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me and my friend had an argument and i feel very bad because i really want to be his friend but anything i do to be his mate he always upsets me and makes me really upset what can i do to b his mate again? please....

Stop trying to be his mate. If it's meant to happen it will in time. Just be friends for now and if he starts liking you then he'll go out with you. Just be his friend for now and take things from there. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything else for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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Ok well i was at a football game last night. And yeah well my best friend moved about well almost 2 months ago.
So I met this guy at a football game (hes in grade 9 and im in 8) and yeah well ive known him for a few years i guess but this was the first time that we ever talked.

Ok. But yeah so he talks to my friend that moved, lets call her ashley, and he said that ashley called me a "lesbianish freak, slut, who has fake boobs"

ok and my (ex) best friend has no boobs so maybe shes jealous but who knows. and i DO NOT have fake boobs, lol i can prove it. So i called ashley and she goes ok who are you gonna believe some fag boy that youve known for one day or me. But the thing is she always spreads rumors abuot people so this really doesnt suprise me. But that guy doesnt even know me and hes nice and he wouldnt make that up.

Who should i believe. Please help.

I rate 5 for everyone.

It doesn't really matter because you're not gonna be able to get the person who said it to admit it. If I had to believe somebody I would believe the guy, especially if the friend moved and is always spreading rumors and the guy is nice. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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Well my friends and I all decided to be "goth" for halloween this year, and well I'm not really sure what to buy for clothes (other than things that are black) and I'm not to sure what to do with the makeup either, got any ideas or website to give me some idea?

Thanks

Much Love,

Britt

[[BTW, I Rate 5 For EVERYONE!!!]]

You can go to Hot Topic and get pretty much everything there. Get shirts that are black or pink and black and have fishnets. For makeup just put on black eyeliner and black eyeshadow if you want, and then maybe a really red lipstick. Also wear chains and spikes. If you're gonna wear a skirt get some high boots and fishnet tights in like pink or blue. Wear a lot of spikey or black jewelry and earrings. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything else for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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OK I have this "friend". Really she used to be my best friend, then I went away for the summer and she really started irritating me by talking about all these hot guys she's saying and how they all hit on her and how when I come back I get the less hotter one because she saw them first. WTF is that?! Do any of your friends do this? And plus, I KNOW for a fact that all of them do not hit on her because 1) She's honestly not that attractive. I'm prettier than her, and I don't really think I'm all that pretty anyway. 2) Whenever we went out together, which was quite alot, nobody ever hit on her. She'd always approach the guys she knew first.

Well anyway, back to what I was originally saying...over the summer things got different. After I got back things were not the same between her, me, and our other mutual friend. The mutual friend and I would still get online and call each other and hang out and stuff. But the main girl barely wanted anything to do with us. The one thing that set me off was one day we were all supposed to go to Ryan's (a steakhouse) which is 30 minutes away but this "friend" called and bailed on me (telling me she had a headache and didn't want to drive) like she always ALWAYS used to but I always took it from her. So I was pissed and asked my other friend to go hang out so we went to Wal-Mart and guess who pulled up right as we were walking home?

Yup you guessed it. So the other friend asked for a ride and the "friend" looked kinda irritated then hesitated. Since then I haven't spoken to her till a few days ago. Today she was suposed to take me to pick up my check from Subway, but she didn't. I called twice, left a message on her phone and on AIM but nothing. I knew she wasn't going to come which is why I made plans for someone else to take me.

My problem is, she wants me to go to her birthday party on Friday and since she's been such a terrible friend to me and done nothing but made me feel ugly when we were out together (by saying the hot guys were looking at her not me), and never keeping promises or plans...should I go? I mean normally I'm such a loyal person but I think she's just gone overboard with this. I'm sick of it.

I'm so sorry this was long...I just thought you all should nkow the whole story. Thanks for answering and I will rate you a 5 if you even put one sentence just because you read all this! :D

She has been a really bad friend and all but I think you should go to her party. Maybe if you talk to her there things will go back to normal between you. Plus if you don't go she'll think you're ditching her and ignoring her and then things would probably get worse. Maybe she has a good reason for all this, like family problems or something, but probably not. Just go to her party and see what happens from there. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything else for you! =c)


Love, RacheL

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Hey all, just looking for some different opinions on my hair. I'm getting it cut, dyed and tipped (im a guy by the way). Im going to have it so its medium length, and im going to get it dyed black, but im not sure what colour i should get the tips. I was thinking of like a copper colour, but i need help. Any advice would be great, even advice on styles or cutting lengths n styles lol. help would be greatly appreciated. Cheers!

You should soo make the tips pink!! That would be so awesome! lol but if you're not gonna do it pink then MAKE THE TIPS RED!! It would look sexy ;) haha. Anyway hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything else for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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my voice maked me uncomfterable because im a girl with an incridably low voice, like whenever i talk to a guy, they always ask if i have a cold and some people make fun of me because of my voice. i just wanna know a way that maybe my voice can sound a litlle higher.plz!!!!

My friend has the same problem. She has a sort of hoarse voice too and all the guys think that it's sexy when she talks. Don't worry about it.. there's no way to make it higher and if you try to talk different people will make fun of you even more. As you get older your voice will change more.. it still might be a little low but guys will think it's sexy. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything else for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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Does anyone know what Tienes amigos? means

Also what Como estas hoy?

Help!!! i need it asap!

Tienes amigos - Do you have friends?
Como estas hoy? - how are you today?

if you need any help in spanish u can ask me lol =c)

Love, RacheL

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i have homecoming this saturdayy.. and i have no clue how to do my make up.. i have dirty blondish..hair andd a light blue and dark blue glirtty dress.. and i have green eyes.. and how should i do my hair! any tips! plz plz ill rate ya ;]

For your eyes you can do light blue sparkly eyeshadow. You could also do silver eyeshadow or light blue and have the silver start at the top part of the blue eyeshadow and go up to the eyebrows and kind of around your eye. It looks really pretty especially if you have a little line underneath your bottom eyelashes. Use some black eyeliner all the way around your eyes except for the top. Make sure you get the corners though =c). For your lips I would just experiment with lipgloss ((not necessarily lipstick because I don't think it would look very good with your look)) you have, especially if you have some light pinks or "bare" or "naked" colors.. which is sort of like a brown but really pretty. Cheeks- a light brown blush would look great! And for your hair.. I'm not sure if I can explain if very well but its where you have the top front half of your head pulled back in little sections, each about the size of your first of middle finger. Then it's tied back and the ponytail is curled. It also looks cute if you curl random pieces of hair on the bottom half part of your head. Throwing in some glitter wouldn't hurt. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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hi
im 13, 5ft 2in, size 2 or 4 (pants) and i weight about 115 lbs...am i fat?? plz b honest!!! thanks so much!

No that's not fat at all!! I have a friend who's the same age, height, pant size, and weight as you and she's really skinny! But really you're not fat at all. Don't worry so much about your weight though, it's not what matters most in life. If you feel self-conscious start working out or running or going on a mostly healthy foods diet. But don't go overboard and just stop eating.. trust me it's not the right way to go. In short though, you are not fat at all! Hope I helped! Ask me anything else if you need something! =c)

Love, RacheL

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How long does a pro baseball game usually last ?

It can last anywhere from an hour and a half to two and a half hours unless it goes into extra innings or something. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything for you!

×3 Rachel

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Okay my problem is that my mom wont give one of my best friends a chance!!! My mom thinks just because Nicole** (**name has been changed) is just a lil different than my other friends that I cant hang with her! Ive asked many times to go out with Nicole but my mom continues to say no because "theres just something about her..out of all the people who call you, shes the rudest" hellloooo she (my mom) dont even answer the phone most of the time! I DO! Ugggghhh! is there ANY way to convince my mom that my friend isnt all trouble, even though she may be?

I went through the same thing with my mom. Everybody needs a friend who gets into trouble sometimes otherwise life would be boring. I have a couple friends that get in trouble a lot but they're so fun! If you hang around her just be sure to not go too far or get into too much trouble. Your mom is being protective of you. My mom was the same way. She didnt' want me hanging around a lot of my friends for different reasons of hers. Just tell her that your friend really isn't as bad as shes making her out to be. Say that she's really sweet and blah blah blah. Tell her that you wouldn't hang out with anybody who was all trouble and you're capable of making decisions on who your friends should be by yourself. Hope your mom understands and I hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you!

×3 Rachel

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I have a really really low self confidence, if someone compliments me I immediatly think they're only saying it to be nice or they're taking the mickey. How can I be more positive and self confident?

I know this is really weird.. but studies have shown that people who make lists and check them off when they're dont get a higher self confidence about themselves. So write down all your homework or groceries or something and when you're done with it or get it then check it off. I know it's weird but I guess it works! Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything for you! =c)
Love, RacheL

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Ive had this friend Z since 7th grade and we talk everyday, mainly cuz he IM's me all the time. But I also have a boyfriend that ive had for a year and 7 months and they obviously dont like eachother. Z doesnt like my boyfriend cuz he doesnt talk to him and that bothers him and my boyfriend doesnt like him because he thinks that Z is tryin to steal me from him. Well...lately its becoming a little obvious hes jealous. But in the last couple days everytime he talks to me he keeps talking about his ideal girl and theyr some things i have in common with his ideal girl. Everytime i ask him if hes talking about me he keeps sayin that he thinks im "a cool person to talk to" and "im a great friend". But yesterday he told me he had an opionion about me...but has kinda been avoiding me all day today. Not knowing this is driving me crazy. But the main point here is...is this guy sending me mixed signals or what or does he want me in a more than friends kind of way...plz help, sry its so long, ill rate a 5 if u answer.

Ohh I think that he likes you. I mean if he talks about his ideal girl and a lot of things are like you, and then he avoids you all day then he must like you. You should just come straight out and ask him if he likes you and see what he says. If he kind of stutters or you catch him by surprise and he pauses before he answers then he probably likes you. Or if he says no really fast then he still probably likes you. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything for you! =c)
Love, RacheL

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Hey i need some help.. i think im prude..like scared to kiss a boy like i feel embarresed like i dont do it right or something i mean i have pecked boys but never freched or madeout and alot of ppl call me prude and idk wut to do cuz even my bf calls me prude and i like him alot nd wanna kiss him but i jus cant :-/

X.oX.o --> aShLeY

It's ok you'll kiss when you're ready. Sometimes it takes people a longer time to kiss or french. Just force yourself one of these times to kiss him and after that everything should be ok =c) Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you! Hope I helped!

Love, RacheL

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i recently met this guy about 3 weeks ago and weve hung out and talked on the phone once about 4 times n im pretti sure he likes me but im not totalli sure hes 19 and im 16 and hes mentioned sumthing b4 about him being older but he still hangs out with me n talks to me n stuff we went to the movies the other night and he like flirted with me n everything n bought my ticket but he didnt hold my hand or anything and wen he dropped me off at my house he was just like well ill talk to u online or sumthing n then hes like well if ur on and im like yeah bye i was just wondering if u thin he likes me or not

I think he likes you. He might just not want to make any moves because he's older than you and is worried about what might happen or what people think. I think he likes you though but unless you like him or make the first move then he might not tell you he likes you or make a move. Hope I helped!
Love, RacheL

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Hello. Here is the situtation (sorry if its long)

Im a freshman in high scool, and I have 2 really good friends. One of them, let's call her Jacki, is really close to me, weve been friends for a long time. My other good friend is Kelsey, I havent known her as long as Jacki and we arent as close as Jacki and I are. So, unfortunetely Jacki went to a different high school then me, but me and Kelsey are at the same school. So, me and Kelsey have been hanging out at school, but the past two days she hasn't been talking to me that much. She sits at the opposite side of the lunch table, she hardly talks to me, and she talks to other people. I have other friends at the table and everything, but it really makes me feel bad because I feel like I have no REALLY good friend to talk to :-( I miss being with Jacki... please help. Thanks if you take the time to read it all! =)

Talk to her about it. Tell her that you miss talking to her lately and you want to know if anythings wrong. Try talking to her during lunch and try calling her. If she still ignores you then ask her if you did anything wrong and why she's not talking to you. If she still ignores you after that then shes probly hanging out with other people that don't want her hanging out with you for some reason. If that's true then shes not worth being your friend. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you! =c)
Love, RacheL

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ok.. basketball season's gonna start in 2 mthz.. im a grl.. bout 5'1" nd 115 lbs. im thinkin of tryin out 4 my freshman team.. shud i rilly tho? cuz i guess im just doubtin my abilities rite now.. my shootings a bit off.. but my defense is pretty good.. how i see it tho.. is that i cud just help in assists.. but idk.. do u kno how i cud get in shape in 2 mths tym nd ne basketball advice that u cud give me?

signed,
BasKEtBall fReaK

I LOVE BASKETBALL TOO!!! =cD What I would do is practice shooting and run a couple times a week. Start working out and practice free throws. Dribble a basketball if you go running outside and dribble with your weaker hand a lot. Practice lay ups, cross overs, behind the back, through the legs, etc. But you have plenty of time to get into shape. Run a lot so you'll get faster, and get a medicine ball (15 or 20 lbs) or something and go outside in the grass and lay on your back. Then throw the medicine ball up in the hair and catch it. It'll be hard at first, but it really helps strengthen your arms. If you get one of those squishy things they sometimes have at the counters at like White Hen or some place like that to make your fingers stronger, it'll help you get rebounds. I know it's a lot, but it'll help A LOT! Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you! =c)
Love, Rachel

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Okay, this guy really likes me and stuff like that. i am starting to like him to, but he isn't the cutest guy ever, what should I do??

Who cares what he looks like? If you like him that much you should go out with him and not care what people think! Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you! =c)
Love, RacheL

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Ok theres this guy whos like totally cutte and i really like him and he totally calls me every nite! we wind up talking for like 1-2 hours and i really am falling for him! i always ask him who he likes and he NEVER tells me! i told him i liked him and he was like oh thats kool. wen we hang out hes always like looking at me...like really loooooking at me and wen we hug goodbye its like we both dont wanna let go! lol i swear this kid will NOT admit that he likes me but me and my friends thinks he does! i never really try to pressure him or get people to annoy him about it b/c maybe he`s just shy? but i dont know what to do cuz i know that hes gunna call 2nite so any advice on what to say? cuz i really wanna be with him! HELP!

I think you should ask him straight out if he likes you. Maybe you'll catch him off guard and he'll say yes! Or you could just ask him out. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you! =c)
Love, RacheL

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I have a problem I did somthing i shouldent have my mom told me never But i was curios so I looked a porno online should i tell her i looked at it or just leave it as is?

Don't tell her you'll just get into tons of trouble. Don't look at it again though because one, you shouldn't and two, she'll probably find out about it. Delete all the history that you've been there and don't go there again. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you! =c)
Love, RacheL

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