Im a freshman in high scool, and I have 2 really good friends. One of them, let's call her Jacki, is really close to me, weve been friends for a long time. My other good friend is Kelsey, I havent known her as long as Jacki and we arent as close as Jacki and I are. So, unfortunetely Jacki went to a different high school then me, but me and Kelsey are at the same school. So, me and Kelsey have been hanging out at school, but the past two days she hasn't been talking to me that much. She sits at the opposite side of the lunch table, she hardly talks to me, and she talks to other people. I have other friends at the table and everything, but it really makes me feel bad because I feel like I have no REALLY good friend to talk to :-( I miss being with Jacki... please help. Thanks if you take the time to read it all! =)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Derfel answered Friday September 3 2004, 6:26 pm: Hi darling,
Well you have two options hear. You could always move schools to be with Jacki. However do you want the upheaval? Try talking to Kelsey and ask what the problem is. It may of course be nothing but try to work it out with her as soon as possible the longer you leave it the harder it'll be. After chatting with Kelsey you'll be in a better position to decide if you want to jump ship and move schools or if your happy where you are.
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Christine answered Friday September 3 2004, 5:34 pm: hi. I can help you. My name is Kelsey too. i just put on here that my name is Christine becuase thats my Frech name. Well n e ways... make new friends and hope that kelsey talks to you. Whats Kelsey's last name? Do you go to Mt. Pleasant? If not what school. Talk to me if you need more advice. [ Christine's advice column | Ask Christine A Question ]
xoRachel answered Friday September 3 2004, 5:18 pm: Talk to her about it. Tell her that you miss talking to her lately and you want to know if anythings wrong. Try talking to her during lunch and try calling her. If she still ignores you then ask her if you did anything wrong and why she's not talking to you. If she still ignores you after that then shes probly hanging out with other people that don't want her hanging out with you for some reason. If that's true then shes not worth being your friend. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you! =c)
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.Dreamsicle. answered Friday September 3 2004, 5:08 pm: .ok.Talk to her and try to find out what ever u done..(if u even done anything at all)..u might not notice that u done anything but this happens to me alot over stupid little thing but its ur like b/f and a really goood 1 and u dont wanna lose her friendship over something stupid ..ya know what i mean....
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