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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.
I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.
Much love, Teza
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what can you use instead of an eye primer? like if you dont have an eye primer.
You can use foundation or concealer instead of eye primer. It still makes your eye shadow last :)
okay so im in love with my ex boyfriend still and he still loves me but says he doesn't want to go out with me again because we fight too much. i have tried to plea with, do i just give up? any quotes or advice would be good.
If you guys really love each other, you will make the relationship work no matter what. All couples fight and no one is perfect, which is why you should not let little things get to you guys. You and him need to talk about how you could make the relationship work this time. If you see things aren't working out, then at least you will know you tried.
Please can someone tell me how can I deal with my jealous husband? He looks thru my phone to see who calls me and to read my text. If I go to the shop or to make any runs he wants to know who going with me, where I going, how long i will be, who I going to meet, and he times me to see how long I take. He feels like every man I talk to who he don't know wants to get in my pants or he belive we have something going. He also feels like his family members (males) wants to get with me. I love him but his driving me nuts with this jealousy,I don't know how to be sexual towards him no more please help.
Your husband is very protective of you and only wants you to himself. That's fine and it shows that he loves you, but he's being controlling towards you which is not okay. The best thing to do right now is to simply confront him with the situation. He might not realize exactly how extreme his jealousy is and he needs to be put back into place. If talking to him doesn't solve anything, the next thing would be marriage counseling. I know it seems a bit extreme, but this is an issue that has to be resolved.. and if it can't get resolved by talking, then seeking professional help is completely okay. Best of luck.
17/F
My boyfriend of 8 months and I just had sex for the first time yesterday. At first it took a while, because I was a virgin and my hymen hadn't broke yet. It hurt a little, and I was bleeding afterward. It's now the day after; It doesn't hurt anymore, but it's still bleeding. Is that normal? Thanks a bunch! :)
It's completely normal. Some girls bleed the next few times they have sex as well; but you're fine though. Nothing to worry about for now, but if it continues to bleed for more than 3-4 days, get checked out. Good luck :)
My girlfriend told her friends(best friends) she cheated on me and when i asked her she just said she was a compulsive liar and that it wasn't true. I really belive it isn't true either because it was supposedly with a guy 10 years older then her. how should i deal with this situation?
I don't think she deserves to be with you. It doesn't matter if she is telling the truth or lying about cheating on you, she's not an honest person. A girl who is a compulsive liar and feeds off attention is no good and you need someone who will respect you enough to be honest with you. Even though you might like her, put yourself first and realize you deserve better.
How can I get a guy to like me for me? I mean I dated this one guy for 6 weeks and now i want him back what do i do?
Be yourself. If a guy doesn't like you for who you are, he's not the one for you. Try talking to him again and see where you guys stand. You never know how he's feeling unless you ask him about it. If he moved on already, you should too. There is plenty of other guys that will like you for your personality.
i was fingered when i was 12- year old and worrying if am still a virgin or if am pregnant.
You can not get pregnant unless you actually have sexual intercourse. However, you still are a virgin. Just please know what you're doing before you actually do anything. You're only 12 years old and you're very young, so just be careful.
this is kinda weird but my boyfriend gave me this perfume (bvlgari jasmin noir) for my birthday and i was just being myself and went to check how much it costed online it's a 5ml and it said it's a tester which probably meant it was free, should i be upset about this?
5 ml for a perfume is very small, so are you sure it's not an actual small bottle? Anyway, if I were you, I wouldn't be upset about it. Some testers are not even free, but just be glad he remembered your birthday and got you something. Some guys don't get their girl-friends anything, so the thought does count. He might of not had enough money or he could of been scammed. If it honestly bothers you that much, talk to him about it and see where he is coming from.
How do i know when i have a cramp? i've been having small pains under my belly button out of the blue. what do cramps even feel like?
Cramps are sharp and uncomfortable and if it hurts, you have cramps lol. Sometimes, they're tolerable but they can get a lot worse before ovulation. If it get's really bad, take Tylenol or a medicine you prefer to ease the pain.
i must unlink two hotmail email accounts .
I'm sorry, and your question is what exactly?
im 12,well i hump me bed , i know it sounds weird but im skared if im pregantnt i mean when i was little i used to do it and i didnt get pregnant and im also skared cause i got on top of my brother when we were fighting and i dont wanna get pregnant but i didnt hump him or touch his pinis (p.s i know im not pregnant but i just wanna make shure im skared) when i was humping my bed i had clothes on?
Your bed doesn't have a penis or sperm, so no- it's absolutely impossible for you to be pregnant. You're 12 years old.. have you even had your period yet? I'd suggest you have a sex talk with your mother or aunt, anyone who can tell you where babies come from.
i have a bad reputation at skool and well i wanna be someone else..anyways...how can i meet new friends? like start a new life...be someone else???
H.E.L.P
in school im known as the bitch whos mean...how can i get a new reputation with new friends?
im not smart so i cant be with smart ppl.. im a fun person...
:/ BUT LIKE YEA... :/
15 year old girlll needing help!! ^
If you have a bad reputation, change it - not who you are completely. You shouldn't want to be anyone else, but you can change your personality for the better. All you have to do is start fresh. Apologize to the people who you were mean to and for what you have done. Start treating everyone nicely and just be friendly. Also, don't think of yourself as "not smart" because I'm sure that's not true. You need to have a little more self-confidence in yourself. You can be friends with anyone you want to as long as you treat them nicely. You can always change your reputation, you're only 15 so it's not too late. Good luck
monday through friday i take showers evrey day. and i usually curl or straighten my hair so i need to blow dry it, so i use heat tamer. and i dont over do it. but they after i blow dry it it gets staticy. so then after i curl or straighten my hair i have to put in serum. so like today i blowed it out and straightened it and the roots looked so greasy i have no idea why! i think some of it is because of the blow dryer. cause when it air drys it doesnt feel staticy or sticky or greasy..whats the problem hear?? also i hear putting egg or olive oil on hair helps?? how do i go about doing so? thank you lots.
Your hair is lacking hydration which is why it get's staticy, and it could also depend on the weather and how dry it is. Washing your hair every day is not good because you're washing all of the natural oils. I don't blame you though. I have to wash my hair every day as well lol.
Sometimes, the products you put in your hair can make it look greasy, even though it's not. The easiest solution for staticy hair is to get a laundry drier sheet and smooth it over your hair. It works wonders and you can carry it in your purse :) Another thing you can do it spray a little bit of perfume or body spray on a hair brush and brush your hair.
I'd also recommend that you switch shampoo's. Try Tressemee - Hydration. Try not to wash your hair every day though; if you CAN.. at least for a week.
Good luck
16/f
Recently, I've gotten really bad writers' block. I mean, I get some ideas, but for some reason, I get too bored or lazy to write it and it's really upsetting me because writing is basically my reason for living. I adore making up my own stories and characters, you know, my own worlds. I've tried writing prompts and actually forcing myself to just buckle down and write, but when I reread what I wrote, it sounds absolutely horrible and I have to erase it all. When I go back and read things I've posted online, it makes me sad, but happy at the same time because I used to be perfect at coming up with things and now it's just wrong.
It's kind of upsetting me. Is there anyway I can change this and get back to my old style again?
I know what you mean, it happens to be all the time. Sometimes, you just need to take a short break and focus on other things. In the meantime, you will be getting new ideas for different stories to write. Every day, write a little bit. Ideas, notes, etc. Try writing when you're not tired and make sure you're in a relaxed environment. You seem like you love to write, so don't worry.. it'll come back to you. I'm sure the things you write aren't horrible, you just have high expectations for yourself. You'll get back to your old style of writing in no time, don't worry :)
So, I've used tampons multiple times. Every time I take it out there's a piece of my body tissue that wraps around the end of it. i have to take my finger and pull the tissue off of the end of the tampon before pulling it out. This is always an extremely painful process. What should I do???
It might not be body tissue. It could be clogs of blood which happens. However, it doesn't sound normal or healthy. Make an appointment with a gyno as soon as you can. You need to make sure it's nothing serious & if it is, you can get treated right away.
thanx!
Most middle class people make about $50,000 a year, so 200k is a large amount.
I am 13(m)and my hair is really coarse/thick and curly. Right now I straighten it every morning and its just getting to be too much work. I have no idea what do with it, any suggestions?
If you like to have longer hair, then you can get it chemically straight. However, that's not healthy - especially if you go somewhere where they do a "Brazilian" treatment. Anyway, you can always cut it. Short hair is nice also and it will be so much easier for you to manage.
Okay so, I haven't been to an orthodontist in over 5 months (long story). My teeth are straight and I was supposed to have my braces off by now. If I make an appointment for an orthodontist I've never been to, and my mom asked them to take my braces off, would they? And if they would, about how much would it cost? Thanks :)
If you make an appointment at a new orthodontist, they probably will not take your braces off right away. They will need your history and all of the papers from your previous orthodontist, especially for insurance reasons. It might be more pricey to go to someone new. The cost depends on the insurance and the orthodontist in your area. See if you can make an appointment at your regular orthodontist.
If I went to a dentist and asked them to take my braces off, could/would they? Thanks (:
Your dentist is not allowed to take your braces off. That is something your orthodontist has to do. You'll get them off, don't worry. It's not a good thing to take your braces off before you're supposed to.
Does andrew like me
How are we supposed to know that? Ask Andrew or see if he gives you any hints.