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name's chelsey.
i'm 16,i'll be 17 in a little over 3 months.
i've been through a lot,and i have a lot of wisdom in different areas.
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i have a fever and my throat feels like its bleeding and when i swallow it hurts really badly, my mouth also produces thick spit which is kinda nasty... if any of you have any advice as to how i can get rid of this please help. thanks

Sounds like Strep throat. You should go to the doctor. Good Luck! Hope you get to feeling better!
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ok im really selfconsious about my boobs but recently i had mark onmy boobs and they look like strech marks and i dunno y i would have them i mean my boobs aint even that big and im not fat of anything.. wut could it b from?

ahhh..
shaiina

It just means that your growing. It happens to everyone.
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ew... ya, this is gross, but, im 14 and a girl. Ok, I kinda sweat a lot... its weird because noone else in my family has had this problem. No matter what shirt I wear, I always get like sweat circles under my arm-pits, so I ALWAYS wear hoodies. Even in gym, we have uniforms, and theyre extremely thick, and I still sweat through it! I've tried like everything! Wearing 2 shirts just makes it worse, and anti-persperent doesnt work either. I also usually put deodorant on, and on the inside and outside of my shirt where I sweat! ITS SO EMBARRASSING!! I told my mom, and she laughed. I really need help with this one, any tips or any reccommendations are appreciated!!

If certain deoderants like Soft and Dry don't work, you should see your dermatologist, they should be able to give you something to reduce the sweating. Hope I helped!

ok, wuts the average age when teens start having sex. I know, it's when your ready for it and all, but i'm jus wondering when is the average age when people start getting together?

Depends on how old you are when you get MARRIED.

my girlfriend doesnt tihnk she is hot what do i do ?

Tell her she is beautiful, inside and out.

what can i do to destroy someones life completely ?? i freakin hate this girl . she's turning everyone against me and calling me a bitch , a slut and a poser . she sucks up to everyone ! at first not many people liked her , but now she sucked up to everyone and told them that i hated them . so nobody talks to me except like 2 people .

Kill her with kindness.. works every time!

ok this might be stupid but im going to ask anyways..me and my boyfriend have only been together for 8 days..but i know its love..its hard to explain but we've known eachother for awhile and last night i relized i was in love with him.hes my entire world..could this be love?

It could be, there is no time limit to love, sometimes you just know.

hi, uhhh its kinda hard to talk about this but, I dont know what to tell my boifriend, I mean he asked me if I was a virgin or not n i keep aboiding the question, you see when I was 13 I was rapped, what should I tell my boifrien? should I lie or tell him the truth, do you think it will effect the relationship?

thanks so much (I rate well!!!) HaLeY

You should definately tell him the truth. If you have a trusting relationship you should be able to tell him anything, and he shouldn't hold it against you,especially something like that. Good Luck!

I have like this guy since last year. We have flirted a little bit and stuff like that, but i cant tell if he likes me. He stares at me all the time during class. But when we talk on AIM, he will be really mean. Except, today, I randomly asked if he had seen "Coach cater" because i wanted to know if it was a good movie, and he said "no, but do u want to go?" I said i was already going witha friend, and he was like "fine ur loss". I dont know if this was some kind of joke, or if he really likes me! Please help me out!

Obviously he likes you since he asked you out. He was probably being mean because he thought you were rejecting him and he didn't want you to know that it hurt his feelings.Hope I helped!

Okay, in the state that i live in, there is a really good highschool. i took the entrance test to it and i think i did pretty good. I got the letter telling me if i got in or not today and i cant open it until my dad gets back from California. i want to stay where i am because of my friends, but i want to go to the other highschool because its a really nice school and i feel that i can get more out of it. I'm afraid that if i go to the new highschool, ill lose all my friends. But im afraid if i stay, ill be missing out on so much.(education wise).So my question to you is: Which school in this case should i go to?

Oo wow! I'm having the EXACT same dillema right now. Everyone keeps saying that it's a great oppurtunity and I should take it, but I'm not sure. What I'm planning on doing is praying about it and let God give me the answer. You have to do whats best for you at the time, don't let other people make your mind up for you. Good Luck! I hope It works out for the best>(for both of us!)
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hi~...
there is this guy at school that i really really like. but i would never ask anybody out(i dont kno y but i just dont). WE hang out with the same people but we have never talked before. I was at a party friday night and he was there. so me and him and all our friends were standin around in a group/circle thing. And if i would stand somewhere he would stand right next to me and if i went on the other side of some people he would wait like a minute and then come over and stand next to me.. but he NEVER talks to me and i kno he is not shy not even when it comes to girls.. and i REALLY like him but i dont wan to like do sumthin to like let him kno that i like him and when he dosent like me and he would like be what is her problem or sumthin like that

so i am not sure if he likes me or not? what do i do?

Talk to him and just ask him if he likes you. If he does, then he'll ask you out. Good Luck!

my friends say i should be more affectionate with my cursh because he likes me! what should i do?! how can i be affectionate?!

Start talking to him more and tell him how you feel about him.

ok what are some good stores that have cheap semi-formal dresses? ive got a dance coming up and i cant find anyting! thanks!
i rate 5s for every answer that doesnt piss me off

McRae's, Parisians,I think pretty much any store like that has pretty formal dresses that are good prices. Hope I helped!

Hi uis there any good exercises that will tone up your legs to make them look nice and shaped? I rate thanx!! ^_^

lunges,bicycle, jump on trampoline,etc.

okay.. so i`m planning for my sweet 16 which is coming up soon. So since it's my 16, i want a really big party that lots of people would want to come to. soo here's my dilema..
--i dont want to be the one who has like nobody show up..i mean im not really sure how many people i would invite..but im scared that only like two people would come.
--also, where should i have it, what should we do?
if any of you have a had a 16th birthday, could you pleaaase tell me what you did for it and how it turned out? and i dont really have all the money in the world to spend on it..

Make flyers for invites and give one to EVERYONE
then, even if only half show up that's still alot of people. Hope I helped! Happy Sweet 16!
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ok i got this friend and i thought he rly liked me and or so he says and then like so i would you kno kiss him and things like that and we were supposed to have sex this weekend i was supposed to lose my virginity to him but now this moring i found out at the high school hes sayin all kinda of rumors about me and how he can get anything from me.. so my question is how do i ask him about this?

First of all, you don't just go and lose your virginity to someone you "like". Wait until your married and spend that special moment with your husband. 2nd of all, who cares about him? If he's spreading rumors about you, then you shouldn't even want to be with him. Hope I helped!
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what should i say during an akward or scilent moment

"WaZ uuUp?!?" lol... just say something funny.

Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.

I have no idea, but I agree.

I cant tell if this guy likes me or not. Ill be sitting and class and notice him staring at me, then when I look over he looks away. It happens all the time. Then when i talk to him on AIM, he will be all mean and crap, but later say he was joking. We flirt sometimes but I cant tell if these are "bf/gf" signs, or w/e! Please help me out!!!!!!

Yeah, he's trying to hide that he likes you.Ask him if he does and he'll probably ask you out.

I have a friend who wants a boyfriend but says that she doesn't like anyone. She says she wants to feel like she's loved by someone, but there is no one in our grade that she likes. How can i help her?

She probably does like someone but is too shy or afraid to tell anyone. Try to get her to talk to guys more and include her in your conversations.
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