My friend is really selfish. I mean, she's my best friend but she's so damn selfish. Like, when I go to her house, she eats stuff right in front of me. She never asks if I want anything. And she doesn't let me play her Nintendo DS. She's really spoiled too. It annoys me so much because she has all these things that my mom would never get me. And I want to play a freaking video game and she's so "NOOOO! PUT IT DOWN! I DON'T LIKE IT WHEN PEOPLE PLAY MY GAMES!" It's like, shut the f up! I'm so tired of it. What should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? ilovehimxox answered Tuesday July 11 2006, 10:53 am: you should really tell her how you feel. tell her your sick of her eating in front of her and she wont even let you play a simple video game. and if that dont work then simply stop talking to her. she will eventually hpoefully get the hint that your pissed off at her that she does everything right in front of you. dont let you play a simply video game and she dont offer you something to eat at her house when shes eating. thats just simply RUDE RUDE RUDE! i hope your a person who would acually tell someone how you feel and if your not then you can simply just stop talking to her hanging out with her and going over her house.
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naturally_sadie answered Wednesday June 28 2006, 6:08 pm: From the way she sounds, she doesn't even act old enough to have any friends! You really need to stop hanging out with her! Don't waste another minute of your life getting yelled at by her because she doesn't want to share. Maybe her parents never told her how to share? I don't know, but she's not normal! Find other friends. Trust me, not everyone is like her. In fact, I had a friend like yours and once I stopped talking to her, I was the happiest person alive!! You'll find out one day that people like her arn't worth hanging out with and there's tons of people who are really nice. Just hang out with your other friends and forget about this one.
girlygirl answered Wednesday June 28 2006, 4:54 pm: Dump her and find a new friend. for the love of God... most kids learn how to share when they are 2 years old. she's jealous and selfish and you don't need so-called friends like that. [ girlygirl's advice column | Ask girlygirl A Question ]
summerGIRL_xo answered Wednesday June 28 2006, 3:30 pm: I'm sorry but she doesn't sound like a best friend to me. if you want to TRY to save your friendship, the only thing to do is talk to her about changing her ways. she sounds like a 2 year old. and if talking to her doesn't work, i would distance myself from her. i know its hard since shes your "best friend", but try hanging out with your other friends more. you'll find someone thats a LOT nicer to you. gooduluck [ summerGIRL_xo's advice column | Ask summerGIRL_xo A Question ]
clearlypink428 answered Wednesday June 28 2006, 3:01 pm: honeslty- dont hang out with her. spoiled kids usually stay spoiled unless they get in like a life- altering position. but more than likey shell never change. id steer clear of her, and when she realizes how she SHOULD have treated you- shell want you back. [ clearlypink428's advice column | Ask clearlypink428 A Question ]
xXJeSsiCaXx answered Wednesday June 28 2006, 2:14 pm: Jeez that must be annoying! lol well you should tell her she is being selfish the next time that she does this, if she is your friend she will share stuff with you and not keep it all to herself. well i hope i helped! [ xXJeSsiCaXx's advice column | Ask xXJeSsiCaXx A Question ]
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