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Half way triangle?
Okay, so Jane and John are in 10th grade and I'm in 9th. I really like John and John I think is still crushing on Jane and Jane is desperate for a boyfriend now that she'd go out with anyone(so she said to me herself). I think john sorta kinda likes me and according to everyone he does because he hugs me, holds me, picks me up, and gave me one of thos goofy i like you smiles.
The thing is that Jane gets the guys I like before me and technically she already got John. They went out a few tiems last year and I don't thihnk that John's still over her. Let me tell you that a lot of the girls including me like John and so if John does still like her and ask her out, it's going to crush me.
What can I do to have John notice me more? Since there aren't any more school events we'd both be interested in going to, there's no chance of meeting him outside of school since we're loaded with homeowrk (We're nerds. We're taking harder courses)
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alright man heres what you do.. first of all forget jane shes nothing right now to get john play hard to get always works and its a classic move and since he already has had jane im sure he knows he could get her back.. if he thinks he cant get you he'll want you more ask any guy out there they want what they cant have.. why? because its a challenge.. so next time you see him in the hall just smile at him dont wave dont hug him if thats what normally goes down just smile.. and then talk to other guys not too much but make it seem like hes not the only one you think about and then he'll want to be just be cool and if him and jane do whinde up going out i highly doubt it will last.. i mean if it didnt before surely it won't work again so don't let that phase you just be normal and play the hard to get game and everything will work your way.. hope i helped!
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If jane is a good friend, then talk to her...if not, then dont. Here is what to do: Flirt with him like crazy. Make him like you!!!! You have to fight for him. Jane hasnt won him yet, because they arent dating. Eat lunch with him, try to sit next to him during class, call him after school (after you are done with homework). If you dont want to call him, then text him. Also, during weekends, ask him to go to the movies (as friends). Eventually you will win him over. Also, if you want, when you think the time is right, ask him out!!! There is not a rule stating that he has to ask you out! Dont be afraid to make the first move. Some guys are actually scared of asking girls out! I wish you the best!!! Tell me how it went!!!!
Jennifer
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If you want him hun you gota fight for him!! well take him out but if youve got homework then try studying together or make the excuse that you need a tutor and you think hell be perfect for the job! this way you get the homework done and you get to spend time alone with the guy you like! also being with someone else will help him get over Jane a little easier and quicker and then hopefully notice you in that way a bit more!! But it think the best thing to do is to try n study with him! I really hope thats an idea youl agree with! good luck xox Porsche
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