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Hello. My name is Sarah Makredij Boghsaian. I'm 16 years old. I'm from Australia but I live in Egypt. Like: Chocolates, Hot guys, Socks, William Shakespeare, Charles Darwin, Moulin Rouge, Random people, Horror movies, Boxing, Shoes, Rock n Roll, Piercings, Tattoos, Dying my hair, Losing weight, Screaming, Violence, Fighting, Weed, Alcohol, PS, Cars, Different, Craziness, Dancing, Painting, Drawing, Writing, Imagination, Drums, Drum-Sticks, Making the world a fair place, Ideas, Friends, Talking to myself, Marilyn Manson, Music, Fashion, Jumping on my bed, Partying, Vampires, Monsters, Jeff Dunham, Soccur, Anne Rice, Shisha, SMOKING, Reading, Science-Fiction, Clubbing, New York, Gossip Girl, Brother, T.V, Sleeping, Saw, Mohawks, Politics, Wachen Festival, Germany, Mercedes,God, Winter, Black, Monkeys, Hot-topic, Big Mac, Wine, Pepsi, Boxers, Sweet. Dislike: Paris Hilton, Miley Cyrus, Serouise Situations, Quietness, Blondes, Jonas brothers, Girly Girls, Smelly guys, Small Places, Apologizing, Prison, Police, George Bush, BMW, Jerks, Nerds, Weak, Angels, Salt, Morning, Time

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Hey! 131/2 f (Long..i'm sorryy)

I met this awesome guy (Jimmy)last week at the public pool with my friend. We thought he was cute. ha ha :) He thought the same thing and we talked and everything we had fun together. After that day we started texting and talking on the phone and stuff like that. Well i found out that he liked me,and i was SOOO happy because i really like him to. Well we text each other and..he talks dirty. ha ha I also do.. but not LIKE he does, i just say makeout..and stuff like that but he wants to "Do" me. ha ha ;) Well i saw him again today at the pool..with his friend Erica (she's also my friend)i think he knew that i was going..because he didn't act like he was suprized that i was there. Well i went with my cousins and i had to watch them. I didn't talk to them until probably a half an hour than i started talking to them. We were having so much fun. We played a joke on him, and when we were walking away from him he followed because we were going to go swimming together. He started massaging my shoulders IT FELT SO GOOD !! Ha ha. I think he might of untied my bathing suit top a little bit?? I'm not sure though because i was giving my cousins piggy back rides. Well after we got in the pool Erica asked jimmy if i could lick him anywhere. I said i wanted to lick him to her..AS A JOKE, and he said " ;) anywhereee?? Suree". He said. well..i didn't. Well he put his arm my waist and picked me up and dunked me in the pool (safely ha ha) He did that twice. It was cute (link)
No, I don't think you should ask him out.

Well play hard, and be hard to get because guys likes to get what they can't have.

And if he asked you out then that mean he likes you but don't be so sure.

Because he seems like a bad boy... And even though he would go out with you, but you better watch out because he might want to just do something with you or take something away from you for his own pleasure.

So ... Make a wise decision.

Good Luck =]



my bf has been really busy lately with work, baseball, and school. I work and go to school too but i still manage to have time to do things. my bf never has time to go out..we been together for 4years, I was just wondering what are things i can do to keep myself entertain while he is out doing things. I only have 1 true friend but she is always with her man.. What can i do? (link)
Wow ... !!

I think you can do a lot of things.

If you like music, you can play an instrument ...

1) Guitar (Bass-Guitar)
2) Taking vocalizing lessons
3) Drums
4) Piano
5) Violin

If you like dancing ...

1) Jazz lessons
2) Hip-Hop lessons
3) Tango lessons
4) Salsa lessons
5) Ballet lessons

If you like sports ...

1) Baseball
2) Basketball
3) Soccer
4) Tennis
5) Swimming

Maybe try out skateboarding or Kick-Boxing ...

Or golf ... There is a lot you can do and enjoy.

Good Luck =]


um, well, we are already going out, and you can kinda tell that he likes me, i mean, he can just come up to me and say "i need a hug" and we'll be standing there for the next minute. the problem is that i can't tell if he just likes me as a friend or not, cuz whenever he can hang out with anybody. it's always me. so, that's the thing here. i don't want it to be awkward though. (link)
I understand ...

Usually i would advice people to go for it, they have nothing to loose, but might gain something.

But with you it's different because the hug thing, you know. He might like you a lot as a friend and when you tell him you like him, he might feel like he lost you.

But if he actually likes you, then it would be great.

There is one thing that is confusing me, why didn't he hit on you? any move? or tell you? if he likes you...

So it's confusing really, but you have options.

1. Either take a risk because life without risks isn't worth it.

2. Just be friends until he makes a move.

Because ... Well you see he might like you but afraid to be in a relationship, he might life you but scared and he might life you but not sure completely.

Make your decision wisely and never regret it because of the result.

Good Luck =]


16/F.
So i work @ a clothing store, we hired a new guy thats my age and he's really flirty. But i think thats just how he talks to girls, like thats how he comes off. But i was getting ready to leave and I said bye to everyone because I was going out of town and he stops me and says, "hey, don't have to much fun" with a little smile on his face. I said, "uhhhokay?" and left lol.
was that a total hitttt on? or whattjuilf!?!? What would you make of it? Am i just being stupid? lol. (link)
If he is a flirty guy with all the girls then it doesn't mean anything, my best friends always tell "Don't have to much fun"

Those kind of guys likes the girl who doesn't fall for there tricks so make sure you don't.

Good Luck =]


So to start I told my guy friend who I liked that I liked him, long story, it was awkward, but we're still friends, and we've barely, barely talked about the whole thing. And though we are friend we don't talk as much as I wish because I never know what to say and he's not a big conversation starter. But this past Friday I actually worked up the nerve to bbm (blackberry message for those of you who don't know) him for no reason just to talk, which is a big step up for me because I always feel like I need to have a reason to talk to guys I like because I'm paranoid and don't always know what to say I don't want to feel like I'm bothering them. The good thing is the conversation was way better than I expected, it wasn't the awkward convcersation I thought it would be and I could be wrong but it seemed like he was flirting a little. But anyway right now he's on a 2 week trip at a college and I'm planning on texting him again tomorrow after camp to ask how his trip is. But the problem is, I want to talk to him more and more, and get to the point where we talk daily or close to daily. And the conversation we had Friday wasn't too short, but it wasn't too long either, so I hope to have longer conversations. But me being paranoid isn't an easy thing to avoid. I don't want to feel like I'm bothering him or something but still want to start talking to him more and more, whether it's as friends or more than that. It's very possible that we may have classes together next year based on the schedules we chose but for all I know we can have none, and if that's to happen, I want to be able to talk to him a lot still. How often should I talk to him at first? What are some things I can say to ensure that I can keep the conversation going? How can I tell if he's getting annoyed by me (which he probably won't based on what his friends have said but I'm paranoid enough to think I'm an annoyance haha)? I just want to get to a point where we're talking more and more and I know I can't do it by sitting here hoping for it. I know I need to be more confident, but I just need some assurance about things. (link)
Okay ... Um it's always a bad step when you tell a friend you like him and it gets awkward.

Look if you want to speak to him badly because you want to be friends like before, than you should.

But if it's because you have feelings for him and you want to be close to him by being friends again and talking daily.

I don't think that's a good idea because he will hurt, imagine if he likes a girl and you guys grew closer, he is going to tell you and that will hurt you, and it's going to keep hurting you if he dates her. So i think if the reason you want to be close to him because you like him then that's not a good idea.

But if only because you like him as a friend, then you can start by saying something like if you have a problem, tell him the problem and say something "I couldn't think of anyone who would understand this kind of situation" so he would think that you need to talk to him.

Good Luck =]


I haven’t talked to this girl in 6 weeks and I want to say that I miss her.

The complication is that we dated for over 10 months and it's been almost 5 months since she left and I still care deeply about her.

There is a long story story behind all of this but it isn't entirely relevant. Basically we both had some personal problems and she decided to break things off. I didn’t take the break-up especially well either and did some things to push her away. (Small things like insisting that we talk about it right away)

As another note, saying to just move on is not helpful. I hear that enough from my family and friends. While it may be the easy thing to do from an outside perspective, I just cannot say goodbye to this girl completely. I believe very strongly that the two of us can work together, and quite frankly I still love her so there is nowhere to move on to for the time being. I can't search for something I have already found.

I was going to text or call her on the 4th of July but then I thought I should ask here first. Well, it's a few days after the 4th of July so I'm a little late in asking for advice, but everything is still relevant.

I don't want to upset her by any means and patience is always an option. If she is happy and I'm upset that is an acceptable circumstance at least for the time being. I really just want to let her know that I'm thinking about her and that my heart still longs for her without coming off as pushy.

She has asked for space, and even though it was a while ago I'd like to respect that so, just outright saying I miss you may not be the best option...

Any help is appreciated, Thanks. (link)
I'm sorry but it seems like she made it clear she wants to end it...

And by calling her, texting, or making any contact with her is giving her the idea of desperation of you and that is pushing her away.

I understand that you need her and that you care for her badly. But I don't think she deserves your time if she doesn't see how important and specially you are.

I think you should wait for a while and if she didn't call you or anything then you definitely should move on.

And distances is a great way to do it, i know it's going to be so hard the first months and so, but this is the only healthy way. If your going to keep running after her, she is going to keep pushing you away and that will lead to you hurting more.

Good Luck =]=]




so, do i want to kiss my guy first? i mean, we have been friends for quite a while, and we went out a lot to movies, and to the water park together and stuff, and i like him, but we never really kissed. (hugs don't count for much lol)
and btw, i've never kissed a guy, so i dunno where to start off even.
THX! -Charlotte, 15 (link)
Well ... That's a hard decision to make

WHY?

Because if he likes you and you kissed him, thats hot.

But if he doesn't and you kissed him, that's awkward.

And if he doesn't like you and kissed him but you want to be friends he would find it awkward and that means you lost him as a friend too.

So... I suggest you tell him that you would like trying going on a date and he will understand that you like him and see what happens from there.

Good Luck =]


so my boyfriend and i have been together for about 3 years and we have lived together for a long time now too. so today i came home from work and went on his computer and for some reason started browsing through his internet history. i realized that he had been looking at tons of porn sights and had especially clicked on manyyy pictures of hott girls around my age that they took of themselves. i dont mind if he watches porn or things like that.. i think that is normal all guys do that.. but there were so many pictures of girls my age- not pornos, just pictures of them naked... is this weird? or am i overreacting and this is normal? i dont want to bring it up and make a big deal of it if it is just guys looking at girls.. i dont know. what do you think? (link)
Honestly from my point of view it's normal...

My ex-boyfriend used to have folders on his laptop all full of naked girls, it's nothing and normal.

Don't worry about it but if it's going to make you better then talk to him about it.

Good Luck =]


okay so me and this guy have been off and on since 7th grade, we're juniors now. we recently got back together, and everything was fine. he told me that he wanted to make it work this time and he still loved me and all this stuff, then outta the blue he told me he didn't mean to "dick me over again" but he wasn't going to have time for me because of his job, which is only the summer, and that i could get with other people.. i have no idea what to do, i want to be with him.. and he claims he wants to be with me idk if he really dosent have time, or its just another lame excuse idk what to do should i just forget him and finnally move on? or wait it out. (link)
I think you should let him go, I mean come on he is obviously confused and not worth your time.

Like Jack said , "A guy who doesn't have enough time for you, then he isn't worth yours"

Move on and go out there find yourself some HOT BOYFRIEND who has time for you.

Good Luck =]


My mom says she thinks I have social anxiety, one of my close friend said she agreed, and I think my psychologist might agrees although she hasn't said so to me directly. I have always disagreed and think I'm just fine but recently I have started to wonder. I avoid people at all costs, even my friends because I'm afraid of doing something wrong, saying something stupid, or otherwise embarassing myself. I hate meeting new people and I can barely talk to people I don't know, its hard enough talk to those that I do know. I can't even bring myself to go up and talk to anyone outside my immediate family (my mom and two sisters)without being poked and prodded. I don't like leaving my house and I try not to because I'm afraid I might look stupid or act stupid and people will laugh at me. I'm always worried people are thinking I'm stupid in their heads. I can't even call my best friend about asking to stay the night because I'm afraid of saying something dumb. It isn't normal, I know that. But is it really social anxiety? I kind of want another opinion. (link)
Yes, I'm afraid you do have Social Anxiety.

And Lack of confidence.

Good Luck with your psychologist =]


alright. first of all ive been datin my boyfriend for almost 4 months, and im very happy. hes a really good guy, we hang out with my parents, hes hung out with my grandparents, hell pick me up if i have no where to go, plus hes a real gentleman and we get along great.

the problem is, my friends dont see it. they think that there is something fishy about it which i dont really understand because they dont hang out with him nearly as much as i do. i have a group of 4 best girl friends, but lately they dont seem like that at all.
my main best friend, 'Z', has a big party house. and her mom lets us do whatever basically, even hard drugs. ive done em a few times at her house and for the rest jus smoked and drank.
but the thing is, before z's house turned into a big party house, i chilled with her and our other friend and had fun with out that.

ive been growin up a lot this summer and i realized that i dont wanna spend my summer doin the same thing at that house everyday.
plus, her mom is very manipulative and possesive, and since me and z have been best friends for 3 years, shes like that over me.

so friday night, i got really drunk and went to a hookha lounge with my boyfriend to meet them there. then, we went to a party after that. they all left, and when my boyfriend drove me to catch up with him, 'P' (one of my best friends but i gotta watch out for her) yells 'yeah tricia, why dont you jus go give your boyfriend road head, we're goin to ihop'

sooo i was like 'fuck it lets just go back to the party'...and when i did, i made a horrible drunk decision to do morphine. i was feelin fine until my boyfriend found out and he went crazy! then it turned into a bad trip and i ended up sleepin on his floor freakin out that night. the only problem is i was supposed to sleep at Z's house...

so the next night i go over to Z's house to chill for a lil bit with my boyfriend (who they already dont like) and i told Z what i did the night before and thats why i didnt go pack, plus what P said. she acted cool about it so i thought everythin was fine. they wanted me to stay over and i was going to but then I DECIDED to go home so i did.

welllllllanyways.
z's mom calls my step-dad this mornin, and says that they have to get me away from my boyfriend. because im 'different' (i guess cuz im not goin over there 24/7) and that i did morphine BECAUSE of him (which isnt true & Z told all my friends) and that i was supposed to spend the night at her house saturday (not true)... and she said that im doing coke ! wtf
the first time and last time i did coke was WITH her.

i dont know. all my friends are turnin against me and theyve been my friends for so long.
i dont know what to do :/ help. (link)
She's obviously not 'Your Friend' and A BIG BITCH

Your friend or a friend in general has no right to judge your boyfriend, and start rumors or do something as fucked up.

I understand your problem with drugs; well you see long time ago i did have your lifestyle and yes my mother is so open minded and cool with it, but i start feeling like everyone is going against me and that my life sucks and suicide, i would drink and do LSD and blah ...
But then i realized that all my problems are from alcohol and drinking. But i didn't like the fact that I'd have to stop drinking and doing drugs.

So i kept doing it, till i broke down completely nothing compare to what happened to you.

You see, life was trying to give me a lesson but i didn't learn, then later i learned the hard way.

This isn't the last day of your life, worst stuff can happen trust me, this is nothing and your best friend is obviously not your friend, you need to change your life style and maybe ask your nice boyfriend to help you out.

Good Luck =]


So, I recently joined a gym and started eating healthier, I cut out fizzy drinks and sugary snacks, however, I can't seem top stop snacking on other things.
I won't even be hungry, but I'll still end up eating something, and this is preventing weight loss.
Are there any tips to on how I can resist snacking, or something to distract me from it?
Oh, and don't just say "Drink water" because I do that anyway..

Thanks :) (link)
Okay this might be helpful

Um ... By drink water it means Three Liters a day which is Three big bottles of water.

And when you want to eat but your not hungry that's your brain telling you "you're bored and need something to do"

Usually when your bored, you feel like eating, it happens with me all the time.

Good Luck =]


I have some of the biggest boobs in my entire town. No lie. I dont fit my mother's bras or anyone's for that matter. Some guys called my boyfriend one of the luckiest guys ever. But he respects a girl enogh not to stare at their ass and boobs all day, he told me himself. We recently got to what my friends call 3rd base (fingering; hickies, all that good stuff). I long for more though, i'm not exactly proud of my bust but its the body part i love showing off. I kno he noticed them before. But i really got stuck onto this idea during a basketball game (teacher vs student) and he was on the bleacher above me, as he leaned down he rested his head on my sholder and kissed the nape of my neck to the top base of my chest. I loved the feeling of his lips and tongue on my skin, all i want is more.
Does anyone have any ideas on how i can get more of this?
14/f & 14/m (he'll be 15 in aug)
please dnt tell me im too young for this, im extremly determined to get this done...plz
~olie xD (link)
Dude ... Just ask him to do it

OR

While making out take his hand and put it on your boobs and if your on 3rd base he's suppose to be doing it anyways.

Good Luck =]


well im 19 yrs old and im pregnat im probably like 2 months my boyfriend doesnt want anything to do with me or the baby i talked to his mom and she said she would support me. i kno i could just abort and get ir over with it but im against abortion idk what to do. (link)
Like the person under me said 'keep it if you can afford it'

But also consider the fact that your child is going to grow up without a father and at some point she is going to ask you why her father left and when you explain to her that he didn't want anything to do with you, anything can go through her mind and something like 'she can blame you for it' or 'thinks her father didn't love her enough to come and see her' and so on ... And trust me this has a big impact on a child, or a teenager...

And no offense but 19 is not an enough experienced person to be a mother and no matter what you've been through, you're still 19, at least you should be past 21.

I mean think about it, it's going to affect your life too not just your child's life.

Imagine, your 21 and all your friends are going to a club or a bar, but you can't because you have to stay with your child or you can't afford a babysitter at the time, you never know what's going to happen on the next corner.

Maybe a thief is going to break into your house and steal everything, and your going to end up with financial problems and your going to make your child go through that too.

I suggest a husband or a boyfriend to be there for you and your child.

Good Luck =]=]


We have to write a short story and I'm really good at English but not making my own stories. But I had thsi really vivid dream and when i think back, I can imagine it like a movie. If I use it, would it be considered cheating? Or should I just think of something else up? I'm not good with due dates when writing a story. (link)
Lol ! Unless the dream is not yours or shared with someone (I'M BEING SARCASTIC)

Of course you can use it ...

GO AHEAD

Good Luck =]=]


17/m. Hi, my 18th birthday is comeing up, and im not sure about what to do. I was thinking a cocktail and poker party? but, for my 16th, and 17th, me and close friends just drank, so my friend was all "isnt that the same as last year?" any ideas on what to do? or your opinion? thanks. (link)
Go to a male strip club ;)

OR

Get extremely drunk, go out with your friends to random streets and just go loco

How to go loco:

-Go in a supermarket wearing something sexy (of course) and dance dirty to the guy behind the counter and just laugh at him.

-Make out in the street while pretending your about to strip.

-Get water balloons and throw them at people while your passing in a car (make sure you have a car and someone sober is driving even through its funnier if he is drunk but be safe you just turned 18)

-Get eggs and throw them at cars so people would have to wash there cars

Anyways your going to be extremely drunk so do what comes in mind ;)

OR

You can go to a club like my neighbor downstairs said

Good Luck and Happy Birthday =]=]


Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up a couple months ago and i cant seem to function. I was so in love with him. About a month ago when we were in school together he would say he missed me too and all this stuff but then when school ended i didnt want to be the pathetic person so i stayed away from him. No calling and no texting. Well about 2 weeks ago he requested to be this guy i dated right after him's friend on facebook. I thought this was weird and it made me stop and think about him again. Then last week he started texting me to see how i was..(and we made plans while we were still together that we would go see a movie on the 4th of july even if we broke up.) Anyways, he texted me and i was very aloof and tried not to get my hopes up. he said one comment that stuck which when asked how my summer was i told him i was enjoying it and he said "just dont have too much fun you know how i worry." Anyways, so he brought up the movie and i was like ok text me on friday. He didnt text so at 630 on friday i texted him about seeing the movie the next day.. He seemed completly different and said oh can we go to an early movie i have to go to a fourth of july party. I felt like crap because i felt so pushed aside...i mean hes the one who made plans with me. then he makes other plans. so i said i had plans and then he was like ok another time. and whatever. basically i got upset and now i cant stop thinking about him. It sucks that im always left feeling lonely and incomplete. what i want to know is should i just move on... i mean if he really wanted me he would make more of an effort. and any tips on how exactly to move on. Its tough :/ I was really in love with him...

17 F (link)
Are you serious?

Man, no this is wrong...

Look guys like to have what they can't get, so when you ignored him, he followed you and then when you start responding, he started to back away.

He is obviously confused and an idiot, jerk too.

Don't make any effort and if he asked you to go to the movies again, refuse and say you have plans.

Usually distance is good for moving on, so i'd advice you to stay away from him for a while.

And if you liked some guy don't think twice about dating him.

Good Luck =]=]


Okay, this upcoming week I am going to get a rib tattoo of 3 chinese symbols, going down verically, about 4.5-5 inches long. I know i won't regret this tattoo and it's something i've wanted for quite awhile and i am of legal age. I would just like some personal experiences with rib tattoos and how you dealt with the pain during since i hear it is the most painful. Also, the symbols will be filled in black, will that be more painful? input is so important so thank youu! (link)
Ribcage Tattoos are painful, but not most painful

I have two tattoos on my back, one of them on my lower back and that one made me shake, my legs were shaking.

I have one tattoo on my right arm and one on my left shoulder

And ... one inside my lip and that was PAINFUL =]

But completely worth the pain, Tattoo pain is a pain that we can take.

Good Luck =]


Hey im 18/f Im torn between two really great guys. This may be kinda long but i rate high! So my current boyfriend matt hes 21 and i really like him we've been dating for about 6 months and the relationship was going sooo great in the beginning and now its slowing down and not so exciting which i understand relationships are like that! We also started noticing we're starting to fight with each other. The other guy is 18 and hes one of the guys i went to school with. We've always had a thing but never really acted on it. Hes so nice and hes in the military which kinda stinks because he told me he was going to get deployed in 2010 he was told. The only bad thing about that situation is that hes going to be gone for a while =( they're both such nice guys but im kinda torn between the 2 of them. Also my family and i are taking my current bf to chicago with us. I just really dont know what to do! My feelings for my current boyfriend are wearing off and im having new feelings for the other guy. Im so confused and im not sure what to do! Please help! Remember i rate high! thanks a bunch! (link)
Well ... This sucks !

I think you should be honest to both guys ..
Tell your current boyfriend how you feel, but go nice on him and if he really does love/like you, then he'll understand and give you space.

But if not then he's reaction would be negative and that can be a sign for a break up and going with the other guy.

Well about the military thing, don't worry, distances makes you want him more and that's great, and take advantage of the time to think and have some space.

Good Luck =]


Well I like this guy... Lets call him Tyler. I've been talking to him about 2 months ago every day and then it kinda stopped.. and well, he isn't really a good conversation starter. He usually responds like "lol, yeah. haha. " You know what I mean? Then a month ago we were talking about some "dirty things" but it was all a joke. Then it stopped. And when we did talk, we would talk for soo long. Around 2-4 hours? Haha. Then yesterday we had this deep conversation and it was kind of random topics but he was saying how he doesn't want to have a relationship until 2 years later. And some stuff about his life and things like that. But about the relationship thing... He said he doesn't like them because people always spread it everywhere and stuff and it gets pretty annoying. Well, I did agree with him. But see, the problem is that I don't want to have like those "going out dates" kind of relationship. I just like this, "yeah we like eachother" and just talk and stuff. But recently, there was this rumour that spread a bit that I liked him (I dont know whether or not they spread it as a joke or did they really know) and then we were discussing about who might have started it and stuff. But he never actually asked me if the rumour was true or not. And since school ended, it may be a bit easier to talk to him through msn? The problem is that those little "msn talks" are kind of annoying since you can't really talk in real life. Well that isn't a big problem for now... But I just don't know if I should tell him that I like him. And if I do tell him, how should I actually tell him? Im just pretty confuesed. :P Thanks ! (: (link)
Well ... I know one thing, it's just an extra tip i want you to know about, if this guy takes time by replying to you on MSN then he is not interested.

Moving on ...

There is one sign here, he didn't ask if the rumor is true it could be because ...

1. He doesn't like you and he is sure you don't like him either

OR...

2. He likes you and scared you'd say you don't actually like him

And how will you know if he likes you or not? SIMPLE

Yes confront him and tell him, be honest, you won't loose anything, actually you might gain a boyfriend

Life is not worth it without risks ;)

Good Luck =]=]




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