the time still. I just don't know if he's going behind my back and liking her still or if he's just friends and is lettting her be the obsessive one. What's you opinion on this whole situation?
Well if you trust your boyfriend then you shouldnt worry about it but i think you have the right to question him and just let him know that you are kinda scared and that you like him alot and dont want to loose him. I did that one time with my boyfriend and he just told me that no no no i dont like her i love you to much. I would believe your boyfriend if he comforts you but if he doesnt then there may be something fishy going on. Or ask a good friend of yours thats friends with him if he has mentioned anything about her. I can understand why you would be scared in this situation cuz ive been there before and i got that really bad feeling in my stomach. If you really want to know right now just ask him and just let him know that you need to talk and your serious. Hope I helped!! Happy Holidays hun!! I hope everything works out!! *trixxie*

Q: Hey, I downloaded Animation Shop 3 and PSP 9, 60 days ago for the free trial, but now it doesn't work, even when I set the clock back on my computer. I tried unistalling both programs and re-downloading them, but they still didn't work. Does anyone know any sites where you can download them for free?

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Most sites have a 30 or 60 day free trial. You might have those things called cookies on your computer. Try another comp. in your house. Or a different username. Happy Holidays! Rate me please! Trix

Q: im a 13 yr old.. my bf is tha same.. .we've been together for 6 months... long time! haha
well... he asked me wut step i thought we were in... and i dont know wut the steps r in a relationship... can anyone help me? please!
Steps? Kinda like bases you mean? Everyone has their own but i go first is hugging 2nd is kissing 3rd is doing other "fun" stuff and home is going all the way! Happy Holidays! Rate me plz!! *trix*

Q: Hey.. i've been wit my b.f. for almost three months now.. he tells me that he loves me... and that he wants to be with me forever.. but how do i know if he actually loves me?
Well you should take his word for it but he will always be there to listen and have a shoulder for you to cry on and could care less if you call 2 am and wake him just because you had a bad dream. He will stick up for you if someone puts you down. Or will do little things for you just to show you. Or if your stuck with something he will help you even if you pretty much have it taken care of. One time i was extremely hurt and my bf called me back just to ask if im ok. Simpe things like that. Well i hope i helped you out. ((trix)) Happy Holidays!!

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bAhAmAmA0250
My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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