no i don't think the employees will care, think anything or even notice. 12 isn't an odd age to be buying deodorant. i know a lot of people that got their first deodorant when we were 9 or 10 (seriously.) most 12 year olds wear deodorant, so it will be fine. trust me.

like the person below me said, target has some cute bathing suits. also aeropostale has some cheap ones & you can always look at the beach. check out some department stores as well. if you want really cheap ones, if you wait til the end of august you can buy them half price for next yearrr

i don't truly believe in what the person below me said "once a liar, always a liar." this may be true in some cases, but if she is genuinely sorry she probably changed. everyone makes mistakes, and i believe in second chances if they're sorry. i know it may be hard to forgive because it was "tons of stuff". it really depends on what the stuff is. anyway, that wasn't your question so sorry for rambling :] no, i dont believe you made a mistake by taking her out. you have to confront your friend when stuff like that happens & its their part to try and make it better by apologizing. as long as you did in a calm & mature way, it wasn't a mistake. how would you ever be able to grow in a friendship if you didn't recognize each other's mistakes and try and fix them? she may have never changed if you hadn't talked to her about it.

i'm not sure if there's anything you can do to thin out your face since you're already skinny. however, as you grow older, your face will look thinner. and just look at the bright side - when you're middle aged, you'll look younger!

one of my best friends is going through something like this - one of her good guy friends likes her, but she doesn't feel the same way. however, your situation is a little tougher because you can't see him. is there anyway you can call or IM him or anything? how about asking a friend to tell a friend to tell him a message - like, your sorry and he's a really good friend to you. i'm sure you can figure something like that otu so good luck :] however, if there's no way at all to contact him or have a friend contact him or a friend contact a friend of him to tell him or SOMETHING, i would advise you to not feel so guilty about it. try and move on. lots of people go through liking someone without them returning the feeling, and i can't tell you how many times i've heard about a guy revealing their feelings to a girl friend of theirs, and the girl friend ignoring them afterwards (or vice versa in the gender situation). just think that eventually this guy will move on, and yes, you did make a mistake, but so does everybody. your not perfect. at least you realized it was wrong and won't do it again and that's the important part of it. while it would be nice if there was some way to contact this guy, if you can't, it's not the end of the world. anyway, good luck with your situation :)

I'm sorry but that Ashleigh girl sounds like a bitch. even though she probably wasn't talking about you in particular, that's still ignorant and superificial. forget about her. and don't worry - you're probably fine the way you are and don't let other people bring you down. focus on the good things about yourself (like maybe you have really nice hair, or a pretty face, or nice teeth or something) and don't worry so much about the negatives. i don't know you, but who cares if you have a couple extra pounds? if you're really worried about it, you could start exersizing or eating differently (drop one in my inbox if you have any questions about that) but if not, it's up to you. don't worry about rude people like ashleigh and learn to love yourself. you probably have many good traits that people love about you :) good luck with everything and if you need anything else, drop one in my inbox.

i would say have a party or something with the girls that your friends with from your old school. try & meet your girl friends' friends too =] also, try & meet girls through your guy friends - they probably know some girls. if you meet one or some that you want to be friends with, talk to them online or get their number. hang out in groups of guys and girls. good luck!

i understand what you are talking about, but maybe she means she's telling you what most kids do so you it in, but not changing yourself. she may be just telling you the "rules" (or whatever you may call it) of the school since you missed the first year & she wants to catch you up. remember - you don't HAVE to do anything. if you don't want to wear a jersey for homecoming, don't, but remember: your bff might just be telling you whats up, not trying to change you. if you feel like she is trying to change you, just say something like, "i think it's cool that everyone wears jerseys, but that's not really my style." (tahts just an example, but you can adjust that to whatever the topic is.) if she does it alot, you can say, "i know you're just trying to help me, but i'm happy with who i am. i don't feel like i have to change to fit in but thanks anyway" in a nice way :] good luck.

it's not that bad if you think about it! like the others said, hollister, abercrombie, american eagle, aero & probably lots of other stores have cute polos that you can wear. those same stores, as well as lots of others, have really cute sweaters for fall, too. it stinks that you can't wear jeans, but what about cords or khakis (for both pants & skirts). good luckkk! if you have any more questions, drop one in my inbox.

i'd say pretty average. i know a lot of people that are about that height. if i had to choose between tall or short though, i'd say short.

personally, i think you should just be yourself. if your hyper and stuff, that's you. don't change and become more quiet and shy like your friend - stay just the way you are. i don't think this would annoy her, unless she's jealous that she can't be more outgoing like you & make more friends. if you're REALLY hyper and you wanna calm down a little, try exercizing or dancing or something to get out your energy. also, lay back on the sugar & caffiene, etc.

don't wear a tampon just because of the dangers of having it in too long. hopefully, it will be light. if not, it may cause a problem. try wearing really thick pads (they may feel like diapers, but if it's heavy, that's what you gotta do unfortunetley) and dark colored bottoms just in case. good luck

It means 8:50. Basically, ten of nine means ten minutes until nine.

Go to myspace.com. Then at the top, click on Music. Enter her name into search artists & click on the different sites & play the song =] I tried to look it up for you but my computers being really slow. Hope i helppp

it varies from person to person. gender, size, allowance, history with alcohol, etc.

YESSSS. eye contact is veryyyy good.

I'm sorry but she doesn't sound like a best friend to me. if you want to TRY to save your friendship, the only thing to do is talk to her about changing her ways. she sounds like a 2 year old. and if talking to her doesn't work, i would distance myself from her. i know its hard since shes your "best friend", but try hanging out with your other friends more. you'll find someone thats a LOT nicer to you. gooduluck

in my opinion, do not go back out with him. he treated you horribly & he's acting like your his "back up choice" to that other girl. don't reward him for his bad behavior, punish him. i'm sorry but he's a jerk; you'll find someone new eventually but if he continues to act like that he'll only have flings & nothing meaningful. i know its hard, but its what you should do. if you go back out with him, he'll think its okay to treat you like that and may continue to do that. go for a guy that treats you like your worth something. =) good luck

well people used to tell me you could get breast cancer if you wore one to bed, and it would stunt your growth but that is NOT TRUE AT ALL. =) it's fine, it may wear out your bra faster (becasue the more you wear a bra, then the elastic stretches out or whatever) but otherwise it's perfectly fine and its up to you so don't worry. its your choice

give it time. it will take time before you become best friends again. also, there's no limit to how many best friends you can have, and she should know that. having another one doesn't hurt the relationship with her other's. anyway, what i would do is instead of asking her about it, just continue to talk to each other and hang out and eventually, if you clique, you will become closer again. remember - best friends don't HAVE to tell each other they're best friends, they just know. and you will know if this girl becoems one of your best friends again. goodluck!

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