Question Posted Saturday September 25 2004, 5:10 pm
Okay my problem is that my mom wont give one of my best friends a chance!!! My mom thinks just because Nicole** (**name has been changed) is just a lil different than my other friends that I cant hang with her! Ive asked many times to go out with Nicole but my mom continues to say no because "theres just something about her..out of all the people who call you, shes the rudest" hellloooo she (my mom) dont even answer the phone most of the time! I DO! Ugggghhh! is there ANY way to convince my mom that my friend isnt all trouble, even though she may be?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Crystal_0408 answered Saturday September 25 2004, 5:55 pm: Well chick, the only thing I can really tell you is that your mom has been a teenager/child once before and she understands how kids are and how kids can be, which may be why she isnt letting you hang out with her... the only way you can possibly convince her, is to let her trust you with your friend... maybe both of you can hang out with your mom and act like your mom is just another friend, and im sure once your moms sees how good of a friend she is, she will trust you and Nicole** enough to let you hang out with her more than you do now.
xoRachel answered Saturday September 25 2004, 5:20 pm: I went through the same thing with my mom. Everybody needs a friend who gets into trouble sometimes otherwise life would be boring. I have a couple friends that get in trouble a lot but they're so fun! If you hang around her just be sure to not go too far or get into too much trouble. Your mom is being protective of you. My mom was the same way. She didnt' want me hanging around a lot of my friends for different reasons of hers. Just tell her that your friend really isn't as bad as shes making her out to be. Say that she's really sweet and blah blah blah. Tell her that you wouldn't hang out with anybody who was all trouble and you're capable of making decisions on who your friends should be by yourself. Hope your mom understands and I hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you!
LilMia811 answered Saturday September 25 2004, 5:14 pm: Explain to your Mom, that Nicole is YOUR friend, not hers. Tell her Nicloe is not bad, and even if she was, you are not and you won't do anything stupid. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
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