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Hey, I'm Jen. I basically get on here when I'm really bored and I promise to be honest when answering your questions. :)

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well ive been hooking up with this boy who ive liked for like three years.. i used to hook up with him before too, we hooked up for like 1 year and well i kinda got attatched, and well i know that im hooking up with him now, but theres something bad about that... he has a girlfriend.. and i know thats bad but i cant help it, cuz ill say to him that im not gonna hook up with him on the phone or sumthin and then when he goes to kiss me i cant help it, i kiss back, i like him too much and i cant say no to him... i dont know what to do, he chills with my main group of friends so its not like i can just ignore him either you know? .. please, help me...

fight for him. If you like him sooo much then fight for him. All is fair in love and war! Just know that if he has a gf and is hooking up with you, then if you guys go out, he might try to hook up with another girl. But if you like him so much then go for it. Everything happens for a reason. who knows, maybe you are meant to be with him. Hope this problem gets resolved soon...
xoxo
jennifer

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i don`t know how many people watch the girls next door.
but briget has a little black dog.
& i wanted to know if anybody knows what kind it is??

i love that dog. its either a Pekingese
http://www.terrificpets.com/dogs%5Ffor%5Fsale/pekingese_for_sale.asp

or

a Pomeranian
http://www.terrificpets.com/dogs%5Ffor%5Fsale/pomeranian_for_sale.asp

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alright. so ive aalrady made up my mind and im trying to make this guy jealous, its a long story,
but basically what are the kind of clothes that would really make a guy jealous, or like DANG i shouldnt have dumped her...guys? whats like the hottest look?

lol dont we all do that? Well, wear mini skirts, mini shorts, tight shirts, show your belly button, wear tight jeans with sandels. Have your hair down and groomed alot!!! Dont be afraid to show some skin! There is nothing wrong with that!!!! Also, act confident around him and act like you do not need him in your life. Flirt with guys, alot of guys. And sooner or later, he will regret loosing you.

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okay so my birthday is on february 11th.
i want to have a birthday party and i dont know where to have it.
-its my 14th
-i only want to have a few close friends like maybe around 12. because i'v seen the after effect of huge house partys, plus i want all of the attention basicly.
-last year we stayed at a hotel and swam and hung out all night & crap.
-i dont want websites for ideas. just give them to me straightt.

thank youuu :)

you can have a mini party at your house and dance all night long!!! Thats what my best friend did and only like 7 people went (but it was fun). Try putting disco, rap, and reggaeton. Also, you can go to an amusement park or go bowling. You can also go ice skating if you want. ummm if you live close to orlando, then go to disney or universal. If you dont want to do any of those things, then just go to a nice restaurant and enjoy yourself there!!!! Happy early bday!!!! I dont kno wat i want to do with mine either (its on feb. 7) !!!! Hope you have fun!

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i'm trying to plan a party with one of my friends
what kind of stuff would be fun besides a scavenger hunt in wal mart?

like crafts or something thats cool?
for like freshman in high school...? haha thanks

well i am a sophmore in high school and i do indeed love scavenger hunts. You can dance at you house all night long!!! Thats alot of fun. Also, if you want, do a karyoke contest to see who will win. That is always fun. But dancing is what most people do at parties. Hope you party goes as planned!

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What is your opinion on blonde hair?Do you think it is ugly?

i love blonde hair! i think its absolutely beautiful. Of course, blonde looks good on different people. For instance, it looks good on people with light skine tone and light eyes. But, there are different types of blonde. I have a brownish blonde and it looks good on me (i have brown eyes and i dont have light skin tone). You never know how a hair color looks on you until you try it!!!

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im 13/f 100 pounds and like 5'4 im sooo thin i have no boobs and a semi butt its soo annoying cuause guys dont even notice you unless you got a ncie figure how can i gain weight and get more of a figure and dont say be the way you are cause well thats lame no ofence

Do not listen to that girl about the drugs...they are bad, and will make you sick...Here is what to do. Just eat more sweets and grains...you will eventually gain weight. Just dont overdue it with the sweets because, then you will develop a big belly, and i am positive that you dont want that. Start consuming about 2500 calories a day (different from the 2000 calories we should eat to maintain weight). But eat the calories with healthy foods, like grains, fruits, etc. Eat at least one sweet every other day. www.mypyramid.gov . About the boobs being small, you are still growing and will get bigger boobs in the near future. For now, buy a push up bra from Victoria's Secret. Also, there are some underwear and jeans that make your butt look bigger. Again, dont do drugs, you might loose even more weight, and worst of all, become sick , and put your life in danger. Hope i helped!!! Stay healthy

jennifer

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I have an issue and I cant seem to resolve it.
I go on a diet and I loose weight , very easily.
I go off my diet and gain it back, just as easily.
I wish I could stay on my diet, i always tend to eat so much after maybe loosing 3-7 pounds.
when I eat, I dont eat anything un healty though.
But I stuff my face with yogurt, fruit, pretzels, trail mix, light popcorn, cereal.
You name it.
But ive been going to the gym and working off 800 calories.
But after that I come home and eat!
I dont know what to do anymore, Ive tried so many times !
can someone help me

13/f

You are 13 years old. You shouldnt be on a diet since you are still growing. Your body is going through alot of changes, and maybe that is why you have gained weight. Your body needs proteins to overcome these changes and this is why you need to eat healthy. Dont worry, when you finish growing, all your baby fat will go away, and you will soon be able to maintain your weight. All you should do now is eat properly (no diet). You can learn about this in www.mypyramid.gov . Also, start to exercise, but dont overdue it. Burning 800 calories a day is too much for your age. Remember that your body needs the calories more than ever now. Exercise for at least 30 min. a day, or just join a sport. I used to have a problem similar to yours. Dont worry, it will get better soon!!!! Hope this helped!!!!

jennifer

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13/F

I'm kinda tomboyish and only hang out wit like 5 girly girls.da otha ppl i hang out wit are guys. so i like this guy dat i knew for a long time but me n him always play around and make sex jokes about each otha but i think he really like me so how can i know if he does or if he jus wanna stay friends?

Talk to him. There is only one way to find out for sure, and its to ask him. Tell him that you like him more than a friend and if he likes you the same way. If you dont ask him, then you will stay wondering if he truly likes you, which he might. If he flirts with you, and only you, then he does. If he flirts with alot of girls, then he might be just playing around. I have a friend that flirts with everyone, but that is the way that he is. So ask him. Dont be afraid to. And, if you are brave enough, you make the first move. You might not regret it. Hope it all works out!!!!!!!!!!!

Jennifer

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I want to get my nails done. But I have no idea what to ask for. I've had my nails custom painted, but they were my real nails.

Heres what I want;
Fake nails, but not like really long. Like regular, normal length.
& airbrushed or with like designs.

What do I ask for?
Also, are there any websites that give ideas?

Thanks.

Ask for acrilickes (dont know how you spell it). Get the color red, dark red(like wine red), or just the normal french. Those are in right now. Also, what is also in, black nails.Get something simple and pretty, because when people look at your nails, that supposebly indicates what type of person you are. Hope i helped!!!

jennifer

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Okay, so Jane and John are in 10th grade and I'm in 9th. I really like John and John I think is still crushing on Jane and Jane is desperate for a boyfriend now that she'd go out with anyone(so she said to me herself). I think john sorta kinda likes me and according to everyone he does because he hugs me, holds me, picks me up, and gave me one of thos goofy i like you smiles.

The thing is that Jane gets the guys I like before me and technically she already got John. They went out a few tiems last year and I don't thihnk that John's still over her. Let me tell you that a lot of the girls including me like John and so if John does still like her and ask her out, it's going to crush me.

What can I do to have John notice me more? Since there aren't any more school events we'd both be interested in going to, there's no chance of meeting him outside of school since we're loaded with homeowrk (We're nerds. We're taking harder courses)

If jane is a good friend, then talk to her...if not, then dont. Here is what to do: Flirt with him like crazy. Make him like you!!!! You have to fight for him. Jane hasnt won him yet, because they arent dating. Eat lunch with him, try to sit next to him during class, call him after school (after you are done with homework). If you dont want to call him, then text him. Also, during weekends, ask him to go to the movies (as friends). Eventually you will win him over. Also, if you want, when you think the time is right, ask him out!!! There is not a rule stating that he has to ask you out! Dont be afraid to make the first move. Some guys are actually scared of asking girls out! I wish you the best!!! Tell me how it went!!!!

Jennifer

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I've had the Sims 2 for a while now and I've downloaded it on my computer about a year ago, played it, got bored, then deleted it. I tried downloading it again and about 15% into the download it said "TSData/Res/Sound/Sfx1.package". I thought it was just my computer. I got a laptop for Christmas and I tried to install it on here and that message comes up again! What is and how can I fix it? I don't want to buy a new game and it can't be my computer.

I think that the cd is scratched. :( That happened to me and I ended up buying a new one. But maybe you can go to the FAQ in www.thesims2.com and there they can help you. Talk to a professional there and hopefully you are playing the game soon!!!!(i love that game)
Just next time, dont delete it! Hope it works!!!

Jennifer

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im 13 and i havnt gotten my period yet is that bad?

awwwwwwwww!!!!! I remember when i asked the same question!!! No its not bad!!! It is normal!!!! Everyone gets their period at different times! All my friends got theirs when they were 13 or 14. And I used to panic since i was 15 and still didnt have it. I got it like 4 months ago for the first time (at 15!). Think of it in a good way!!! You dont have to worry about having blood come out every month!!! Believe me! Once you get, you will hate it!!!! Dont worry, relax, and forget about it! It will come soon!!!!

jennifer

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I think my best friend *and only friend* doesnt like me anymore..She posted an away message while I was talking to her that said "Fuck you I dont need anymore friends" and then she called my cellphone while her friends were over and they were laughing and saying really bad things to me like pussy in the background. Im so upset, Im shaking. This has never happened between me and her and weve been best friends for 6 years. I wanna die..please help

Sounds to me like she has changed. As you grow, you change, and I guess that she has changed. No one stays the same forever. Give her another chance (that way you show good judgement), but know that she is changing. Always remember this, but forgive her. After all, God says to forgive everyone. Maybe she was joking. Just relax, and act like you didnt care. That will certainly bother her. Pretend like you could care less what she had said. Hope this helped!!!!

Jennifer

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hello. I am 13/f, 5'2 and i weigh about 138 pounds. Is that really overweigh? Also, what is the fastest most efficent way to lose weight other then the excerise and eat less? Is there a SPECIFIC exercise i should do everyday? -thanks ALOT

You are 13 and growing. It is all baby fat! Once you start growing, you will loose it all and watch how skinny you will be. I was like you and wondered the same thing. I grew and lost weight last summer. But if you want to exercise, then do it!!!! Its healthy. Do exercise for at least 1 hour a day. At least 15 minutes of jogging everyday. Also, eat healthy. For information about that, go to www.mypyramid.gov . Dont worry, you will loose weight in no time!!!! If you ever need help, dont be afraid to ask me!

jennifer

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wat is a fast/easy/free way to lose weight because i have bad self control and eat too much. im not too fat and if i diet my mom will notice. i just want some ways to gain more self control and get in shape.

Exercise for at least one hour a day, and jog every day for at least 15 minutes. Also, drink lots and lots of water. You can also drink 2-3 glasses of milk (0-1%) everyday. Start eating healthy. Go to: www.mypyramid.gov for more information on that. Finally, relax, I am sure you will begin to loose weight in no time. If you are a teenager, then you can worry less. You are still growing and you have baby fat. Once you begin to grow, it will go away(thats what happened to me)

jennifer

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ok so im about 5'3" and i weigh like 137 lbs. im a little overweight and i wanna loose 15-20 lbs and i was wondering if drinking a lot of water will make me loose weight. i also do exercise and my eating habits are pretty good. if water does make you loose weight about how many glasses should i drink a day?

Drink the average 8 glasses of water. That will keep you hydrated. Also, If you drink 2-3 of 0-1% of milk a day, you also loose weight(its true!!!) You should exercise at least one hour a day, and jog for at least 15 minutes. Eat out of all the food groups and you will certainly start loosing weight immediately. Also do not get obsessed on your weight. When you take your mind off of it, that is when you really start loosing weight. If you are a teenager, it might be baby fat, and when you grow, it will go away (that is what happend to me). Go to this website for eating healthy. www.mypyramid.gov

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okay so i like this guy (w) he is goin out with my bff idk wat to do also his bff (t)LOVES me but he asked me out and i said no now he wont give upp on me? and they will both still be goin to my skool for the next like 4 years so if (w) and my bff breakup wat do i do if (t) still likes me how can this all work help..

wow now thats drama!!! well lets start off with t. Set him up straight and tell him that you do not like him and never will. limit your conversations with him and he will eventually get the message and leave you alone. now for the dramatic part. Talk to your best friend. If she is truly your bff she will understand and help you as much as she can. But please do not flirt with the guy you like. That will ruin your friendship with your bff forever. She will think that you care more about being with him than being friends with her. Try to move on, and respect your bff's relationship. If you are truly her friend you will not jepordize her relationship with her bf. After all, if you were dating him, you wouldnt like it if your bff tried to steal him from you. So try to get over him, because guys come and go but true friends are forever. I wish u the best of luck in this hard situation. Remember think: who do you care more about: your bff or her bf? Tell me how it went!!!


Edit: If she is not that good of a friend and you do not need her in your life, then go ahead and try to win him. After all, if he is a better friend, and you like him more, there is no reason that you should feel bad for wanting him. All is fair in love and war!!! By the way, if she is mean and steal from you, you have no reason to be bff with her. The bad overcomes the good. You deserve a better bff!!!!

jennifer

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Two quick questions here. My boyfriend and i (of 1 year 1 month today) are spending new years together. Ill be spending the night at his house. we have done everything BUT sex so far...but i think were ready to move a step forward (im not positive yet...im sleeping on it for a few nights). Anyways....on to the questions
1.) Sooo my bf got a condom from a reliable friend id say....5 months ago...and its an individual one..and it doesnt have a expiration date on it. i was wondering if like condoms go bad after that amount of time or if its more along the lines of a year or something. I know people are supposed to pay close attention to the exp. date...and it sucks that it doesnt have it on it.
2) Is it more likely to not get pregnant if you are having your period (i think i may have mine tomorrow) ? I know he wont care if its bloody/yucky...but i was wondering if it wood be a good thing to be having sex during it (or vice versa...a bad thing). We will, of course, be using that condom.

Soooorrry its so long but i really hope i can have some help with this!! thanks!!!

I think that just to make sure, you should buy new condoms. You never know what may happen! Also, do not wear 2 condoms at the same time
(that causes it to brake). I think there is some condoms that girls can wear too. Ive heard of it, but i am not sure. No you cannot get pregnant when u have ur period. That is the safest time to have sex.

Jennifer

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Okay, so I'm confused. My best friend (let's call her Sammy) likes one of our friends (let's call him Bob). Today Sammy came over and we hung out, and we called bob. We talked with him and Sammy went home.
Later today, Sammy called him and asked him a bunch of questions. Such as : Do you like...?

I think he does like you, but, dont freak out. It is not your fault that he likes you, you cant help but to be yourself. It just happens that he likes who you are. Well if my opinion is right then this is my advice. Respect Sammy and do not flirt with bob. Dont try to give him any wrong ideas. Just be yourself and live life normally. Pretend this never happened. Sammy should try to flirt with bob a little more to try to get him to like her. But i suggest u not to get involved.

jennifer

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