Hi i have this friend and she lied to me and it realy hurts well this is how it goes, i have this friend who will belive any thing i or my friends say anything so i was gonna tell her something just to see if she would believe me. Well it got out to a friend and i told her i wasn't gonna do it, so wat does she do, she goes off and tells her that she was gonna get hurt by me even though i told her i wouldn't. So we start talk'n and they say there is someone who likes this guy so i beg them to tell me but they wouldn't, so insted of tell'n me to stop they make up a lie to teach me a lesson amd to get me to shut up!!! Well one of my friends told me that she lied to me and i can't get over it. She was wat i would of called a true friend. So i asked her about it and she lies and said she didn't! Finally she tells me the truth and i so mad i cant even think! We were talk'n earlyr and we couldn't stop fight'n! She says i shouldn't be mad at her i should be mad at my other friend but she went along with it and still lied!!! wat should i do!!!
Your Truly,
ShrtJumpr123
Additional info, added Monday December 27 2004, 12:12 am: *never was gonna lie to her
* I told her i wasn't gonna lie it was just an idea!
* then after i told her that she goes and tells her im gonna!
* then she starts a lie about me!
*then lies to me about her lie'n!
*if she wonted me to quit beg'n y not just say stop?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? NikNik answered Monday December 27 2004, 1:04 am: you shouldnt have wanted to play a trick on her to see if she would belive it in the first place because there are some people who will belive anything but it doesnt mean you gotta take advantage of that...some people cant help but not to believe everything other people say. Tell her your sorry and that would help yall to be friends again and if sorry doesnt work then try harder to be her friend again no matter who hurt who. hope i helped-Nikki [ NikNik's advice column | Ask NikNik A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday December 26 2004, 11:09 pm: haha hmm.. i think she's the one who pretty much started this all.. but then her friend shouldnt have lied to her.. so this one is just messin with my head.. i would just keep talking it out to her and go from there hopefully everything will go back to normal soon happy holidays! trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
iNdEeD2 answered Sunday December 26 2004, 11:04 pm: ok sweety if you really wanna be back friends with her then this is how your gonna have to do it i no your gonna think this is reatarded and think she should be doin this but this is the only suggestion your gonna have!!! ya have to say sorry. its the adult thing to do and yall will be friends again. plus my best friend would never say sorry first but thats okay that means they are not mature.....so hunny be the mature one and say sorry!!!hope i helped and happy new year '05!!!!
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DevilChild answered Sunday December 26 2004, 11:00 pm: alright, for one yeah it was mean. but you did the same thing right? or somewhat so they did the same thing, not to sound mean, but you need to get over it pass that and look over that whole thing, pretend it didnt happen, i do that to my sissy shes my best friend like my sister and yeah we get over it. you cant stay mad forever [ DevilChild's advice column | Ask DevilChild A Question ]
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