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i'm so paranoid about keeping a tampon in for more than 1 hour. i don't know why, but i feel like i'm gonna get TSS or something if i keep it in for like 2 hours or something. yesterday i put one in and i took it out after 30 minutes! what should i do about this?

Don't think about it. I've left a tampon in for 10 hours. I know, pretty gross, but I fell asleep with one in. Nothing happened. Tell yourself nothing will happen.
Or, if you just can't do it, then just go back to pads.

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me and my boy friend aren't very close and we never really talk and when we do it's during class and it's about stupid stuff. i really want him to kiss me before school ends for the summer, because the only thing we have done is hugged. i try to get him to no that i want to kiss him by writing 'i love josh' on my hands and stuff. also my friends write zaps (a zap is like a dare that you write on your hand and if you look at it before a certian time you have to do it) on my hands really big that say 'kiss walker!' and i don't no what else to do! he is really shy so i don't think he will do it and i could never do it cause i am to chicken. please help! thanks!

He is probably just nervous. & prude. If he doesn't want to, thats his problem. Not yours. getting people to try him to do it, doesn't help either. Then its pressured, and he might not be ready.
When he is ready, he will. Or, you could always make the first move. he might not think you're ready. But if he is shy, then thats just him. Don't worry about it.
You might want to try and talk to him more, to bring your relationship closer together.

Hope I helped. :]

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Whenever I have a tampon in I still have leaks! Like all the time.
What am I doing wrong?

And today at dance practice it hurt more than anything. Did I put it in wrong?

Yeah. You might not be pushing it in far enough.
When you put in a tampon, push in the aplicator as far as you can. Then, take out the applicator. Leaving it in your vagina.

If not, you might want to buy a bigger tampon, as for the leaks. Tampons leak sometimes. Buy pantyliners, just incase. :]

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when ever i go on aim 5 mins later it signs me off...and idk why it is...i scaned my comp for a virus and it says nothing is there.

There might just be a problem with internet. Try calling your internet provider.

If they don't know, try uninstalling AIM, and re-installing it again. It always works for me, so you might want to try that.

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how do people get pictures like this?
the color and then black and white?

http://a399.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/23/l_cfee3cedb7619d3ff490e7989293a4be.png

http://a156.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/39/l_87b54d5daa45afe140800b7019edd78b.jpg

I did that on paint shop. You can color around them with layers on paint shop, or photoshop.
If you want me to do a photo for you, I can. Inbox me :]

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Does anyone know any good techno punkish bands?
I listen to Daft Punk a lot.
Also, if anyone knows any German Techno
I'd really appriciate.
I just got into Tokio Hotel, and they're amazing.

I don't know of any bands, but however. I will show you a great site, that will let you discover bands in the same kind of songs, and the same kind of artists.

http://www.pandora.com/

All you do, is create a "radio station" and Pandora will find bands exactly like them. Try out the site, you'll love it. I use it all the time.

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Sorry I'm not sure how you spell it but either Hodgkinsons or Hodgkins disease. Can someone tell me what that is and what the symptoms are?

I have a sore lump in my armpit which has been there for 3 days now. I'm absolutely petrified of telling someone coz I don't want to go to the doctors.

thanks

It's Hodgkin's Disease.

http://www.medicinenet.com/hodgkins_disease/article.htm

You could read that for information on it, or just search for it on google.
However, going to the doctor would be your best bet. It might not be anything, but then again, it could. You're better safe then sorry.



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alright well one of my good guy friends named mike, well hes going out with this girl jamie. jamie is really flat - she almost has nothing up there. soo, we were talking about like diong stuff you know. and he said

"i'd rather go down her pants then fell her up there. you can guess why." is it because she's flat? or a different reason? i got kinda confused.

Yep. If she has nothing, theyr'd be nothing to feel.

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does "whore" and "hoe" mean the same thing? like, isn't "hoe" a shortened form of "whore?

Hoe: Someone promiscuous.
Whore: A woman who is paid for sexual services.

Basicly, yes they would be synonyms. But I guess they could have separate meanings in ways.

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I have this project in one of my classes, and we need to do a survey with 100 people. me and my group already have about 20, and i thought it would help if I could just ask people online too for answers. only answer for one candy, and for "other" dont say what candy it is, just say "other".

Nerds
Skittles
M&Ms
Gum
Hershey's
Snickers
Twix
Reeses

THANKS! :]

Hersheys!

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ok so i have a plan with verizon for 500 texts a month
which is 250 sent and 250 inbox
if i went over this month month i did about 500 sent and 600 inbox
how much will i have to pay for the overdid ones?

About sixty dollars. BUTTTTT.
Are those just your other mobile ones? Because.
I have the exact verzion plan, which is unlimited IN texting, and 500 extra. In those texts, are you counting the IN ones?


Just saying.

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I am 13/f and theres this guy who always flirts with me. We have classes together, and we sit together at lunch(assigned seating). He's always smiling at me, and teasing me, but in a good way. And we always joke with each other, but we don't have serious conversations alot, and if we do.. it's when we're alone.He always laughs at my jokes though, and sticks up for me when other guys are being mean to me.Some people think theres a connection, but other's think its just flirting. He's not really the boyfriend type of guy, but i'm not really one of the girlfriend type of girls, so i need to know.. should i ask him out? or is this just a flirt relationship?

Funny actually. My current boyfriend was the exact same way. Hes actually kind of... nerdy? I never thought of him as my type -- But I never looked at any one else is that way. We had been friends since preschool. He would always flirt with me. and do all the stuff you do. Except for sit with me at lunch. And with us, everyone would tell us we should go out. We would seriously just laugh and be like... EW!


He asked me out, and I thought about it, and I said yes. Now I am very very very happy! He didn't seem like the boyfriend type, and it was my first boyfriend, and he definitely is.

If you like this guy, give it a go, and ask him out. Take a chance with things. You never know how perfect things could end up. Me and my dude are happy.

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okay so there is this girl in our school and her dad recentley got a good job. it's not a great job though. she thinks she can afford anything and she told everybody that her mustang 2007 was over $100,000 dollars. NOT true. it isn't fully loaded and it has no special features. can that possibly be true???????? next she all told us she bought this dress for $400 dollars. no one believes her though because it's pretty plain and not that cute. she is crazy.

so here is the link
tell me what you think if it is
really worth $400 dollars ( and it fit her fine she didn't have to have any hemming or alterations done. nothing was done to it. ABSOLUTLY NOTHING!)

http://photos-042.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v78/172/43/1439070035/n1439070035_5042_2806.jpg

tell me what you think about the dress, car, and her.

The car could easily be that much. The car itself is a lot, plus insurance. It depends.
That dress probably is MORE then 400. You probably have no idea how expensive things are these days.
However, this girl seems like a bitch, and that she is full of herself. If she has nothing better to do then go around and brag, then she has no life. Stay away from her. =)

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what do you value the most? and why?

Defintily my friends. I honestly think I could live without anything. But without my friends to pull me through my troubles, and to catch me when I fall, I would be nobody.

Friends teach you things, how to be a better person, to find things whithin yourself, and tons more. My friends have saved my life, helped me when Im depressed, and made me cry. They've done it all. I love them

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Okay, I've tried tampons a few times and I know that when it's in you're not supposed to feel it so up untill now, I haven't got it right once because everytime I used one it was super uncomfortable.

So, I bought some lite ones instead of the regular ones I was using and I tried it and I can barely feel it but I'm still aware it's there and can feel it a little but it's not uncomfortable.

So my question is are you not supposed to feel it at all? Cause I would've thought that when you sat down you'd be vaguely aware it's there, it just wouldn't be uncomfortable.

Well yes, you are supposed to know it is there. But if its uncomfortable, then you obviously didn't put it in right.

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ok what is the name and season of the show &th heaven where Ruthie goes to the store with her boyfriend to buy tampons??? thx
name and season please

Life and Death (Part 1)
Original air date: May 12, 2003

It's season 7.

There isn't really a place online you could watch it. Call your local TV provider, and ask them when that episode might be airing.

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that is like everybodys fav movie. what is it about

Two Irish brothers accidentally killed mafia thugs. They turned themselves in and were released as heroes. They then see it as a calling by God and started knocking off mafia gang members one by one. Willem Dafoe plays the detective trying to figure out the killings, but the closer he was to catching the Irish brothers, the more he thinks the brothers are doing the right thing

From : http://imdb.com/title/tt0144117/

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what is the movie about? i think its called the inconveniet (sp?)truth.... or something like that, and i wanted to kno what it is about. thx

The movie title is correct. It is called inconvenience truth.

You can read about what it is about, when it came out, and who is in it, at this site. Check out this site for info on all other movies too.

http://imdb.com/title/tt0497116/usercomments?start=120

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i was over my boyfriends one night. and he wanted to have sex. and i want to wait till im married so i said no. he flipped out and got on top of me and hes much bigger than me and stronger and he started fingering me. and then his friend came and helped hold me down and he stuck his penis in my vagina and it hurt i kep tscreaming for him to get off but he didnt. and now he keepsasking me why i wont talk to him. what should i do. i really honestly love him also.

What your boyfriend did was commit rape, which is a serious crime.
You need to tell someone about this. Your parents, a trusted friend, or adult, and definitly, the police. Rape is a crime. It's forced sex. You need to call a rape hotline. (210) 349-RAPE

On the other hand, I know you still might love him, but is there a reason for it? He obviously doesn't respect you. He isn't nice, and he is a dirty, rotten jerk. Give yourself reasons to not love him, because in my opinion, you have to reason to love this guy.

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my boobs have been really itchy lately?
is this common or bad or something

Dry skin most likley.
Get some ich-relief cream.

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