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okay so sometime last week i was supposed to hang out with this guy that i have been talking to. we have been talking for a while now and he asked if i wanted to kick it so i said yes and last week i met up to wherever we were gonna hang out at and i only had until a certain time and he didnt come. he was taking a while and i hate waiting so i just left. he then txted me saying where i was at and i told him i left cuz he didnt come. He said he was at his house and it took him a while to get there so he couldnt go that fast. I replied with i thought yu were already there and a sad face and after that he didnt reply. Now its been a week and he hasnt talked to me at all. I txt him and he doesnt txt back! :( what is up with that? did he really get mad for us not hanging out? i think i started to like him so now im worried that he won't talk to me anymore. please help. btw if it helps our convos before we were gonna kick it were flirtatious like he brought up that i would be a good girlfriend and stuff like that if that helps/:
You should just flat out ask him. If he doesn't respond, stop messaging him. If he wants to talk to you he will.
20/f This is a really long story. But I'm just gonna summarize it. Ive been off and on with my boyfriend for about 3 years. We have been officially broken up since sept because he moved far away but in dec started talking again and I know that I havent been talking to anyone else since then. This boy really is the love of my life and the reasons we broke up always led back to drugs. Hes an addict but since december has been undergoing treatment and is in a halfway house currently. Ive never heard this kind of change in him and it made me fall so much more in love with him. The catch is we started talking like every night in jan and feb and it was like we were dating. Then he said he really just needed space to work on himself and find out who he is. This is completely understandable because it is what he needs to do. Plus I live 6 hours away still but long distance doesnt bother either of us too much.
Now, ive tried so hard to give him the space he needs. But Ive caved at moments and prob stressed him out seeking the attention I wanted. But a week ago he told me he was ready to come visit. I told him a weekend that I didnt have too many exams and its in 3 weeks. The problem is...he barely seems interested in me. But wouldnt a guy just leave if he wasnt interested. I have really low self confidence and trust issues due to our past and I keep thinking that maybe he just said hes coming and isnt. I mean he promised and said he really wanted to be with me. Im just scared. I dont want to get my hopes up but I dont want to bombard him until he just gives up.
I wrote him a sweet letter today and im not texting him. But how is a way I can clear my nerves and just trust that he means it when he says hes going to come visit...regardless of him like barely ever trying to talk to me (maybe like once every 10 days) I dont know. Im lost and really hurting but I really love this guy and he says he feels the same. He always talks about marriage and what not :/ I know he just needs to get his head straight.
Guys like confidence. If a girl seems to have low self-confidence and doesn't love herself, it comes off bad. He shouldn't have to compliment you so you feel good about yourself. While it's nice, you should already feel good about yourself. You should fix your own self esteem issues before trying to fix him. When I was with my ex boyfriend, I wasn't very confident. I always kind of felt like everyone liked him more than me and he was very successful in everything he did. I felt pretty average. I don't know what happened but after he broke up with me I became extremely confident in myself and my self esteem just went through the roof. It was instant. I started caring about myself. I used to think I didn't have to care about my appearance and he loved me for who I was. Wrong. I looked better, I was making goals and accomplishing them. Make sure you can do that with him. If he wants to work on himself then you should want to work on yourself too. That way you'll both be better people and can have a better relationship. Give him the space he needs but still let him know you care for him. The letter was a good gesture.
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hi, me and my boyfriend been dating for 2 years and i have just moved in with him. everything is going fine. he addressed me as his girlfriend when he used to introduced me to his friends but now he addressess me as his ''missuss'' when we're meeting his mates. so, my question is, is that a good sign because i have asked him recently if he's going to propose me or not othersiwe i'm just wasting my time and he replied,''you never know'' with his beaming face. so, what does he mean by that as well? thank you all.
Normally men refer to their wives as "Mrs" or "Missus" however you want to spell it. If he really didn't see himself marrying you, I doubt he would say that.
I'm great at meeting new people and being really friendly with them at first, and then it's like, I don't know how to continue that, and we end up drifting away, and then I find myself alone and unhappy. How can I stop this from happening? Sometimes it's like I don't want to keep talking, like I'm afraid of letting them really get to know me because I don't want to let them reject me, so it's like I reject them first, when I actually do want to be friends with them. And then I find myself hanging around people I'm not really compatible with, that I don't really like, just because it's easier. I just hate myself right now. Like I'm a senior and I hang around mainly freshmen cause of this, but they don't really know me. Nobody knows me, because I don't let them get to know me. And I'm also socially awkward from basically growing up on the internet and idk how to do simple things like invite someone over to my house or w/e cause it just really freaks me out and idk what to do cause my house is really boring, and etc. i've missed out on many many social things cause of this and it just needs to stop cause it doesn't make me happy at all. i cant truly be happy when i feel alone, no matter how much music i listen to, to numb the pain. is there any way I can mend relationships with people i've let drift away, and to stop this kind of behavior? it's a no-win scenario, it's mean to the other person as well as to myself. I'm 18 in high school, if it makes a difference
There is a book called How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. It's probably at most libraries. It talks about what people do wrong in friendships. An example used in the book is criticism. Let's say a boss of a construction company is always yelling at his employees to wear helmets. They still don't always wear their helmets and resent him for it. They don't like being yelled at. However, he changed his way of talking to them. Instead of yelling, he said "Is something wrong with your helmet? It's important you wear it but let me know if it's uncomfortable for you and we'll get you a different one." See the difference? Sometimes you just have to word things differently. I'm not saying you criticize them. But you can let them know that you want to maintain the relationship by asking them questions about what happened and asking them to hang out. It doesn't have to be at your house. Go to the mall or something.
I know it sounds weird but, my boyfriend is experiencing cramp like feelings for the first time, that resemble my own when i'm on my period and when I just get cramps for no reason. I am currently awaiting my period which is also my natural pregnancy test. every month i go through the same thing, this time my smell senses are stronger, and i sleep a lot and a lot easier and a lot longer. and i snack all day. I always worry about this but this time i'm ready to accept whatever comes my way. we have been sexually active for about 4 years now only with eachother and we both lost out virginity to eachother. anyways my normal cramps he seems to be experiencing. his sister told him that maybe he's getting my cramps, i wasn't sure if she way joking but, when two girls spend a lot of time together they get their periods at the same time, it's not exactly the same as 2 girls but i figure that if that's possible then why should my boyfriend experiencing my cramps be impossible. If anyone knows anything let me know. by the ways i'm female and he's male. thanks for reading.
That can happen for females but not with males. He should be seen by a doctor. It's probably a stomach issue.
ive been going through some rough stuff with my ex/boyfriend. kind of complicated, its been very on and off and its been taking a toll on me. whenever we get into a fight or experience troubles, the thoughts hang over my head like no other. i go out and do things but i cant get the pit out of my stomach thinking "were gonna break up forever" or "this is it for good". how can i prevent thoughts from hanging over my head like that
You and your boyfriend or ex boyfriend are the ones that determine if you work out or not. You shouldn't always think badly about it because half of the decision is yours. In a way, it's a good thing you consider the possibility that you might not get back together. Sometimes it just doesn't work out. But you should talk to him that you do worry about it. Since you're thinking those things, you probably don't want them to happen. Does he know that?
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...and this is how it goes. I am 23,female. I am in realtionship with this guy for the past 2 years. He is too good for me. His family never seems to approve of our relationship. He loves me a lot but crumbles under pressure. Each time I think of making this work I feel humiliated. Coz I have heard horrible things being said about me, wot I do, where I come from , the way I look, etc. I love him . But I am totally unsure. I am being pressurised all sides to make a decision coz people around think I'm growing old!!! I hate it when people taunt about me being so unsure. Help!!
Who says those horrible things? If he does then you should definitely talk to him about it and really think about your relationship. If his family does, you need to discuss it with him. If you are considering marriage eventually, you do become a part of his family and vice versa. However, it's not always that easy. Sometimes they won't like the family or the family won't like them. It shouldn't define your relationship though.
My Boyfriend and I have been together for almost two months, but we have known each other for quite a while. We just recently started to tell each other that we love one another, but I'm not sure if he loves me the same way that I love him. He told me that he is not in a "I want to get married" kind of love, but a "You're my best friend, my support, and my rock, I can't imagine life without you" kind of love. I'm not sure if I am getting my point across clear enough, lol. Anyways, I was wondering what he meant by this, and what the difference is between the two types of love. I love him. But am I wasting my time? Is he IN love with me, or does he just love me as a best friend?
That's something you have to ask him. However, if he says that he doesn't love you in the "I want to get married" way then he probably means he's not thinking of that yet. You're relationship is still pretty new so don't worry about that. Guys have a weird way of expressing their feelings sometimes. Just talk to him about it.
Boyfriend and I have been together for two years. Lately things are not what they used to be. He doesn't make the effort to do anything for me anymore. He will sometimes drive to my house which is thirteenth minutes away but that's once in a while. We text each other and he will ignore me somewhere in the conversation. I'm so sick of it, but it's only hard because I love him.I think most of us girls like being taken out once in a while, and he doesn't do that anymore. I thInk I should probably break up with him because a part of me feels like he wants to let go of him because he once talked about being trapped. I have weird feelings that he has found someone else. It could just be paranoia but idk. He goes out of his way to make plans with his friends and I come last. It hurts a lot. I honestly don't mind him hanging out with his friends but I think I deserve some time too. I don't know what to do at this point. I was going to wait it out and see how much longer he ignores me and then if he keeps at it talk to him and set him free.
Communication is important in a relationship. Talk to him about it. He should be able to figure out a way to spend time with you and his friends evenly. Sometimes you have to look at it from both perspectives. You said that he doesn't do anything for you anymore. Do you do anything for him? I'm not saying you don't, but maybe he doesn't feel like you do. You should ask him.
When I buy a song on iTunes the picture shows up of there cover. But if I buy a cd in a store and then import it to iTunes the album cover doesn't show up when I listen to the songs it's just white with the music sign. How do I get the picture to show up! It annoys me so much. Is there anyway to get the photo and drag it to the song or something?
On iTunes it shows up because it is provided with the song. If you try to purchase a song, you can normally see the album cover. Since CD's are being transferred into iTunes without album covers then nothing shows up. There are no album covers with each track on a CD.
If I spend a little money every month on a credit card and pay it will I have good credit?
If I spend like 100 dollars a month and pay the credit card bill will I have good credit? cause I have no credit
Yes you can build your credit score by doing that but you have to make sure you're paying it every month and not just the interest. If you can double the minimum payment it will build credit. However, credit cards can be addictive so make sure you don't go over the amount you set for yourself.
hey my dog angus ate 2 reeses peanut butter reeses will he die i am scared!!!!!!!! the were the small ones and he is 2 and a half and weighs 18 pounds and is a mini snuazer
Obviously it is not good for dogs but it's not fatal usually. Just call the vet and ask. They should have a number where someone always answers.
I am 19, from Singapore, I am kinda having some difficulty talking or getting to know girls. I tend to get very nervous around them. All my friends refer me as the crazy, funny guy. I can come up with a lot of jokes when I'm with my guy friends ( I have a lot of guy friends because I'm an engineering student ) but my jokes suck when I'm with... lets say a girl that I find attractive. Guess I'm not very confident. One more thing, every girl that I wooed/chased seemed to be very interested at first but after a while, they seem to lose their interest? I don't really know because they don't tell me. All they say is that I'm a nice guy and they don't wanna hurt me? WTF is that supposed to mean?! I need to know what you guys think about this. Thanks! :D
Btw, I tried cheesy pick up lines and I think it just doesn't work with Asian girls. They will all be like "WTF is his problem? Crazy ass muda.." You get my point.
Most girls automatically put guys in the friend category if they don't seem interested in them.
Well,I have a boyfriend,we've been dating for almost 2 years,but over the last 5 or 6 months we've been through a lot of hardships and bitter disappoinment,'cause he would lie to me a lot and even cheated on me,so I guess I just stopped loving him the way I used to do,I don't miss him anymore,I don't cry any longer,and I'm even interested in other quys,it's awful 'cause I wouldn't like to hurt his feelings but at the same time I don't wanna be lying to myself either,so how could I face him and tell him what's going on?thanks!
You should be honest with him. Otherwise, you're just leading him on.
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myself is a student.i am 26 years old. from last few years i had suffer from stomach problems. i just feel like a heartbeat in my stomach and the stomach also takes the shape of stomach like a pregnant women.from last year there is soft skin came from my but i can touch it .i dont know what is it.and max. time white coloured substance came from my vagina but now a brown coloured substance came from my vagina whenever my periods starts and comes to end.but this time my periods start from 12th of march and closed on 18th of march but at 23 of march brown colouredxd substance again withdraw from my vagina, i also feel cramps in my but and legs and give me feeling as there is hard substace in my but and once it came out then may be i could be ok. please tell me what is these symptoms am i pregnat or not.plz plz help me i really thankful to u.
If you had your period, you probably aren't pregnant. It wouldn't hurt to take an HPT though.
I know this is kind of long, but I need advice on what to do.
Okay, so my best friend, who i will call Sally, for protection reasons, and i had this huge fight. She was picking a fight, too. We were joking around about her birthday party and she brought up her friends opinion on it. Now, consider, Sally and I both know I don't like her friend because shes a mean drama queen. Sally and i also have a promise to alwaus be honestand open with each other. I expressed that her friend was rude to me and I didn't like her, and Sally exploded at me about how I was "talking smack about her friend since she was five" She stormed out of the room and left me stunned and confused. Later on, in Drama, we were arguing and she said that "I was trying to lose all my friends and i treat everyone like garbage" and when (after her asking a question for the sixth time and me answering for the sixth time) i made on comment about her being blonde, she said "i hurt her in a way she can:t shake off" and then started telling people i shoved her. Even though i wouldn't do that. She told me she spent lunch crying, and so did i, but the difference here is that I was alone, in a classroom eating pizza and sobbing into my knees. After that, on several occasions she hascalled me bitchy and said that i was the rudest person she has ever known. She has a small army of people all against me and I've been having emotional meltdowns daily for more than a week now. We hardly ever fight and I don't know what to do. I've apologized, but I don't think she ever wants to make up. I'm about to seek therapy and transer schools. HELP!!!
This might not help you now as it is happening but you will look back at this and laugh. Trust me. When you're in school, everything seems so dramatic. I haven't talked to or cared to talk to anyone really after high school. You move on. The "popular" kids are no longer popular. It doesn't matter. Everyone is in college or working doing their own thing. So keep that in mind when you're stressing out about this stuff. If you are being bullied by them, go to a counselor, a teacher, a parent, a sibling. An adult. It's unacceptable to be bullied. Don't give those people a reaction, especially "Sally". Ignore them. If they were your true friends they wouldn't be so dramatic and make up lies about you. If she doesn't want to make up then it's her loss. She'll see that when you're the mature one about it. Just don't deal with your emotions alone. Talk to someone about it. Tell your parents.
I dont wanna give out much info or anything but ive been dating my boyfriend for 7 months were completely in love & yes im sure, weve been through a lot & I cant picture my life with anyone else!
It is your decision and no one elses. But I would strongly strongly recommend waiting to have a kid with him. Not to offend you but only dating for 7 months is still kind of in that honeymoon stage. And once you move in together, things can completely change. You'll learn things about him that you've never even knew about. You might fight more or get into little disagreements. It's just different. I dated a guy for over 7 years. I started dating him when I was 12. I honestly thought we would end up together. And we didn't. We pretty much hate each other. I haven't spoken to him for months. Could you imagine if we had a kid together? That's bringing a child into a disaster. You are still so young. After you graduate and start working, then decide to get married or have a kid. You both need good jobs. Full time work. It's so expensive. No need to rush.
There's this guy...I recently realized that I do like him. I kind of have this feeling that nothing will ever happen for a few reasons, but I still get super nervous around him. Sometimes, we'll walk and talk together in the mornings before and after 1st period. I used to have no problem keeping up a conversation with him, but now I'm struggling to keep up my side of it and it turns into an awkward silence. I can never think of anything to say and I feel like I mumble on sometimes. I'm always afraid to approach him in the hallway when I see him so I wait until he comes up to me. I think he thinks that I don't want to talk to him or that I don't like him. How can I overcome my shyness/nervousness and be a little more flirty when I talk to him? Thanks in advance for everything :)
It's normal for people to feel shy especially around someone they like or care about. You should just tell him that. Like if he says something about why you don't come up to him first just say that you are shy. If you do really like him, try to get over it as best you can so you don't miss out. Conversations and approaching people are a two way thing and if he thinks you don't like him because you aren't doing that then he could stop. If you explain to him that you do and you're just shy, he'll understand.