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Writers' Block


Question Posted Saturday March 26 2011, 9:57 pm

16/f

Recently, I've gotten really bad writers' block. I mean, I get some ideas, but for some reason, I get too bored or lazy to write it and it's really upsetting me because writing is basically my reason for living. I adore making up my own stories and characters, you know, my own worlds. I've tried writing prompts and actually forcing myself to just buckle down and write, but when I reread what I wrote, it sounds absolutely horrible and I have to erase it all. When I go back and read things I've posted online, it makes me sad, but happy at the same time because I used to be perfect at coming up with things and now it's just wrong.
It's kind of upsetting me. Is there anyway I can change this and get back to my old style again?


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CynanMachae answered Sunday March 27 2011, 1:48 pm:
A few things can help. Everybody is different, so you'll have to experiment a bit and see what works for you...

It often helps to simply write. Anything. Write a story about what you did yesterday, the antics of a pet, some crazy thing that a friend did.

On the flip side of that coin, try stepping back and NOT writing. Read a book, do a crossword puzzle, take a walk, visit with family or friends. Maybe even very limited television, although I feel that can be mind-numbing and take you in the wrong direction.

How are you physically and mentally? Are you eating right and getting enough sleep. Especially getting enough sleep. Look closely at your diet; in a rush we may grab something that isn't the best fuel for our engine.

As always, take notes and develop outlines. There are certainly times when the words just flow, but more commonly, they have to be coaxed a bit. Try to have paper and pen, smart-phone or whatever that you can "scribble" your thoughts on. Many times, it's those random thoughts from which the best writing is developed.

I hope that this helps you. It's easy for me to say, but try not to dwell on the situation. Stressing yourself over what is assuredly a temporary difficulty won't help to improve it for you. Best Regards.

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Teza answered Sunday March 27 2011, 1:21 am:
I know what you mean, it happens to be all the time. Sometimes, you just need to take a short break and focus on other things. In the meantime, you will be getting new ideas for different stories to write. Every day, write a little bit. Ideas, notes, etc. Try writing when you're not tired and make sure you're in a relaxed environment. You seem like you love to write, so don't worry.. it'll come back to you. I'm sure the things you write aren't horrible, you just have high expectations for yourself. You'll get back to your old style of writing in no time, don't worry :)

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